My relationship with my parents is fucked now because of Marijuana.
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[QUOTE=Cypher_09;28806783]hell i know my relationship with my parents would be fucked if they found out i even smoke second-hand cannabis smoke[/QUOTE]
lol, has the situation ever come up where you used a bottle to smoke and they got pissed at you?
did you realise i was kidding my parents are letting me do coke tomorrow :v:
i've used a bottle to smoke out of before but it did something to my throat it felt like something grew in my throat i couldnt breathe and with it came a horrible cramp :frown:
That sounds horrible, I never had problems with bad weed.
I live near the netherlands so I don't have to worry about that
Kill your parents and smoke all the weed you want!
I'm glad people take me seriously
I know the feeling man. I want you to read this and understand I feel every single goddamn shred of agony and pain that you're feeling being channeled through you and your parents.
Just know that things will get better in the future.
They will. Trust me.
My mom found my bong. She pulled it out of my jacket pocket (wasn't very big) and asked me what the hell it was with my dad standing at the top of my stairs. She cried. My dad did the worst thing possible. Paced around the room saying "Wow." in a disappointed tone. I'd rather he screams at me than staying quiet in shame of his son.
Come clean. Set the record straight. Don't let it be a habit. I explained to my parents that I wouldn't do it randomly, but there will be parties I go to where I want to do it. After a long [b]discussion[/b] (Not arguement), they sort of accepted that I might do it. Before that incident about a month ago, I was smoking weed every day/second day/week. I'm glad they found out. I haven't smoked in a month and I'm proud to say I don't even miss it.
The solution is simple. Tell your parents. Bend over and take the shit they give you. Be 100% honest. Explain when you intend on doing it. Or to make your life all that much easier:
[b]Stop. Smoking. Weed.[/b]
[editline]27th March 2011[/editline]
The heat drops after a couple of days. Just don't be an idiot. If you're parents don't like you doing something and it's ruining your relationship with them, just stop fucking doing it. If you care that much over it, be a big boy and stop.
Moderation is the key to everything. Use weed responsibly, don't get addicted to hard drugs, alcohol, or whatever, and keep on track to accomplish your goals you set out for yourself. Then weed is perfectly fine. Doesn't need to be 100% no weed, no tolerance whatsoever. That's a dumb way to help you stop.
The key is that YOU, and your PARENTS, both need to know the truth about weed, and how it affects you. Then you can have some intelligent conversations, and not retarded parenting like punishing your kids until they've "seen the light" bullshit.
And if you all understand moderation, and using weed responsibly when you know its effects on you, then you'd be able to use it responsibly.
Parents are stupid if they just have the "NO NO NO" attitude, and they have to THINK instead of repeating the bullshit they've programmed themselves to respond with to the subject of smoking weed.
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Running away forever is the permanent solution to a temporary problem.
[QUOTE=JonVX;28792376]About 6 months ago I started smoking weed. My parents didn't notice at first, I waited until they slept to smoke.
One night I got really baked and I forgot to put my bong away, they found it in the morning. My mom cried, she gave the whole "Why are you doing this" talk. Soon enough, I bought some cigarettes from my friend to make into joints because I was terrible at rolling. My parents found the cigarettes, ironically, my dad buys the same kind. So, my mom being predjudice, thought I stole them. She called my Dad and he belived my mom (My dad doesn't know I smoke weed). So, now I feel like I can't see my Dad anymore because I don't want him to know I smoke weed.
I'm crying as I type this, guys. I feel like this is a dream, I just want to wake up and have my parents trust me and love me to the extent they used to 6 moths ago. :smith:[/QUOTE]
What else do you expect? You were going under their nose and smoking. There's your definition of breaking trust right there. You really want to fix your relationship? Be a damn grown up and quit smoking until you are out of their household. Until you live by yourself, you are under their house and you live by their rules. Regardless, if you're a sane human, and are willing to drop pot so you can re-build your relationship, explain to them how you feel about all of it. Want to know the biggest secret to success though? Here it comes...
STOP FUCKING SMOKING.
[QUOTE=Otsegolation;28834496]Running away forever is the permanent solution to a temporary problem.[/QUOTE]
Your parents are going to be there forever
So do as I say and kill them or run away its the only way!
[QUOTE=AutoTurret;28805758]Also PLEASE don't go anywhere on 4/20 if you want to earn their trust again.[/QUOTE]
They already trust me on 4/20.
April 20th is my birthday :smug:
Hitler was born that day :v:
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[QUOTE=Nick Nack;28843114]What else do you expect? You were going under their nose and smoking. There's your definition of breaking trust right there. You really want to fix your relationship? Be a damn grown up and quit smoking until you are out of their household. Until you live by yourself, you are under their house and you live by their rules. Regardless, if you're a sane human, and are willing to drop pot so you can re-build your relationship, explain to them how you feel about all of it. Want to know the biggest secret to success though? Here it comes...
STOP FUCKING SMOKING.[/QUOTE]
Lawl, so many sXe kids in DD now...
Your parents have a right to want no-one to smoke in their house, not to control any aspect of your goddamn life.
Marijuana is not the problem. Nature created it, some humans (that are also a product of nature) have a problem with finding the right balance between BLAZIN ALL DAY ERRYDAY and refusing to partake in the consumption of nature's finest. YOU are the problem if weed "ruins" your life, and your parents are the problem if they demonize it. (even more if they drink alcohol / smoke meth)
[editline]28th March 2011[/editline]
My mother was born on april 20th and she hates illegal drugs for the sole reason that they're illegal.
(This is dumb 'cause laws are supposed to be changed when they're obsolete and considered stupid by everyone. Hell, how can there be a motherfucking CRIME when there's no victim?)
How can they stop loving you for smoking weed when they smoke too? It's so stupid that it's embarrasing to read.
It's not that they don't love me, they just don't act like it anymore.
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