My girlfriend of three years just confessed to me that she used to be a man
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I think in this situation you should just stay with her, if there was going to be a problem with her sex change you would of notice by now.
Honestly, the only HALF WAY reasonable excuse to break up with her over this is if you have always wanted children.
If you break up with her because "ew she used to be a man" you are fucking idiot and she deserves better.
[QUOTE=-nesto-;37681177]This thread went downhill fast as hell
Fuck it I'm going to watch some shemale porn
peace[/QUOTE]
Just gotta say I have been reading this entire thread, and you have to be the dumbest person that I have seen in here so far. You contradict yourself more than anything and you never actually answer any questions, you simply pick at things that people say.
It's no wonder every single one of your posts is rated dumb
[QUOTE=RagerTrader;37686946]Honestly, the only HALF WAY reasonable excuse to break up with her over this is if you have always wanted children.
If you break up with her because "ew she used to be a man" you are fucking idiot and she deserves better.[/QUOTE]
Some people just aren't comfortable with it.
[QUOTE=RagerTrader;37686946]Honestly, the only HALF WAY reasonable excuse to break up with her over this is if you have always wanted children.
If you break up with her because "ew she used to be a man" you are fucking idiot and she deserves better.[/QUOTE]
I think it's deeper and more complex than that. Just because you can't sympathise with people who have broken up over this sort of thing doesn't mean people who do break up over this sort of thing are fucking idiots.
It's obviously a huge shock to discover this. It's a massive thing and to discover it when you're deep in a relationship could alter the way in which you perceive this person - for better or worse.
I don't think you can judge people for making such a huge and obviously difficult decision.
Werent you suspicious when she opened jars herself
[QUOTE=Leader of Me;37687162]Some people just aren't comfortable with it.[/QUOTE]
True. It's not like it's your fault if you aren't really. You can compare this to being a homophobe vs not being homosexual.
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;37685170]Violation, can you not take a harmless joke?
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Yeah I'm kinda done arguing because it seems to insult people when I do.[/QUOTE]
That's because it's a dumb argument.
[QUOTE=ArgvCompany;37687434]True. It's not like it's your fault if you aren't really. You can compare this to being a homophobe vs not being homosexual.[/QUOTE]
I agree. I was going to write in my above post about how we can't change our feelings but I think some type of feelings can be changed, perhaps.
Obviously you can't make yourself love somebody.
But the things that make us uncomfortable or that we are afraid of can be dealt with, I think; this is how people who are afraid of spiders (like me) manage to become not afraid of spiders (like not me yet) - by dealing with that fear.
I think 'being uncomfortable' may be the same? Perhaps it would take time to make ones self less disgusted by something?
I'm not sure really. It would be an interesting thing to explore
[QUOTE=ShazzyFreak0;37687530]That's because it's a dumb argument.[/QUOTE]
Not really
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;37687618]Not really[/QUOTE]
I thought you were finished
stop getting my hopes up
wait where did that title come from
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;37687663]wait where did that title come from[/QUOTE]
you lucky fuck i wish someone would get angry and buy me a title
any offers
At least she won't be able to use the on-the-blob excuse if you try to have sex.
Speaking of which, how did she pretend to have periods?
[QUOTE=Justin Case;37687770]At least she won't be able to use the on-the-blob excuse if you try to have sex.
Speaking of which, how did she pretend to have periods?[/QUOTE]
Aperantly she didn't have any and the OP didn't notice this.
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;37687809]Aperantly she didn't have any and the OP didn't notice this.[/QUOTE]
alot of people would consider it a blessing rather than a warning sign i guess
[i]"ignorance is bliss"[/i]
[QUOTE=Bobie;37687842]alot of people would consider it a blessing rather than a warning sign i guess
[i]"ignorance is bliss"[/i][/QUOTE]
I would first wonder if she's pregnant.
I bet every time I talk about pregnancy people are going to think I have a fucked up pregnancy fetish
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;37687882]I would first wonder if she's pregnant.
