• The 'Get Stuff Off Your Chest' Thread V.2
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[QUOTE=Dank Dave;30716181]My best friend is nine weeks pregnant and she's only 17. I took her to Planned Parenthood multiple times and helped put together money so she could afford an abortion just for her to tell her mom she's pregnant literally days before her appointment. Now it looks like she's going to be keeping the baby and I just feel sick to my stomach. I've had a whole bunch of shit going on for the last few months and I've been really upset but somehow the only person who seems to notice/care is my english teacher. None of my friends have asked me if anything's wrong or if I'm okay, neither has my dad. My teacher actually waited until a few days after I graduated from high school before calling my dad to ask if I'm okay. That only made him freak out for a couple of hours before pretending like the call never happened. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not happy and I haven't been since December. [editline]26th June 2011[/editline] Really though, what's wrong with me? I'm always there for my friends whenever they need me and if I'm ever worried about them I always make sure to ask but no one seems to notice when I'm not alright. If I try and talk to people about it they're just not interested and start talking about their problems instead. For years I've helped my friends through all sorts of shit but no one wants to help me.[/QUOTE] No matter how extreme a problem it always helps to have someone to support you. This is concerning a life here, it's not something you should get advice on from random people on the internet. Tell someone you can trust exactly how you feel.
Girlfriend just broke up with me, I really did like her, but I'm not even feeling any emotion towards any of it. I was even planning on spending a load of time in my summer holidays with her. What is wrong with me? :smith:
[QUOTE=Dank Dave;30716181]My best friend is nine weeks pregnant and she's only 17. I took her to Planned Parenthood multiple times and helped put together money so she could afford an abortion just for her to tell her mom she's pregnant literally days before her appointment. Now it looks like she's going to be keeping the baby and I just feel sick to my stomach. I've had a whole bunch of shit going on for the last few months and I've been really upset but somehow the only person who seems to notice/care is my english teacher. None of my friends have asked me if anything's wrong or if I'm okay, neither has my dad. My teacher actually waited until a few days after I graduated from high school before calling my dad to ask if I'm okay. That only made him freak out for a couple of hours before pretending like the call never happened. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not happy and I haven't been since December. [editline]26th June 2011[/editline] Really though, what's wrong with me? I'm always there for my friends whenever they need me and if I'm ever worried about them I always make sure to ask but no one seems to notice when I'm not alright. If I try and talk to people about it they're just not interested and start talking about their problems instead. For years I've helped my friends through all sorts of shit but no one wants to help me.[/QUOTE] She must have been ready to be a mother when she decided to get knocked up. Her fault, her problem. You're suppose to think before you do things, especially when the consequence is pregnancy. It's nice to have people there to help when you get yourself into some shit, but is irresponsible to expect them to help you every time. The father should already have a job by now. He better be ready to take care of his kid.
[QUOTE=Donutsalad;30727809]She must have been ready to be a mother when she decided to get knocked up. Her fault, her problem. You're suppose to think before you do things, especially when the consequence is pregnancy.[/QUOTE] I bet it's pretty easy to say things like "her fault, her problem" when you've never been through anything in your life. [editline]26th June 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Nightsure;30727660]Girlfriend just broke up with me, I really did like her, but I'm not even feeling any emotion towards any of it. I was even planning on spending a load of time in my summer holidays with her. What is wrong with me? :smith:[/QUOTE] You didn't like her as much as you thought you did.
i can't be assed to do relationships anymore i still get people asking, but i just don't see anything happening with them, so i don't bother.
I'm 18 and I've still never been in a relationship. I don't exactly know why, it's a combination of things I guess. I'm not very social in general, and I'm very uncomfortable with getting close to people as I don't have very much self confidence. But, it's gonna have to change soon, and the only one who can make that happen is me.
[QUOTE=Kurtzund;30734595]I'm 18 and I've still never been in a relationship. I don't exactly know why, it's a combination of things I guess. I'm not very social in general, and I'm very uncomfortable with getting close to people as I don't have very much self confidence. But, it's gonna have to change soon, and the only one who can make that happen is me.[/QUOTE] Just don't get to the point where you HAVE to have a girlfriend, because then when you can't get one, you'll get depressed and your negative energy will send them away, it'll be a paradox of lonliness. Just be content with who you are, a girl doesn't make you special. Just do you and eventually something special will come strutting your way. I have faith in you Wolf Hat.
