This has reminded me that I need to book a date for my drivers license practical.
yeah because banging on the door and yelling at the top of your lungs at the kids mom is going to make him want to do anything other than locking himself in his room. i had to deal with this kind of shit when i still lived with my mom, not because i didnt have a job and i wasnt going to school, but because the fucker was an alcoholic. this shit is the worst to go through
I expected a laugh, but got the complete opposite, fucking hell :ohno:
[editline]31st May 2016[/editline]
domestic violence is no joke, my condolences to anyone who has had to go through this
lol, the father playing the calm collected role only to start screaming as soon as things dont go his way
... is the father bipolar? He seemed perfectly calm and reasonable when he wasn't interacting with the woman.
This is legitimately terrifying to be honest
[QUOTE=thrawn2787;50426750]... is the father bipolar? He seemed perfectly calm and reasonable when he wasn't interacting with the woman.[/QUOTE]
to be fair she was yelling at him way before he was yelling at her
oh god, i remember this thread on /v/. let's have something a little lighter, yeah?
[video=youtube;96SrWO5Na54]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96SrWO5Na54[/video]
[sp]AND ANGRIER AND ANGRIER AND ANGRIER AND ANGRIER AND[/sp]
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50426761]
the father needs help not the child[/QUOTE]
????
[editline]30th May 2016[/editline]
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50426837]probably because she was fed up, needs more background
really needs more backstory to this[/QUOTE]
the fact that he's a NEET but still has full internet access means someone's soft on him, and i don't think it's the dad
Before I got a job and became a wage slave to the zionist pigs, I could have probably been classified as a NEET. I didn't go out much and I just spent most of my time at home doing nothing. After I graduated high school in 2011 I basically did nothing for a few months and then my mom died. So that sucked. In 2012 my dad remarried, and that was also kind of difficult but my stepfamily was super supportive of everything and took me in like I was one of their own.
For my birthday in 2013 I went with my dad to register for classes at a local technical college so I could start learning shit to apply in an actual job. Things were pretty great, and a few months later I started going to the summer courses and learned lots. But sadly I was not able to continue because of how financial aid works. It's fucking retarded. Because I was under the age of...26? I think? I was not eligible for ANY form of financial aid outside of scholarships (which did not pay much at all for the ones I was eligible for). Why was I not eligible for aid? Because my parents made just enough to not allow it, but not enough to pay for college. Even though I was legally an adult and could 100% live on my own, any attempts made to receive aid required my parents to fork over all of their financial information.
So that really, really depressed me. I was the best in the class, and passed the semester with a 3.8 GPA. If I was able to get through the next semester I would have had enough to start getting work in the field I wanted, even if it was basic hell desk IT garbage.
So I went back to the slump of just being a traditional smelly NEET. Eventually my stepmom got fed up with how I wasn't doing anything to better myself. At the time I wasn't really pissed off, but I was annoyed with her because she didn't seem to understand why I went back to being that way. She never bothered to ask, never asked if I was feeling okay, nothing. I didn't want to listen to her bitch and complain so I just moved out and went to live with my sister for awhile. My stepmom never believed me when I told her that I had applications out (I did). She didn't believe me because I wasn't out and about driving around for hours a day dropping off applications and resumes. I tried that once and every single place I went to told me to apply online, so I said fuck it. Why waste gas money when I can just do it all from my computer?
Anyway, after about a week I finally got a response back from one of my applications. Guy said he wanted an interview with me, so I called up my stepmom and told her I have an interview and if it would be okay to come back. She said yes, and didn't talk to me for a few hours after I showed up. I wasn't expecting an apology from her because to be honest after I had time to think about it she didn't do anything wrong. She could have definitely not been a bitch about all of it but I understand why she acted the way she did.
I told her thanks, and she started crying. So that's the story of how I turned my life around and quit being a filthy, disgusting NEET.
