• Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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[QUOTE=Herb;35484145]That's how many trans people feel BEFORE transitioning.[/QUOTE] Yep. I have an image in my head of how my face should be. And what I see in the mirror every day is not synonymous with that image.
I notice now when I look in the mirror I'm starting to see every detail of flaw in my face and how fat I am.
[QUOTE=PhoebisnFurb;35483500]youre all fucking sick. pathetic excuses for men, you should all be castrated and then suffer when you realize you dont want to be a woman after all. stupid twats.[/QUOTE] This man is right, our satanic transgender ways are wrong and we have to except that. Come girls, lets go watch football and eat hoggies for the rest of our days. We have been shown the light. [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] There's always the creeping (or more than 'creeping') suspicion that you will regret this, but that seems to follow me everywhere. I come to the point where I illogically regret everything I do, but if I let that control my life I will do nothing (Like I'm doing now :V), and I have to access things for what is right for me and do it despite my fear.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;35484264]I notice now when I look in the mirror I'm starting to see every detail of flaw in my face and how fat I am.[/QUOTE] Just because you're overweight doesn't mean you need to change gender. Trust me, working out can do a whole world of good. You just have to be committed. I've seen guys [I]drastically[/I] change over just one summer. Leaving school looking quite bad and coming back looking ridiculously good-looking! Just takes a level of commitment and discipline to change though, but if you want it bad enough, it shouldn't be difficult. Sign up to a gym that has swimming pool access, then just go swimming as well as doing some weight-lifting. You'll shed weight and gain muscle in no time and - I assure you - you'll be more than happy with the body you have :) [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] Or just do what I do and go jogging. Morning and evening. Great for getting yourself into a routine (staying up all night and sleeping all day is bad!).
[QUOTE=loopoo;35484325]Just because you're overweight doesn't mean you need to change gender. Trust me, working out can do a whole world of good. You just have to be committed. I've seen guys [I]drastically[/I] change over just one summer. Leaving school looking quite bad and coming back looking ridiculously good-looking! Just takes a level of commitment and discipline to change though, but if you want it bad enough, it shouldn't be difficult. Sign up to a gym that has swimming pool access, then just go swimming as well as doing some weight-lifting. You'll shed weight and gain muscle in no time and - I assure you - you'll be more than happy with the body you have :)[/QUOTE] You don't seem to comprehend a molecule of what gender dysphoria is.
I met with a cute girl(she identifies as genderqueer sort of but female pronouns and it's complicated. But it was super awesome, especially because she treated me as a girl and was just the best, we saw rocky horror together. The whole my voice thing sucked but it all turned out good. She also tied me up and did some fun things with floggers and a riding crop. [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] I feel so confident now, plus it was like my first time going to someone as female, who kind of cared about my gender and stuff, it was great.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;35484349]You don't seem to comprehend a molecule of what gender dysphoria is.[/QUOTE] Sorry, I didn't know he had gender dysphoria. I know what it is. I thought he was just complaining that he doesn't like the way he looks. I thought he was on-the-fence, and I didn't want him to do anything drastic without realizing the potential of his body as it is. My bad.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35484448]Sorry, I didn't know he had gender dysphoria. I know what it is. I thought he was just complaining that he doesn't like the way he looks. I thought he was on-the-fence, and I didn't want him to do anything drastic without realizing the potential of his body as it is. My bad.[/QUOTE] Oh, alright then. It's kind of a rule of thumb that the people frequenting the transgender thread have some form of gender dysphoria, though.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35484448]Sorry, I didn't know he had gender dysphoria. I know what it is. I thought he was just complaining that he doesn't like the way he looks. I thought he was on-the-fence, and I didn't want him to do anything drastic without realizing the potential of his body as it is. My bad.[/QUOTE] she*
[QUOTE=loopoo;35484325]Just because you're overweight doesn't mean you need to change gender. Trust me, working out can do a whole world of good. You just have to be committed. I've seen guys [I]drastically[/I] change over just one summer. Leaving school looking quite bad and coming back looking ridiculously good-looking! Just takes a level of commitment and discipline to change though, but if you want it bad enough, it shouldn't be difficult. Sign up to a gym that has swimming pool access, then just go swimming as well as doing some weight-lifting. You'll shed weight and gain muscle in no time and - I assure you - you'll be more than happy with the body you have :) [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] Or just do what I do and go jogging. Morning and evening. Great for getting yourself into a routine (staying up all night and sleeping all day is bad!).[/QUOTE] no, in fact that would make me the opposite of what i feel like and it would only serve to further my depression. i don't want to change gender just because i'm overweight [which, by technical terms, i'm apparently underweight], but rather because my body doesn't match what my brain thinks and feels like. essentially it's like a huge identity crisis. i'm slowly watching my body turn into the opposite of what i envisioned. instead, the cute, feminine face i visualize is becoming the square, manly monstrosity that is my face and my body, and it scares and depresses me a lot. nothing matches what i thought i would turn out like. nothing is happening the way i think it should have. i don't want to get muscles and be manly. i just feel like a girl inside. simple as that. [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=J. Jett;35484602]she*[/QUOTE] i was going to do that but then i realized that maybe i should leave someone else to it. [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=loopoo;35484448]Sorry, I didn't know he had gender dysphoria. I know what it is. I thought he was just complaining that he doesn't like the way he looks. I thought he was on-the-fence, and I didn't want him to do anything drastic without realizing the potential of his body as it is. My bad.[/QUOTE] oh look at me typing that big reply up.