[QUOTE=pakadots;30735319]Just don't get to the point where you HAVE to have a girlfriend, because then when you can't get one, you'll get depressed and your negative energy will send them away, it'll be a paradox of lonliness. Just be content with who you are, a girl doesn't make you special. Just do you and eventually something special will come strutting your way. I have faith in you Wolf Hat.[/QUOTE] Yes Sifu Pakadots.
I feel like I've fucked up somewhere... I've been arrested twice for doing what authority has told me to do, and I've been left with almost an anti-social mess ever since I got too this fucking state. I can't stand it anymore... Oh Joey you pushed some books, and went too pick them up? Well you get sacked by a 250 pound cop, and are arrested in the 4th Grade. You are ordered to take ADD meds such as Wellbuitrin which makes you want too off yourself, and you attempted too kill yourself [B]three[/B] fucking times now. Or... Oh Joey.. Because you refused too let some fucking cocky pricks tell you too off yourself like your uncle, and raised a fist too them you get arrested, and are forced onto a short bus, and are only allowed half days. Which causes you too go Anti-Social because of some other fucking meds they want you too take to make you happy. Do to that I ran off from 8th Grade, and pratically started drinking because I tried finding an escape which could make me satisfied with my shit life. That little happy place called home? Doesn't exist. I wake up to a reality where the people I care about are constantly ill from trying to take energy drinks too keep up with the world around them, and theirs nothing I can do to attempt to help. I'm pushed aside, and told, "you can't help" or "it's not something you can do".. Thens comes freshman year... Highschool. That little period where your suppose to enjoy yourself... Where am I? Locked in a fricking classroom the size of a jail cell cause they deem me A-Social and want me to be more secluded. So yeah... I tried proving them wrong, that I could be something... I almost finished my entire ninth grade year on these little internet classes with aviation classes on top in the first three months. I got sick though on my last lessons... So I took leave, but did work, at home. I came back the next week... I'm told I've been kicked out until I can get a germ-m shot... No biggy! I'll get that! I got it. Came back the next day. I was told all my credits were revoked, and that I had to redo the whole damn year. I tried to make something of myself, and you know where it got me? Thrown... Right back down into the fucking first square. I lost my only chance to becoming my dream of being a pilot, becoming something better then my previous outputs, and worst of all I wouldn't be able to go back until the next year, and they were going to shove me right back into the ninth grade.... Behinde everyone I tried to prove wrong. So you know what? I said screw it. I just dropped out right there, and then, and said never again. I then just stayed home... Tried finding some peace on video games, but I've only found the more I morphed my old reality into a virtual reality I just grew more, and more hatred for those around me. I've found myself at points screaming, and yelling at random people on servers cause they say, "I'm going to quit school" or something of the relevance cause I don't want them to be put in the same posistion I'm in. I know I may be just ranting, and speaking in third person... Just.. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm trying to get a job, but I'm looked down on for such pathetic reasons. It kinda kills someone after awhile. I just need guidance.. I know I need a GED, I know I'm going to need a degree, but I feel as if I don't have any ground which I can put skill towards and have atleast something to be proud of. I'm sorry if I'm sounding petty... I'm just looking for help.
Joe, that sounds like one hell of an assbackwards high school that you had to go to. I'm really sorry the state you moved to has fucked your life up so much. The best thing I can suggest is going to a non-psychiatric therapist, like a psychologist or psychotherapist who will focus more on cognitively aiding you instead of giving you medication. Psychologists can be really caring and understanding about problems, and are more intent to listen and give feedback instead of labeling you outright.