To be honest I don't even know how NEETs can stand their lifestyle. Compared to how my life was before, it's just...so much better now. I can buy my own things. I don't have to rely on NEETBUX from the government or my parents to get what I want. I enjoy the things I used to like more because I'm not spending all day playing the same game or watching anime day in and day out. My life has structure now, which I did not have as a NEET. I still live with my parents because they're allowing me to, and my stepmom and I have a really great relationship now. I don't have to pay rent. Any time my parents ask me for some cash for groceries or whatever, I give it to them no questions asked. To an extent ours is better than what she has with her shitty biological kids.
[QUOTE=Jund;50426863]????
[editline]30th May 2016[/editline]
the fact that he's a NEET but still has full internet access means someone's soft on him, and i don't think it's the dad[/QUOTE]
given the dad's violent hysterics it seems evident to me that the "neet"'s behavior is a direct response to his dad's behavior
i know i wouldn't have ever left my room if my dad was a crazy alcoholic like that
When the dad started talking about getting away from the laptop and how it's ruining Louie's life, that somewhat hit close to home.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;50426893]Before I got a job and became a wage slave to the zionist pigs, I could have probably been classified as a NEET. I didn't go out much and I just spent most of my time at home doing nothing. After I graduated high school in 2011 I basically did nothing for a few months and then my mom died. So that sucked. In 2012 my dad remarried, and that was also kind of difficult but my stepfamily was super supportive of everything and took me in like I was one of their own.
For my birthday in 2013 I went with my dad to register for classes at a local technical college so I could start learning shit to apply in an actual job. Things were pretty great, and a few months later I started going to the summer courses and learned lots. But sadly I was not able to continue because of how financial aid works. It's fucking retarded. Because I was under the age of...26? I think? I was not eligible for ANY form of financial aid outside of scholarships (which did not pay much at all for the ones I was eligible for). Why was I not eligible for aid? Because my parents made just enough to not allow it, but not enough to pay for college. Even though I was legally an adult and could 100% live on my own, any attempts made to receive aid required my parents to fork over all of their financial information.
So that really, really depressed me. I was the best in the class, and passed the semester with a 3.8 GPA. If I was able to get through the next semester I would have had enough to start getting work in the field I wanted, even if it was basic hell desk IT garbage.
So I went back to the slump of just being a traditional smelly NEET. Eventually my stepmom got fed up with how I wasn't doing anything to better myself. At the time I wasn't really pissed off, but I was annoyed with her because she didn't seem to understand why I went back to being that way. She never bothered to ask, never asked if I was feeling okay, nothing. I didn't want to listen to her bitch and complain so I just moved out and went to live with my sister for awhile. My stepmom never believed me when I told her that I had applications out (I did). She didn't believe me because I wasn't out and about driving around for hours a day dropping off applications and resumes. I tried that once and every single place I went to told me to apply online, so I said fuck it. Why waste gas money when I can just do it all from my computer?
Anyway, after about a week I finally got a response back from one of my applications. Guy said he wanted an interview with me, so I called up my stepmom and told her I have an interview and if it would be okay to come back. She said yes, and didn't talk to me for a few hours after I showed up. I wasn't expecting an apology from her because to be honest after I had time to think about it she didn't do anything wrong. She could have definitely not been a bitch about all of it but I understand why she acted the way she did.
I told her thanks, and she started crying. So that's the story of how I turned my life around and quit being a filthy, disgusting NEET.
To be honest I don't even know how NEETs can stand their lifestyle. Compared to how my life was before, it's just...so much better now. I can buy my own things. I don't have to rely on NEETBUX from the government or my parents to get what I want. I enjoy the things I used to like more because I'm not spending all day playing the same game or watching anime day in and day out. My life has structure now, which I did not have as a NEET. I still live with my parents because they're allowing me to, and my stepmom and I have a really great relationship now. I don't have to pay rent. Any time my parents ask me for some cash for groceries or whatever, I give it to them no questions asked. To an extent ours is better than what she has with her shitty biological kids.[/QUOTE]
yeah financial aid in the USA suckkksks
i'm 22 and only just finished one year of university
[QUOTE=_jesterk;50426847]oh god, i remember this thread on /v/.[/QUOTE]
What's the context?
