I'm a little too scared to ask a boy I know out... Any advice? - General

Hello, I am a 14 year old male, and I know what you're thinking. "What is a random 14 year old doing on a site like this" Well, you see. I really looked for any other solution and I can't tend to find anything, so I'd appreciate some advice from anybody on this forum (Sorry for bad spelling, truly sorry.) Anyways, I don't really know how to confront somebody that I like. We have a good friend ship going on, and I know he is also bisexual like me. I just can't really tell if he feels the same way. I have been thinking about any possible way to approach him and tell him about my feelings, however I never found a solution I am comfortable with. I'm quite scared to ruin my friendship with him if he does indeed reject me, I would be quite sad because he is a very good friend of mine. And I can't see myself talking to him whilst being awkward if I do get rejected. I want to tell him, I think about him every night and etc. However, I don't know if he is into me as I explained before. I've been trying to think of any solutions that could possibly suit this situation. But I can't, so I'm left with using a forum. If you are going to be rude, please don't. I am accepting of opinions, it's fine. Just don't be negative. Thank you. I truly am sorry if this does fall under the wrong category, I just couldn't quite find the correct category that would suit this. Thanks for taking your time to read this, I truly thank you.

You have to accept that if you answer and get rejected, you might end up in a situation where you can't be around him. That's just how it'll be - unless you can both mutually understand that you shot your shot and you're both okay with it not going anywhere. You should ask yourself if it's worth the risk of him not being your friend if you get rejected.

Thank you, like I said. Anything helps haha.

just ask my guy. There’s really nothing else to it. think of it his way: If you really have a true friendship, asking him out won’t ruin that. Sure, it might be awkward for awhile, but chances are you’ll be still be friends. If he runs off and starts telling everyone/being mean, be glad you dodged a bullet. Those types are generally toxic in relationships anyways.

Out with it. Don't worry so much about finding the perfect words, just be polite about it. Just remember to respect his perspective.

Thank you, I'll take that advice.

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Unfortunately, the only real answer is to just ask him bro. You don't have to go down on one knee or anything just be calm and when you're both in the right situation ask him If he's as good a friend as you say he is, then even if he says no, you shouldn't lose a friend. And don't feel bad about asking a forum for help either.

cook him breakfast while wearing nothing but an apron. if he doesn't get an erection it's not meant to be

"What is a random 14 year old doing on a site like this" Dont worry about that, 99% of users here are under 14 years of age.

I fondly remember when this was actually true and we weren't all sad old men.

When biggest debate here was: fuck ur mom fagot, darkRP is the future Now it's politics and shit, feels weird