• The Addicts' Lounge V. Peanut butter and marijuana sandwiches
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I need to cut back on my smoking in general. My highs are getting duller and less pronounced. I would take a T break but that would mean I'd be sitting on my ass all day because all my friends do is smoke pot. It's aggravating, it's all they ever want to do. It gets to the point where they won't even answer my calls if they know I'm dry. And God forbid that I have weed and say no to another bowl -_- I would not be smoking nearly as much as I am if I had other friends as close as they are. And as fiendish as they can be they're the only people who I can call friends and not just people I know from school who I can get along with. I wish I wasn't so socially inept. I'm sorry for the negativity it just feels good to say it. I've been needing to say that for a long time now.
sniffed a dilaudid for the first time in a while lol... i can close my eyes and drift away to nodville
[QUOTE=slashsnemesis;41704188]I need to cut back on my smoking in general. My highs are getting duller and less pronounced. I would take a T break but that would mean I'd be sitting on my ass all day because all my friends do is smoke pot. It's aggravating, it's all they ever want to do. It gets to the point where they won't even answer my calls if they know I'm dry. And God forbid that I have weed and say no to another bowl -_- I would not be smoking nearly as much as I am if I had other friends as close as they are. And as fiendish as they can be they're the only people who I can call friends and not just people I know from school who I can get along with. I wish I wasn't so socially inept. I'm sorry for the negativity it just feels good to say it. I've been needing to say that for a long time now.[/QUOTE] Hang out with your family, man. I know it might sound lame, but it's always nice to get dinner / lunch with one of or both of your parents and maybe see a movie with them or something.
[QUOTE=Solidskei;41704312]Hang out with your family, man. I know it might sound lame, but it's always nice to get dinner / lunch with one of or both of your parents and maybe see a movie with them or something.[/QUOTE] Thanks, this helped me out
[QUOTE=Solidskei;41704312]Hang out with your family, man. I know it might sound lame, but it's always nice to get dinner / lunch with one of or both of your parents and maybe see a movie with them or something.[/QUOTE] My parents would probably have a heart attack if I asked them to go see a movie or something. I'm super quiet 90% of the time. I can't just go from barely a peep to OH LETS GO SEE A MOVIE AND HANG OUT. It's just not me. It's that transition thats killing me. If only there was a way to go from quiet to talkative without everyone going all "Oh look at Drew he's so not quiet anymore!" which embarrasses the fuck out of me and will shut me right back up.
they would have a heart attack because they love you, and want to connect to you. ask them man. [editline]4th August 2013[/editline] such a simple thing can mean the world to one
[QUOTE=slashsnemesis;41704387]My parents would probably have a heart attack if I asked them to go see a movie or something. I'm super quiet 90% of the time. I can't just go from barely a peep to OH LETS GO SEE A MOVIE AND HANG OUT. It's just not me. It's that transition thats killing me. If only there was a way to go from quiet to talkative without everyone going all "Oh look at Drew he's so not quiet anymore!" which embarrasses the fuck out of me and will shut me right back up.[/QUOTE] They'll probably be very happy that their son wants to spend time with them. If you're as quiet as you say, then your parents could feel disconnected from you. Trust me, as said above, it can mean the world to your parents to see you eager to connect with them.
[QUOTE=slashsnemesis;41704387]My parents would probably have a heart attack if I asked them to go see a movie or something. I'm super quiet 90% of the time. I can't just go from barely a peep to OH LETS GO SEE A MOVIE AND HANG OUT. It's just not me. It's that transition thats killing me. If only there was a way to go from quiet to talkative without everyone going all "Oh look at Drew he's so not quiet anymore!" which embarrasses the fuck out of me and will shut me right back up.[/QUOTE] This is why I both love and hate hanging out with friends. I usually sit and observe conversations instead of participating in them, which leads people to assume that I'm bored. I'm really not, I just prefer to listen than to talk. It's even worse when I'm high. I'm that one guy who gets quiet and loses himself in his thoughts.