[QUOTE=thrawn2787;50426750]... is the father bipolar? He seemed perfectly calm and reasonable when he wasn't interacting with the woman.[/QUOTE]
Do you even know what bipolar disorder is? It's pretty obvious he's pissed at his wife for intervening and unnecessarily irritating him when he's trying to confront his son
She's quite a bitch in this video to be fair
[QUOTE=Xonax;50426983]What's the context?[/QUOTE]
no context, unfortunately. the dad mentions Plusnet which is a british ISP found basically everywhere in the country, so :why:
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50426930]background story thou
like how old is he
is it even 21/18?
like come on there isn't a lot to go around for all we know this dude could be 15 or 30
also theres no reason at all to start banging and scaring and shouting at people, what good does that do[/QUOTE]
he was kicking the door to let out his frustration, not because he wanted to hurt anyone
despite him wording things pretty poorly he genuinely wanted to help the dude get his life back
i think you're letting your past bias you too much against the dad. you're saying that there isn't enough information but you're acting like the NEET is a small kid who's depressed/misunderstood/trying to get back on track, but it could also be the opposite and his dad is dealing with years of frustration and anguish
when i was a kid my dad was a real piece of shit. he'd come back home and get piss drunk. he'd beat my mom, beat my sister, beat me for any tiny reason he could find to let off steam. sometimes he'd do it for no reason at all. if i was a NEET back then he would have thrown me out on the street or murdered me right on the spot. doesn't mean i'm gonna go jump to the conclusion that he's in the same situation
yeah there isn't any reason to start banging on doors and to shout at people, but people get upset and are unreasonable when they're upset. from what i could tell his words sounded sincere
[editline]30th May 2016[/editline]
[QUOTE=bitches;50426947]given the dad's violent hysterics it seems evident to me that the "neet"'s behavior is a direct response to his dad's behavior
i know i wouldn't have ever left my room if my dad was a crazy alcoholic like that[/QUOTE]
stop talking out of your ass
[QUOTE=AJ10017;50426653]yeah because banging on the door and yelling at the top of your lungs at the kids mom is going to make him want to do anything other than locking himself in his room. i had to deal with this kind of shit when i still lived with my mom, not because i didnt have a job and i wasnt going to school, but because the fucker was an alcoholic. this shit is the worst to go through[/QUOTE]
my mother is an alcoholic too. My father is insanely lax and humorous, carefree yet hard working.
this is why I'm usually very strongly opinionated on alcohol in SH tbh. I'm one very bad day away from being a radical prohibitionist.
I have an anger that I just can't let go of.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;50426893] Financial Aid [/QUOTE]
Oh good lord what I went through this year alone in terms of financial aid. Nothing is more frustrating than having the marks and school support to attend the college but not being able to because some government telephone brick told the school, the college, and the applicant three separate things while actively trying to distance themselves from the mess they just made. I came really close to being granted NEEThood because of that.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;50426893]To be honest I don't even know how NEETs can stand their lifestyle.[/QUOTE]
I highly doubt that they are who they are because they enjoy it
It's actually his [url=https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/28823921]mum's boyfriend[/url].
To be perfectly honest I can understand how the mum's boyfriend feels even if he didn't handle it right. And judging from what the mum's boyfriend says at the beginning they want to take him to some appointment possibly with a councilor, or a Polytechnic college and the kid is refusing to go.
Seeing your son/daughter sit around and have very little social contact and spend most of their time watching TV and playing video games I imagine is very saddening. Not to mention it doesn't sound like a very nice life, though some start to act that way because of various issues in their past. Continuing to live like that isn't healthy.
