My relationship with my parents is fucked now because of Marijuana.
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About 6 months ago I started smoking weed. My parents didn't notice at first, I waited until they slept to smoke.
One night I got really baked and I forgot to put my bong away, they found it in the morning. My mom cried, she gave the whole "Why are you doing this" talk. Soon enough, I bought some cigarettes from my friend to make into joints because I was terrible at rolling. My parents found the cigarettes, ironically, my dad buys the same kind. So, my mom being predjudice, thought I stole them. She called my Dad and he belived my mom (My dad doesn't know I smoke weed). So, now I feel like I can't see my Dad anymore because I don't want him to know I smoke weed.
I'm crying as I type this, guys. I feel like this is a dream, I just want to wake up and have my parents trust me and love me to the extent they used to 6 moths ago. :smith:
Sounds more like, "My relationship with my parents is fucked now because of my parents".
Tell her that it helps you focus more on things. If your in school and not doing good, or if you already have good grades, just tell them weed is why you're doing good.
[QUOTE=Dougz;28792551]Tell her that it helps you focus more on things. If your in school and not doing good, or if you already have good grades, just tell them weed is why you're doing good.[/QUOTE]
The thing is, both my parents smoke weed. They know it makes you lazy.
I also get shit grades in school.
Tell them there's nothing wrong with smoking weed anyway.
[QUOTE=Acrono;28792604]Tell them there's nothing wrong with smoking weed anyway.[/QUOTE]
I've tried all the methods in the book, man.
"You're too young to start a habit like that, I'm an adult, you're a child"
Also, there are some problems with weed, its not an uberplant with no negative effects. For me, daily smoking makes me very lazy, even when sober.
How old are you? I always thought parents who smoke weed would have no problem with their teenager smoking weed as long as it doesn't affect grades or such, I know I would let them, when they're old/mature enough.
Well if your grades suck because the weed is making you lazy, do your homework first, THEN smoke... Duh your parents are mad, they think this is why, and you're making it sound like it is. Drugs are fun and relaxing man, but you have to keep up with life too.
im just glad my mom doesn't care as long as i don't smoke in the apartment cigs and weed
[QUOTE=Meader;28793438]Well if your grades suck because the weed is making you lazy, do your homework first, THEN smoke... Duh your parents are mad, they think this is why, and you're making it sound like it is. Drugs are fun and relaxing man, but you have to keep up with life too.[/QUOTE]
Gotta agree with meader. This has happened to me too. Spent an assload of time catching up and pulling my grades up and it had me stressed. That's when I quit going like 4-6 times in a week to like 2-3. Try to smoke only on weekends for a while too. That is, if you're grades are falling.
You have two options.
1. Stop smoking weed until you are out of your parent's care. You can pull out the "drug test" me card any time you'd like.
2. Be more cautious about it. Don't get caught.
If you are 12-15 I'd suggest waiting longer to get into drugs. Regardless of how pro weed I am, I would flip out if my 12 year old was smoking pot.
[QUOTE=JonVX;28792594]The thing is, both my parents smoke weed. They know it makes you lazy.
I also get shit grades in school.[/QUOTE]
they both smoke weed, but they get pissed when thy find out you do? Awful parenting.
[editline]25th March 2011[/editline]
inless youre too young to be smoking, then id understand
Yeah that is fucked up, how can you punish someone for smoking weed if you do it
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Weed is for adults not children, I'd be pissed if I found my teenager smoking weed but I would explain that once they're an adult they can do whatever they want to their body but for now it's fragile and you need to take care of it.
Maybe you're just too young.
I smoked my first joint with 16 and my mom was really disappointed but now I'm older and she is okay with it (my parents smoke too). As long as you have this under control, everything is ok.
But if you have a desire to smoke, stop it.
man you guys are so fucking lucky your parents smoke weed. i wanna ask my dad if he ever smoked/did drugs cause he was a teenager in the 60s and 20s in the 70s, so it seems likely. but i don't know how to ask without it being really awkward. i know for sure my mom never did drugs. god, do i know.
