Oh Shit I'm Going Back to Real Life in a Week What Do I Do? - General

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Theres a number of things here that could be solved, but the least of which is being a 17 year old virgin, don't worry bout that shit, there is a time and a place, no need to rush, it really isn't a big of a deal like all the people in your school make it out to be.

At least you're conscious. :)

[QUOTE=BackOnCrack;32097127]Theres a number of things here that could be solved, but the least of which is being a 17 year old virgin, don't worry bout that shit, there is a time and a place, no need to rush, it really isn't a big of a deal like all the people in your school make it out to be.[/QUOTE] It's not a peer pressure thing I'm just bomb-ass horny all day. Not to detract for the severity of this situation.

Pay for a hooker?

Fuck your shit I am going back this Monday and I was up until 4 am yesterday.

[QUOTE=QuickSnapz;32097250]Fuck your shit I am going back this Monday and I was up until 4 am yesterday.[/QUOTE] I was up till 6am, bitch I will cut you.

You've got a week to go to sleep an hour early until like 11pm, which is fair. I've got one night

i'm going back October first :smug:

[QUOTE=nmagain;32097479]i'm going back October first :smug:[/QUOTE] I've had an 18 month Summer holiday. Heh.

I have to go back on the 6th. My sleep pattern is fucked up.

Many of those problems are insecurity-related. Just go about your day and as you do it more and more often, it'll be routine and neither will you give two shits, neither will you get lost. You might want to ask your mom to accompany you in the first 2 or 3 rides there, though.

That sounds really shit how like 5 of your friends have just, dumped you. Thats happened to only one of my friends (who was a cunt tbh) and I found that kind of depressing, but to lose 5 because they think somthing is seriously wrong with you just makes me feel bad for you. You seem like a nice guy, dont you have any other people you can talk to apart from your family? It can really help you in a situation like this when talking to someone the same age group as you.

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If you're so sexually frustrated stop looking up porn, since that actually just strengthens the craving and doesn't satisfy anything.

Hah, I actually don't really.

Lead the revolution in Somalia

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome sounds like BS. Seems like it can be solved with proper sleep, a good diet, and exercise. I bet the doctor wants to give you pills so he can get more money. I guess you can always drop your current routine and find a new one. Instead of walking 45 minutes a day, try running 15 minutes then walk for 30, then work your way up to running 45 minutes. I find that it's easier to fall asleep when Im worn out. I'm not in your situation so I have no idea how it feels. So I can't really help much.

[QUOTE=Donutsalad;32108531]Chronic Fatigue Syndrome sounds like BS. Seems like it can be solved with proper sleep, a good diet, and exercise.[/QUOTE] It's not that simple. [QUOTE=Donutsalad;32108531]I bet the doctor wants to give you pills so he can get more money.[/QUOTE] That's not how things work here. I understand your scepticism, I fucking hate this illness because it sounds like so much bullshit on paper. Especially with the kind of situation we're in now where every problem we have as humans is labelled as a disability. I didn't even believe in this shit myself, and I ended up wrecked because I did nothing I was told to and just tried to keep doing what I normally did. Keeping a routine, eating well and exercising are exactly what you're told to do. And it doesn't help, they just need something to tell you because in reality they can't help at all and just wait for you to get better. Sometimes people improve, but mostly they don't.

It's easy for someone to tell you to change your routine, but if I was there near you, I would help, I would work out with you, I would study with you, I would be your wingman when we went to bars to pick up chicks. It's always easier to accomplish something when you have someone there for support. Try finding someone that can do that for you.

[QUOTE=Donutsalad;32108531]Chronic Fatigue Syndrome sounds like BS. Seems like it can be solved with proper sleep, a good diet, and exercise. I bet the doctor wants to give you pills so he can get more money. I guess you can always drop your current routine and find a new one. Instead of walking 45 minutes a day, try running 15 minutes then walk for 30, then work your way up to running 45 minutes. I find that it's easier to fall asleep when Im worn out. I'm not in your situation so I have no idea how it feels. So I can't really help much.[/QUOTE] Its not bullshit, its really something you can have and it fucks people over mainly because most people think its bullshit

I was about to just hop in and post 'do a dance' thinking this was just another person who was annoyed they need to go to school. Reading through I feel pretty bad about that previous thought. All I can really say is that I hope you continue your guitar practice, since with a 'disability' like this it sounds hard to keep a job.

I'm just going to act like the mute guy for a few weeks and not say shit to any of the idiots I have to share an education with... But man keep that guitar practice up I don't know what else to say...

there's only one way down, just get back into school and try to do what you can. It seems your health and state of mind is so unpredictable, anything can happen between now and graduation; but it's not worth your time to just shit around for the rest of your years. At least make an attempt to make a normal life for yourself.

If you can, join a gym, start a program, develop your body, it works wonders, trust me.

what everybody says man. everything is psychological. You are what you want to be. also, if this makes you feel better, sex isn't something mindblowing.

See a therapist, man. Guitar won't help your life much, you need education. I also think you need (from what I've heard) more social interaction, and read a lot of books, too. This helps build character to act normally in social environments. Also, don't criticize yourself so much, be who you want to be, like D3TBS said. You'll be fine.

I think you have gotten a habit of self-pity as a defencive mechanism of your inner security. Everything you do wrong, you blame your self and think that nothing matters because there is not much you can do to make things better. Self pity is an ugly cousin of early depression. I have been diagnosed with depression and Im extremely paranoid. I can wake up in the middle of the night and walk around my apartment checking windows and doors that they all are locked and so on. Sometimes I just sit and watch the traffic for no reason. I also used alot of soft drugs when I first started DJ stuff at the local clubs. Everything started to go down hill so I quited everything music related and came back after a year with a song that got quite a nice feedback from other local pro DJs and producers. Now Im on my way to be a full time Pro producer. The bottom line is that dont feel shit about yourself. If you fuck up something, just remember that shit happens. Move on, others can suck your dick And yeah, [QUOTE=MintyMginty;32096970]I'm really sexually frustrated because I'm a 17 year old virgin.[/QUOTE] Snap out of it, man! There is time and place for everything. (Of course im talking about clubs, where lots of young, drunk, horny girls, ugly and decent are practically begging for you to pick them up)

[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32096970] I'm really sexually frustrated because I'm a 17 year old virgin.[/QUOTE] Not even a big deal.

School started 3 weeks ago for me. Deal with it.