Ok facepunch here's the deal, last week I had a fall and got a trauma in both of my arms, I couldn't move them without getting huge pain, so I went to the hospital with my mom and got it checked by the cutest orthopedist girl ever(she had some great bright eyes and somehow pale skin, with some cute tiny hands and was really skinny, elegant though). She looked at my radiographs and touched my arms for a while but couldn't tell what was the exact problem, so she asked her tutor, which was right behind us doing some paperwork.(This and her looking really young, makes me think she's kinda new at working and that she's probably no more than 24). So this 60yo looking guy came, looked at my arms and told us to follow him to the back of the room. It was a room full of ligaments and syringes, and a hospital stretcher. The guy looked at me and told me to lay face down on the stretcher. Since I couldn't move my arms without getting lots of pain, and the only pain free position was with them bent in front of my stomach area, I looked at him, then at her, laughed a little and said that I doubt I could do it but I would try. We all laughed for a while about my situation and after some ridiculous movements and gymnastic looking acrobatics, and lots of her help holding me, I managed to get in the right position. The guy then grabbed a syringe and sting'd it onto my arm, and while doing that shouted while attempting a serious voice: "you better not be eye flirting with the doctor, 'cus she's my girlfriend" and she started giggling, to what I quickly replied "well doctor, you're a lucky man". After that she started giggling even more, and although I couldn't see her face, I think she kinda liked the compliment by the way she laughed. After that, some explaining about what my problem was and some medical chat, with her always kinda smiling, she sent me home and when I was leaving the room, I looked back at her and smiled, to which she smiled back in a somehow cute way. I think she was kind of impressed but I'm not sure if it was just sympathy or something more.
Well facepunch, the thing is, after a week, my arms are getting alright, but I can't forget that girl, and I can't stop thinking about her. I even think that getting my arms all messed up was kinda worthy because I end up meeting her (how stupid is that really?). So, I'm planing on writting her a card, saying that I liked meeting her, asking her if she wanna grab a bite and go for a walk with me, and leave her my phone number in the end, in case she feels like it. Then leave it at the hospital addressed to her.
From the way she spoke, I could guess she's new in town and probably single. The problem is I'm a 20yo (so probably 4 or 5 years younger then her), uni student and I'm kinda poor atm, even though I could afford taking her out sometimes. Also I think I'm not a bad looking guy, even though I can't afford wearing any expensive brand clothes.
I know this is all kinda crazy, so what I ask you guys is, should I do it? Writting her the card? And if so, do you think I have any chance with her? I brought a card already with a sketched teddy bear holding a flower, it don't say anything related to love or anything, but even so maybe it's too "love style" to a casual invite for a walk and grabbing a bite isn't it?. So should I get something more plain looking or is this one appropriate?
by the way, sorry for the wall of text and the grammar mistakes (English ain't my main language) and thanks for those who readed and answered.
tldr: I got along with my orthopedist which is the cutest girl I've seen in a while, she's 24, I'm 20, should I write her a card asking her out?
Update:
So, today I finally got the balls and went to the hospital with the card, I was kinda nervous when I got into the emergency room, but whatever, I said I would do it, and I really wanted to. So, I got into the line to see one of the receptionists, and after a while, when it finally was my turn I said "hi, I need to know the name of the doctor that got my arms checked a few days ago", to what she replied "how?", I stared at her for a while not understanding the question "what do you mean how?", "how am I supposed to check that?" "Isn't there some kind of record about what patient got checked by which doctor?" "No", and she started kinda laughting at my face, I think she kinda understood what I was trying to do... "hum ok I see, well I wanted to deliver her this thank you card, but whatever". Then I left, feeling defeated as fuck.
After more then a week daydreaming with this girl, wasting some $$$ on a card, spending two days finding the right words to write on the card, getting the balls to do it and traveling 25 miles to the hospital, it all turned to shit the stupidest way possible. When I was driving back, I though that I should have asked if there was a record of what doctor was working at that time in orthopedic section, but I doubt there is one...And I don't think I have the will to go back there and ask it anyway...