[QUOTE=loopoo;35484448]Sorry, I didn't know he had gender dysphoria. I know what it is. I thought he was just complaining that he doesn't like the way he looks. I thought he was on-the-fence, and I didn't want him to do anything drastic without realizing the potential of his body as it is. My bad.[/QUOTE] As a rule of thumb you should refer to people as 'they' or other similar pronouns unless you know they identify as male or female. In other news, I think I should probably start doing 30-ish minute cardios every day, expecially since I heard that hormones lower your metabolism. I have a bit of bellyfat I wouldn't mind doing without.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35484625]i was going to do that but then i realized that maybe i should leave someone else to it. [/QUOTE] It's pretty much lesson #1 when entering this thread, somebody would've had to tell him.
Oops, I had no idea. Sorry, I just popped in this once and read this page, a bit silly of me. Sorry if I offended anyone! Anyways, I'm off. I doubt I'll check on this thread again, it was just a one time thing. All the best you guys, and I hope you end up being happy :)
[QUOTE=loopoo;35484325]Just because you're overweight doesn't mean you need to change gender. Trust me, working out can do a whole world of good. You just have to be committed. I've seen guys [I]drastically[/I] change over just one summer. Leaving school looking quite bad and coming back looking ridiculously good-looking! Just takes a level of commitment and discipline to change though, but if you want it bad enough, it shouldn't be difficult. Sign up to a gym that has swimming pool access, then just go swimming as well as doing some weight-lifting. You'll shed weight and gain muscle in no time and - I assure you - you'll be more than happy with the body you have :) [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] Or just do what I do and go jogging. Morning and evening. Great for getting yourself into a routine (staying up all night and sleeping all day is bad!).[/QUOTE] Over my life, I never seemed to care about anyone's gender. Tbh, I was gender blind. And I didn't give a damn about how I looked or anything. Now I'm seeing everything and stuff is piling on me all at once I'm seeing gender now, I'm starting to not recognize myself as a guy, and I no longer have an "I don't care" attitude about my looks. I do have gender dysphoria, and it sucks.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35484625]no, in fact that would make me the opposite of what i feel like and it would only serve to further my depression. i don't want to change gender just because i'm overweight [which, by technical terms, i'm apparently underweight], but rather because my body doesn't match what my brain thinks and feels like. essentially it's like a huge identity crisis. i'm slowly watching my body turn into the opposite of what i envisioned. instead, the cute, feminine face i visualize is becoming the square, manly monstrosity that is my face and my body, and it scares and depresses me a lot. nothing matches what i thought i would turn out like. nothing is happening the way i think it should have. i don't want to get muscles and be manly. i just feel like a girl inside. simple as that.[/QUOTE] i forgot to add the 'thinking' voice as you call it, the voice that i think in, doesn't match my sex. i imagine my voice as this one girl sounding one that i can't put a finger on. yet every time i open my mouth the opposite comes out. i was thinking about remembering some of this so i can say it to the doctor tomorrow when she inevitably asks me to talk about myself. [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] i'm still not diagnosed with gender dysphoria though, and i'm kinda worried they won't and i'll end up suffering because of it.
I just had a brilliant idea for losing weight. You know how celery takes more calories to digest than it has? Blender up celery until it's liquid and then drink said celery water and burn infinite calories in minutes.
[QUOTE=Rammlied;35485110]I just had a brilliant idea for losing weight. You know how celery takes more calories to digest than it has? Blender up celery until it's liquid and then drink said celery water and burn infinite calories in minutes.[/QUOTE] Digesting celery only uses up, like, 10 calories. So, have fun doing that 350 times to lose a pound :v:
Much easier then exerting energy :V
[QUOTE=Riodoku;35482951] The sex change is actually better if done pre-hormones. Estrogen will shrink the male genitals, and thus there is less material to work with.[/QUOTE] um not at all true actually. It doesn't shrink it, just tightens the skin and makes it MORE sensitive. Also estrogen promotes growth of vaginal tissue and they rub your new vagina with a coating of medicine that is similar to vaginal secreations that make your body think its a cisgirl vagina to promote the growth of it. And to even GET SRS you have to have been on hormones to "prove" your trans.
