Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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I think im a size 14 or 16. Not sure.
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36972912']Yeah that's kinda what I'm trying to say. People would be like "I'm okay with it" but after it actually happened they were like "OH MY GOD YOU BASTARD I HATE YOU!!!" and start huge shitstorms
If you can do it and be happy with it, hey, go for it if it makes you happy.[/QUOTE]
That's why you record everything your partner says in advance.
[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;36974840]That's why you record everything your partnet says in advance.[/QUOTE]
am I reading this right? :/
[QUOTE=l l;36974847]am I reading this right? :/[/QUOTE]
No, because I mispelled partner, sorry. A part net wouldn't even make any sense, you need a full net or it won't work.
[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;36974954]No, because I mispelled partner, sorry. A part net wouldn't even make any sense, you need a full net or it won't work.[/QUOTE]
i was actually referring to you recording everything your SO says...
[QUOTE=l l;36974964]i was actually referring to you recording everything your SO says...[/QUOTE]
Well if you're in a relationship with someone who keeps going back on their word, having a record of what they said would make it easier to call them out on it.
[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;36975186]Well if you're in a relationship with someone who keeps going back on their word, having a record of what they said would make it easier to call them out on it.[/QUOTE]
you shouldn't plan your relationship with the idea on how to win arguments
if you think you aren't going to go well together and fight dont get together
[QUOTE=l l;36975244]you shouldn't plan your relationship with the idea on how to win arguments
if you think you aren't going to go well together and fight dont get together[/QUOTE]
But winning is fuuuuuun :(
Recording everything your partner says seems like distrust.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36976095]Recording everything your partner says seems like distrust.[/QUOTE]
I'm not honestly that bad... I think...
Does anybody know of any stories out there with trans-related themes and characters? I know of a few webcomics, but I want to know if there's anything else.
Venus-Envy.
It's a webcomic though.
I think there's a book called "Becoming Emily" or something like that about a transgirl.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;36976788]Does anybody know of any stories out there with trans-related themes and characters? I know of a few webcomics, but I want to know if there's anything else.[/QUOTE]
I know a manga about a 5th grader transgirl who meets another 5th grader thats a transboy and they become best friends.
[url]http://mangafox.me/manga/hourou_musuko/[/url]
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Jeez, what's it been Viidya? 2 weeks+ now? And you're still hellbent on rating all my posts dumb?
Get over yourself, lol.
I'll check those out, thanks.
The only two that I really know are [url=http://www.khaoskomix.com/komix/steves-story-cover]Komix[/url], and [url=http://transgirldiaries.com/?p=119]Trans Girl Diaries[/url].
Komix is kind of corny, but it's fun to read if you can relate to it. The trans storylines don't start until a while in, though.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36976839]I know a manga about a 5th grader transgirl who meets another 5th grader thats a transboy and they become best friends.
[url]http://mangafox.me/manga/hourou_musuko/[/url][/QUOTE]
I expected this to be shit (I've read LOTS of odd mangas and stuff, unfortunately lots are good ideas but badly done) but this is actually really good.
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36986414']I expected this to be shit (I've read LOTS of odd mangas and stuff, unfortunately lots are good ideas but badly done) but this is actually really good.[/QUOTE]
It really annoyed me so
But if you found something you enjoyed then that's all that matters
Hi everyone, using an alt cause I'm afraid of posting on my actual account. I need some advice, should I tell my parents I'm transgender, I'm not too familiar with what to do and am pretty scared, Ive been denying what Ive wanted for awhile and so I thought I just might aswell go and accept it even though it took quite alot of thinking.
Sorry if I'm not making much sense, I'll all too jittery and scared.
I went to my boyfriend's Dad's wedding in a suit, despite my Mum nagging me to go in a dress/skirt. Truth me told I was scared shitless everyone would thing I was a weirdo or call me out on being trans or a closet-lesbian or something.
But after the wedding, my boyfriends Dad and I were talking and he said I looked really cool and it was impressive I'd managed to stay "cool looking" despite the heat, and the party and everything. I felt honored, I was called cool, by someone who turned up to their own wedding dressed like a steam-punk pirate (seriously it was the most awesome wedding I've ever been to).
[QUOTE=Matt~;36988151]Hi everyone, using an alt cause I'm afraid of posting on my actual account. I need some advice, should I tell my parents I'm transgender, I'm not too familiar with what to do and am pretty scared, Ive been denying what Ive wanted for awhile and so I thought I just might aswell go and accept it even though it took quite alot of thinking.
Sorry if I'm not making much sense, I'll all too jittery and scared.[/QUOTE]
Only tell them if you're 100% sure you're ready, and you know they won't do something drastic like kick you out the house. If you really want to, but are really worried about their reaction, tell your Mum first, and see how she reacts (Mothers usually react more liberally than fathers... usually, not all the time though).
Maybe think about it a little longer? Not, if you're trans* or not, but whether or not it'd be a good idea to tell them at this point. What country do you live in/whats your age, if you don't mind me asking? If you're under 18 and they react negatively and threaten to kick you out or something, I don't think they legally can do that... I think... D: I'm sorry I can't help too much...
[QUOTE=Passerby Silver;36989160]
Only tell them if you're 100% sure you're ready, and you know they won't do something drastic like kick you out the house. If you really want to, but are really worried about their reaction, tell your Mum first, and see how she reacts (Mothers usually react more liberally than fathers... usually, not all the time though).
