• Shit That Gets You Mad v20: First World Problems
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[QUOTE=BigBadWilly;46943007]When I'm on Facebook for hours & hours and I go off of it for a bit so that it frees up more ram/cpu on my computer and so when am done playing some games and shit I come back and I noticed someone messaged me literally a few mins after I went off Facebook, It's happened way to much with different people and it's starting to piss me the fuck off. also this GF has been extremely busy lately due to school/work and such I haven't seen her in over 3+ weeks... I've been finding out lately that she has been hanging out with a guys/girls and I'm wondering as to why she hasn't thought of seeing me? Like we haven't seen each other in 3+ weeks and due to her being busy we don't always get to talk on FB but I always send her messages once in a while asking her how her day is and shit so when shes free she could response but some days I can go without getting a message from her for a day or two. I'm honestly wondering as to what I should do in this situation like should I confront her about this ? I've confronted her about it before but she just got pissed at me a bit and says that I don't understand how stressed she is etc, I honestly don't know what to do anymore.[/QUOTE] Hey bud, I'm personally dealing with similar situation that I can relate, all I can say is let her relax buddy, if she's staying away from you right now it may just be due to her feeling a bit constrained? I don't know you personally, but maybe she just needs to relax as you mentioned she's stressed. Best thing to do, focus on yourself, make sure you're getting that money/grades whatever it is you're doing. I appreciate it is hard to bite your tongue when you feel like you're being mis-treated but girls are emotional creatures and she will be just as aware of the time she's spending away from you as you are, let her relax, let her do whatever it is she's focusing on, and just be there for when she wants you, and when you are with her, remind her that you're there to escape the stresses of life you're not there to add to her plate :) I hope this information is relevant to you buddy.
[QUOTE=SpaceLink;46943068]Hey bud, I'm personally dealing with similar situation that I can relate, all I can say is let her relax buddy, if she's staying away from you right now it may just be due to her feeling a bit constrained? I don't know you personally, but maybe she just needs to relax as you mentioned she's stressed. Best thing to do, focus on yourself, make sure you're getting that money/grades whatever it is you're doing. I appreciate it is hard to bite your tongue when you feel like you're being mis-treated but girls are emotional creatures and she will be just as aware of the time she's spending away from you as you are, let her relax, let her do whatever it is she's focusing on, and just be there for when she wants you, and when you are with her, remind her that you're there to escape the stresses of life you're not there to add to her plate :) I hope this information is relevant to you buddy.[/QUOTE] Thanks, Does help a bit, Just seems odd that she wouldn't make time to perhaps talk or even hang when shes out hanging with friends/other guys more then her own BF? like I didn't want to put the actual amount of time we haven't seen each other since others would doubt it but I haven't seen her since the start of November so its been quite a bit of time.... I understand girls can be quite an emotional bunch/hard to understand at times but I've known her since 4th grade, I know just about everything about her. I've known her for the total of 8-9 years and for 2 of those we were distant. We both liked each other back in 4th grade but she moved away so we didn't date and then we had that 2 years distant, after those years I've seen her date other men and help her when she needed someone or when she broke up with those men because they cheated/betrayed her, Basically I was the perfect gentlemen helping her through the years and yet got ignored but then last year we were able to date but in a way it seems like we're not dating due to how much I don't get to see her / lack of communication, She has had a tough life like I have and we have alot in common and when we do hang we both have a great time it's just, I don't know if am being played or what.... I understand she is a busy lady and everything and that she is stressed about work/school but does that honestly warrant for her to push me away and in a sense forget about me and hang with other people?
[QUOTE=BigBadWilly;46943797]Thanks, Does help a bit, Just seems odd that she wouldn't make time to perhaps talk or even hang when shes out hanging with friends/other guys more then her own BF? like I didn't want to put the actual amount of time we haven't seen each other since others would doubt it but I haven't seen her since the start of November so its been quite a bit of time.... I understand girls can be quite an emotional bunch/hard to understand at times but I've known her since 4th grade, I know just about everything about her. I've known her for the total of 8-9 years and for 2 of those we were distant. We both liked each other back in 4th grade but she moved away so we didn't date and then we had that 2 years distant, after those years I've seen her date other men and help her when she needed someone or when she broke up with those men because they cheated/betrayed her, Basically I was the perfect gentlemen helping her through the years and yet got ignored but then last year we were able to date but in a way it seems like we're not dating due to how much I don't get to see her / lack of communication, She has had a tough life like I have and we have alot in common and when we do hang we both have a great time it's just, I don't know if am being played or what.... I understand she is a busy lady and everything and that she is stressed about work/school but does that honestly warrant for her to push me away and in a sense forget about me and hang with other people?[/QUOTE] I feel you buddy I really do, as I said I'm in a... similar position, and I've yet to overcome this issue so you can take my advice however you like, I recommend just backing off a bit, show to her that you're feeling the distance between you two, again, I don't know you very well but maybe just going for a day or two without attempting to contact her, watch how much effort she makes, even if it takes a few days, she will see the distance. Most importantly, when she does make contact with you, don't raise the issue of not speaking with her in a while. Let her feel like you are relaxed and you are focusing on yourself. This will come off better than her feeling like she needs a list of excuses/reasons as to why she hasn't been seeing you. Nothing hurts more than to feel like you're giving someone everything and they give you nothing, find something to take your mind off it, I dont just mean play games either I mean find something you can have a bit of fire and passion for? As I said, take the advice how you like... I feel like my girl is just a bit of a crazy one. So in your case it may be that you can simply find the right words and talk to her? Should you decide to, try not to over-think things and end up creating bigger problems than there is, find the right words and the right moment. Whatever happens buddy keep your mind clear.
