[B][I]OH FUCK.
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I just had a really fucking close call, my mom somehow got onto my old phone yesterday while I was at my boyfriend's, because she heard it ring from my boss calling me about stuff. Anyways she must have been looking at all of my apps and shit. She was in my email and text messages, and then she sent herself a copy of an email that my dad sent to me:
[t]http://i208.photobucket.com/albums/bb295/liopleurodonz/Mobile%20Uploads/Screenshot_2015-03-20-21-48-30_zps72omsf1n.png[/t]
Instead of just sending it to herself she sent it to EVERYONE IN THE CHAIN that it was "grounds for divorce", and some other emails were "federal investigation" and all that shit. Fucking fuck.
I'm so fucking glad she didn't actually answer my boss's call, or go into my work email, that shit would have gotten me fired. Even worse than that is that on that old phone I have a few hours worth of recordings of her going absolutely batshit insane, if she had seen that I think I would be dead or something. [B][I]Fucking hell![/I][/B]
Anyway just sent this to everyone she emailed because one of my aunts freaked out, except my dad, because they share an email. (I will tell him to lock her out of the email too.)
[QUOTE]Hey everyone, so sorry about that blank message. My mom somehow got onto my phone earlier yesterday when I was at my boyfriend's. (that is on my older cellphone.) She then proceeded to snoop through all of my old emails, sending ones that she thought were "evidence". I didn't notice that she did that until my phone connected to the neighbors internet and sent it, since I had my data off. All my stuff is passworded now though, I hope she doesn't do that again. She keeps doing weird things like this because she thinks we are interfering with her "federal investigation" into things like ATT and the neighbors.
Anyways, disregard that divorce part, my dad won't leave my mom, because she is sick. The best thing we can do right now is try and convince her somehow to see a therapist and a doctor. It will be tough because she will not listen to what me and my dad have been saying.
[/QUOTE]
I'm still shaking right now I have legit not been this scared in a while. God!
Trying to forge a falloutesque story in my head but trying to make it different... and failing miserably. Seriously, either my creativity is shit which I don't think(hope) it isn't or I'm not thinking far enough outside the box.
Friends who completely pretend you don't exist for weeks at a time.
Bonus points if you don't have the heart to stay mad at them when they finally come to, because you're just grateful that they're talking to you, and you NEVER feel it's appropriate to bring back up how upset you were before they messaged you.
Bonus points if you like them, but they really don't give a shit. It's not their fault, it's yours for having the feelings in the first place, but it's damn impossible to drop off the feelings you have for them when you're STUCK AT HOME ALL FUCKING DAY, meeting a grand total of 0 new people.
Bonus points if the reason you're stuck at home all day is because you don't have your damn license, and ALL THIS FUCKING SNOW is making your parents not want to take you out for driving practice.
BONUS FUCKING POINTS if you see OTHER PEOPLE getting their license with no effort at all, IN THE WINTER THAT KEPT YOU FROM GETTING YOURS.
I'm just a little fucking livid.
[QUOTE=GamerChick;47366215][B][I]OH FUCK.
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I just had a really fucking close call, my mom somehow got onto my old phone yesterday while I was at my boyfriend's, because she heard it ring from my boss calling me about stuff. Anyways she must have been looking at all of my apps and shit. She was in my email and text messages, and then she sent herself a copy of an email that my dad sent to me:
[t]http://i208.photobucket.com/albums/bb295/liopleurodonz/Mobile%20Uploads/Screenshot_2015-03-20-21-48-30_zps72omsf1n.png[/t]
Instead of just sending it to herself she sent it to EVERYONE IN THE CHAIN that it was "grounds for divorce", and some other emails were "federal investigation" and all that shit. Fucking fuck.
I'm so fucking glad she didn't actually answer my boss's call, or go into my work email, that shit would have gotten me fired. Even worse than that is that on that old phone I have a few hours worth of recordings of her going absolutely batshit insane, if she had seen that I think I would be dead or something. [B][I]Fucking hell![/I][/B]
Anyway just sent this to everyone she emailed because one of my aunts freaked out, except my dad, because they share an email. (I will tell him to lock her out of the email too.)
I'm still shaking right now I have legit not been this scared in a while. God![/QUOTE]
your crazy mom sounds actually impossible to live with idk how you can deal with this at all.
[QUOTE=fudge blood;47366416]your crazy mom sounds actually impossible to live with idk how you can deal with this at all.[/QUOTE]
Eh, lemme try to explain. Get ready for a long one.
