• Well Facepunch, I've next to hit rock bottom. What do I do?
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[QUOTE=Shostakovich;29862496]If you were a smart "evil bitch", would you want to say to the police officer who comes to the home "Fuck you Officer Shitcake!" or "Hello, how may I help you today?" Archonet, does your mother have thyroid problems or doctor-diagnosed mental health issues? (Or takes medication for anything that is known to cause severe mood swings and/or changes in behavior?)[/QUOTE] I have no idea, I'm not really involved in her health. All I know is she smokes, doesn't drink a lot (We have a bottle of Seagrams at the back of the fridge and some other things, but I've never actually seen her drink one, nor do they seem to be ever moved) and is moody as fuck. One minute she can be somewhat pleasant to be around, the next, she can be one of the most cruel people you can be around.
[QUOTE=turkeysandvich;29863556]You need to be patient with her. Just do what she tells you to, spend more time with her, watch TV with her, talk with her, eat lunch on the same table. Even if she's a huge cunt she's still your mother, deep inside that rotten heart of hers is still a loving and caring mother. Trust me on this. Just do as she says and spend less time on the PC and spend more time with her. Hope this helps![/QUOTE] If she's beating him and threatening to cull his online life, I doubt that she would be a nice person to be around. You also can't assume that she is still a loving person deep down. Some people in the world are just...assholes.
Go to the fucking police.
My girlfriends mom is just like op, except her mom became utterly evil when my gf's dad died in Iraq... My gf hasn't figured it out, but im pretty sure I understand why her mom is a bitch to her and only her, out of her four kids: she was her dads favorite, and therefore the main target of her mom to take her anger and stress.
Can you see any kind of pattern when she goes from good to bad? Even if it's something small, is there anything that happens, or could be happening, to cause her to go into her bad mood swings?
Op I'm being serious here: a man, even in your early teens should be able to over power her. I'm never for hurting a woman but she is far below woman standards if she beats her kid. Op, when she hurts you, grab the nearest thing and hit her as bard as you physically can.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;29863637]Op I'm being serious here: a man, even in your early teens should be able to over power her. I'm never for hurting a woman but she is far below woman standards if she beats her kid. Op, when she hurts you, grab the nearest thing and hit her as bard as you physically can.[/QUOTE] Then he gets blamed.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;29863637]Op I'm being serious here: a man, even in your early teens should be able to over power her. I'm never for hurting a woman but she is far below woman standards if she beats her kid. Op, when she hurts you, grab the nearest thing and hit her as bard as you physically can.[/QUOTE] That will only make him look worse.
[QUOTE=Dubious George;29863492]What about your neighbors? Do you know any of them well enough to help you?[/QUOTE] Well, the people diagnol left and to our right have only recently moved in, so no. Across the street is some of those angsty pricks I was talking about. But to our left are some nice people, but I don't know what they could do. They'd still either call Child Services like I did or call the police, who would call child services again. So since Child services won't help, and the police won't help, I'm pretty much out of options for doing anything against her. What I'd like is some way to continue being able to see my friends and possibly make the next four years or so less of a living nightmare.
- listen to stan by eminem and not afraid those always help maybe try to talk to ur neighbour
Wait until the next time she beats you, or until she does enough damage to leave marks\bruises. Then, leave the house and physically go to your nearest Police Department or Medical Wellness center (a hospital would work perfectly) and tell the first adult you see that your mother's been beating you. If you can start crying, which shouldn't be too hard if what you say is true, they're going to help you.
if nobody is willing to help you, I'd say get the fuck out of there, I realise it's probably not easy to survive on your own, but like all the other hobos you'd probably get used to it.
[QUOTE=Wyvers;29863623]Can you see any kind of pattern when she goes from good to bad? Even if it's something small, is there anything that happens, or could be happening, to cause her to go into her bad mood swings?[/QUOTE] What usually happens is she says something about how I'm lazy, useless(Spontaneously, mind you, even if I'm not even talking to her she will still just say something because I'll hear it), or something like that, I fire back a comment, and then all holy hell breaks loose, if not physical, its a shouting match.
I recommend talking to your neighbour anyway. Even if they can't do anything more than you've already tried, at least that is someone nearby that knows your problem, and will (most likely) be on your side. Make sure you don't get caught though, that could make matters worse.
[QUOTE=Archonet;29863736]Well, the people diagnol left and to our right have only recently moved in, so no. Across the street is some of those angsty pricks I was talking about. But to our left are some nice people, but I don't know what they could do. They'd still either call Child Services like I did or call the police, who would call child services again. So since Child services won't help, and the police won't help, I'm pretty much out of options for doing anything against her. What I'd like is some way to continue being able to see my friends and possibly make the next four years or so less of a living nightmare.[/QUOTE] sorry if this has been suggested but you could film your mother beating you and then give it to the police I believe they will charge her with abuse and the good tax payers of America will send you a cheque so you can live on your own while she's in jail (or they'll send you to a foster home which means new friends)
[QUOTE=Psygo;29863780]if nobody is willing to help you, I'd say get the fuck out of there, I realise it's probably not easy to survive on your own, but like all the other hobos you'd probably get used to it.[/QUOTE] I'd rather not sleep in the streets, thanks. In addition I'm deathly afraid of bugs, and living in a place where they'd be [i]EVERYWHERE...[/i] I'd rather not think about.
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