[QUOTE=Pascall;28137796]Idk, it's nice to get close to someone and just kind of be near them and feel them near you I guess.
But when there's someone who is ALL OVER YOU ALL THE TIME "HEY I WANT TO CUDDLE NOW", you kind of learn to hate it.
Two words. Personal. Space.[/QUOTE]
Amen.
[editline]18th February 2011[/editline]
I just totally ruined my wrist lifting stuff. God dammit.
[QUOTE=Pascall;28137796]Idk, it's nice to get close to someone and just kind of be near them and feel them near you I guess.
But when there's someone who is ALL OVER YOU ALL THE TIME "HEY I WANT TO CUDDLE NOW", you kind of learn to hate it.
Two words. Personal. Space.[/QUOTE]
I remember in one class we had to take in middle school we watched a video on "personal bubbles".
Your "public bubble" is 10+ feet away from you. This is the closest you should ever let strangers get to you.
Your "personal bubble" is 5-9 feet away from you. This is for talking to good friends.
Your "intimate bubble" is >3 feet away from you. If literally [I]anybody[/I] gets within 3 feet of you they want to have sex with you.
I will now stand less than three feet away from everyone I meet just to creep them out.
[QUOTE=Wish I wasn't an 09er;28137817]Yeah, I've had a-
... -less than approved of outcome from it.
Pffft! Does "teddy" also weird you out?[/QUOTE]
No it reminds me of one of the biggest badasses to ever live.
Teddy Motherfucking Roosevelt.
Honestly, I used to retract just to protect myself. I was emo like that and such like.
But the worst part of everything right now is the crippling boredom from where I'm stuck right now. I literally can't go anywhere and do anything, and I have nothing worth doing on this computer.
Typing in this thread is probably the most active I'll be all day, and it just leaves me alone with these thoughts, tossing the situation around, and around in my head.
Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh.
Yeah I feel the same way a lot.
Got jack shit to do around here.
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;28137872]No it reminds me of one of the biggest badasses to ever live.
Teddy Motherfucking Roosevelt.[/QUOTE]
Good answer. I like you. Have a gold star.
(I actually realize I'm posting a lot, so I'll start editting.)
I guess I've changed my life more in the past month than in my entire life, and I thought it was all for the best. Now I'm ten steps down this road and I'm not even sure I'm going the right way. None the less, I'm here, and I can't go back. But I can decide from here on out where I'm heading.
[QUOTE=Pascall;28137867]I will now stand less than three feet away from everyone I meet just to creep them out.[/QUOTE]
It also told us that men don't sit cross-legged because we need to take up more space to feel "dominant" over women.
I can think of at least 2 good reasons why that is not true at all.
lmao
I cross my legs and I'm dominant over plenty of guys. :smugdog:
Well not in THAT sense, but you know what I mean. :v:
[QUOTE=Pascall;28137867]I will now stand less than three feet away from everyone I meet just to creep them out.[/QUOTE]
:geno:
I'm too loveable to creep anyone out though. :allears:
One of my favorite quotes is from a politician when he got news of Teddy Roosevelt's death.
"Death had to take him sleeping. For if Roosevelt had been awake, there would have been a fight."
Why are none of our recent presidents as amazingly badass?
[QUOTE=Pascall;28137942]lmao
I cross my legs and I'm dominant over plenty of guys. :smugdog:
Well not in THAT sense, but you know what I mean. :v:[/QUOTE]
:geno: x2
Pascall is going to get a combination of :smugdog: and :allears: tattoed on her.
[QUOTE=Pascall;28137976]I'm too loveable to creep anyone out though. :allears:[/QUOTE]
I'd say you're weird but...
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;28138026]Pascall is going to get a combination of :smugdog: and :allears: tattoed on her.[/QUOTE]
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[editline]18th February 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Makol;28138033]I'd say you're weird but...[/QUOTE]
See the emote I just posted.
pascall you can stand within 3 feet of me any time you like gurrrlllLLL
I think a lot of this is because I'm not having friends lean on me, I'm forced to lean on people for them to [i]become[/i] my friends. A direct quote from me a few years back is "I honestly think there's no better feeling than sorting out someone else's problems."
Guess I distance myself and deal with things from afar like that a lot, now I have to confront all this and it's driving me batty.
Oh and say the word and I go make a blog or something, I seriously feel guilty about whining like this.
Nah, that's what this thread is for.
Vent away, good sir.
My elbows hurt.
Does that count?
[editline]18th February 2011[/editline]
Actually not my elbows.
But like my entire arm muscles hurt when I move them.
I am mildly disturbed.
Why?
[QUOTE=Pascall;28138197]Nah, that's what this thread is for.
Vent away, good sir.[/QUOTE]
I'm a hypocrite when it comes to venting. I always tell people to vent and that it's healthy to do but I never feel comfortable venting myself.
So she hasn't and doesn't want to tell her friends we were in a relationship, which is a big BIG part of her telling them things about me. Because she wants us to try again when she's not dealing with her own issues, and telling them how we crashed and burned like that might lead them the wrong way, apparently.
Anyway, long story short, she ditched them secretly to hang out with me for quite a while when we were seeing each other. After she broke up with me, she went back to them. Crying. Hurt. Emotional from it all. They just thought I was some freak, not some guy she had feelings for but had to let go. They all had to hate someone, to blame someone, and they picked me.
Even if it meant they'd be worried about us trying to go into a relationship again, telling them what we had would explain everything, and we'd all be friends again if she told them.
The choice is;
-We don't tell them. They're wary of me, but I can earn their trust back. They probably won't be so sketchy if me and her go into a relationship.
-We tell them. They understand it all, finally. We're all friends again, but they're wary if we try for a relationship.
She wants the safe option, obviously, but I can't make her choose while she's like this. She said if I decide for something, it's only going to effect me, and my decision will be final.
Option A just makes more sense, but. I don't want to lie. I want everyone to understand this.
This is fucking killing me.
[QUOTE=OvB;28138503]I'm a hypocrite when it comes to venting. I always tell people to vent and that it's healthy to do but I never feel comfortable venting myself.[/QUOTE]
I always hate venting because I always end up venting about things I have absolutely no issue with.
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;28138350]Why?[/QUOTE]
Red.
red what
I like to vent.
People seem to like when I vent to them too, for some reason. It's like when I complain to them we do some sort of bonding. Strange.
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