Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;35192977]She wouldn't find it questionable though. I know she'd help me with seeking help. She already questioned me a lot because before I told her I was gay I told her I wanted to crossdressing. She already had a suspicion that I was transgender. I know she'll be supportive if I tell her and she'd help me find a therapist and stuff.[/QUOTE]
Well by all means go see a therapist to help you decide.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;35192977]She wouldn't find it questionable though. I know she'd help me with seeking help. She already questioned me a lot because before I told her I was gay I told her I wanted to crossdressing. She already had a suspicion that I was transgender. I know she'll be supportive if I tell her and she'd help me find a therapist and stuff.[/QUOTE]
Well, then I guess you lucked out there :v:
I suppose if there's nothing stopping you, can't hurt to try it. If it turns out you don't feel that way, no harm done really. You'll probably figure it out before doing anything permanent.
Don't feel like you have to rush anything though, just go at whatever pace you're comfortable with. as unsure as you seem to be, this is especially paramount
[QUOTE=Treybuchet;35184881]sounds... not too bad:3[/QUOTE]
Isn't bad at all.
Think of it this way, it means you are half way there.
[QUOTE=Whitebowl;35185839]Here it is
[IMG]http://i42.tinypic.com/rh605x.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
Posted on another forum and on facebook. This gave me hope. :>
[QUOTE=Triumph Forks;35193157]Well, then I guess you lucked out there :v:
I suppose if there's nothing stopping you, can't hurt to try it. If it turns out you don't feel that way, no harm done really. You'll probably figure it out before doing anything permanent.
Don't feel like you have to rush anything though, just go at whatever pace you're comfortable with. as unsure as you seem to be, this is especially paramount[/QUOTE]
I wanna take my time before deciding to start HRT, but at the same time I fall into deep depression. I've already tried doing something stupid twice this week alone. :/
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;35193613]I wanna take my time before deciding to start HRT, but at the same time I fall into deep depression. I've already tried doing something stupid twice this week alone. :/[/QUOTE]
Well. Like we said, you could always see a therapist to make sure you feel like doing it. You don't even need to get GRS here unless you want your legal sex to be F.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yyNWf_kvW44&feature=related[/media]
found this a while ago, it's pretty damn neat.
[editline]19th March 2012[/editline]
Coming out to one of my friends;
[img]http://filesmelt.com/dl/ComingOut2.png[/img]
so how did it go?
She hasn't responded yet :v:
Well it'll probably go better with her than it did both of my 'friends'.
My friends are pretty liberal about that kind of thing.
Don't worry though, I'll be glad to tell you guys how it goes.
I feel like coming out to someone is something best done in person but maybe thats just me.
[QUOTE=Whitebowl;35197895]I feel like coming out to someone is something best done in person but maybe thats just me.[/QUOTE]
It all depends on the person really. For my friends it'd be better to just come out on the Internet.
I didn't even come out, people just ask and I answer. simple :smile:
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35197944]It all depends on the person really. For my friends it'd be better to just come out on the Internet.[/QUOTE]
Any reason?
[QUOTE=Whitebowl;35197895]I feel like coming out to someone is something best done in person but maybe thats just me.[/QUOTE]
I don't have access to them in person that often. I don't go to school (And they don't live in my city anymore anyway), so facebook is the best place to do it. Answering the question is much easier then bringing it up, but I feel like I'd like to get it off my chest.
[QUOTE=Whitebowl;35198213]Any reason?[/QUOTE]
For one I can't speak to people in person all that well about stuff like this. Second someone might overhear and there goes everything.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35198295]For one I can't speak to people in person all that well about stuff like this. Second someone might overhear and there goes everything.[/QUOTE]
I don't think it's easy for anyone to come out in person to be honest, but from my experience it's much more rewarding that way. Oh well, do what you gotta do.
[editline]19th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Rammlied;35198235]I don't have access to them in person that often. I don't go to school (And they don't live in my city anymore anyway), so facebook is the best place to do it. Answering the question is much easier then bringing it up, but I feel like I'd like to get it off my chest.[/QUOTE]
Fair enough.
New guy here.
Why do people crossdress in the first place?
[QUOTE=ultra_bright;35198362]New guy here.
Why do people crossdress in the first place.[/QUOTE]
It's just something we do?
I dunno, why do people enjoy sports?
