[QUOTE=worm;21896634]And having a dad is a bad thing? I would kill for a chance to have a father, even for a day. People take too much shit for granted.[/QUOTE]
Indeed, I lost my father due to a heart condition, I would do anything to get him back. OP, you should take advantage to the fact that you have a father and let him know how you feel.
Get a job
Stop playing on the computer all the time, spend time with him.
[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;21926851]That's only because he cares about you.
If he didn't care about you he'd let you do whatever you'd like.
"Go do whatever the fuck you want."
Even though he smokes, he tells you not to smoke because he knows it's bad, It's hard to stop smoking after you've started.
He's yelling at you for not getting high marks because he wants you to be able to live a better life than him.[/QUOTE]
Nothing he'll ever do will satisfy his dad.
His dad thinks he is doing a great job at parenting, while in reality he is destroying that kid, seriously crippling his social skills, and puts him in the depression.
That's no great parenting there. Stop praising his father.
Just because he is a father it doesn't mean he is a good one.
[QUOTE=Parakon;21896377]My dad was a depressed mess after the divorce, but then he got a woman, a fast car and a mustache so now he's a happy, funny generally a guy you want to be around, it's never too late for it to turn around OP.[/QUOTE]
lucky bastard.........
i always wanted a mustache.
Best I can say is leave him alone. You will only drive your relationship apart if you keep upsetting him. Move out, get your own job, stop accepting help from him all together, that way you don't seem like a leech. Flipping you off is a good indication he doesn't really want to talk. Maybe he really don't want you around anymore. Some guys are like that, some people just don't want kids.
My dad is a crack cocaine addict who lives on the streets, and commits petty theft to keep a menial amount of food in his stomach. 10 years after being a self made man with a happy family, and shit tons of income. Stop bitching.
My dad is the total oposite he's happy if I get like a 65on my math exam but he doesn't get me stuff he probably does this so I don't make the same mistakes as him in life
ohh ya sorry about my spelling iam on an iPod touch
BOOHOO MY DADDY HATES ME BECAUES HE SAIS HE ONLY LOOK OUT FOR MY OWN WELL BEING AND HE FLIPPED ME OFF WHEN I ASKED HIM TO BUY ME SOME STEAM GAMES CUZ I EQUAL TO NOTHING MORE THAN SHIT. BAWWWWW
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Hell, I don't blame him. [I]I[/I] don't even like you.
Optimism mah boy.
Tell him you love him while you still can, he probably thinks you hate him and blames himself for it. Let him know you still care.
What are you crying about? He's the worst dad ever, yet he gives you the credit card to go buy video games. You clearly say you like your mother better because he "smacked you once when you were a kid" what kind of bullshit is that? You deserve it. Quit your bitchin. Move the fuck out.
[QUOTE=Vonderdurp;21897151]
My bet is that he's having trouble dealing with the whole, boy-father power struggle that goes on when you're our age. Unless your dad is sensitive (Doesn't sound it), you won't be able to connect with him on that level. Bluntly you'll just have to go with the flow until you're able to move out.[/QUOTE]
This is 100% true, it's pretty much what happened with my dad and I.
At least you can gauge some sort of connection with your dad :/
[QUOTE=Silly Sil;21928191]Nothing he'll ever do will satisfy his dad.
His dad thinks he is doing a great job at parenting, while in reality he is destroying that kid, seriously crippling his social skills, and puts him in the depression.
That's no great parenting there. Stop praising his father.
Just because he is a father it doesn't mean he is a good one.[/QUOTE]
I didn't praise him
I'm telling OP he does care for him.
Dad's giving you the finger?
Put a ring on it!
[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;21939849]I didn't praise him
I'm telling OP he does care for him.[/QUOTE]
A mother that doesn't ever let her daughter out of the house for 20 years cares about her too, just in a wrong way. Fucking up her psyche beyond repair in the process of caring.
Just because someone is a father it doesn't mean he's a good one.
Just because someone cares it doesn't mean he takes good, healthy care of someone.
Seriously people what is up with you? Everyone is giving this boy shit. It's bad parenting, why are you blaming this kid?
Also arguments like "at least you have dad" or "my/someone else's dad is worse, stop complaining" is complete bullshit. It's like saying "at least you still have hands, stop complaining you ungrateful shit" to someone who just lost eyes and both his legs in an accident. It's fucked up either way. You could tell OP to stop complaining if his dad was actually a good father.
By the way this is not some petty shit. Continuous psychological stress like this can have serious consequences.
How old is your dad and does he looking to get a girlfriend / wife again?
That could be it if he got dumped recently.
Or else you should start to apriciate him more for other stuff than his money, if he in a way should think you only like home for that.
Talk to him.
IF he tries to talk to you, act nice, if he gets pissed of at you, act nice. But try your best to avoid him, he is probably very sad.
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