My girlfriend of three years just confessed to me that she used to be a man
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I cant help to wonder what she looks like
[QUOTE=cocknugget;37678447]I cant help to wonder what she looks like[/QUOTE]
well try imagining a woman
[QUOTE=cocknugget;37678447]I cant help to wonder what she looks like[/QUOTE]
A girl.
[QUOTE=cocknugget;37678447]I cant help to wonder what she looks like[/QUOTE]
a velociraptor
[QUOTE=RobbL;37677947]said the paedophile[/QUOTE]
Come into my Transit and I'll give you a lollipop :q:
[editline]15th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Bobie;37678476]a velociraptor[/QUOTE]
A SEXY velociraptor according to OP
[img]http://www.eatthedamncake.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/velociraptor.jpg[/img]
"i have a confession to make"
Well yeah, a girl sounds pretty obvious.. But just wondering mang jeez
Since when are transgendered dinosaurs sexy
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;37678707]Since when are transgendered dinosaurs sexy[/QUOTE]
It's been trendy since the middle of jurassic period
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Get with it man
[QUOTE=andrey191919;37675510]It looks nothing like that. if her vagina looked like that I would probably know something was wrong[/QUOTE]
so you didn't notice a missing cervix/vaginal fluid/no periods?
[QUOTE=BROSEPH;37678762]so you didn't notice a missing cervix/vaginal fluid/no periods?[/QUOTE]
Have you read the damn thread at all?
It's not like you stick your head up your girlfriends vagina every day to see if she's having her period.
[QUOTE=a dumb bear;37678735]It's been trendy since the middle of jurassic period
[editline]15th September 2012[/editline]
Get with it man[/QUOTE]
Unless you have an extreme vore fetish (go see a doctor if you do), I don't see how dinosaurs would be sexy.
this sounds kind of awesome actually if you think about it.
the reason why she/he waited 3 years was because they wanted to build a relationship and show you who they are. SO YOU WOULDN'T BREAK UP WITH THEM WHEN THEY TOLD YOU!!!
how do you expect a transexual to get a normal partner when their pickup line is "i used to have a dick"
he just wanted to feel normal and have a normal relationship that wasn't freaky at all. considering how much time you have under your belt and depending upon how you feel about him/her i would personally have no qualms continuing the relationship if it was a good one.
i wouldn't think of it as the person tricking you. as i said before, things just go smoother if you don't tell your partner right off the bat you used to have a dick. and if it were something they she/he revealed sooner the relationship would have gotten weird/awkward/freaky, and that's probably exactly what they don't want. they want to feel like a woman and be treated as such.
[QUOTE=BROSEPH;37678762]so you didn't notice a missing cervix/vaginal fluid/no periods?[/QUOTE]
Yeah guys the first thing I notice when I'm with a woman is whether or not they have a cervix.
[QUOTE=FoodStuffs;37678783]this sounds kind of awesome actually if you think about it.
the reason why she/he waited 3 years was because they wanted to build a relationship and show you who they are. SO YOU WOULDN'T BREAK UP WITH THEM WHEN THEY TOLD YOU!!!
how do you expect a transexual to get a normal partner when their pickup line is "i used to have a dick"
he just wanted to feel normal and have a normal relationship that wasn't freaky at all. considering how much time you have under your belt and depending upon how you feel about him/her i would personally have no qualms continuing the relationship if it was a good one.
i wouldn't think of it as the person tricking you. as i said before, things just go smoother if you don't tell your partner right off the bat you used to have a dick. and if it were something they she/he revealed sooner the relationship would have gotten weird/awkward/freaky, and that's probably exactly what they don't want. they want to feel like a woman and be treated as such.[/QUOTE]
not only this, but I'd love to see the people saying they'd break up due to trust issues to stop acting like they know what she goes through as if its some easy thing to do
[QUOTE=BROSEPH;37678762]so you didn't notice a missing cervix/vaginal fluid/no periods?[/QUOTE]
WHERE IS YOUR VAGINAL FLUID - broseph
[QUOTE=VIOLATION_SNG;37677817]Honestly she never deceived you in my opinion. She was and is a woman so really nothing changed basically besides that fact that you now know she cannot bear a child.[/QUOTE]
Honestly I can understand how someone would feel somewhat deceived in this situation. Just like I can understand why someone would be reluctant to tell someone that they had a sex change.
