• My girlfriend and I both want to be the opposite sex
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This has been said before, but you will most likely regret it afterwards
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29946223]Isn't that the same as most other ways we view ourselves? Any view point can change, some just take more to change than others.[/QUOTE] And what if it doesn't change? Then what, should they spend their whole life trying to make themselves want to be the way they are? Science has offered a better alternative; being the way they want to be. [editline]20th May 2011[/editline] There are definitely situations where the person is being irrational and should get over it, but there are also situations where a person will never genuinely be happy as their current sex.
[QUOTE=_Twitch_;29946335] but there are also situations where a person will never genuinely be happy as their current sex.[/QUOTE] They should grow a sack and get over it. [editline]20th May 2011[/editline] Figuratively not literately before you point that out.
[QUOTE=FlapadarV2;29946492]They should grow a sack and get over it. [editline]20th May 2011[/editline] Figuratively not literately before you point that out.[/QUOTE] It's not that simple.
I wouldn't change from male sex even just for the ability to piss standing. I know women can too, but they normally don't because they can't control it like we can
[QUOTE=The Pretender;29940784]How about you just live your life the way you are and learn to deal with it.[/QUOTE] Why?
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29945081]I disagree to be honest, I feel it is much the same as any other mental state of mind.[/QUOTE] perhaps you should go and do some actual research instead of playing amateur psychologist like 95% of facepunch likes to do. there are both biological reasons and deep-seated psychological reasons for wanting to change your sex that have nothing to do with 'hurp it's a state of mind get over it'. do you think schizophrenics should just 'deal with it, it's a state of mind'?
[QUOTE=Laserbeams;29946329]This has been said before, but you will most likely regret it afterwards[/QUOTE] What do you base this on?
Swap Identities.
[QUOTE=sp00ks;29946684]Why?[/QUOTE] Because blacks should just live their life and learn to deal with the racism [editline]20th May 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=sp00ks;29946684]Why?[/QUOTE] Because blacks should just live their life and learn to deal with the racism
[QUOTE=Mr Slashy;29946277]Nothin worse than people who can't get the fuck over what they are. Man up and deal with it.[/QUOTE] Spoken like a true asshole. Why should he "man up and deal with it"? What does anyone gain from him not doing what would make him happy?
Internet Options -> Never store history -> no parents watching history.
can't you just be who you are?
[QUOTE=Staneh;29946730]Internet Options -> Never store history -> no parents watching history.[/QUOTE] What?
[QUOTE=Artistic;29940659]my parents think they "caught" me looking at porn a few weeks ago. (they checked my history and managed to find the rule 34 thread a couple of times) [/QUOTE]
I'm friends with a ftm and mtf trans, and they're both amazing people. The mtf trans is getting it done for free on the NHS, but it's a long process you have to live as a women for like 3 years untill they'll do the surgery. I hope it works out for you both, there's way too much transphobia even in the LGBT scene.
Are there any kind of LGBT support centers near you? The people there will be able to give the both of you a ton of support if you ask. [QUOTE=dumbfox;29947100]I'm friends with a ftm and mtf trans, and they're both amazing people. The mtf trans is getting it done for free on the NHS, but it's a long process you have to live as a women for like 3 years untill they'll do the surgery. I hope it works out for you both, there's way too much transphobia even in the LGBT scene.[/QUOTE] It's one year of living as a woman in the U.S. Though I don't know what country the OP resides in.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;29947158]Are there any kind of LGBT support centers near you? The people there will be able to give the both of you a ton of support if you ask. [/QUOTE] This LGBT support centers were of great help to me, that and they are free and are a good place to meet other people.
stay the way you are, you should fuck dudes and she should do some lesbian lovin', cause that's basically what its about
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29946223]Isn't that the same as most other ways we view ourselves? Any view point can change, some just take more to change than others.[/QUOTE] Now that's overly optimistic. Your "mind" isn't above the influence of the body, it's often the body that directs your mind, especially when it comes to subconscious drives and instinct and the sexual drive is probably one of the most powerful one. You can't just wake up and say "Alright, starting today, I'll only feel sexually attracted to trash cans" and then force yourself. That's just not how the brain works. There are different compartments, some over which you have usually control. But even if you can move your legs and arms freely, there are reflexes that can make you spaz out and override any conscious commands. This is even "deeper" than simple reflexes like yawning which you can counteract (but not eradicate) if you put your mind to it. Sexuality is probably as close as you get to the root of instincts, your brain and body gets completely drugged by hormones there. Ever heard of people that felt dirty or like they did something wrong shortly after finishing their wank? That's the "brainwashing" wearing off and the consciousness "takes control" again. Really, we're not anime hero cutouts that just have to scream angrily and use willpower to overcome any obstacle presented.
this sums up the whole thread. [img]http://img163.imageshack.us/img163/1628/swapfor.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=MrParalegal;29947467]stay the way you are, you should fuck dudes and she should do some lesbian lovin', cause that's basically what its about[/QUOTE] So you're saying Transexuals are just gay but don't want to admit it?
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;29947558]So you're saying Transexuals are just gay but don't want to admit it?[/QUOTE] yes
[QUOTE=MrParalegal;29947579]yes[/QUOTE] youre dumbe
[QUOTE=MrParalegal;29947579]yes[/QUOTE] Sufficed to say, that's incredibly dumb. I know a few Transexual people, it's not like that at all.
[QUOTE=Testabar;29947512]this sums up the whole thread. [img_thumb]http://img163.imageshack.us/img163/1628/swapfor.jpg[/img_thumb][/QUOTE] It does in no way sum up the whole thread.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;29947627]Sufficed to say, that's incredibly dumb. I know a few Transexual people, it's not like that at all.[/QUOTE] they're still gay in my opinion
God made you perfect. If you go against God's wishes than you won't ascend tomorrow.
[QUOTE=MrParalegal;29947664]they're still gay in my opinion[/QUOTE] It's not really a matter of opinion. The whole matter of Transgender revolves around the idea that you feel like you should be the other sex, regardless of whether or not you actually want to fuck dudes if you're becoming a woman.
what are you doing asking facepunch this really ask a forum that isn't full of bigots and batshit christians
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