• Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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I'm still trying to find compassion for a guy who bitches on facebook about a 'trap' 'leading him on' and then "waiting till the last second to whip 'his' dick out", and assault the 'trap' and has to go to court for assaulting 'him' It's not exactly self-defense
[QUOTE=Riodoku;35379277]There's an abundance of dehumanization of trans-people in modern society. People often use us as the butts of jokes, or as some disturbing power fantasy story. Most of the time it's rooted in homophobia, as almost all transphobic men are so deathly afraid of being attracted to a "man" that they try to justify their mixed sexual feelings through bigotry and hatred toward trans-people. It's disgusting.[/QUOTE] That's why I get pissed at every joke people make about trans-people. By making Jokes ok about us, it just further makes looking down on us, and hating us even more acceptable and common. People can joke about us when this list [img_thumb]http://s3.amazonaws.com/data.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1rf8f096f1r9m3ruo1_1280.png[/img_thumb] Stops growing every year. (By the way, that list is a low estimate, most hate crimes weren't recorded very well in the past)
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I missed a few pages because I was away, but DAAAMN you all so fine I found this on my phone from a while ago, so here. [url]http://filesmelt.com/dl/0330121524.jpg[/url]
oh god what the fuck is going on in this thread
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[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35377916]I need thoughts on this. I just read on Facebook that some dude from my former high school got led on by a "trap" and the dude basically waited till the last second to whip his dick out on his face, and in retaliation the dude knocked him out cold with an uppercut to the face. Now he's awaiting trial for assault, and I think that's total utter bullshit. Pretty tasteless and disgusting way to conduct yourself if you ask me. He should be able to count on something like the verbal provocation defense, except with penises.[/QUOTE] And this is one perfect example of why I don't want to be transsexual. God fucking damn it.
I had my hair done the other day. I'm really self-conscious about it all. Not sure if I like it or not yet :/ :/ [img]http://i.imgur.com/rHuow.jpg[/img]
Hey, I really don't browse this site often but I have to say this, you people are awesome. You all helped me come to terms with how I've been feeling over the past few years all in a single day. You are all wonderful, beautiful people and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise!
[QUOTE=Anna Banana;35380767]I had my hair done the other day. I'm really self-conscious about it all. Not sure if I like it or not yet :/ :/ [img]http://i.imgur.com/rHuow.jpg[/img][/QUOTE] Oh my god it's so pretty! I love it! :D
[QUOTE=Skelmech;35378452]You'd be incredibly surprised how much people who are for "LGBT" Rights are only for "LGB" rights. Plus, I think he'd have not punched said "trap" because just being near a penis doesn't make you gay, which is why i ASSUME he got angry.[/QUOTE] After talking to him, 1) Not a trap, just some [b]homosexual[/b] man dressing up as a women trying to deceive [b]heterosexual[/b] men. 2) He apparently took his penis out literally [b]on[/b] his face. As in, it probably smacked him on the head like in a terrible mandingo porno. What the fuck was he thinking? If you're going to lead some dude (whilst being a dude!) onto that point when you're in his bedroom and not expecting any form of physical confrontation you're the idiot. You're also fucking disgusting because (i have no prejudices towards crossdressers) if you're going to do certain things you have to realize that conducting yourself in such a ill-manner will result in you provoking some unwanted situations. Hitting on a straight man as a gay man? Nothing wrong about that, you're not trying to deceive anyone. Hitting on a straight man as a gay man disguised as a women? Totally fucking different. To try and file for assault as well? Sorry but that makes [b]YOU[/b] the piece of shit. I'm sure this thread will have a natural bias towards the situation but open your eyes.
[QUOTE=Anna Banana;35380767]I had my hair done the other day. I'm really self-conscious about it all. Not sure if I like it or not yet :/ :/ [img]http://i.imgur.com/rHuow.jpg[/img][/QUOTE] You remind me of my ex... I miss him. :<
[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381558]After talking to him, 1) Not a trap, just some [b]homosexual[/b] man dressing up as a women trying to deceive [b]heterosexual[/b] men. 2) He apparently took his penis out literally [b]on[/b] his face. As in, it probably smacked him on the head like in a terrible mandingo porno. What the fuck was he thinking? If you're going to lead some dude (whilst being a dude!) onto that point when you're in his bedroom and not expecting any form of physical confrontation you're the idiot. You're also fucking disgusting because (i have no prejudices towards crossdressers) if you're going to do certain things you have to realize that conducting yourself in such a ill-manner will result in you provoking some unwanted situations. Hitting on a straight man as a gay man? Nothing wrong about that, you're not trying to deceive anyone. Hitting on a straight man as a gay man disguised as a women? Totally fucking different. To try and file for assault as well? Sorry but that makes [b]YOU[/b] the piece of shit. I'm sure this thread will have a natural bias towards the situation but open your eyes.[/QUOTE] i do that on the internet that way they can't punch me i'm not actually attracted to guys whether they are gay or not
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Dude a had a wig, stuffed bra, and a penis. Pretty sure that's a dude.