[QUOTE=slashsnemesis;41704387]My parents would probably have a heart attack if I asked them to go see a movie or something. I'm super quiet 90% of the time. I can't just go from barely a peep to OH LETS GO SEE A MOVIE AND HANG OUT. It's just not me. It's that transition thats killing me. If only there was a way to go from quiet to talkative without everyone going all "Oh look at Drew he's so not quiet anymore!" which embarrasses the fuck out of me and will shut me right back up.[/QUOTE] I used to make excuses like that for myself too. I really felt awful about my social situation and wanted people to do things with me, but would never get invited to anything. It was because my friends at the time didn't do anything anyway, but I didn't really get that. I wanted to be involved in activities (I didn't really care what) and things, but ultimately the only reason I wasn't was because no one was. I didn't do anything about it because I thought everyone would think it was weird and I would be embarrassed. The cure was that I got a job. Well, that was kinda the cure. Getting a job narrowed the amount of freetime I had substantially, so I was more inclined to do something with it. It's like when you have a whole batch of cookies, you gorge on them, but when you only have two, you savor them. I felt like the freetime I had needed to be spent well, so I kinda got frustrated because I felt like it was being wasted. The real cure was being- to a small extent- angry. Maybe not angry, but knowing what I wanted. My view went from "well, maybe someone will invite me to something. Oh, not today? Well maybe some other time", to "This is my free time, and someone [i]will[/i] be spending it with me doing something, I don't much care who." I would just call people until someone was available. None of that really involved drugs, but my advice is to recognize that they're wasting your time. Not in the sense that you should take it out on them, but in the sense that you should feel no guilt or obligations to them to remain available, and should be proactive about doing something. Granted there's not much to do here, so half the time it's food, but hey, take up baking cookies. It's incredibly rewarding and people will usually be down to eat your hospitality.
[QUOTE=cheetahben;41704539]This is why I both love and hate hanging out with friends. I usually sit and observe conversations instead of participating in them, which leads people to assume that I'm bored. I'm really not, I just prefer to listen than to talk. It's even worse when I'm high. I'm that one guy who gets quiet and loses himself in his thoughts.[/QUOTE] Dude, im that guy too. and i was really quiet around my parents for a while due to feeling like a fuckup have the time for trouble ive got in and such. and everytime i smoke i just listen to people and always get self concious to say something until its too late. [editline]4th August 2013[/editline] that was mostly before tho, it seems now that everything is good in life i dont have that anymore. weird. yea doing something with youself really helps, cuz you give a fuck less about impressions, and you realize that it doesnt make you. if that makes sense idk im high
life's too short to worry about what other people think if you have something to say, say it
[QUOTE=Maximoon;41704621]life's too short to worry about what other people think if you have something to say, say it[/QUOTE] i havent been self concious really lately, it happened really suddenly too. self realization is amazing. My friend told me to look up "wake up" by kyle cease ( a video) and i started watching his videos, and elliot hulse's. Everything started to click. When you truly realize that you're not your belongings, and you're not what people think of you, and that you're in the same position if you try and fail than if you dont try only you actually have the comfort of knowing you tried / said whatever it is you wanted, life gets pretty easy
[QUOTE=Maximoon;41704621]life's too short to worry about what other people think if you have something to say, say it[/QUOTE] If a human being actually managed not to worry about what other people think even a little bit, I bet their life would be a lot shorter. [sp]Because they would get dead faster.[/sp]
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;41704647]If a human being actually managed not to worry about what other people think even a little bit, I bet their life would be a lot shorter. [sp]Because they would get dead faster.[/sp][/QUOTE] Idt so cuz when someone truly cares for themself, and not what others want of them, they'll probably make alot of better choices for themself.