[QUOTE=Rammlied;35485110]I just had a brilliant idea for losing weight. You know how celery takes more calories to digest than it has? Blender up celery until it's liquid and then drink said celery water and burn infinite calories in minutes.[/QUOTE] It's better than my idea. My idea was always to cut off the legs in order to lose mass. It works, but not without problems of its own.
[QUOTE=Skelmech;35485221]um not at all true actually. It doesn't shrink it, just tightens the skin and makes it MORE sensitive. Also estrogen promotes growth of vaginal tissue and they rub your new vagina with a coating of medicine that is similar to vaginal secreations that make your body think its a cisgirl vagina to promote the growth of it. And to even GET SRS you have to have been on hormones to "prove" your trans.[/QUOTE] Hrm. This is not the information I was provided with by my therapist.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;35484207]I have an image in my head of how my face should be.[/QUOTE] Heck, I don't even have an image. I just look in the mirror and sometimes it takes a second to realize it is, in fact, me. My face doesn't feel like my own, but yet I don't know what I'm actually supposed to look like. I mean sure I know I'm supposed to look like a girl, but that's all I know. If I end up an ugly girl, that's what I was goddamn meant to be, and I'll deal with it like every other ugly girl. I guess time will tell, eh?
I don't have an image and I don't plan to. I don't like my face at all. I suspect that after I go through a year of hormones I won't look anything like I used to, similar to that beautiful image that was posted a long while ago of the guy who did drugs who went through hormones and had sexually attractive results.
[QUOTE=Zeldy;35479907]Oh god I love you girls so much. <3 Stay strong. (this message may or may not have been brought to you by effects of alcohol.)[/QUOTE] I don't even remember making this post. [QUOTE=Chickens!;35479933]You too :D At you don't somehow manage to slur your typing like SOME PEOPLE![/QUOTE] Because I really hate typos and type slower when I'm drunk to make sure I hit all the right keys. :C [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] Also my sister has been really nice to me ever since she came back from my parents' place. She told me she supported me, but I guess she had a lot of time to think about it while she was there.
[QUOTE=Inufin;35483424]Being an artificial girl just feels wrong. I don't want to crossdress because I just feel wrong doing it knowing that I am not a real girl. Fuck, I will never be able to give birth. It's just something that makes me so sad.[/QUOTE] That's always been a problem for me too. I kinda feel that if I went through with it, I'd just be lying to myself which is something I avoid doing. But at the same time I'd much rather be a girl. [QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;35484758]Over my life, I never seemed to care about anyone's gender. Tbh, I was gender blind. And I didn't give a damn about how I looked or anything. Now I'm seeing everything and stuff is piling on me all at once I'm seeing gender now, I'm starting to not recognize myself as a guy, and I no longer have an "I don't care" attitude about my looks.[/QUOTE] I was always like that too. I always felt I should be a girl for as long as I can remember but just never really put too much thought into it until after I joined FP and discovered the crossdressing thread in lifestyles. Been putting more thought into it lately since a good online friend of mine has recently come out as trans themselves.
[QUOTE=Onyx3173;35486653]That's always been a problem for me too. I kinda feel that if I went through with it, I'd just be lying to myself which is something I avoid doing. But at the same time I'd much rather be a girl. I was always like that too. I always felt I should be a girl for as long as I can remember but just never really put too much thought into it until after I joined FP and discovered the crossdressing thread in lifestyles. Been putting more thought into it lately since a good online friend of mine has recently come out as trans themselves.[/QUOTE] If you feel that it'll make you feel more comfortable with yourself then go for it. No point in lying to yourself.
its amazing how some people i know on here are coming out as trans. some of which i would have never guessed
I really prefer wearing women's clothing but I just can't stand only having pocket space for a set of keys, wallet and anything else has to be carried by hand. It's just so handy when my men's jeans can carry 4 soda cans if I feel like it. I guess it's a gimmick for women's clothing to force girls to buy handbags or something. oh well.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35486843]its amazing how some people i know on here are coming out as trans. some of which i would have never guessed[/QUOTE] In the words of Bob Dylan: ''They time they are a-changing.''
personally i cant wait to get a handbag. i've had my eye on this teal one at aeropostale for months [editline]8th April 2012[/editline] nevermind it's gone :suicide:
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