Well my left arm still hurts and the range of movement is still not how it was supposed to be, so if I have to get it rechecked, I'll make sure to go at the same week day/same hour, but I doubt I'll find her again. It feels like depression has just kicked me in the balls. Being ignored or hearing a "no" would have been alright, now this shit is just plain stupid... Oh well, I'm sorry to those who wanted to hear a happy ending, but this time there ain't one.
is she hot? Sorry I can't read
first ask yourself a question why you are asking a forum about a mod of a game about this
Tell her your penis hurts and you want her to take a look at it, it works every time in the porn movies
if she asked you to cough after wards it doesn't count.
yes
Go for it...but remember, you ever get there again, its gonna be awkward.
Go for it. You don't know the girl, so what do you have to lose? Hell, you never know, this may be the one. [/hoplessromantic]
Do it. Take more chances in your life. If she rejects you, then oh well right? What do you really have to lose?
I dunno if it's really wise for a doctor to become "involved" with their patient. Though scandals can be "delicious" and/or "scandalous", I think that a doctor could lose their medical practitioners license if they end up becoming romantically involved with a patient.
Or is that kinda deal actually acceptable nowadays? I dunno, i'm not exactly one who keeps one's finger-on-the-pulse concerning moral obligations and/or guidelines, and for all I know the whole "can't date your patients" rule could be several decades out-of-date... Besides, I don't even know basic medical training, let alone the morals and convictions of working in medicine, and I doubt medical sitcoms like Scrubs or House are entirely accurate, since they're sitcoms (or in the same boat as sitcoms) after all.
Do it
Take her out, make a joke about her checking your prostate, never see her again.
Writing a card asking someone out makes you seem like a pussy
Well chances on seeing her again other than in a hospital are slim to none, sack up and do it!
Start with nothing, end with nothing. What've you lost? Nothing.
Why not, if it goes south then go to another orthopedist.
[QUOTE=ironman17;23624006]I dunno if it's really wise for a doctor to become "involved" with their patient. Though scandals can be "delicious" and/or "scandalous", I think that a doctor could lose their medical practitioners license if they end up becoming romantically involved with a patient.
Or is that kinda deal actually acceptable nowadays? I dunno, i'm not exactly one who keeps one's finger-on-the-pulse concerning moral obligations and/or guidelines, and for all I know the whole "can't date your patients" rule could be several decades out-of-date...[/QUOTE]
the fuck are you talking about
Do it bro.
[QUOTE=scorpion8754;23623890]Tell her your penis hurts and you want her to take a look at it, it works every time in the porn movies[/QUOTE]
"Hey Doctor.. Take a look at my Gonorrhoea..."
*Cue heavy horny porno music*
[QUOTE=Odellus;23624081]the fuck are you talking about[/QUOTE]
So I guess the "can't date the patients" rule has been null since the late 50's/early 60's? I can get so displaced sometimes...
Do it man. You never know what might happen.
[QUOTE=ironman17;23624006]I dunno if it's really wise for a doctor to become "involved" with their patient. Though scandals can be "delicious" and/or "scandalous", I think that a doctor could lose their medical practitioners license if they end up becoming romantically involved with a patient.
Or is that kinda deal actually acceptable nowadays? I dunno, i'm not exactly one who keeps one's finger-on-the-pulse concerning moral obligations and/or guidelines, and for all I know the whole "can't date your patients" rule could be several decades out-of-date...[/QUOTE]
Well he ain't a patient anymore, so that isn't a problem.
As has been said already, I thought there was a rule saying Doctors can't date patients.
If she delivers babies she gets a lot of action :clint:
She ain't my usual doctor or anything, she was just the one at the emergency center at the time, so I guess it's alright.
[QUOTE=scorpion8754;23623890]Tell her your penis hurts and you want her to take a look at it, it works every time in the porn movies[/QUOTE]
:q:
Post pics.
OP, sounds like you're not too shy huh. So besides the financial problem i don't see why you should not send her the card.
Making a girl smile is one of those things that you shouldn't pass on if you can.
Dude, do it :P
It's cute with a card, casually cute as well, dont be afraid to have an outgoing care (ie the teddy) but think back, was she smiling because she liked u? or coz she wanted to be polite and actually pass her placement. Probably she is placed at the hospital for a couple of weeks, so i'd say GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!
Worst that can happen is that she says no and you never see her again.
i'd say go for it, also consider asking her out in person instead of the card, still go for it either way man.
marry her, she has alot of money
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