Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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[QUOTE=Liamhailhail2.0;36743371]I still bet you are gorgeous.[/QUOTE]
Neat is c:~
(Almost thought that picture was you though, Neat, if I didn't know your hair was a bit shorter from that one time I saw you on tinychat, I'd of thought it was :v: the faces look similar)
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[QUOTE=:C;36744442]they are going to remove the sterilization requirement in July next year.
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The what?
And does no one in this thread wear "normal" length socks? Damn, NO LOVE FOR THE NORMAL SOCKS
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[QUOTE=Inufin;36743758]I like anklesocks, too bad my ankles look all dry and dead D:
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You always manage to look so chilled out and :3~
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber]
The what?
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In order to change your gender in Sweden you have to be sterilized currently.
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36747006']
And does no one in this thread wear "normal" length socks? Damn, NO LOVE FOR THE NORMAL SOCKS
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i only wear normal socks :c
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[QUOTE=Zeldy;36746834]Newest timeline pic.
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you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974]i only wear normal socks :c
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you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE]
Great, thats a confident boost after almost 9 months of HRT. Good to know I still look like a guy.
NEAT☼♒☼♒☼♒~(ツ~) sending my vibes ☯☯☯
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guess which one is me
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974]i only wear normal socks :c
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you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE]
I disagree, verily.
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[QUOTE=Neat!;36749332]NEAT☼♒☼♒☼♒~(ツ~) sending my vibes ☯☯☯
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guess which one is me[/QUOTE]
neither
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974]
you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE]
Excuse me? I'm seriously about to go into Omega Bitch mode unless you take that back.
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I'm fucking serious, it's 4 AM and I can't sleep now because you just caused a good friend of mine to have a breakdown.
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974]i only wear normal socks :c
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you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE]
Better edit that post buddy, you just pissed off the hornets nest.
[QUOTE=Super_Nova;36749420]Better edit that post buddy, you just pissed off the hornets nest.[/QUOTE]
Damn right they pissed off the hornets nest.
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974]i only wear normal socks :c
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you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE]
The fuck is wrong with you? Shouldnt you know how it feels to be called a guy when youre a fucking transgirl? You're a fucking idiot. And if you're transgender, being called a guy wouldn't be an insult to you? And regardless of what you think about Zia, especially if its so mean [B]keep it to yourself
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Zia, when you come back online, please understand its only one person and don't let this get to you, youre transitioning greatly, the thread loves you deeply <3
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[QUOTE=Jrock455;36749466]The fuck is wrong with you? Shouldnt you know how it feels to be called a guy when youre a fucking transgirl? You're a fucking idiot. And if you're transgender, being called a guy wouldn't be an insult to you? And regardless of what you think about Zia, especially if its so mean [b]keep it to yourself[/b][/QUOTE]
THIS
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||, I swear to god right now....
Cotroxy are you fucking serious?
Don't listen to her Zeldy, you look great and everyone else here can see that <3
oh great, more drama
[QUOTE=Jrock455;36749466]The fuck is wrong with you? Shouldnt you know how it feels to be called a guy when youre a fucking transgirl? You're a fucking idiot. And if you're transgender, being called a guy wouldn't be an insult to you? And regardless of what you think about Zia, especially if its so mean [B]keep it to yourself
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Zia, when you come back online, please understand its only one person and don't let this get to you, youre transitioning greatly, the thread loves you deeply <3[/QUOTE]
Can't help but feel that this is an over reaction.
Idk I think that was pretty over the line with Cotroxy. Maybe she (cotroxy not zeldy) wasn't aware of the situation or something, but still, I might not be transgendered but if I worked for something for almost a year and was told there'd been no change then I would be pretty rightfully offended
ofc there has been change, I've seen previous pictures, I think it's just a terrible pic that's the culprit, because there's way more change in the ones she posted before
You guys really don't know the whole story just by seeing what happened here, so please don't pass your judgment on how we're "over reacting".
[QUOTE=Neat!;36749332]NEAT☼♒☼♒☼♒~(ツ~) sending my vibes ☯☯☯
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guess which one is me[/QUOTE]
Woah, Dejavu
[QUOTE=QueenSasha24;36747319]In order to change your gender in Sweden you have to be sterilized currently.[/QUOTE]
Yeah but what exactly does that mean/what has to be done etc
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36750797']Yeah but what exactly does that mean?[/QUOTE]
You lose the ability to make a woman pregnant, you can still ejaculate but not make her pregnant
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974]
you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE]
Saying things like this in the trans thread:
NOPE NOPE NOPE
I do think that photo may not be the best though Zeldy, I'm not saying the HRT isn't paying off, you look fine BUT when I saw you on tinychat that time (probably like a month+ ago now, lol) you looked way more feminine imo
do they sell epilator hair removal things at walmart?
[QUOTE=Super_Nova;36751376]do they sell epilator hair removal things at walmart?[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty sure they do.
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Also, I have hugely been inspired by Korean Street Fashion.
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sexy guy award
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[QUOTE=Inufin;36751469]I'm pretty sure they do.
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Also, I have hugely been inspired by Korean Street Fashion.