Its been so hard for me to lose weight, Ive went down from 108KG to 91KG which is what i am now, but its hard to continue now. Every time i look at the mirror i just wanna smash my head to the wall until i bleed to death ;_;
I'm incredibly glad I left my former imageboard community back at the end of last year. (I'm changing most of the names and references just to keep any drama off of my back. I'll call the community AF) If any of you guys have been to the imageboard, the forum as a whole is very fucked up. In its heyday it was easily one of the biggest repositories of TF2 media and micspams; some of the members (especially evang7, who created the crayon TF2 character) were highlighted in the TF2 community for their work. People like Stegblob and EvilDaedalus, who are actually both friends of mine, are/use to be regular members. There's always been a strong, strong sense of elitism though throughout the community. There was this one guy, I'll call him X - you'd probably recognize him if I told you his real name - who had a strong following in the community. Off of AF he was an alright guy - known to be kinda friendly and a very good TF2 player - but he was a massive troll throughout the site. And people loved him for it. He would call people out in most threads and argue with them, and whoever he targeted the rest of the community tended to follow suit. And it didn't matter that he was a rich Scottish troll who lived in a mess of a house, rarely left the house, suffered from depression, and sometimes didn't shower for days. On one of the secret boards of today's AF, X even left the password and username for his Steam account because he felt like he had to leave the internet for good - then he came back a few days later because he couldn't handle it without the internet. Eventually X took over the site when the original owner left (a hacker took down the site because they leaked a TF2 exploit). X wasn't a bad owner - he didn't ban people just because he disliked them - but with him in-charge it wasn't exactly a comfortable place. Eventually he tried changing the imageboard over to a forum, which split the community in two: everyone who loved X, his AF, or his sort followed suit there, while a comp player - Y - created an imageboard of AF all over again. Y ended up paying a large sum of money to buy the domain for the other AF, and that's how AF exists today. iirc X was banned for fun - X and Y are good friends now. AF also often harassed its members for no good reason. There was another friend of mine on AF, I'll call her Z, who joined about midway through AF's life. Now, one of the most important things to know about AF is that not everyone on there is your stereotypical lonely /v/irgin. When the site first came together, many of the members were. There use to be jokes about how no one would ever get "Friends Like These" in TF2 because no one had any friends. Well, that changed over time - the community became much more tightknit, separated from /v/ altogether, and existed as its own imageboard in the Internet. However, the imageboard at times held serious problems with women. As you can imagine, AF was more of a man's club than a woman's simply because more men were there. Not everyone on AF was single - there were some steady guys and girls on there - but, as you can guess, women held a strict standard on there. Only a few women seemed to pass the test that they were "worthy" of AF - one was a former moderator who held herself very androgynously, who most of the community probably was infatuated with; another held her identity for as long as she could, fearing the community thinking her a girl. There were a few other girls too who passed through the radar, but many of the girls who posted ended up facing some form of harassment one way or another. Z's harassment was hands-down the worst. Z posted different from most of AF to start, and one of the reasons she came to AF was to protect a friend. That was already 2 strikes against her. And she was female. A friend (of sorts) of mine, one of the strong creators of drama, thought it would be fun to go after her on the board's drama site, /dra/, because at the time there was no good drama appearing (don't worry, he created a thread for me too! he's still my friend though, I know there's no harm done even though he helped hurt my rep). This was about Winter of 2009 - 2010. The community followed suit. Things got ugly for her; a lot of the community turned against her. They called her an attention whore. They thought she was stupid. When she posted a thread in the fashion section about skirts, the topic became sexual and people made jokes about her butt. Towards the end of Z's time on AF, one troll popped up, saying very creepy things towards her publicly about things he'd love to do with her in private. Z eventually left; I left about the same time she did too. I knew AF was a negative influence on me, and I wasn't well-liked by parts of the community anyway due to my own fair share of drama and posts. As for the other girls? The former moderator abandoned AF towards the start of this year after she was ostracized (for, what I understand, no good reason). The girl who tried to hold out her identity was eventually exposed through a thread after someone thought it would be a good idea to make a /dra/ thread for her for making "stupid" comments (getting a /dra/ thread can be a death sentence or a small blow to your rep, depending on the occasion and your own response). Somewhere along the line another girl popped up after Z too, who one of my girl friends on there claimed "was a lot like Z," but from what I understand she too left. So there you have it, a story from the internet about how in the age of technology, freethought, and gender equality, a community of 1,000-something lonely liberal males can belittle girls just because of their own issues. From what I understand the community is a shadow of what it use to be in many respects, and you'd be mistaken to believe ostracizing others doesn't have a part of it.
after lurking for a while i finally made a account....i just wanted to get that off my chest!
[QUOTE=turkeysandvich;30739158]Its been so hard for me to lose weight, Ive went down from 108KG to 91KG which is what i am now, but its hard to continue now. Every time i look at the mirror i just wanna smash my head to the wall until i bleed to death ;_;[/QUOTE] Hey atleast your not a guy with women curves dude! And when I say curves I mean I've got a huge fucking hip and everything...!
[QUOTE=turkeysandvich;30739158]Its been so hard for me to lose weight, Ive went down from 108KG to 91KG which is what i am now, but its hard to continue now. Every time i look at the mirror i just wanna smash my head to the wall until i bleed to death ;_;[/QUOTE] I was overweight maybe a year or so ago. I'm pretty short and I was about 180lbs. I tried a ton of stuff. But what really did it for me was getting into cycling. I bought a fixie and I loved riding so much I did it every day. Now I weigh about 130 lbs. The trick is just find something physically active that you like doing so much that it doesn't seem like work or exercise.
