[QUOTE=Makol;29263513]lol maybe.
But uh, it just matches up too well with something going on to me now, been confronted about it and what you're saying is way too familiar.[/QUOTE]
Maybe you're sleep-posting and it's an alt of you?
That would be crazy.
[QUOTE=Makol;29263513]lol maybe.
But uh, it just matches up too well with something going on right now, been confronted about it and what you're saying is way too familiar.[/QUOTE]
if you knew me personally you'd recognize my username haha, i use it for absolutely everything.
Ok then maybe not but holy shit that is weird.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;29263532]Maybe you're sleep-posting and it's an alt of you?
That would be crazy.[/QUOTE]
I would not be surprised.
[QUOTE=Makol;29263545]Ok then maybe not but holy shit that is weird.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
I would not be surprised.[/QUOTE]
Maybe I'm sleep-posting and you are all alts of me and figments of my imagination.
Wat
:psyduck:
Loco quick tell me something only I would know.
[QUOTE=TheBrokenHobo;29263571]Loco quick tell me something only I would know.[/QUOTE]
If you could eat a beatle what flavor would it be?
[QUOTE=loco;29263581]If you could eat a beatle what flavor would it be?[/QUOTE]
That's not right but it would be every flavor that's ever tasted good weaved into each other and each particle was placed into a nanobot that was designed to enhance your taste buds and those nanobots were weaved together into a thin film that you'd let melt on your tongue.
[QUOTE=hula whoop;29263106]me and this girl were really good friends and we ended up dating, for just over 2 years until she broke up with me (this was in January). I know it seems pathetic that I still love her but I do. We've been trying to be friends but I know in my heart that I can't do it, I want to be able to but I know I can't. I recently found out she had a rebound relationship, I find this incredibly disrespectful to me and somewhat slutty as well. That was pretty much the last straw for me and I plan on telling her tomorrow that we can't be friends anymore, which will be complicated because we both hang out with the same people but that is just a small issue i guess. I feel like pretending we can be friends is worse than telling her we can't be. My question is, do you think I'm overreacting?
also this whole ordeal has caused me to not leave my house since the end of january (besides school and work).[/QUOTE]
wow. I'm in the exact same friggin situation. Same month, same everything.
Seriously. 2 year relationship, broke up with me in january, told me she wants to be friends, rebound relationship that I just found out about today.
[QUOTE=God of Ashes;29263782]wow. I'm in the exact same friggin situation. Same month, same everything.
Seriously. 2 year relationship, broke up with me in january, told me she wants to be friends, rebound relationship that I just found out about today.[/QUOTE]
thats freaky.
honestly though i don't know why girls always assume we can still be friends after we put our heart and soul into a relationship for so long.
not trying to sound like a whiny asshole who's in touch with his emotions, it just angers me.
I need to stop procrastinating.
[QUOTE=hula whoop;29264260]thats freaky.
honestly though i don't know why girls always assume we can still be friends after we put our heart and soul into a relationship for so long.
not trying to sound like a whiny asshole who's in touch with his emotions, it just angers me.[/QUOTE]
You sound just like my ex boyfriend lol. Him and I broke up back in December after we'd been together for almost 3 years.
I broke up with him, not because I didn't like him anymore, but because our priorities were totally different. I mean, overtime after our break up, I did stop loving him like a significant other because I saw what kind of a person he could be when I wasn't around. Like he was just putting on a show for my sake.
I love the guy as a friend, I really do, but he doesn't seem to have the capabilities to act maturely. He came to my house once to talk to my mother about ME, which I thought was in really really poor character
because I was still in the house.
I still extend my friendship to him, regardless of how he's going to act about it, but I don't feel like I could ever go back to him. After being apart for so long, I realized just how different we really were. Too different.
But that bit about being in a rebound relationship, yeh that sucks hard. A smart girl would at least wait until an appropriate amount of time has passed. I mean, its been like 5 months since I broke up with the guy, and even I don't feel like I'm ready to jump into another full on relationship yet. I'm still a bit scared of it.
Anyhoo, this turned into a longer tangent than I meant to do.
Welp. Uh. I dunno what to say about something at the moment. Oh well.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
Actually I don't think I have anything to say, pretty self explanatory I guess.
[QUOTE=Pascall;29266073]tangent[/QUOTE]
It's not even that I want to get back together with her, well... I like to think we can but she just flat out refuses to even consider that as an option which i find close minded.
I might be slightly naive as well for thinking that we can, but at least I'm being optimistic about it, minus the whole we can't be friends thing. Which by the way isn't meant to be forever, I'm hoping we can fix things eventually because she is still important to me; but I know right now we can't and I don't want to tell her that we can anymore.
and yeah, I thought she was smarter than that. I never thought she was that type of person at all. I've lost a lot of respect for her. So i probably wouldn't go out with her again... unless we've both matured a huge amount.
[QUOTE=hula whoop;29267332]It's not even that I want to get back together with her, well... I like to think we can but she just flat out refuses to even consider that as an option which i find close minded.
I might be slightly naive as well for thinking that we can, but at least I'm being optimistic about it, minus the whole we can't be friends thing. Which by the way isn't meant to be forever, I'm hoping we can fix things eventually because she is still important to me; but I know right now we can't and I don't want to tell her that we can anymore.
and yeah, I thought she was smarter than that. I never thought she was that type of person at all. I've lost a lot of respect for her. So i probably wouldn't go out with her again... unless we've both matured a huge amount.[/QUOTE]
this is weird it's like watching someone else typing my posts.
[QUOTE=Makol;29266624]Welp. Uh. I dunno what to say about something at the moment. Oh well.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
Actually I don't think I have anything to say, pretty self explanatory I guess.[/QUOTE]
Been brought to my attantion this post meant something than what I meant it to mean because bad timing and me being cryptic like usual. Well maybe it does, maybe it doesn't, what if it's both??
And hula whoop stop sounding too familiar.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
Everything you're saying matches a situation I was confronted with not too long ago.
[QUOTE=HazeFyer23;29265136]I need to stop procrastinating.[/QUOTE]
this absolutely.
facepunch, y u steal my sleep.
i'm having extreme second thoughts about my situation...
why is that?
i don't know, all of a sudden my stomach feels weird and it's like my heart dropped. I don't think i can tell her.
So you're just going to deal with it.
i've been dealing with it for months now so i'm sort of used to it.
But i know i have to, no matter how much it'll suck.
So you've been dealing with, and you've decided to still deal with it even though in your posts is pretty obvious you don't want to.
Keep doing that and you're going to leave yourself in a boat with a hole in the hull.
Ugghhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
That is all.
[QUOTE=hula whoop;29270725]i've been dealing with it for months now so i'm sort of used to it.
But i know i have to, no matter how much it'll suck.[/QUOTE]
you're not doing yourself any favors. It's obvious she's moved on, you should too.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
I know it's easier said than done but you can't let that girl control you like that. If she gets under your skin it means she's won.
My irritating voice irritates me, I want to use my new headset. Can this "transition" be any slower?
[QUOTE=God of Ashes;29284539]you're not doing yourself any favors. It's obvious she's moved on, you should too.
[editline]18th April 2011[/editline]
I know it's easier said than done but you can't let that girl control you like that. If she gets under your skin it means she's won.[/QUOTE]
i know
It's hard to believe how much I babble like an idiot this late at night lol.
it's funny though!
babble at derg
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