Girlfriend of 1 year open to the idea of a threesome. Do it? - General

My loving girlfriend who I love quite a lot recently said she'd be open to a threesome with another girl if I wanted to have one. She only specified it can't be someone she knows or sees every day, since she wouldn't want to interact with the other girl after, which basically leaves the choice up to me. But I feel like if I were to choose the girl, things would feel weird, for both me and my girlfriend. But I really want this to happen. I'm so conflicted. It feels like even talking to her about a threesome would spark an argument and/or make her feel jealous/inadequate, even though she brought up the idea so there wouldn't be anything like that. Advice please? I know I probably came to the wrong forum for advice like this, but I just want a second opinion.

Just bring in a guy instead

[QUOTE=Valdor;47391114]Just bring in a guy instead[/QUOTE] She said a girl

bring a girl with a penis

why would you want to sleep with a random girl you don't know + your girlfriend if you're so worried that it'll mess things up. just don't do it if you both don't have a genuine desire to do it, you horny poopface.

If you're both conflicted on it then maybe its not the right decision?

Don't do it if you both aren't 100% confident.

It's gonna be really awkward and shitty if you're not absolutely certain of it, just skip it if you're not feeling it.

I wouldn't. It would more than likely lead to issues down the road, even if right now she says she's into the idea. Source: I know like 3 different people who have had threesomes and it led to issues in all of their relationships.

You're having doubts about the choice of bringing another sexual partner into your bed and you ask random strangers on the internet for advice? Really now. The choice should be obvious.

its ok m0mmys here

If you aren't too confident I can step in for you and tell you how it goes.

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i'll do it

I don't understand the difference between the 3rd and the 4th option Don't we have a relationship thread?

don't do it trust me on this

I'm gonna be honest here This is something that you could very well look back on and think "holy fuck why didnt I do that" IDK IMO it's definitely worth it, you only live once and two girls at one time is something [I][U][B]very few[/B][/U][/I] men get to experience don't just jump into it though, discuss it with her and clarify any rules/contingencies for before, during, and after the act if she says she's down and you're down too and you're both mature enough to handle the slight awkwardness/possible twinges of jealousy it can definitely be fun, the priority is making sure all parties involved are comfortable and on the same page, IE the third wheel knows this is probably a one time thing etc etc

Do it. Pics or it didn't happen.

My wife says shes gonna get me a girl for my birthday. I think its a trick so I turned it down.

Well; this is a once-in-a-lifetime chance, so i'd say no. There's three negative outcomes possible. 1: it turns out to be awkward or terrible or whatever. 2: It sows jealousy and relationship problems. 3: It's SO GREAT, all one-on-one hankypanky is ruined in comparison and you won't ever have good sex again.

Is she actually into girls? Like, would the situation be totally okay if her and a random girl got together and you weren't involved? Also ground rules. Don't put your penis in the other girl until you are 100% sure it's cool. Hell maybe even don't do it at all the first time. If she's cool with it, then it leaves the option open next time. If not then you've tried it enough and obviously it's not for you.

if you do it expect that you'll have to do it with a guy soon

And probably don't actually choose a girl. Maybe use tinder or something.

I doubt it'd be a "trap" especially as you've been together a year I don't think she would wake up one day and think "hm, I love my boyfriend, but if he agrees to this threesome I'm about to propose heads are gonna fuckin roll boi"

[QUOTE=IAreLegend;47391472]I doubt it'd be a "trap" especially as you've been together a year I don't think she would wake up one day and think "hm, I love my boyfriend, but if he agrees to this threesome I'm about to propose heads are gonna fuckin roll boi"[/QUOTE] but that's not the point, the point is that the guy is obviously scared that this is the relationship being tested or her emotions becoming shaky dont do it if you dont want to, if she can't comprehend men arent neccessarily into baging a dozen chicks at once then fuck it I'd bang a dozen chicks at once tho, damn

Bring two, a guy and a girl, dressed in a horse costume with the girl taking the hindpart of it, make her wear a strap-on horsecock sized dildo. [editline]25th March 2015[/editline] The guy needs to have a micropenis

I don't even get what's so fun about a one-man threesome, there's only enough d for one at a time.

I'd only do group sex with people that know each other

Why are you asking Facepunch lmao If you think it'll hurt your relationship dont do it, and if you think it'll be fun and you'll still be loyal to each other then do it. Easy.

none of us is going to be able to judge it fairly since we know jackshit about your relationship