Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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[QUOTE=Pnukup;36068883]I've always wanted to try out cross dressing but haven't really dares try anything on.
Like how would I even go about doing it, just buy womens clothing or what?[/QUOTE]
Step 1. Acquire girl clothes.
Step 2. Put them on.
If you have relatives or friends your size, ask them to borrow. If you must, try making it a joke in a suitable situation if you can, "I wonder what I would look like in girl clothes, wanna help me out?" Or just be honest and tell them you just want to try.
Or you can just go to shops and try stuff on. Second hand stores are great since there is so much stuff and if there are changing rooms it's easier than in a proper store. (Even if people saw you looking at girl clothes they just assume that you are buying them for someone else.)
[QUOTE=Inufin;36070887] If you must, try making it a joke in a suitable situation if you can, "I wonder what I would look like in girl clothes, wanna help me out?"[/QUOTE]
That was kind of convincing until the second part lol.
Well I don't know how to make it into a joke, but you get the point. D:
[QUOTE=Tattimatonen;36069984]In other new my Internet is [I]so weird[/I]
Earlier today I was downloading some Earthbound fanalbum (about 90 megs) and it took like three hours
Later I decided to download DCUO (about 18 gigs) because why not and then it also took 3 hours
how the fuck[/QUOTE]
My internet gets upgraded on the first of next month, I'm curious to see how that turns out.
Differing viewpoints between another player and I on transgendered people threaten to split apart our Vampire: The Masquerade group.
[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;36072735]Differing viewpoints between another player and I on transgendered people threaten to split apart our Vampire: The Masquerade group.[/QUOTE]
What's his viewpoint?
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36072812]What's his viewpoint?[/QUOTE]
Probably something really stupid considering Disco is completely supportive of ya'll.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36072812]What's his viewpoint?[/QUOTE]
Her. She seems to massively understate the affect it has on my and other peoples lives and see transgendered as a third gender (although that may be due to language barriers, English lacking a ungendered term). She is also very difficult to talk to about anything not absolutely 100% related to the current game. She deliberately ignored what I wanted to say about the issue, because of previous experiences when I would just talk. I did bring it upon myself opening up that wormcan of a topic after the 9001-Megaton Drama Bomb it detonated last time.
[QUOTE=Tattimatonen;36069984]In other new my Internet is [I]so weird[/I]
Earlier today I was downloading some Earthbound fanalbum (about 90 megs) and it took like three hours
Later I decided to download DCUO (about 18 gigs) because why not and then it also took 3 hours
how the fuck[/QUOTE]
DCUO? If you end up finding the game fun then add me on Steam and we can play! :3
At my parents' now.
Ugh, I hate having to lie to my mother like that, but what can I do? She noticed the bandages right away when we hugged, but didn't say anything until just now when she showed me my room.
Wish I didn't have to use the story of me "tripping and hitting myself under the arm with the corner of my desk" etc. etc.
Ahh, well...
[QUOTE=Zeldy;36074608]At my parents' now.
Ugh, I hate having to lie to my mother like that, but what can I do? She noticed the bandages right away when we hugged, but didn't say anything until just now when she showed me my room.
Wish I didn't have to use the story of me "tripping and hitting myself under the arm with the corner of my desk" etc. etc.
Ahh, well...[/QUOTE]
I'm sorry to say this Zeldy, but you're eventually gonna have to tell them. Might just wanna make the inevitable come quicker and get it over with. :/
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36074881]I'm sorry to say this Zeldy, but you're eventually gonna have to tell them. Might just wanna make the inevitable come quicker and get it over with. :/[/QUOTE]
Like I've said before, I'm not going to until I get citizenship here.
They're very religious and don't understand these things (other than them being SINS). They didn't talk to me when I had my labret piercing, that's how bad they are.
I really have no idea at all how they'd react to something like this. I don't see them accepting me at all, and they might even try to send me back to Saudi arabia to "fix" me.
[QUOTE=Zeldy;36074976]Like I've said before, I'm not going to until I get citizenship here.
They're very religious and don't understand these things (other than them being SINS). They didn't talk to me when I had my labret piercing, that's how bad they are.
I really have no idea at all how they'd react to something like this. I don't see them accepting me at all, and they might even try to send me back to Saudi arabia to "fix" me.[/QUOTE]
They can't if you're not a minor and live on your own can they?
[QUOTE=Skelmech;36075080]They can't if you're not a minor and live on your own can they?[/QUOTE]
This.
[QUOTE=Skelmech;36075080]They can't if you're not a minor and live on your own can they?[/QUOTE]
It's more complicated than that. I don't want to explain it, not on such a public place.
You don't need to tell them anything, but if you move out you won't have to fear anything if they find out.
[QUOTE=Pnukup;36075154]You don't need to tell them anything, but if you move out you won't have to fear anything if they find out.[/QUOTE]
I did move out. For university. I'm just visiting for now.
woow one of my friends would love to go to the mall with me.
also one of the towers I found [the p4 that I tossed a core 2 duo into] plays arma 2 dayz at a playable fps. It plays even better than my laptop [wtf]
I was "mistaken" as a girl at school again. Feels good man. But then they switched to male pronouns so now it feels batman. :(
If I had longer hair I'm pretty sure many people would mistake me as a girl more often. I wonder is it possible to change hair growth with some kind of hormones. Like make the hair grow straighter and faster.