this "gender" thing that going on recently for a couple of years is really rattling my gears
Course description for class says "Programming in Java" first thing teacher says is will be a mix of Python and Scratch (the drag and drop shit) Already 60% in the course and it has been entirely Scratch Ididntsignupforthis
[QUOTE=mastfire;46944102]this "gender" thing that going on recently for a couple of years is really rattling my gears[/QUOTE] Assuming you're talking about Otherkin, the people who call themselves Wolfkin or something, then I agree. But trans people and even nonbinary people are far from just a crazy internet fad. We've been around for a while, just you'd get fucking murdered if you spoke up about it more then a decade or two ago (and it's still really likely to get murdered as a trans person).
My parents seized 90% of my paycheck this month. I worked throughout all of the christmas holidays and new years so I could have a fair chunk of cash to deposit into my savings and then still have some left to spend. From £840 to £75 in less than a day.
[QUOTE=FlyingDog;46945227]My parents seized 90% of my paycheck this month. I worked throughout all of the christmas holidays and new years so I could have a fair chunk of cash to deposit into my savings and then still have some left to spend. From £840 to £75 in less than a day.[/QUOTE] For what reason? Pretty sure they don't have the right to do such a thing.
[QUOTE=_Axel;46945233]For what reason? Pretty sure they don't have the right to do such a thing.[/QUOTE] I live at home, and they're spending a huge amount of money renovating the basement into an apartment so my sister can move in. Because I live at home they're of the impression that anything I earn is theirs to take. It's not like they TOOK it, but if I decline their "requests" they make it very clear that they think I'm a selfish little bastard and threaten to kick me out.
[img]http://s3.postimg.org/3miin9a8j/wtf.jpg[/img] How can people be this stupid? Dear god I mean the general idea of "people who drive automatics are stupid" is fucking idiotic. How can people think like this? Also, another thing that pisses me off is how anti-religious people are on Vsauce, Veritasium or MinutePhysics videos. All someone has to do is mention "god" and people have a shitfest over it. I'm not even religious but even I can't understand why people are so aggressive over religion.
Not enjoying handjobs is obviously an unpopular opinion of mine, but I'll try and justify it. I'm not really amazed by a girl touching my dick? And most of the girls I've been with haven't very good at it which doesn't help, foreplay wise I way prefer head Sue me
I am without a job and I live with my mother. I pay her a little more than 600 USD a month as I get to do my laundry, eat, internet connection, water, electricity and all that. I also help out around the house and pay from my pocket when things break, even if I do not break them. Such as cleaning, vacuuming, dishes and sometimes cooking which I'm horrible at. My sister approaching her 30s has a job (gets over 2500 USD a month before taxes) and pays 350USD to live here and together with her boyfriend (until recently when he left her). She does absolutely nothing and wouldn't spend a cent more on the house than her rent. She also decided to buy a dog a couple years back which she completely stopped caring for as soon as it stopped being a puppy. It doesn't get food, water or walked if me and my mother are not around to take care of it for her. She also gets the room which has it's very own bathroom. Am I alone in thinking something is slightly unfair with this setup? Of course, if I was to complain about any of this to my sister she would just scream that I am being sexist or some shit that's both untrue and irrelevant to the situation.
[QUOTE=mastfire;46944102]this "gender" thing that going on recently for a couple of years is really rattling my gears[/QUOTE] what gets on my nerves is how people think "Xe" is good for a genderless pronoun. like, that aLREADY EXIStS in the form of their/their's, it's not hard.
[QUOTE=Slimmy;46946303]what gets on my nerves is how people think "Xe" is good for a genderless pronoun. like, that aLREADY EXIStS in the form of their/their's, it's not hard.[/QUOTE] Aye, that's something I'm annoyed with Swedes these days. They insist on saying "HEN" instead of "de/dem" which already exists. Hen is not a word and it just sounds like a very poor attempt at an insult. I'm very male but I'd rather you call me "her" than you call me a god damn hen.
