• I have no friends.
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You just gotta work for it. Just exercise a little, go outside, talk to people. You'll always have friends here at FP, though.
[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23699710]I made this post today just to let out my feelings, and make me feel better just to get it out. Well, I realized something today, and its how friends are important to every persons life. I'm 16 years old and I've only had a few friends throughout my life. I started gaining weight in the 4th grade and turned fat, making me lose all my self confidence and any desire to make friends anymore because everyone I had known then made fun of me. Even all my relatives know that I'm lonely. My litte cousin once even called me a no-friend fatass, and well that really broke my heart. Yesterday, my uncle asked me if I even have any friends, I didn't know what to say. The only person I hanged out was my cousin. Although he managed to get himself a girlfriend, and I don't see him anymore since then. All day, I just sit on the computer and waste all my time on it ever since. Today the only friend I have is, well, online. He's homeschooled and we game with eachother everyday. It's awesome. But I fear there will be a day that he'll get outside homeschool and I'll be forgotten. I don't know what it feels like to go to the mall with friends or even have a single friend over for my birthday. Welp I got that off my back now and feel a bit better If you read thanks.[/QUOTE] Im gonna say something to you that could change your life around because ive been through something very similar but has now gotten a shitload better, and it is a lot better. Your not just lonely, your also depressed and socially anxious, something that really sucks to go through. First off, if you want friends and be happier, you have to decide if YOU really want that, you cant just say, "Ya i want friends and to be happier". You are gonna have to work your ass off(Mentally) and also physically(Exercise every day, doing small amounts more and more each day, it releases natural endorphens which boost self esteem, and give you energy, exercise intensely if you refuse to stay of anti depressions) Im gonna take a wild guess here about you Your overweight Your depressed You play video games all day or at least on the computer You think everyone around you is judging you. You feel socially awkward. First off, if you do feel people are always judging you, thinking about you/etc... They arnt, they dont give a shit, thinking this makes you act more awkward towards people. Looseing weight can REALLY boost self esteem, a lot, the most actually in your case. Its obvious your depressed, you seem normal and normal people arnt happy living like that, exercise, and honestly, if you have the money/insurance, get a therapist, or at the VERY least a psychiatrist, they can work wonders for some people, same with Anti depressions, they work great for some and worsen for others. Also, this is serious, EXERCISE, and do it every single day for 15-30 minutes, start off slowly increases whatever your doing each day by a couple of sit ups/push ups/etc... Also run at least 1 mile a day BEFORE you do your other EXERCISES! You will loose weight, naturally feel a shitload better, better than any medicine can ever do, high self esteem, and eventually look a whole shitload better, thus making you feel a lot more confident, plus if you arnt fuck ugly(like deformed) and a girl starts talking to you, keep talking to her. You gotta work if you want to change, if you dont do anything about this, you will live horribly, You are ONLY 16, and you have a month before school starts again, exercise from now on, get a haircut, get good cloths, then the rest is up to you on making friends Hope this shit helps, and i hope you get something from this, this is actually the most serious shit ill probably ever post on the internet.
[QUOTE=HoodedSniper;23700261]Im gonna say something to you that could change your life around because ive been through something very similar but has now gotten a shitload better, and it is a lot better. Your not just lonely, your also depressed and socially anxious, something that really sucks to go through. First off, if you want friends and be happier, you have to decide if YOU really want that, you cant just say, "Ya i want friends and to be happier". You are gonna have to work your ass off(Mentally) and also physically(Exercise every day, doing small amounts more and more each day, it releases natural endorphens which boost self esteem, and give you energy, exercise intensely if you refuse to stay of anti depressions) Im gonna take a wild guess here about you Your overweight Your depressed You play video games all day or at least on the computer You think everyone around you is judging you. You feel socially awkward. First off, if you do feel people are always judging you, thinking about you/etc... They arnt, they dont give a shit, thinking this makes you act more awkward towards people. Looseing weight can REALLY boost self esteem, a lot, the most actually in your case. Its obvious your depressed, you seem normal and normal people rant happy living like that, exercise, and honestly, if you have the money/insurance, get a therapist, or at the VERY least a psychiatrist, they can work wonders for some people, same with Anti depressions, they work great for some and worsen for others. Also, this is serious, EXERCISE, and do it every single day for 15-30 minutes, start off slowly increases whatever your doing each day by a couple of sit ups/push ups/etc... Also run at least 1 mile a day BEFORE you do your other EXERCISES! You will loose weight, naturally feel a shitload better, better than any medicine can ever do, high self esteem, and eventually look a whole shitload better. You gotta work if you want to change, if you dont do anything about this, you will live horribly, You are ONLY 16, and you have a month before school starts again, exercise from now on, get a haircut, get good cloths, then the rest is up to you on making friend. Hope this shit helps, and i hope you get something from this, this is actually the most serious shit ill probably ever post on the internet.[/QUOTE] i just wasted my time reading that when it just said lose weight
smoke dope
I do feel sorry for you OP, as for one I was with no friends in primary for a while till I met some guy who was just like me, random silly immature and was always up to no good
[QUOTE=Lebowski;23700293]smoke dope[/QUOTE] Good way to lose weight.