I wouldn't consider myself a crossdresser, is that even possible for an androgynous person?
[QUOTE=ultra_bright;35198362]New guy here.
Why do people crossdress in the first place.[/QUOTE]
There are a million different reasons but personally I do it to feel female I guess.
[QUOTE=Whitebowl;35198351]I don't think it's easy for anyone to come out in person to be honest, but from my experience it's much more rewarding that way. Oh well, do what you gotta do.
[editline]19th March 2012[/editline]
Fair enough.[/QUOTE]
Coming out was never rewarding at least when it came to 'friends'. The one friend who thinks I'm bi [which by the way I'm not] doesn't believe that I will be a female ["Joel you can't be a girl!"]. The others think it's really creepy and proceeded to call me a tranny.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35198402]Coming out was never rewarding at least when it came to 'friends'. The one friend who thinks I'm bi [which by the way I'm not] doesn't believe that I will be a female ["Joel you can't be a girl!"]. The others think it's really creepy and proceeded to call me a tranny.[/QUOTE]
I can see where the first guy is coming from, it's a hard thing to accept.
But denying it isn't a great thing to do either :v:
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35198402]Coming out was never rewarding at least when it came to 'friends'. The one friend who thinks I'm bi [which by the way I'm not] doesn't believe that I will be a female ["Joel you can't be a girl!"]. The others think it's really creepy and proceeded to call me a tranny.[/QUOTE]
this may be an odd question but are your friends guys?
[QUOTE=FlubberNugget;35198413]I can see where the first guy is coming from, it's a hard thing to accept.
But denying it isn't a great thing to do either :v:[/QUOTE]
Honestly. I just think he doesn't care. He's really monotone and emotionless, and he goes on and on about how he's going to rule the world or some shit. I don't even know why I hang out with these people tbh. Maybe because I don't have anyone else to hang out with :v:
It didn't really come as a surprise when one of the really well known girls asked why I hung out with them.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Whitebowl;35198428]this may be an odd question but are your friends guys?[/QUOTE]
Yep. None of my friends are women unfortunately. I bet they'd understand better.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35198402]Coming out was never rewarding at least when it came to 'friends'. The one friend who thinks I'm bi [which by the way I'm not] doesn't believe that I will be a female ["Joel you can't be a girl!"]. The others think it's really creepy and proceeded to call me a tranny.[/QUOTE]
They don't sound like very good friends, but it might just be because they're ignorant. Give them time and try to explain the concept some more.
Also, if it makes you feel any better, I'd consider you a friend. You're really cool.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35198437]Honestly. I just think he doesn't care. He's really monotone and emotionless, and he goes on and on about how he's going to rule the world or some shit. I don't even know why I hang out with these people tbh. Maybe because I don't have anyone else to hang out with :v:
It didn't really come as a surprise when one of the really well known girls asked why I hung out with them.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
Yep. None of my friends are women unfortunately. I bet they'd understand better.[/QUOTE]
Women are no more understanding than men are, trust me on that one :zoid:
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35198437]
Yep. None of my friends are women unfortunately. I bet they'd understand better.[/QUOTE]
Usually girls do understand these things better. The three people i've come out to are my two best friends and my mom, who are all woman and all three took it brilliantly.
although I'm only speaking from personal experience. Maybe my friends are just understanding people.
It's less about gender, more about personality.
[QUOTE=FlubberNugget;35198474]Women are no more understanding than men are, trust me on that one :zoid:[/QUOTE]
Actually over here that's the opposite. Women are more likely to understand at least from a personal experience.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Rammlied;35198468]They don't sound like very good friends, but it might just be because they're ignorant. Give them time and try to explain the concept some more.
Also, if it makes you feel any better, I'd consider you a friend. You're really cool.[/QUOTE]
They're just ignorant buffoons. I've already explained the concept to them shortly before coming out and I honestly wish I had other people to hang out with so I didn't have to stick with these people. It's doing no good for my marks either.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Whitebowl;35198481]Usually girls do understand these things better. The three people i've come out to are my two best friends and my mom, who are all woman and all three took it brilliantly.
although I'm only speaking from personal experience. Maybe my friends are just understanding people.[/QUOTE]
I came out to everyone in my immediate family. My brother and my dad are the only two who seem to be denying it and deliberately calling me "brother", "he", "him" and "the man of the house" in order to offend me.
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