Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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This will do >:)
What color socks should I get?
[url]http://voice.sngjackie.com/[/url]
I'm going to use this as my voice training guide.
[editline]10th June 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Chickens!;36273293]This will do >:)
What color socks should I get?[/QUOTE]
Purpl- Orange.
Not so much advice for coming out itself, but: If she freaks out a bit, try not to worry [i]too[/i] much! Even the most liberally-minded people can be shocked and it may take time for them, after so many years, to adjust to the thought of having a daughter/son instead of a son/daughter.
Best of luck! <3
[QUOTE=kaze4159;36259366][img]http://imgkk.com/i/78cl.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]
thinkign of life....
[video=youtube;6VJBBUqr1wM]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VJBBUqr1wM[/video]
avicii maybe trans or just supporting idk :v watch
[editline]10th June 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Noi;36273862]Hey, cuties... uh, I feel like I want to come out to my mom. I don't know what to expect. I don't even know if I can do this. Anyway, I'll try soon. Can you give me any tips? I'll appreciate any support.[/QUOTE]
Well. I may suggest that as hard as you can try to keep feelings out of the conversation from both sides. If you or she gets angry try to get out and talk about it later. And. Well. Go for it. Be honest and prove that you mean it.
[QUOTE=Inufin;36275903][video=youtube;6VJBBUqr1wM]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VJBBUqr1wM[/video]
avicii maybe trans or just supporting idk :v watch[/QUOTE]
Is it wrong that I find some of the comments on this hilarious?
[QUOTE=Youtube]omg!!!! he's gonna cut his pennis* and in the final of the song he is a girl and is with a man in a bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMgodddddd[/QUOTE]
[editline]11th June 2012[/editline]
Also Skype, my user there is the same as on here
that feel when ira dalton gray was a good friend of yours until the rape allegations came up
Uploaded one of my photos to Nana's HPTR.
Didn't know what to do other than apologize about the quality.
If it isn't good enough, I'll run it through photoshop tomorrow, will need Nana's word if it's bleh.
Was either a bad-quality phone photo or instagram. :v:
Okay, so I've let out some stress and found back my fighting spirit :v:
So how do I tell my doctor that I'm not psycotic but it's actually what I want?
Out of curiosity I've even regularely been eaten the pills she gave me, "just in case", and they've been doing nothing but, heh, actually making it worse at times (self-hate and such), which I suppose means I'm not crazy or whatever idea they had of me.
I can't run away (even though I'd love to do so), and [I]apparently[/I] I can't just go tell her I'm suicidal (even tho I am) because I don't wanna waste another week of my life doing nothing, only to be told I'm too happy and all that "be satisfied" etc bullshit, so what can I do?
Also love you all for your support, you guys keep me strong! :D
My skype name is discoinferno118 in case any of you care to add me.
And now lets rejoice as we get a reprieve from lotusking's dumbs.
[QUOTE=Tools;36280884]Okay, so I've let out some stress and found back my fighting spirit :v:
So how do I tell my doctor that I'm not psycotic but it's actually what I want?
Out of curiosity I've even regularely been eaten the pills she gave me, "just in case", and they've been doing nothing but, heh, actually making it worse at times (self-hate and such), which I suppose means I'm not crazy or whatever idea they had of me.
I can't run away (even though I'd love to do so), and [I]apparently[/I] I can't just go tell her I'm suicidal (even tho I am) because I don't wanna waste another week of my life doing nothing, only to be told I'm too happy and all that "be satisfied" etc bullshit, so what can I do?
Also love you all for your support, you guys keep me strong! :D[/QUOTE]
I knew you wouldn't give in! :3
Stay strong Tools. <3
I felt really happy after watching that Aviicii video, the girl finally got to become what she has always wanted c:
[QUOTE=Tools;36280884]Okay, so I've let out some stress and found back my fighting spirit :v:
So how do I tell my doctor that I'm not psycotic but it's actually what I want?
Out of curiosity I've even regularely been eaten the pills she gave me, "just in case", and they've been doing nothing but, heh, actually making it worse at times (self-hate and such), which I suppose means I'm not crazy or whatever idea they had of me.
I can't run away (even though I'd love to do so), and [I]apparently[/I] I can't just go tell her I'm suicidal (even tho I am) because I don't wanna waste another week of my life doing nothing, only to be told I'm too happy and all that "be satisfied" etc bullshit, so what can I do?
Also love you all for your support, you guys keep me strong! :D[/QUOTE]
Hard to give advice really.
