Make friends on the internet. It works! I made friends on the internet and I am now in their house. ftw XD
I'm the opposite. My friends are solid but my online relationships fell since I'm studying...
OP has same life as me.
Besides the anime.
Being fat is not a reason to not have friends. Some of the best guys in our school our fat. But then again it's an all guy school so there's no woman drama. But still, learn to laugh at yourself rather than losing your confidence.
Also, anti-social fat people become weaboos, furries, etc., so that must mean that weaboos and furries are anti-social and fat.
[B][I]Logic.[/I][/B] lol
Get a gym membership. That way you can improve your body image, and hopefully meet some new people. There will more than likely be people in the same situation as you trying to get out of it, and you'll have a lot of common ground.
You're only 16. Its not like you dont have time to make friends
I can be your friend
Fat and anime/ hentai? No friends? Well, at least some people aren't like the stereotype.
The OP of this thread actually made me shed a tear. I only have a few friends but I never hangout with them and I've never had a friend that I would actually go to the mall or see a movie with. People mock me for not even being five feet yet. Dylan Lambert, a guy that refuses to use his real name Jacob, once said I was a freak because I didn't grow to five feet before the 7th grade. Thanks to those assholes I have daydreams of injuring them. Getting mocked every day for being short gets to me sometimes. Sometimes I would yell out in class when they do. It's those assholes that cause people to go crazy to shoot up a school.
[QUOTE=SoaringScout;23708023]The OP of this thread actually made me shed a tear. I only have a few friends but I never hangout with them and I've never had a friend that I would actually go to the mall or see a movie with. People mock me for not even being five feet yet. Dylan Lambert, a guy that refuses to use his real name Jacob, once said I was a freak because I didn't grow to five feet before the 7th grade. Thanks to those assholes I have daydreams of injuring them. Getting mocked every day for being short gets to me sometimes. Sometimes I would yell out in class when they do. [B]It's those assholes that cause people to go crazy to shoot up a schoo[/B]l.[/QUOTE]
If you were tall enough to reach daddy's drawer and get his pistol, then maybe you could join in on the fun. My condolences.
Im in same position as OP here, but I feel no remorse. Life's good for me right now :D
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this is the problem.
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this is the problem.[/QUOTE]
Doesn't really have to be. As long as he doesn't tell everyone at first eyesight he likes anime and doesn't let himself be influenced then there is no problem.
Anime isn't a issue. People know I like anime, yet they still befriended me. See, the problem is that you guys assume everyone who likes anime is the same.
Most of us here are gamers you know how the world view gamers. Fat, lazy slobs who amount to nothing. Yet, people on here have proven otherwise. Yeah, anime is odd and perverted, but that's what happens when you censor porn. Anyway, as long as you don't talk anime 24/7, you'll be fine. Pretty much what Jazzy said.
Also, OP, you can get friends. I was the same as you, but skinny. People picked on me, and I didn't do a thing about it. But the more I INTERACTED with people, the better I understood that the world isn't full with total shitheads. I made friends, and made even more friends. However, you have to take the first step.
Hey i like anime and i still have friends...who live in my head...i think
[QUOTE=:smug:;23705008]Be friendly to people, and you will soon become 'That fat kid no one hates'.
There's always one.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23699710]I made this post today just to let out my feelings, and make me feel better just to get it out. Well, I realized something today, and its how friends are important to every persons life. I'm 16 years old and I've only had a few friends throughout my life. I started gaining weight in the 4th grade and turned fat, making me lose all my self confidence and any desire to make friends anymore because everyone I had known then made fun of me.
Even all my relatives know that I'm lonely. My litte cousin once even called me a no-friend fatass, and well that really broke my heart. Yesterday, my uncle asked me if I even have any friends, I didn't know what to say.
The only person I hanged out was my cousin. Although he managed to get himself a girlfriend, and I don't see him anymore since then. All day, I just sit on the computer and waste all my time on it ever since.
Today the only friend I have is, well, online. He's homeschooled and we game with eachother everyday. It's awesome. But I fear there will be a day that he'll get outside homeschool and I'll be forgotten.
I don't know what it feels like to go to the mall with friends or even have a single friend over for my birthday.
Welp I got that off my back now and feel a bit better
If you read thanks.[/QUOTE]
Work out, lose weight, gain self confidence about yourself by hanging around people at school. Try to get some e-friends to chat with you over skype so you can get some people skills. (Chat Roulette will work, although rarely.) Sit with some people that like to play video games. They may be nerds, but they are also good friends. Just progress in life and try to get closer and closer to "The Crowd". When I say that I mean the cool kids, whatever you want to call them. You will learn as you go if you take my advice.
Did you just recommend socialising on chat roulette?
don't go making ebuddies, they don't solve anything.
I haven't read the complete thread so maybe you answered it already, but how much do you weigh exactly? Maybe you're not as fat as you think. Also fat people can be cool. I once had a friend who was really fat actually. He always told us that it was not really fat but due to an illness or whatever, but he was still cool. He looked pretty intimidating so people didn't really made fun of him. I also got a teacher who is really really fat and I like that teacher the most.
You should try to do something about your weight. Go to a gym. Not only good for you, but maybe also socially good.
I have been in a similar situation once, but a lot less worse. I did have friends but never really hung out with them, only at school and I was a bit heavier than others (not really overweight though). Then some guy from my school (also a friend) asked me why I never hanged out with them and also said that it was probably because I play too many videogames (he had this idea of me playing videogames 24/7 you see, which was partially true). I said it was because they never ask me to come and that I never know their plans. He then 'invited' me to do something together with him and a couple of other friends of him and some of mine.
Later on I became friends with some other guy from my school. He was nice to me, I was nice to him and after those two events, people actually started inviting me for things, to hang out after school. Some things were "illegal" actually, and you should not go "oh no, it's illegal, sorry guys can't do it" unless it's something dumb like stealing or breaking windows. They'll notice you're 'open' to things and it will help.
That's my advice and pretty much the story of how I went from quite socially awkard to normal.
oh and watching anime is no big deal, as long as you don't go tell everyone how cool that one episode was and keep things for yourself, it's ok. Not because everyone hates anime, but more because no one gives a damn shit.
Just be more outgoing and friendly. Once they get more mature, weight isn't an issue. In fact my fat friends are probably my favorite.
I can see that you are socially retarded/stunted. All you need to do is be more outgoing. Start small at first by talking to people more and slowly build up a friendship with them by talking about common ground and joking around with them.
You suck.
Find friends. If you cant find friends in your class, try like lower grades or something, or try the older kids.
Ifnot, change school and find new ones.
I got lucky IRL and all my friends enjoy the same stuff as me. Like playing PC/360/PS3 and LAN :P thats prietty much all we do.
Well that avatar is horo from spice and wolf
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I cant post the uncensored version o_o
friends might be important to you if you never had any. i could impose my friendship on anyone i want, why the fuck would i care?
oh and if you're as pathetic as you described yourself, there's probably not much hope. just work on convincing yourself that you don't need any friends. besides, there's pathetic people everywhere on the internet. you can probably find a loser on yahoo chat or something.
Seriously, start going to the gym a few times a week. Focus on your health, eat healthy food, jog everyday. It's going to suck the first few months, but it is really rewarding to see the results. Swapping your lifestyle from not-doing-shit to fatass-loses-shitload-of-weight would probably get you some self esteem aswell.
Worth a try I guess.
This thread made me laugh, am I bad ? D:
OP you need to find people who share your liking. Is there something like an anime club in your school? You could probably make friends there easily. Unlike asshole "cool kids" in school, they won't automatically cast you at because to everyone else they are the outcasts.
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