This paranoid shit has been going on for at least 2 years, and it started after her brain surgery. She had/maybe still has [URL="http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000348.htm"]cushing's disease,[/URL] a rare pituitary thing, which basically gave her roid rage and made her violent and abusive and all sorts of fucked up shit I don't like to remember. Anyways she had the surgery back in 2010 or 11, and was fine and semi normal for like a year. Then for some reason, she seems to have developed this delusional paranoid personality disorder (which isn't schizophrenic) and some sort of PTSD (she has always had a form of that though because she was abused and adopted as a kid). I guess it's just because the disease she had before really fucked with her hormones and emotions to the point where it [I]permanently[/I] altered her personality during idk, the last 8 or so years. My dad and her doctors think that she was undiagnosed with the tumor for at least 20 years, the majority of which showed no symptoms until maybe the last 15. It's like she's a completely different person in her body. She needs drugs BAD.
Anyways on to the whole paranoid thing: at first it started with her being suspicious of people walking down the street. After that, the neighbors and city kinda fucked us over, and she was suspicious of them and the government. Then it REALLY hit the fan when she got in some hissy catfight with the neighbor and his partner, and then after that it's just gotten so bad. She first thought they were spying on us, which then devolved into some convoluted theories of hers about how everyone is looking at our stuff, and then very recently it's further devolved into everything is hacked, and everything is compromised, and nothing electronic can be trusted.
Honestly though, if she wasn't sick I would have ran off several years ago. That's the only reason I'm still in this house besides being broke. Because she's sick, and my dad needs me here, because honestly I'm scared she will give him a heart attack. This has been going on for as long as I can remember. I'm just so done.
I'm surprised my dad hasn't left her or beat her ass. At least he takes his marriage vows seriously, because otherwise my mom would be dead. I'm serious. Noone would hire someone like her. If she moved in with my aunt or grandma, they would get sick of her shit and kick her out. Then she would either end up on the streets or in prison. That's how it would go. I'm just glad my dad is a tough ass old marine, I doubt any other dude could deal with that shit.
I'm going to try to move out with my boyfriend or other family this summer but I don't want to be a burden on anyone. Especially not on my boyfriend, who is one of the few reasons left that I've been able to cope with this shit.
TLDR: Only way me or my dad can cope with it is because my mom has legit issues from a disease she had that developed into paranoia and with help from friends and shit.
Fuck, it hasn't even been a whole day since I last burst into tears.
What the fuck is going on...
[QUOTE=Paranoia10;47366570]Fuck, it's hasn't even been a whole day since I last burst into tears.
What the fuck is going on...[/QUOTE]
Same, I've been stressed as shit.
[U]Also, meant to add this to the other post:[/U]
She spends literally every waking hour researching fraud shit. She has no actual researching skills (she's stuck in the 70's when it comes to that shit), mind you, so when she looks something up on google, the fucking thing will pop up with 7239236 unrelated results, which she clicks on, thus showing her even more "fraud".[B] There's reams of papers in my house a mile high from her printing EVERYTHING.[/B] She takes pictures of everything on her tablet too, barcodes, qr codes, receipts, emails, buildings, streets, list goes on. [B][I]EVERYTHING IS FRAUD TO HER. EVERY. SINGLE. FUCKING. GODDAMN. THING. [/I][/B]
Prime example, today I was taking pictures of my fishtank for my school project, and I was looking to see if I had any old ones already on the camera. She had fucking[I] pictures OF[/I] a picture of [I]AN UNDERWEAR PACKAGE'S PLU CODE[/I] that she bought. Because the company is fake. In fact, right as I'm typing this, she is looking at some papers she printed and muttering to herself that [B]"THIS ISN'T REAL. THIS ADDRESS IS FAKE!"[/B] while taking pictures of our water bill. Which she thinks is also fraud because of late fees. [B][I]Because she has STOPPED PAYING BILLS ON TIME OR AT ALL.[/I][/B] Because she's nuts.
Another thing she has been doing recently is hunting for [I]'brick and mortars'[/I] or the actual headquarters or offices of businesses. She does this to either pay shit in person because the internet billing is stealing our identity, or asks to see their business licences, which have of course, all been "fake". If she did this in my own city ok whatever. But she drives 50 or 60 miles to do this shit. I looked at the mileage on the new car. She has put a good 5k miles on it, just in the last few months, no joke. She drives to shitty places like Torrance in RUSH HOUR TRAFFIC. I'm worried she will get in a car accident because she's a fucking huge nervous driver on the freeway, or get her ass shot for taking a picture at the wrong place or something. I've been taking money from her because holy shit she is wasting so much money on gas and fast food (because she rarely cooks now) and using it for my own gas to get the fuck away or buy food because our pantry is becoming understocked. I have no idea what bank account she is using, but she must be draining the everliving fuck out of it. My dad doesn't make that much either.