[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;36072735]Differing viewpoints between another player and I on transgendered people threaten to split apart our Vampire: The Masquerade group.[/QUOTE]
Isn't that a single player game?
[QUOTE=J. Jett;36076572]I was "mistaken" as a girl at school again. Feels good man. But then they switched to male pronouns so now it feels batman. :([/QUOTE]
Must be upsetting that they're robin you of your enjoyment like that.
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36076627']Isn't that a single player game?[/QUOTE]
[del]They're[/del] She's talking about the tabletop version of it, not the video game.
Edit: Wasn't sure whether or not to use a female pronoun, post after mine answered that question.
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36076627']Isn't that a single player game?[/QUOTE]
No, Vampire: The Masquerade is a Tabletop RPG, Vampire: The Masquerade - Bloodlines is a game based on it.
It may be worth noting that the player whom I've had disagreements with is unpopular with the other players. Everyone else in the group is very accepting of the whole thing, even going as far as to use female pronouns.
My therapist appointment is tomorrow. I'm really nervous :c
Never been to a therapist before. Don't know how I would start and get the full use of the hour... :(
[editline]24th May 2012[/editline]
As a side note, I told my mom I want to keep my penis because of the chance of losing all sensation and putting her in debt. She was actually relieved. She has this mindset that apparently the penis is the best thing in the world and she didn't want me to do anything to it. So that's good.
But now we're having another little debate when it comes to relationships after transition.
She believes that when I get into a relationship with a guy or girl, I should tell them I'm trans once I've been with them for quite a bit. Keep in mind she also has this mindset that all men are assholes who think with their dicks because of my father who has been having an affair and lying to her day in and day out.
Of course, my opposing side says I should tell that person before or when we start dating. I think that if they are ok from the beginning then they are the right one for me.
What do you girls think?
[QUOTE=Zeldy;36074976]Like I've said before, I'm not going to until I get citizenship here.
They're very religious and don't understand these things (other than them being SINS). They didn't talk to me when I had my labret piercing, that's how bad they are.
I really have no idea at all how they'd react to something like this. I don't see them accepting me at all, and they might even try to send me back to Saudi arabia to "fix" me.[/QUOTE]
I now hate the Saudi's even more.
I have never met a race of people I dislike so much as well as a country that is so vile...I recommend that no one ever visits Saudi Arabia...it really is a dump.
Only cool Saudi I know is Zeldy c:
[QUOTE=redback3;36081058]Only cool Saudi I know is Zeldy c:[/QUOTE]
Zeldy is Saudi of the year, all years c:
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36080388]My therapist appointment is tomorrow. I'm really nervous :c
Never been to a therapist before. Don't know how I would start and get the full use of the hour... :(
[editline]24th May 2012[/editline]
As a side note, I told my mom I want to keep my penis because of the chance of losing all sensation and putting her in debt. She was actually relieved. She has this mindset that apparently the penis is the best thing in the world and she didn't want me to do anything to it. So that's good.
But now we're having another little debate when it comes to relationships after transition.
She believes that when I get into a relationship with a guy or girl, I should tell them I'm trans once I've been with them for quite a bit. Keep in mind she also has this mindset that all men are assholes who think with their dicks because of my father who has been having an affair and lying to her day in and day out.
Of course, my opposing side says I should tell that person before or when we start dating. I think that if they are ok from the beginning then they are the right one for me.
What do you girls think?[/QUOTE]
Your therapist is supposed to help you, so open up and talk about whatever it is bothering you in the moment as that will help you clear your mind.
On the subject of your mother, maybe she's more worried about getting grandchildren wich is why she wanted you to keep your penis.
If you tell someone from the begining that you're trans you'd save a lot of hassle, if that person isn't okay with it you wont waste your time on a futile relationship and if you do find the right one then it helps by having the relationship based arround being sincere to each other.
[QUOTE=dreukrag;36081354]Your therapist is supposed to help you, so open up and talk about whatever it is bothering you in the moment as that will help you clear your mind.
On the subject of your mother, maybe she's more worried about getting grandchildren wich is why she wanted you to keep your penis.
If you tell someone from the begining that you're trans you'd save a lot of hassle, if that person isn't okay with it you wont waste your time on a futile relationship and if you do find the right one then it helps by having the relationship based arround being sincere to each other.[/QUOTE]
My older brother can give her grandchildren.
I know why she doesn't want me to do anything to my dick either but she basically made me swear to never tell anyone why.
[QUOTE=Zeldy;36074976]Like I've said before, I'm not going to until I get citizenship here.
They're very religious and don't understand these things (other than them being SINS). They didn't talk to me when I had my labret piercing, that's how bad they are.
I really have no idea at all how they'd react to something like this. I don't see them accepting me at all, and they might even try to send me back to Saudi arabia to "fix" me.[/QUOTE]
Wow sounds close to my folks only I havent allowed them to find out or even get a chance to overly criticize me, but dude really sending you back to "fix" whats not really broken just seems like for lack of a better word overkill
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