I mean I can't exactly relate completely but I lived in a pretty bad suburb and got kicked out of school for stealing in Year 10 (age 15) and didn't try going back and spent close to two years doing nothing but; pills and caps (ecstasy and mdma) alongside selling them, got into a gang and overall just did a bunch of shitty stuff. Eventually when I was close to turning 17 I decided I hated the person I had become and enlisted in the Army to get a clean break from it all and honestly it really helped turn my life around, helped give me direction and appreciation for things. And now I have a steady job, a steady relationship with my girlfriend and a house of my own.
Of course everything isn't perfect but it's a lot better than how things were 5 or so years ago. So all I can think really is if I could dig myself out of my rut I can't see why anime nerds and the like can't.
[QUOTE=Michael haxz;50427156]I highly doubt that they are who they are because they enjoy it[/QUOTE]
nah, i've seen some real spoiled pieces of shit before
you don't have to be rich to be greedy. yeah he could be depressed, but he could also be taking advantage of his mother to support his lifestyle. we'll probably never know for sure, at any rate
[QUOTE=B!N4RY;50426991]Do you even know what bipolar disorder is? It's pretty obvious he's pissed at his wife for intervening and unnecessarily irritating him when he's trying to confront his son
She's quite a bitch in this video to be fair[/QUOTE]
he's calm and collected with the son why can't he be with the wife, yelling at him or no
he goes from a 1 to 10 on the angry scale in a split second. [I]that[/I] is bipolar.
[editline]30th May 2016[/editline]
also on the subject of financial aid yeah its a load of shit in the US. they also count step parents income, which is a crock of shit.
[QUOTE=thrawn2787;50427297]he's calm and collected with the son why can't he be with the wife, yelling at him or no
he goes from a 1 to 10 on the angry scale in a split second. [I]that[/I] is bipolar.[/QUOTE]
Because the wife is arguing back. It's easy to act calm when you are just shouting through a door but someone directly confronting you is much more aggravating, especially when you need them on your side.
[QUOTE=thrawn2787;50427297]he's calm and collected with the son [B]why can't he be with the wife[/B], yelling at him or no
he goes from a 1 to 10 on the angry scale in a split second. [I]that[/I] is bipolar.[/QUOTE]
Because like I said, it's quite obvious that he's already irritated with the wife before the video started, and more irritated when she's interrupting him for trying to confront his son.
You don't call the guy bipolar just because he had a different attitude for his son and his wife.
A person with bipolar disorder suffers from periods of depression and elevated mood [U]uncontrollably[/U] regardless of the context of his life.
[QUOTE=Slim Charles;50427169]It's actually his [url=https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/28823921]mum's boyfriend[/url].[/QUOTE]
Semi-unrelated but, what in the hell is /r9k/ anyway?
Every time i hear about it or peer inside it seems like terrible, terrible shit.
[QUOTE=AaronM202;50427358]Semi-unrelated but, what in the hell is /r9k/ anyway?
Every time i hear about it or peer inside it seems like terrible, terrible shit.[/QUOTE]
It's a board full of sentient, mentally ill robots with obsessive compulsions over amphibians who don't know how to socialize and are generally a literal waste of space.
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[vid]https://my.mixtape.moe/azglxg.webm[/vid]
Honestly, the wife needs to shut the hell up. She is basically burning any chances of keeping the situation on any level of safe sanity. The father may be hardassing it, but honestly when you have a situation where a wall is erected infront of any chance or offer you make, it's bound to leave any point of "happy joy joy".
Even in the end, without the wife, you can still see the father trying his hardest to state that the kid needs to get his shit in order, and the father realizes that their is something seriously wrong that requires a parental figure to wrest control of the situation.
[QUOTE=Slim Charles;50427169]It's actually his [url=https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/28823921]mum's boyfriend[/url].
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I don't really trust that, apparently the real Louie came in and said that he didn't make the thread.
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