Can they actually force you to be in the mental hospital? Maybe don't say you're suicidal, say something like the drugs have made you stopped feeling suicidal but you're still transgender. I dunno. It's hard to say really.
[QUOTE=Tools;36280884]Okay, so I've let out some stress and found back my fighting spirit :v:
So how do I tell my doctor that I'm not psycotic but it's actually what I want?
Out of curiosity I've even regularely been eaten the pills she gave me, "just in case", and they've been doing nothing but, heh, actually making it worse at times (self-hate and such), which I suppose means I'm not crazy or whatever idea they had of me.
I can't run away (even though I'd love to do so), and [I]apparently[/I] I can't just go tell her I'm suicidal (even tho I am) because I don't wanna waste another week of my life doing nothing, only to be told I'm too happy and all that "be satisfied" etc bullshit, so what can I do?
Also love you all for your support, you guys keep me strong! :D[/QUOTE]
I didn't know that in Denmark they would intern someone who's depressive on a mental institute, thats not really how you'd treat it. Have you tried seeing a different doctor? And you should just come clean with them, tell how you feel and how it brought you on the verge of commiting suicide, GID issues and anything else that botters you; no need to reveal it all at once, but its important you eventually do, people won't be able to help you unless they understand what is your problem.
And I guess talking with your mother, this time off drugs, would be a good thing too, having a family to support you really helps.
also, have a look at this: [url]http://www.lgbt.dk/raadgivning/[/url]
Greetings, I've decided to make a disposable account for this due to harassment reasons and I'm not exactly sure what I want here, maybe support or guidance. The best way to start out is chronologically.
Throughout my life I have noticed I am very different from the norm, and not the "hurr-durr retard assburger" sort of different, the "Wow this just doesn't feel right, and this is what is normal and expected of me?" different.
I sort of came onto the subject of transgender-ism by both my own research and someone helping me along the way. Things were hell because I was in a very, very unstable family, with unstable emotions, dealing with depression and suicidal-ism. I had quite a bit of friends helping me out with this, and made a lot more because of it. I had begun to view myself as the opposite of what I was, and things looked a lot better and I liked the idea of being something completely different than what I had to fake to be "normal" so to say. This by no means declares that my life wasn't absolute fucking hell. I had a very bad, unsupportive family who happened to get the cops called out almost every single day a while back until they took someone away (This should give you an understanding of the shit I had to put up with).
To make matters worse I had lost my views of who was on my side and lost a lot of friends and support. September was the biggest example where I completely tossed all my friends away, left my family and did my own thing for nearly a year. In retrospect this was the absolute best thing I could have done. I picked up photography, and a few other things and did some stuff with the local police and military. I gained an entirely new set of friends, and completely shook off my depression, suicidal-ism, and all the other shit that was holding me back. Although in the process I have lost touch with who I was and I'm not sure what I should do now. When I left I threw away everything but my camera, and walked off to a new life.
Now, mind you I've been an FPer for far too god damn long and this pains me so much to ask the one thing I hate the most for support. However I haven't a clue where else to go. If any clarification is needed for a certain subject feel free to ask. I'm not perfectly articulate with structure so things seem very messy.
[QUOTE=Sierra-Actual;36292192]Now, mind you I've been an FPer for far too god damn long and this pains me so much to ask the one thing I hate the most for support.[/QUOTE]
What do you mean with this part? I'm not sure I quite understand it.
And are you just asking for general guidance in what to do with your life at this point or what?
[QUOTE=Onyx3173;36292448]What do you mean with this part? I'm not sure I quite understand it.
And are you just asking for general guidance in what to do with your life at this point or what?[/QUOTE]
I sort of dropped everything transgender, and now have no idea where to pick up. I know I feel the same as I did, it's just I had to pick up my life and stabilize myself before I started to worry about being the opposite sex again.
I just have this feeling of doubt, and that I've just lost touch with who I want to be. I'm not sure how to explain it.
[QUOTE=Sierra-Actual;36292192] story [/QUOTE]
Are things better now that you've started anew? It looks so by what you described and well, just because you've started your new life doesn't means you now must be a completely different person, I guess you may feel that way because you want to forget your past and with that, who you were.
You shouldn't be held back by things that happened but that doesn't means that you need to rethink all of your actions, if you feel like doing something now because you could never do it back a few years, go ahead, but theres no need to force yourself into reshaping your person.
[QUOTE=dreukrag;36292522]Are things better now that you've started anew? It looks so by what you described and well, just because you've started your new life doesn't means you now must be a completely different person, I guess you may feel that way because you want to forget your past and with that, who you were.