I was taking it literally. Like, "that man thinks this mountainside is dangerous, but I hadn't considered it, and haven't devoted a single braincell to his thoughts, so I'll go climb it: boof, avalanche". But we are a social species, and if you do really wanna talk about it you can take the fact that you're on a social website as proof that caring what other people think is worthwhile. First, if no one cared what others thought, the website would never have been created, and second, you would never have come here at all because you wouldn't care what we have to say. But I guess it's debatable whether this place has made your life any better. Maybe it's actually not a good thing and you [i]would[/i] be better off not coming. That's an interesting thought. This isn't a sly jab at you suggesting you leave, I was actually thinking about it. [editline]4th August 2013[/editline] Like, I wonder what the ratio of "good" to "bad" facepunch has contributed to its members' lives.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;41704705]I was taking it literally. Like, "that man thinks this mountainside is dangerous, but I hadn't considered it, and haven't devoted a single braincell to his thoughts, so I'll go climb it: boof, avalanche". But we are a social species, and if you do really wanna talk about it you can take the fact that you're on a social website as proof that caring what other people think is worthwhile. First, if no one cared what others thought, the website would never have been created, and second, you would never have come here at all because you wouldn't care what we have to say. But I guess it's debatable whether this place has made your life any better. Maybe it's actually not a good thing and you [i]would[/i] be better off not coming. That's an interesting thought. This isn't a sly jab at you suggesting you leave, I was actually thinking about it.[/QUOTE] Hmm well yea i mean we care what people think, but when people try and influence something you know isnt right for you, thats when you shouldnt care.
I prefer talking via texting and IM than in real life, to be honest. I feel like I can say things a lot easier and can bring up conversation a lot more casually than in real life I'm in a really sad and deep mood tonight :(
[QUOTE=cheetahben;41704795]I prefer talking via texting and IM than in real life, to be honest. I feel like I can say things a lot easier and can bring up conversation a lot more casually than in real life I'm in a really sad and deep mood tonight :([/QUOTE] It is easier, cuz instead of being nervous or stuttering or something you're just like "CLICK THE FUCKIN BUTTON, DONE" ahaha. dont be sad man [editline]4th August 2013[/editline] also i didnt expect for a bodybuilder to say anything intereting, but elliot hulse is the shit. ive been hooked on watching his vids for some reason, him and kyle cease, theyve helped alot. I suggest people watch this if they even care [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4Ko32D5ALw[/media] [editline]4th August 2013[/editline] he says a lot of deep shit that made me think alot.
Ahhh nothing better than spending days by the pool soakin up the sun and smokin up some joints, these are chill times indeed man [editline]3rd August 2013[/editline] shit im all outta weed :L oh well I still have this tub of bubbly hash huehueheuh
just saw that new wolverine movie, was really good imo. sadly out of bud D: but im gonna try and resin hit a piece later
[QUOTE=dr.bean;41705349]just saw that new wolverine movie, was really good imo. sadly out of bud D: but im gonna try and resin hit a piece later[/QUOTE] how have i never heard of there being a new wolverine movie? wtf were there like no advertisements for it?
[QUOTE=soupman345-2;41705388]how have i never heard of there being a new wolverine movie? wtf were there like no advertisements for it?[/QUOTE] i dunno man but it was sick as fuck, i would highly recommend seeing it. yeah I haven't seen very many myself
wow ive never played tf2 on pc, ive never thought to install it. but playing it stoned as fuck is crazy right now, its so different from the xbox version. valve doesnt update shit on xbox. [editline]4th August 2013[/editline] i love how it looks perfecteven on my 350 dollar laptop.
oh fuck its 1 in the morning already g'night DD or good morning for europeeps
I only saw an ad for Wolverine a few days ago, was it better than that shitty Origins one?
[b] THE RAIN WILL CLEANSE ME! [/b]
wake n bake with some tea lazy sundays, aww ye [img]http://i.imgur.com/UZ8JlRi.jpg[/img] Anyone else ever read this?
[QUOTE=Faren;41705542]I only saw an ad for Wolverine a few days ago, was it better than that shitty Origins one?[/QUOTE] I don't think I've seen the Origins one but this one was great, story ties in from beginning to end and mindfucks you pretty hard at the end too
[QUOTE=Faren;41705635]wake n bake with some tea lazy sundays, aww ye [img]http://i.imgur.com/UZ8JlRi.jpg[/img] Anyone else ever read this?[/QUOTE] yea i read that when i was sick as fuck this one time as a kid, kept my mind off it. calvin and hobbes was pretty cool, i was never into garfield too mcuh
i hate when i have nothing to do and noone else wants to chill with me i guess im getting high then also i got this sick gen 3 j goin on, stoked as fuck
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