Maybe think about it a little longer? Not, if you're trans* or not, but whether or not it'd be a good idea to tell them at this point. What country do you live in/whats your age, if you don't mind me asking? If you're under 18 and they react negatively and threaten to kick you out or something, I don't think they legally can do that... I think... D: I'm sorry I can't help too much...[/QUOTE]
17, In America. I know my father is chill about gays and such but not so much my mother, Don't really know what to do. And I have thought about it, every night and almost every waking moment, literally inches away from telling them.
[QUOTE=Matt~;36989237]17, In America. I know my father is chill about gays and such but not so much my mother, Don't really know what to do. And I have thought about it, every night and almost every waking moment, literally inches away from telling them.[/QUOTE]
Hm... You could casually ask your dad one day what he thinks about trans people. Not even hint you might be one, just ask his opinion of them. Sounds like your Dad may be easier to approach than your mother in this situation. If he asks why you're asking you could always throw a cover story and be like "one of my friends thinks they might be trans" or something.
I'm probably the worst person for giving advice on this kinda thing though, sorry ;;
[QUOTE=Passerby Silver;36989470]Hm... You could casually ask your dad one day what he thinks about trans people. Not even hint you might be one, just ask his opinion of them. Sounds like your Dad may be easier to approach than your mother in this situation. If he asks why you're asking you could always throw a cover story and be like "one of my friends thinks they might be trans" or something.
I'm probably the worst person for giving advice on this kinda thing though, sorry ;;[/QUOTE]
Yes well I'm just gonna post on my main account.
Might aswell clear this up Ive already told them I was ' gay' which gave me clearance to wear whatever I wanted, I guess its not much of a mystery to them, I'll tell my father later today, gotta work up the courage, Ive been twitchy all night, didn't get any sleep.
[editline]29th July 2012[/editline]
Didn't think it would make me this nervous as I thought
[QUOTE=l l;36975244]you shouldn't plan your relationship with the idea on how to win arguments
if you think you aren't going to go well together and fight dont get together[/QUOTE]
I met someone like this recently, we seemed to get on well - really well. But she always made arguments instead of just accepting my opinion as mine and perhaps telling me hers she always had to disagree.
In the end I just walked away, wasn't worth the pain to make a relationship with a person like that.
[QUOTE=Ban Camp;36989511]Yes well I'm just gonna post on my main account.
Might aswell clear this up Ive already told them I was ' gay' which gave me clearance to wear whatever I wanted, I guess its not much of a mystery to them, I'll tell my father later today, gotta work up the courage, Ive been twitchy all night, didn't get any sleep.
[editline]29th July 2012[/editline]
Didn't think it would make me this nervous as I thought[/QUOTE]
It's worse than you think, but when you finally told them you'll just feel awesome (depending on how they react)
[QUOTE=Matt~;36989237]17, In America. I know my father is chill about gays and such but not so much my mother, Don't really know what to do. And I have thought about it, every night and almost every waking moment, literally inches away from telling them.[/QUOTE]
I was in this situation about a month ago, I started to have a lot of anxiety attacks and shit due to all thoughts that I had; so I decided to tell my mom about. I just told her to enter my come in to my room and that I had something important to tell her, I started off by telling her that I have a big problem that I've experienced during the majority of my life, and how destructive it has been towards my self-esteem and social life. And then I just told her that I most likely have gender dysphoria.
She reacted really well to it, and a couple of days later I told her to tell my father, who had almost the same reaction as my mother.
So I really think that you should do it, you'll feel a lot better.
I ain't tell my parents anythin'. Unless I encounter a comedic oppotunity I would never get again.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36976839]I know a manga about a 5th grader transgirl who meets another 5th grader thats a transboy and they become best friends.
[url]http://mangafox.me/manga/hourou_musuko/[/url]
[editline]asdkj[/editline]
Jeez, what's it been Viidya? 2 weeks+ now? And you're still hellbent on rating all my posts dumb?
Get over yourself, lol.[/QUOTE]
theres also an anime about it but its nearly impossible to find now
i hope everything goes well for ban :c
i recently came out to my parents, and it's been tough on them. one night my dad pulled me aside to talk and he told me how hard it'd be to lose his little boy, how i was always so masculine around them, and since then he's often told me how masculine i look then in the next sentence tell me he wont support any form of hormone treatment ever because "he doesnt like what they do to people." both my parents have been better and more understanding since we've started going to family therapy sessions, though.
[QUOTE=Farrelm;36994842]i hope everything goes well for ban :c
i recently came out to my parents, and it's been tough on them. one night my dad pulled me aside to talk and he told me how hard it'd be to lose his little boy, how i was always so masculine around them, and since then he's often told me how masculine i look then in the next sentence tell me he wont support any form of hormone treatment ever because "he doesnt like what they do to people." both my parents have been better and more understanding since we've started going to family therapy sessions, though.[/QUOTE]
I always found it funny, (like odd funny not HAHA before someone takes it wrong and gets offended/confused) that my dad's always been like the opposite of things like this. He was always like when I was younger, "You should of been a boy, Amber" and stuff like that and Mum always just rolled her eyes (the kids in our family are me and my sister, no brothers) and said "Well you get what you get, you've got Amber" cause the majority of my hobbies were/are "boy interests"
I always thought if I was trans and told my parents Dad would be like to my mother IN YOUR FACE
I've still not done anything even remotely trans-related ever... Even when speaking the people whom I don't know what their job is but it's something headmedical or something I don't talk about it much... Infact I don't think I've changed at all since I've started talking with those people... My life has hit even further stagnation.
[QUOTE=xxncxx;36993651]theres also an anime about it but its nearly impossible to find now[/QUOTE]
If you ever do come across it, could you post it?
If you do I'm yours.
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