Due to the way society views transgender people there is a level of shame associated with being one. Though it isn't just the way society views transgender that causes this. For some people having an aversion to being sexually involved with someone you know was a different sex at some point in their lives is an unfortunately natural response. In an ideal world non of this would be an issue.
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[QUOTE=Lemonator;37677051]This is fucked up
if I were in that position I would kick his ass.[/QUOTE]
Quick question. Are you the same guy who pretty much posts this in every thread involving a transgender person or am I just mistaking you for some other idiot?
[QUOTE=Boxbot219;37679195]Honestly I can understand how someone would feel somewhat deceived in this situation. Just like I can understand why someone would be reluctant to tell someone that they had a sex change.
Due to the way society views transgender people there is a level of shame associated with being one. Though it isn't just the way society views transgender that causes this. For some people having an aversion to being sexually involved with someone you know was a different sex at some point in their lives is an unfortunately natural response. In an ideal world non of this would be an issue.[/QUOTE]
In short: Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;37678781]Unless you have an extreme vore fetish (go see a doctor if you do), I don't see how dinosaurs would be sexy.[/QUOTE]
it's a joke
[QUOTE=Van-man;37679237]In short: Damned if you do, damned if you don't.[/QUOTE]
Pretty much. Considering the OP came to facepunch of all places for advice on this matter I have a feeling they wouldn't have even started dating if she had mention her sex change from the beginning.
1. If you still love, care, and trust him then discuss this further with him, come to terms with the truth and stick with him.
2. If you come home one day, and he sheds his human skin and tries to eat you .... then you may want to re-think your relationship. I mean, who knows what other secrets he's hiding ?
3. He hasn't tried to coat you with condiments while you were sleeping ? Has he ? Hopefully you're not a light sleeper. I just want to make sure he doesn't show up to your bedroom at 3:30 in the morning with tongs, a meat cleaver and " kiss the cook " apron. Damn aliens ....
i like how you signed up to post that
you shouldnt refer to op's gf as "him", might not help his mood
[QUOTE=extatik;37679355]1. If you still love, care, and trust him then discuss this further with him, come to terms with the truth and stick with him.
2. If you come home one day, and he sheds his human skin and tries to eat you .... then you may want to re-think your relationship. I mean, who knows what other secrets he's hiding ?
3. He hasn't tried to coat you with condiments while you were sleeping ? Has he ? Hopefully you're not a light sleeper. I just want to make sure he doesn't show up to your bedroom at 3:30 in the morning with tongs, a meat cleaver and " kiss the cook " apron. Damn aliens ....[/QUOTE]
She*
Physical sex and mental gender are frequently if not always independent from one another. Just because there is a popular correlation between the two does not even remotely give either one the obligation or absolute law for one to represent the other.
Honestly, do you understand the level of trust and shit she had to have in you to tell you that? There is a reason she hadn't told you until now and honestly, she hasn't changed. She is the same person she was.
Your gonna do a major deal on her heart if you break up with her now because of this.
Oh god it's the transgender topic again, and it's gone exactly the same way as every other time it's been discussed.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37679532]Honestly, do you understand the level of trust and shit she had to have in you to tell you that? There is a reason she hadn't told you until now and honestly, she hasn't changed. She is the same person she was.
Your gonna do a major deal on her heart if you break up with her now because of this.[/QUOTE]
Breaking up with her because of this would be bone chillingly heartless, especially considering the fact of her being a female to begin with, while unfortunately acquiring the characteristics of a physical male sex initially.
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[QUOTE=carcarcargo;37679577]Oh god it's the transgender topic again, and it's gone exactly the same way as every other time it's been discussed.[/QUOTE]
And what exact same way would that be? If anything this thread seems to be a significantly better over a hypothetical average forum discussion that one would imagine, or quite thankfully so far.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;37675659]
I'm going to guess that you just don't know, but the word tranny is akin to the word faggot. The only people who call trans people that are bigots, plain and simple.[/QUOTE]
One word; elitism.
[QUOTE=genkaz92;37679579]
And what exact same way would that be? If anything this thread seems to be a significantly better over a hypothetical average forum discussion that one would imagine, or quite thankfully so far.[/QUOTE]
People who don't get the subject of transgenderism getting absolutely slated in massive arguments, and people trying to make other feels bad if they're not attracted to transgendered people, because fuck a persons right to their own sexuality.
she doesn't bleed at all, i guess
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