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sexy guy award
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[h2]AVANT GARDE[/h2]
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36750827']Saying things like this in the trans thread:
NOPE NOPE NOPE
I do think that photo may not be the best though Zeldy, I'm not saying the HRT isn't paying off, you look fine BUT when I saw you on tinychat that time (probably like a month+ ago now, lol) you looked way more feminine imo[/QUOTE]
i think the clothing heavily influenced my decision because it looks very loose-fitting and male-like
and people would have to learn that you should be honest. i'm not going to lie through my teeth just to make you feel better because you need to know the truth about something or i want to speak my mind.
i understand that you'd feel offended and stuff, but really that wasn't a very good picture. you wore very loose clothing which didn't show off anything that changed aside from what looked like hair, and maybe face a bit. i couldn't see [b]anything[/b] else because of the clothes.
then i come into the thread to see a bunch of stupid drama. it's getting ridiculous, you all get pissed off over the slightest thing. i even said that it might just be the clothes, but did that stop any of you? no, you all still jumped on my throat like a pack of wolves. i don't really know why because i haven't seen any of the older pics, only this one.
i have no idea why some of you can't ever take criticism. it's like everyone's expected to praise you for every single thing or something and that anyone who doesn't is rude and over the line. i think that you're all ridiculously sensitive and prone to drama, you guys might want to fix that, because i don't like lying to people and if this is the way things are going to happen because i said my mind on that picture, it seems i'd have to lie. i don't know if i'm doing the right thing by pressing post, but oh well.
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[QUOTE=redback3;36752367][h2]AVANT GARDE[/h2][/QUOTE]
lol
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wait a moment i just read all the posts from when i posted an opinion on what was a bad picture
this is ridiculous.
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the entire thing shows that you're all overreacting... even zeldy is by having a 'breakdown'. then this just goes to show that i can't have an honest opinion on it
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reassurance, like it or not you're going to face criticism. the world isn't a giant vat of sunshine, happiness and rainbows. people are going to find something wrong about you and they're going to say their mind. at least it isn't that ba-
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its not mean you overreacting twat. i was being honest because thats the only picture i saw, not mean. you only interpret it as being mean because it hurt your feelings. i don't know how it feels to be called a guy while being a tgirl because i'm not one, but i do know how it feels to be called a guy when you're a girl. i try to improve myself whenever people find something wrong with me, but this is just dumb. you're basically telling me that until i experience the same thing, if i'm not allowed to say anything/i'm a fucking idiot if i do.
throwing insults around isn't the best way to do things
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you [b]ARE[/b] overreacting. don't you see all of this? because of one line of words based on one picture? if you don't like what somebody said, improve yourself or [b]take a better picture[/b] and maybe take criticism fairly.
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[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36752523]i think the clothing heavily influenced my decision because it looks very loose-fitting and male-like
and people would have to learn that you should be honest. i'm not going to lie through my teeth just to make you feel better because you need to know the truth about something or i want to speak my mind.
i understand that you'd feel offended and stuff, but really that wasn't a very good picture. you wore very loose clothing which didn't show off anything that changed aside from what looked like hair, and maybe face a bit. i couldn't see [b]anything[/b] else because of the clothes.
then i come into the thread to see a bunch of stupid drama. it's getting ridiculous, you all get pissed off over the slightest thing. i even said that it might just be the clothes, but did that stop any of you? no, you all still jumped on my throat like a pack of wolves. i don't really know why because i haven't seen any of the older pics, only this one.
i have no idea why some of you can't ever take criticism. it's like everyone's expected to praise you for every single thing or something and that anyone who doesn't is rude and over the line. i think that you're all ridiculously sensitive and prone to drama, you guys might want to fix that, because i don't like lying to people and if this is the way things are going to happen because i said my mind on that picture, it seems i'd have to lie. i don't know if i'm doing the right thing by pressing post, but oh well.
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lol[/QUOTE]
I totally agree with you, I really hate how bad people take criticism these days. It's just ridiculous how much other people praise you for the smallest of achievements. I absolutely love (The rare times when it actually happens) to get criticized because then I actually know that I have something to improve. But that doesn't mean that you can say anything and think that people will accept it as criticism; a lot of the people in this thread are very sensitive about how they appear to other people and you need to be careful about what you say so that you don't upset them.
So instead of saying "You look like a man" you could've said "Those clothes makes you look a bit masculine, but you look pretty good in other ways", while you might not agree to the last part of that example it's still very important that you also bring up something positive when criticizing someone so that you don't appear to just be bashing them.
Being honest doesn't equal being a dick.
And the reasoning behind my message was because you honestly seem to act like a dick - even before just seeming disagreeing with everything.
And the way you took all our comments, even though you might feel that you did nothing wrong show a little respect towards us. We are worrying about our friend who you made by just those wrongly selected worlds to cause a breakdown.
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Also what are you trying to prove by [B]taking screenshots[/B] of our posts?
I do think people should be honest, lying isn't the answer here. But I do agree with :C in saying that you could have put it in a nicer way, and if you really can't think of a nicer way to say something that isn't going to hurt their feelings... then don't say anything at all.
Constructive criticism is good, but if you don't know where the line is between crit and offensive, then be ready to apologise to them or ask them if they think what you are saying is constructive or just depressing
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36752523]i don't know how it feels to be called a guy while being a tgirl because i'm not one, but i do know how it feels to be called a guy when you're a girl.[/QUOTE]
I guess it's hard for cis people to relate to things like this, as you have probably never questioned your gender (correct me if i'm wrong). I guess it's kinda like this: I read somewhere that you didn't like to go out without makeup... so... it's kinda like someone telling you that you look ugly without makeup on, when they know full well that you are conscience about it. It might seem rude to most people, but if you are particularly conscience about wearing make up and how you look without it, then it might seem doubly rude? I might not be making my point very well, but I guess what i'm saying is if someone told you that you looked like a man, it might not mean the same to you as it would to someone transgender, because they are more conscience of how they present their gender? idk.. i'm rabbling now xD
its really hard to find something good when the only thing that stood out in the picture was the hair. just take a better picture next time i guess
[QUOTE=Luafox;36750450]didnt you do this exact thing not too long ago[/QUOTE]
the subject of my face came up again
also it was a while ago
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