We then try and tell her she needs to see the doctor, to which she responds [B][I]"YOU ARE BAD. YOU ARE WRONG. YOU ARE DUMBSHITS. YOU ARE A BAD HUSBAND/DAUGHTER/WHATEVER. YOU DISRESPECT ME!!! YOU'RE AN ASS! I'M GETTING A DIVORCE!!!"[/I][/B]. Basically, she plays the victim and then gets into a roid rage occasionally, like when she still had the tumor. I think it might even be coming back, because last month she was physically threatening us. I think I posted about the whole hammer incident.
It goes on every day. From before I get up for work at 8 ish to 2 or 3am. There's no end to this. I can't do anything either unless she gets violent or something. In which case, she would be placed an a 72 hour hold, and since none of my family would take her after she gets released or she sweet talks her way out of there by saying we abused her, they would then seize my dad's legally owned guns because we have a [I]crazy psycho bitch[/I] living with us. (Even though they are in the safe, she has no key or codes for it THANK GOD.) If she ever raises a hand or hammer or whatever to me or my computer again though, it will need to be done. Because I am done.
I could go on with this shit. Feels good to get some of it out. I need sleep though.
I might be allergic to tattoo ink. As someone who was planning on getting full sleeves and a large chestpiece, this is fucking terrible
I can't really tell anyone I personally know this story because it's so humiliating. I was fired from my job that I loved because of a slight fuckup that snowballed into a nightmare.
Up untill yesterday I was working for a pizza place as a delivery driver, the area I worked in is a pretty popular spring break vacation area, so we get a lot of rowdy college kids as customers. It was an average night, I was delivering to a high-rise resort on the beach, the order was 2 large pizzas. I was doing pretty poorly on tips that night, getting stiffed a lot, over 6 hours of work I had made just over $40 in tips, partly due to traffic, partly due to people not tipping. Anyway, I get to the resort and get on the elevator, some college kid sees my delivery and offers me double the price for it, which I consider for a second before deciding to go ahead with it because I desperately needed the tip. Immediately afterward I call up the store to re-order for the original customer so they won't have to wait too long, I also call the customer and explain and apologize for the extra wait time. That's when the nightmare started.
When my co-worker realized what I did he told me it wasn't going to go down well with my manager (although other drivers hot-sell pizzas all the fucking time, a sale's a sale) and said he'd cover and say I accidentally dropped the pizzas as I was delivering them. This was a massive mistake, something that hadn't occurred to me was that I had now unwittingly cheated the company out of the entire total of the order because the order total was cleared from the cash I owed the store at the end of the night, I thought I'd still owe them for 2 ruined pizzas (roughly $20).
I get back to the store and my manager gets word of my "accident" and decides to investigate the matter, he's been a manager at this store for 15 years, I can see he's not buying it, the bullshit was practically visibly leaking. "[I]I mean...just clock out, cash out, and get out. Your last paycheck will be here next week.[/I]", when those words hit me I felt my stomach drop out of my asshole. So now all my co-workers see me as the lying stealing snake that everyone needs to be careful to avoid. Now I have to live with being fired on my record which makes finding work much more difficult.
[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;47366751]I might be allergic to tattoo ink. As someone who was planning on getting full sleeves and a large chestpiece, this is fucking terrible[/QUOTE]
It's just a oversensitivity reaction appearently, gonna get me some stuff for that and I should be good to get as much tats as I want
Had a date scheduled for the first time in months and got stood up.
Back to Warframe and MWO (and dishes) I guess...
my right hip hurts whenever i move it, impossible to roll over or get out of bed
Shit achievements in games. Ones that ask you to do stupid mind numbing things, ones that reward you for doing very simple things like starting the fucking game, and especially achievements that pop up at the weirdest, and most awful times.
Wow, that character just died. What a sad, tragic moment. All the moments they shined, and all.
[B]ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED BABYYYYYYY[/B]
I rarely post here, but I bear news about HunterNormandy.
He misses you people, here is our conversation.
[URL="http://pastebin.com/BcfSU9Dk"]http://pastebin.com/BcfSU9Dk[/URL]
Praise the sun!
he's even a sympathy hog beyond the grave
[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;47369273]Shit achievements in games. Ones that ask you to do stupid mind numbing things, ones that reward you for doing very simple things like starting the fucking game, and especially achievements that pop up at the weirdest, and most awful times.