[QUOTE=Gaymer;30739872]after lurking for a while i finally made a account....i just wanted to get that off my chest![/QUOTE] GOD FOR YOU!
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;30788973]parents divorcing asking where i want to live this sucks[/QUOTE] Flip a coin? [editline]30th June 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Donutsalad;30727809]She must have been ready to be a mother when she decided to get knocked up. Her fault, her problem. You're suppose to think before you do things, especially when the consequence is pregnancy. It's nice to have people there to help when you get yourself into some shit, but is irresponsible to expect them to help you every time. The father should already have a job by now. He better be ready to take care of his kid.[/QUOTE] A highschooler or beginning college student would not make enough money to support a child if they live apart from their family. Girls don't say "I'm ready to have a baby" every time they have sex. It wasn't on purpose I'm sure. She wasn't "ready" just because she had sex. People are [i]supposed[/] to think before having sex, but that does [b]not[/b] mean that they do. You can't just write someone off like that and not offer support just because you're an insensitive ass. She needs some support.
[QUOTE=Nightsure;30727660]Girlfriend just broke up with me, I really did like her, but I'm not even feeling any emotion towards any of it. I was even planning on spending a load of time in my summer holidays with her. What is wrong with me? :smith:[/QUOTE] Most likely in a form of denial, or something like that. Be happy it wasn't your fault in some major way, that really makes it worse.
Apparently, my appreciation towards an obscure Japanese shmup makes me a weaboo despite not watching any anime since the first season of The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya.
[QUOTE=flashn00b;30816541]Apparently, my appreciation towards an obscure Japanese shmup makes me a weaboo despite not watching any anime since the first season of The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya.[/QUOTE] That term has lost all meaning, if it ever had any. Don't worry about it.
My nan is in hospital dying at the moment. I'm seeing her tomorrow and it's going to be the last time I'll see her as her prognoses is that she has under 2 weeks left. Feels bad man, this would be the first family death I'll experience as I'm alive as everyone else has died before I was born.
i just took off my shirt does that count?
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;30818230]Think of the moments you have enjoyed together, and not of what you could have. It really helped me. My condolences.:frown:[/QUOTE] Thanks, that has helped a bit :unsmith:
I have a few things. I hate my dad and my oldest brother. Not just like the normal "teenage rage" hate. I honestly get a headache whenever my dad talks to me, he yells at me for completely pointless stuff like him misplacing something, the cat being in his way (how that's my problem I'll never know), and I've gotten to the point where I've walked out of the house for several hours until he cools off. And my oldest brother's pretty similar, except he feels the need to pick fights with me. I always win, but it makes me sick that he thinks he can get away with all the stuff he does, or rather doesn't do, like never helping out around the house, despite being out of college and having no job. He's picked fights with my brother who's a year older than me too, and lost those as well. Also, I'm gonna be a senior in high school next year, and I like a girl that's gonna be a freshman next year. She's 14 and I'm 17. I'm almost positive she likes me back, but it just seems weird. A lot of seniors date freshmen, but the age difference just makes me feel uneasy. Is it normal in other schools?
Most of my decisions (Major ones included) are decided from a simple coin toss.
[QUOTE=BlueFlash;30838750] Also, I'm gonna be a senior in high school next year, and I like a girl that's gonna be a freshman next year. She's 14 and I'm 17. I'm almost positive she likes me back, but it just seems weird. A lot of seniors date freshmen, but the age difference just makes me feel uneasy. Is it normal in other schools?[/QUOTE] I know several couples with that much age difference in high-school. [QUOTE=Amaurus;30838810]Most of my decisions (Major ones included) are decided from a simple coin toss.[/QUOTE] That's not a problem. You're a badass. Or a potential villain on Batman.
I liked this girl I met at a camp. Like, a big-ass crush on this girl. Now it's a week later, I'm back home and I didn't make a move on her. Now I miss her. And she lives two hours away. :(
[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;30859736]I liked this girl I met at a camp. Like, a big-ass crush on this girl. Now it's a week later, I'm back home and I didn't make a move on her. Now I miss her. And she lives two hours away. :([/QUOTE] Fuck that. If you have her number call her. You're not losing that easy. Two hours? Pfft
[QUOTE=KingKombat;30859897]Fuck that. If you have her number call her. You're not losing that easy. Two hours? Pfft[/QUOTE] I do have her number. What the hell do I do after that? How would I get to where she lives/she get to where I live?
Bus, metro, or bike.
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