You shouldn't be held back by things that happened but that doesn't means that you need to rethink all of your actions, if you feel like doing something now because you could never do it back a few years, go ahead, but theres no need to force yourself into reshaping your person.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I'm pretty bad at wording things. I had restructured my life to fix the things that were most important. In the past I was suicidal and could not hold a friendship for more than 6 months. Things are very different now, in a good way. I'm trying to get some of the things back that were very difficult for me to grasp then. As in, changing gender/sex. In the past it would have made me feel much better, but at the time both my therapist and all my friends would agree I viewed it as an escape from my horrible life situation. Now that I have fixed the life situation, yet still feel the need to change that bit, it is safe to say that I am trans.
Well ok we're all here for ya
[QUOTE=Sierra-Actual;36292589]Yeah, I'm pretty bad at wording things. I had restructured my life to fix the things that were most important. In the past I was suicidal and could not hold a friendship for more than 6 months. Things are very different now, in a good way. I'm trying to get some of the things back that were very difficult for me to grasp then. As in, changing gender/sex. In the past it would have made me feel much better, but at the time both my therapist and all my friends would agree I viewed it as an escape from my horrible life situation. Now that I have fixed the life situation, yet still feel the need to change that bit, it is safe to say that I am trans.[/QUOTE]
Thats good to know, I feared you were doing it not because of how you felt but just to escape from your past. That is how you feel then that is what you should do. Having a look at this website may help you out: [url]http://www.tsroadmap.com/index.html[/url]
My therapist just called me and told me that the referral for the endocrinologist has been sent. :3
Now I just have to wait for a call back from there and I don't know when it will be.
[QUOTE=Inufin;36301155]My therapist just called me and told me that the referral for the endocrinologist has been sent. :3
Now I just have to wait for a call back from there and I don't know when it will be.[/QUOTE]
That's really awesome :3
Also sorry I haven't posted much lately, every time I try to view my previous posts from my profile to check up on threads FP is like YOU DON'T HAVE PERMISSION TO VIEW THIS!!1!!!11 So I go do something else
My mind: "I guess some day's going to be the first."
Hello.
Is there anyone else here who is trans* and couldn't figure it out until quite lately? I've been dysphoric and had the feeling that I would have preferred to be a woman as far back as I can remember, yet I couldn't connect the dots enough for my brain to go "Wait a minute... Bloody hell, I'm transgendered!" until around December.
[QUOTE=Herr Sven;36302074]My mind: "I guess some day's going to be the first."
Hello.
Is there anyone else here who is trans* and couldn't figure it out until quite lately? I've been dysphoric and had the feeling that I would have preferred to be a woman as far back as I can remember, yet I couldn't connect the dots enough for my brain to go "Wait a minute... Bloody hell, I'm transgendered!" until around December.[/QUOTE]
You and me both. Though I didn't have dysphoric feelings until I stopped putting on a facade like I have been my entire life.
[QUOTE=Herr Sven;36302074]My mind: "I guess some day's going to be the first."
Hello.
Is there anyone else here who is trans* and couldn't figure it out until quite lately? I've been dysphoric and had the feeling that I would have preferred to be a woman as far back as I can remember, yet I couldn't connect the dots enough for my brain to go "Wait a minute... Bloody hell, I'm transgendered!" until around December.[/QUOTE]
Well. I figured that I'm trans like 4-6 months ago. I like found the reason for all that stuff that made me wonder that is wrong with me. Is this what you mean?
[QUOTE=Inufin;36302211]Well. I figured that I'm trans like 4-6 months ago. I like found the reason for all that stuff that made me wonder that is wrong with me. Is this what you mean?[/QUOTE]
Pretty much, yeah.
So, um...I know it might seem like a silly question but, what is the best way to start crossdressing? I mean, making sure no one really knows? (Aside from the internet, since it's all knowing)
[QUOTE=Herr Sven;36302074]My mind: "I guess some day's going to be the first."
Hello.
Is there anyone else here who is trans* and couldn't figure it out until quite lately? I've been dysphoric and had the feeling that I would have preferred to be a woman as far back as I can remember, yet I couldn't connect the dots enough for my brain to go "Wait a minute... Bloody hell, I'm transgendered!" until around December.[/QUOTE]
I didn't really label myself as trans until about 7 months ago, before then somethings didn't feel quite feel right but I didn't really think about why until last year.
Ever since I came out, I keep thinking back at things in my past that make so much sense now I know what was wrong, whereas before they didn't really have a reason/make sense :P
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