Wow, that character just died. What a sad, tragic moment. All the moments they shined, and all.
[B]ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED BABYYYYYYY[/B][/QUOTE]
What I hate are achievements in multiplayer games because then every asshole goes out of their way to do them - often to the detriment of the game as a whole. It doesn't help that many of the achievements are for playing in completely stupid/unintended ways.
[QUOTE=Camper99;47369504]I rarely post here, but I bear news about HunterNormandy.
He misses you people, here is our conversation.
[URL]http://pastebin.com/BcfSU9Dk[/URL]
Praise the sun![/QUOTE]
[I]Depression Sucks: but... they banned me. outcasted me
[/I]
hahaha is this kid for real?
What, is Facepunch like some[I] ~~super secret society~~ [/I]of elite web users
haha holy fuck i cant
[QUOTE=Camper99;47369504]I rarely post here, but I bear news about HunterNormandy.
He misses you people, here is our conversation.
[URL="http://pastebin.com/BcfSU9Dk"]http://pastebin.com/BcfSU9Dk[/URL]
Praise the sun![/QUOTE]
Did he ever actually prove any of the things he said?
Also I would assume a person who would have been through so much would be more humble about what he asks for.
[QUOTE=Egon Spengler;47369730][I]Depression Sucks: but... they banned me. outcasted me
[/I]
hahaha is this kid for real?
What, is Facepunch like some[I] ~~super secret society~~ [/I]of elite web users
haha holy fuck i cant[/QUOTE]
It's not but if you suffer from depression it might get so bad, that you crave even the slightest feeling of being part of something or being accepted.
Having depression myself, I can't quite see the funny behind it but I sure hope I do by the time your life get's ruined, should that ever happen.
[QUOTE=gokiyono;47369749]Did he ever actually prove any of the things he said?
Also I would assume a person who would have been through so much would be more humble about what he asks for.[/QUOTE]
Well, seeing as most of the things are somewhat hard to prove, I'm not particularly sceptic about the lack of evidence.
On the other hand, he didn't ask me about any money, so I actually have no reason to not believe him.
But if you don't however, don't feel offended by me or something, I just think he actually DOES need help, even if it's just someone to talk to.
I'd feel bad for him if he weren't a complete liar.
Unless you have for definite 100% proof he's lying, then i wouldn't go calling him a liar. i'd just be extremely skeptical.
[editline]21st March 2015[/editline]
which is what I am, extremely skeptical.
[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;47369273]Shit achievements in games. Ones that ask you to do stupid mind numbing things, ones that reward you for doing very simple things like starting the fucking game, and especially achievements that pop up at the weirdest, and most awful times.
Wow, that character just died. What a sad, tragic moment. All the moments they shined, and all.
[B]ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED BABYYYYYYY[/B][/QUOTE]
Achievements you can only get by getting another of the creators games.
[QUOTE=CaptainHijacks;47369810]Achievements you can only get by getting another of the creators games.[/QUOTE]
What game has that?
-nop, that wasn't it-
[QUOTE=bdd458;47369816]What game has that?[/QUOTE]
Dungeon of the Endless has 2 or 3 achievements you can only get by buying the Emperor Pack of another of their games called "Endless Legend" on 40 EUR. (43 USD to you)
[QUOTE=CaptainHijacks;47369835]Dungeon of the Endless has 2 or 3 achievements you can only get by buying the Emperor Pack of another of their games called "Endless Legend" on 40 EUR. (43 USD to you)[/QUOTE]
It's like inb4reset on Red Orchestra 2, everyone who didn't play the broken launch can't 100% the game.
I had all these friends on this social media site (almsot a dating site. [I]almost[/I]) and now none of them talk to me. Every new friend I make talks to me for about an hour then never responds again.
What the fuck?
[QUOTE=Camper99;47369775]Well, seeing as most of the things are somewhat hard to prove, I'm not particularly sceptic about the lack of evidence.
On the other hand, he didn't ask me about any money, so I actually have no reason to not believe him.
But if you don't however, don't feel offended by me or something, I just think he actually DOES need help, even if it's just someone to talk to.[/QUOTE]
Well yeah some of it, though I recall that he heard gunshots from time to time. While minor is still something that would be provable. He could probably also prove having been dead with a receipt (or something similar.)
I also kinda find it strange that he haven't posted in the Refugee camp when he really wants to go back.
I have a feeling the mods wouldn't reverse his ban anyway, so it would probably be moot.
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