My school has a 21 day policy. Pretty much, if you miss 21 days of school due to excused or unexcused absences, you fail your current year automatically. It's designed to stop seniors from signing themselves out or skipping. The thing is though that if you go on a field trip, you automatically get a day counted. This becomes a huge problem when the school offers multiple trips to France, Spain, Mexico, etc. You have to choose between going on the trips or possibly failing. Now how this relates to me is that they [I]technically[/I] don't count religious holidays, in actuality they do. I missed a lot of days because of Rosh Hashana, Sukkot, and other Jewish holidays. When I checked with the office, they told me that I had 10 days gone and if I missed one more day, I would fail all of my first semester classes. So I arranged for a meeting with some person who was in charge of the system to ask him to fix my record. He told me that he wouldn't be able to because the other Jews in my high school didn't take those days off. I'm Orthodox while the vast majority of Jews at my school are either reform, conservative, or ethnic Jews. When I pointed out the difference between holidays that Orthodox and Reform Jews celebrate, he insisted that he wouldn't be able to fix it. So I left. Now I'm really sick and am forced to be in school by this policy. It really sucks.
Ugh. Gotta work at the orange store today. ALL DAY. LIFTING SHIT THAT WE ALREADY LIFTED BECAUSE OH NO ONE NITPICKY THING IS WRONG. It's also freaking 9:30 to at least 6. OF NOTHING BUT LIFTING SHIT. And only 10 minute breaks. On top of that lunch is an hour so they don't have to pay us, and after that all the managers are really fucking bitchy. This sucks. I've worked every day this week with full shifts, and I'm exhausted. I went to bed at 8:30 last night and could still barely get out of bed. I'm also pretty pissed because I might have to stay past 7, since the store is supposed to actually have a soft opening tomorrow. AND GOD FORBID IF ONE STUPID TEAPOT IS IN THE WRONG PLACE. FUCK PUTTING STORES TOGETHER. Worst part is that they are also opening ANOTHER fucking store in Westminster, no way in fuck I'm doing this again plus thats like 10 miles from me. This also ruins plans with my boyfriend, I might not even be able to see him tonight either because there's still no fucking schedule for tomorrow. I don't wanna go. GAH!
There's a person in my class that embodies the "PC gaming is the masterrace and consoles are plebs" kind of mindset. It's annoying to hear [editline]16th January 2015[/editline] And I fucking lost to Nicolas Cage again today [editline]16th January 2015[/editline] I swear that before third year I will turn into [URL="http://imgur.com/V568p99"]this guy[/URL] and get pissed about other peoples sense of comedy
[QUOTE=Episode;46945278][img]http://s3.postimg.org/3miin9a8j/wtf.jpg[/img] How can people be this stupid? Dear god I mean the general idea of "people who drive automatics are stupid" is fucking idiotic. How can people think like this?[/QUOTE] You're completely missing the point, if you don't drive stick you still get a normal license that allows you to drive any car, including manual It basically means you get a license for driving cars you can't properly operate, which is a bad idea Meanwhile if you drive stick, that means you can driver almost anything
[t]http://puu.sh/eBrDB/853a1d9932.png[/t] Man I love myself a hot Toys R Us meme in the morning [sp]come on now[/sp]
The free game you get for preordering GTA V from Rockstar directly doesn't use a steam key. (I also don't know if GTA V will be for Steam and it's worrying me) [QUOTE=FlakTheMighty;46947227]You don't get a key for the game you choose, I know that. I just preordered and it gave me a download manager for Max Payne 3 that downloads over HTTP. [img]http://i.imgur.com/wEXXBNE.png[/img] [img]http://i.imgur.com/1tn3gPx.png[/img][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FlakTheMighty;46949293]The free game you get for preordering GTA V from Rockstar directly doesn't use a steam key. (I also don't know if GTA V will be for Steam and it's worrying me)[/QUOTE] I'm going to be honest with you, I don't think it will be. I forgot what site it was, but there was one that was selling it as a Steam key, and they found out all they had were retail CD keys you'd need a boxed copy to use.
That's really disappointing.
I'm hungry but I get my shopping tomorrow Number one first world problem here
I don't know why I go on Facebook, I just see more depressing shit [editline]16th January 2015[/editline] Also, FedEx tracking estimated I get my package in like 5 days from now, but the last location that it was checked at is about an hour away from me If I don't get that package tomorrow I'm going to be awfully upset
It'd be nice if people on steam set their status to busy BEFORE you message them, not TWO SECONDS AFTER you send them a message.
A lot of people probably say this, but it pisses me off to no end when I see those "save these poor defenseless abused animals :(" commercials. I agree that it is bad and we should help it stop, but do you see anything about all of the defenseless, poor, starving, beaten children around the world? I dont mean to sound like an ass, but you dont see those commercials about helping starving kids anymore. It sickens me to no end that there are people who would choose to save the cats and dogs instead of a kid. /rant
When people smoke upwind from you. Or to top that, they flick their butt downwind, and then a gust of wind blows it into your car onto your leg.
Happy/mad but I have a [I]really[/I] important day tomorrow and I'm excited as fuck but because I'm so excited I'm like ultra awake and have no sleeping aid, and I have to be up pretty early
My cat sneezed and a booger fell on my pc mouse
On steam I have about 230+ hours recorded on a game (way more than it's possible I could have played) and support can't do anything to change that.
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