[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381712]Dude a had a wig, stuffed bra, and a penis. Pretty sure that's a dude.[/QUOTE] Alright, then how the hell did he "trick" the guy if he was pretty sure if they were male? Even at that, ANY of those things can be traits or features of a trans-person.
[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381712]Dude a had a wig, stuffed bra, and a penis. Pretty sure that's a dude.[/QUOTE]I style my hair, sometimes wear a stuffed bra, and I have a penis. Does that make me a dude?
[QUOTE=QueenSasha24;35381731]Alright, then how the hell did he "trick" the guy if he was pretty sure if they were male?[/QUOTE] I dunno when you meet a girl at a bar I'm pretty sure it's not standard procedure to rub her crotch and do a dick check/pull her hair/inspect her chest. He only found out that he was being tricked by a male right when he pulled his penis out on him/the confrontation afterwards.
[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381775]when he pulled his penis out on him[/QUOTE] Do you know that this happened for sure? Did anybody witness this event unfold? Unless if there were any witnesses or if they get a confession I'm pretty sure "she bonked me on the head with her dick" won't hold up well in court.
[QUOTE=QueenSasha24;35381731]Even at that, ANY of those things can be traits or features of a trans-person.[/QUOTE] Also, even if it was a transgender person, would that make it any different? You simply DO NOT pull the shit that he did because it's completely moraless and not expecting any repercussion is ridiculous. People want respect for what they are, which I'm completely for but doing something that's as mannerless as that regardless of situation/gender/race deserves no respect. I too would be extremely fucking angry if I unknowingly/unwillingly had someones genitalia touching my face. [editline]1st April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=retsamdeew;35381812]Do you know that this happened for sure? Did anybody witness this event unfold? Unless if there were any witnesses or if they get a confession I'm pretty sure "she bonked me on the head with her dick" won't hold up well in court.[/QUOTE] No of course there is no concrete evidence of whatever happened, but I know the guy, and he's extremely fucking nice. He's also been one of the most progressive people I know but now I'm afraid he's going to lose atleast a year of his early 20's just because some fucking moron treated him like a piece of shit.
[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381817]I too would be extremely fucking angry if I unknowingly/unwillingly had someones genitalia touching my face.[/QUOTE]I dunno, I gotta be honest with you, that sounds like a fun evening to me.
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[QUOTE=HorizoN;35381845]You still don't fucking hit people. If you must then be angry and walk away but don't fucking hit someone. He deserves this assault charge reggardless because he couldn't control himself.[/QUOTE] You know what, don't even worry about it. I just talked to him, his lawyer advised to counter-suit for Sexual Assault, which he'll have plenty of evidence for. Roommate testimonials, pictures taken at the club, the dude's state ID, even another regular of that club who had that dude on some other night apparently try to pull the same shit, but he managed to find out long before.
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Rate me dumb if you will, but it's a 2nd degree felony and can vary from 2-20 years in Austin, Texas. [url]http://www.statutes.legis.state.tx.us/Docs/PE/htm/PE.22.htm#22.02[/url] He might be willing to drop the charges since he's not an asshole, but only if the assault charges get dropped. Seems reasonable.
[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381967]Rate me dumb if you will, but it's a 2nd degree felony and can vary from 2-20 years in Austin, Texas. [url]http://www.statutes.legis.state.tx.us/Docs/PE/htm/PE.22.htm#22.02[/url] He might be willing to drop the charges since he's not an asshole, but only if the assault charges get dropped. Seems reasonable.[/QUOTE] Still punched her.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35381957]He did consent to sex right? Because if your friend wanted to have sex then I don't think this is valid. It's just not what he expected and he [u]punched[/u] [b]HER[/b] because of it. Violence is STILL unacceptable.[/QUOTE] You can't consent to something that wasn't there. He was consenting to sex with a female, not a homosexual male. If he gets deceived into thinking it was a girl, but it wasn't, it's no longer consensual. Thinking it would be is silly.
I believe it's pretty silly to care about your ratings as well but whatever.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35381974]Still punched her.[/QUOTE] Great! He gets a year for assault, the other guy gets 2 or more years for sexual assault. Everyone wins.
[QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381983]You can't consent to something that wasn't there. He was consenting to sex with a female, not a homosexual male. If he gets deceived into thinking it was a girl, but it wasn't, it's no longer consensual. Thinking it would be is silly.[/QUOTE] Are you ridiculous? She could still be a transperson which would COUNT as a fucking female. [editline]1st April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Weltmeister;35381994]Great! He gets a year for assault, the other guy gets 2 or more years for sexual assault. Everyone wins.[/QUOTE] I love how you keep referring to her as a guy.
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