[QUOTE=Lebowski;23700293]smoke dope[/QUOTE] i disagree NO DONT DO DURGZ IT WILL ONLYZ MAKESZ WORSEZ
[QUOTE=PrusseLusken;23700307]I don't feel like going out with my friends. They all smoke, drink and party 24/7. I prefer sitting inside, laughing at pictures of socially inept frogs and playing games about killing people. :frown:[/QUOTE] way to be pollitically correct :3:
I don't care if you're fat or not, i'll be your friend :)
I was getting ready for bed sorry guys And I do try to lose weight. I consume less then 2.2k cal a day and go biking a bit It's not working though And I don't understand why some if you think I'm a troll. Why would I even troll on a topic like this.
[QUOTE=bobste;23700043]step 1: stop watching hentai step 2: meet other people that don't watch hentai step 3: have friends[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hullu V3;23700300]Good way to lose weight.[/QUOTE] i practically smoke dope erry day and my weight has been on a steady decline since. was at 230, now i'm 215. a lot of people who resist the munchies can lose weight quickly. also it can serve as a great social modifier, can help people get together better or whatever.
[QUOTE=PrusseLusken;23700307]They all smoke, drink and party 24/7.[/QUOTE] sounds great [editline]10:29PM[/editline] [QUOTE=swordoftheme;23700344]I was getting ready for bed sorry guys And I do try to lose weight. I consume less then 2.2k cal a day and go biking a bit It's not working though And I don't understand why some if you think I'm a troll. Why would I even troll on a topic like this.[/QUOTE] go to a gym for the food of today, unless you strictly regiment yourself, you need to go to the gym
[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23700344]I was getting ready for bed sorry guys And I do try to lose weight. I consume less then 2.2k cal a day and go biking a bit It's not working though And I don't understand why some if you think I'm a troll. Why would I even troll on a topic like this.[/QUOTE] i'll be your friend :D (sorry for thinking your a troll)
[QUOTE=thisispain;23700354]sounds great[/QUOTE] thisispain, i remember arguing with you at someone else and we were bros. you should give me your steam account bro and we can play some left 4 bro 2 or something bro. s'okay if you don't bro but don't lead me on bro because i take you for a bro and bros don't bro each other like that bro also i like your pro-can-do attitude with jews.
In order to lose weight and still go on the PC, OP must do this. [url]http://forums.heroesofnewerth.com/showthread.php?t=81122[/url] [IMG]http://i217.photobucket.com/albums/cc34/surger_1/100_0815.jpg[/IMG] Before & After [IMG]http://i217.photobucket.com/albums/cc34/surger_1/Face100.jpg[/IMG] [IMG]http://i217.photobucket.com/albums/cc34/surger_1/BodyBeforeAfter.png[/IMG]
[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23699710]4th grade[/QUOTE] Wait how old are you?
[QUOTE=Lebowski;23700384]thisispain, i remember arguing with you at someone else and we were bros. you should give me your steam account bro and we can play some left 4 bro 2 or something bro. s'okay if you don't bro but don't lead me on bro because i take you for a bro and bros don't bro each other like that bro also i like your pro-can-do attitude with jews.[/QUOTE] [url]http://steamcommunity.com/id/DoctorThisispain[/url] [editline]10:31PM[/editline] [QUOTE=Domokun;23700387]In order to lose weight and still go on the PC, OP must do this. [url]http://forums.heroesofnewerth.com/showthread.php?t=81122[/url] [IMG]http://i217.photobucket.com/albums/cc34/surger_1/100_0815.jpg[/IMG] [/QUOTE] i think i just shat myself from laughter
16 And thanks everyone for being my friends Doesn't feel like an authentic friendship or something.
[QUOTE=JDK721;23699732]i'll be your friend[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Domokun;23700387][IMG]http://i217.photobucket.com/albums/cc34/surger_1/100_0815.jpg[/IMG] [/QUOTE] Fucking Antec 900, such a fucking dust magnet.
[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23700432]16 And thanks everyone for being my friends Doesn't feel like an authentic friendship or something.[/QUOTE] bro you're a real downer a good attitude is the first step to making friends
[QUOTE=Domokun;23700387]In order to lose weight and still go on the PC, OP must do this. [url]http://forums.heroesofnewerth.com/showthread.php?t=81122[/url] Image Before & After Image Image[/QUOTE] lol how would that work crap i cant hold onto my mouse its going to fast captain slow it down!
[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23700344]I was getting ready for bed sorry guys And I do try to lose weight. I consume less then 2.2k cal a day and go biking a bit It's not working though And I don't understand why some if you think I'm a troll. Why would I even troll on a topic like this.[/QUOTE] Of course its not working, when you say biking a bit you mean like that once in a while bike ride around the block? Get on a tredmill and start running, drink water and nothing else to drink, and do pushups and situps.
If you wanna talk about it, I'm available. I've gone through, and am sort of going through what you are to some measure. I spend most of my time on the computer because of my best friend having no will of his own, his girlfriend taking over every aspect of his life (she made him stop being friends with me what the fuck).
[QUOTE=Lebowski;23700501]If you wanna talk about it, I'm available. I've gone through, and am sort of going through what you are to some measure. I spend most of my time on the computer because of my best friend having no will of his own, his girlfriend taking over every aspect of his life (she made him stop being friends with me what the fuck).[/QUOTE] but you do dope
where you live?
[QUOTE=pyschomc;23700514]where you live?[/QUOTE] The north pole
I'd chill with you if I knew you
[quote=strider_07;23700533]i'd chill with you if i knew you[/quote] change your avatar man [editline]10:39PM[/editline] i cant take you seriously
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