[editline]25th March 2011[/editline]
also, time will fix your relationship with your parents hopefully. try to keep it away from them and don't leave any evidence you smoke and hopefully they'll realize it's not a problem. i think my parents don't care since i mostly do well in school and i've never gotten arrested or in any trouble over it. well, they care but it's not like it ruined my relationship with them. i guess it changed a bit but whatever, its not too bad.
My mum went through a drug induced psychotic episode, my sister has just gone through one about a year ago and only recently just had a relapse again because she didn't learn her lesson the first time about smoking crack. My brother also had one as well, from the crack but hes strong minded/open minded unlike my sister or mum and can still do any drug and be alright, although i would kill him if he did crack again.
So no my mum and dad arn't too happy about it and i am still young but they just let me live my life with the occasional lecture but not many. live and learn is their way of raising me, and it works well.
my relationship with my family is so weird because they know i smoke weed (well since i've been getting good grades they dont think so atm).
but a couple weeks ago out of the blue my mom calls me and she asks about drugs, what i've done, etc. i know shes been on something for pretty much my whole life but never told me or anybody (it was a huge secret with my family, some ppl knew). she finally told me that she was on 9 different pills. benzos (xanax), anti depressants (celexa), sleeping pills, mood stabilizers, and even an anti-psychotic (lithium).
however currently shes off 5 of the 9, therefore she is only on 4/9 which is really good for her. needless to say she used to be a huge pothead and even asked to smoke a joint of "that high grade" stuff. apparently she has never smoked good weed. next time i see her she will be high as ballz with me i cant fucking wait!!
My relationship with Marijuana is fucked because of my parents.
[QUOTE=Redskins1234;28793012]How old are you?.[/QUOTE]
I'm 15
My parents found out a month after i started smoking. They have no problem with me smoking weed. Sucks to be you
[QUOTE=bigdan;28796340]My mum went through a drug induced psychotic episode, my sister has just gone through one about a year ago and only recently just had a relapse again because she didn't learn her lesson the first time about smoking crack. My brother also had one as well, from the crack but hes strong minded/open minded unlike my sister or mum and can still do any drug and be alright, although i would kill him if he did crack again.
So no my mum and dad arn't too happy about it and i am still young but they just let me live my life with the occasional lecture but not many. live and learn is their way of raising me, and it works well.[/QUOTE]
Well I hope you're not smoking crack.
Blame your parents for giving you the presence of smoking weed in the household
[QUOTE=JonVX;28799713]I'm 15[/QUOTE]
I think that's the reason. Only smoke outside and not so often.
It's also better for you! Your body still grows, smoking weed doesn't make it better.
Be a little bit more mature and listen to us
why exactly are you smoking everyday
hell where are you getting the money to pay for it
[editline]25th March 2011[/editline]
do it on the weekends only
It's really not that expensive.
[QUOTE=Mac2468;28803217]It's really not that expensive.[/QUOTE]
Without a job, it is quite expensive, and seeing as a lot of people are teens, I would assume most don't have jobs.
[editline]25th March 2011[/editline]
Well, if you smoke by yourself it's not as expensive, but...
Hi OP when I was 15 I went through the same thing. I was caught smoking weed, but my parents already had suspicions that I did. Now when I did my mom started crying and so did I. Eventually they got over it and I started smoking again about a month later. They thought I quit, and I got caught again on spring break twice. Now they just think I am a pothead, although I make decent grades and not a stoner 24/7. Also watch out with the type of people you hang out with and how personal you are with your connects. If you're parents start drug testing you, just stop and don't try to beat it. Also PLEASE don't go anywhere on 4/20 if you want to earn their trust again.
End of story, just stop smoking if you really feel that bad about it.
[QUOTE=AbysalRush;28804269]
Well, if you smoke by yourself it's not as expensive, but...[/QUOTE]
I get dankies for 50 a slice up here (Trainwreck, Afghan Kush, Hydro...). I buzz through that in like, three days. I smoke with people and I smoke a lot.
Smoking a lot is expensive... it really depends on your prices around where you live and how much you smoke.
hell i know my relationship with my parents would be fucked if they found out i even smoke second-hand cannabis smoke
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