I bet every time I talk about pregnancy people are going to have a fucked up pregnancy fetish[/QUOTE]
Your title :v:
Am I the only one who has literally never been tricked into thinking a MTF trans is an actual woman?
IDK what it is, but even some of the most feminine amazing looking ones I've always inherently knew something was off about them and didn't feel any attraction at all.
There's a dude on my steam friends list who tries to get me with pics of trannies all the time, it never works and he claims to be only looking up the pics for "lolz" but he does this an awful lot. "Lel do you think this chick is hot??" "oh for fuck's sake... no" "lel why not" "it's a dude"
[QUOTE=matt.ant;37675504]Actually doesn't look that bad:
NSFW: [url]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qWjs5A6qfNY/TdN8_dci5PI/AAAAAAAAAvI/hXOjf2mmD44/s1600/sex+change+surgery+before+and+after+2.jpg[/url][/QUOTE]
This makes me wonder, and I'm not experienced in this field of medicine...
I mean, sure, you can make it LOOK like a vagina, but can you make it function like one? Of course, children are out of the question, that's not happening. But I mean nerve-endings, clitoris, all of that. Fully functional?
fuck all the politically correct shit
if I fucked a girl for like, three months and then 'she' was all
I was born a dude lol
I would probably end that relationship
[QUOTE=WhatAmI;37688348]fuck all the politically correct shit
if I fucked a girl for like, three months and then 'she' was all
I was born a dude lol
I would probably end that relationship[/QUOTE]
three years bro, not three months.
I'm not referring to the OP
[QUOTE=Justin Case;37687770]At least she won't be able to use the on-the-blob excuse if you try to have sex.
Speaking of which, how did she pretend to have periods?[/QUOTE]
She could have said she was on The Pill. Women on The Pill don't get periods.
There are Thai ladyboys who are prettier and more feminine than 90% of genetic females. If the person is also post op how is it a problem? Other than infertility which also applies to a significant minority of the people who are born with female parts.
The issue I would have would be that the person I'd been dating for a long time had been lying to me, or at least concealing the real facts. Kind of like if I dated a guy for years and with surgical help passed myself off as late thirties, then admitted to him that I'm actually much older. I'm pretty sure he'd be thinking "Wtf? This woman is a LIAR"
[QUOTE=Splurgy_A;37689034]She could have said she was on The Pill. Women on The Pill don't get periods.[/QUOTE]
I hope this is a reference to the earlier posts where someone was being ignorant about this.
[QUOTE=Derp Y. Mail;37688332]This makes me wonder, and I'm not experienced in this field of medicine...
I mean, sure, you can make it LOOK like a vagina, but can you make it function like one? Of course, children are out of the question, that's not happening. But I mean nerve-endings, clitoris, all of that. Fully functional?[/QUOTE]
Other than self lubrication, yes.
[QUOTE=verynicelady;37689042]There are Thai ladyboys who are prettier and more feminine than 90% of genetic females. If the person is also post op how is it a problem? Other than infertility which also applies to a significant minority of the people who are born with female parts.
The issue I would have would be that the person I'd been dating for a long time had been lying to me, or at least concealing the real facts. Kind of like if I dated a guy for years and with surgical help passed myself off as late thirties, then admitted to him that I'm actually much older. I'm pretty sure he'd be thinking "Wtf? This woman is a LIAR"[/QUOTE]
For the record ladyboy is the Thai equivalent of tranny. It's generally used to separate transwomen from ciswomen in a demeaning way.
[QUOTE=venn178;37689059]I hope this is a reference to the earlier posts where someone was being ignorant about this.[/QUOTE]
Well they do on those spacer pills, but you know what I mean
[QUOTE=venn178;37689059]I hope this is a reference to the earlier posts where someone was being ignorant about this.[/QUOTE]
The earlier post was his.
Oh jesus christ. I don't have words.
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