• How do I deal with this issue? It's driving me insane...
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[QUOTE=Galex7471;17223405]I don't know as if you can really change your mother since she's been like this for years, but the only thing I can suggest is to get your sister out of the house on weekends if you don't want her being around your drunken mother and her boyfriend. I know you said that you're living with her because of monetary reasons, but is there anyway you can find a cheap apartment or crash with a friend in the meantime? It would at least get you out of the house if it's causing you this much grief (which I can definitely understand). Otherwise, is there a way that you could stay in the house and be completely unobtrusive, such as coming in another entrance that she won't notice? If you just have to put up with it until November, you could always just make countdowns and have mini-celebrations at pre-designated points until you can get out on your own.[/QUOTE] Finally a mature reply for once, thanks. Yeah it's pretty much just monetary (in her eyes since I pay bills) at this point. I make a conscious effort to not even talk to her. My sister is turning into her unfortunately, and since she really has no one raising her, she acts much younger than she really is. My fiance's sister who is around her age, acts very mature. Maybe I'm comparing where I shouldn't be, I don't know. No one I know right now has room for someone to crash, and even so, if I left my shit at this place, not a great idea. My mother has no respect for someone else's property.
[QUOTE=faze;17223443]Finally a mature reply for once, thanks. Yeah it's pretty much just monetary (in her eyes since I pay bills) at this point. I make a conscious effort to not even talk to her. My sister is turning into her unfortunately, and since she really has no one raising her, she acts much younger than she really is. My fiance's sister who is around her age, acts very mature. Maybe I'm comparing where I shouldn't be, I don't know. No one I know right now has room for someone to crash, and even so, if I left my shit at this place, not a great idea. My mother has no respect for someone else's property.[/QUOTE] If you do crash at someone's place, first off, don't tell your mom or anybody really [B]JUST[/B] [b]LEAVE[/b]. Second, If she does find out somehow. Seriously man, who gives a shit if its family or your mother. She's trespassing / vandalizing call the god damn police! If your mom is going to hold you back from your potential and treat you like a piece of shit, so be it. I have 3 key words "DITCH THE BITCH". There's no reason for you to sit back and watch her destroy her own life and worry about it. Live your own, don't deal with hers. Again, priorities brotha, get the fuck out of that hell hole.
You and your dad get a lawyer and sue her ass, she's probably breaching something in the divorce contract.
[QUOTE=Dysfunctional;17224089]If you do crash at someone's place, first off, don't tell your mom or anybody really [B]JUST[/B] [b]LEAVE[/b]. Second, If she does find out somehow. Seriously man, who gives a shit if its family or your mother. She's trespassing / vandalizing call the god damn police! If your mom is going to hold you back from your potential and treat you like a piece of shit, so be it. I have 3 key words "DITCH THE BITCH". There's no reason for you to sit back and watch her destroy her own life and worry about it. Live your own, don't deal with hers. Again, priorities brotha, get the fuck out of that hell hole.[/QUOTE] Lol ditch the bitch... classic. I guess I just need to stop bitching and just deal with it. Ignoring her has worked so far. [QUOTE=ReAnimator;17224100]You and your dad get a lawyer and sue her ass, she's probably breaching something in the divorce contract.[/QUOTE] How? They're in the middle of it still.
[QUOTE=VladimirPutin;17221464]Solution to all problems regarding women: Rape her.[/QUOTE] This works every time.
[QUOTE=faze;17224637]How? They're in the middle of it still.[/QUOTE] Still in the middle of getting a divorce?
Yes.
live with your dad
[QUOTE=BM||J;17226435]live with your dad[/QUOTE] Read post 16.
Stop bitching about your life and fucking move out. Your 22, you "sell steam servers" and as you said you get 30k/year you have more then enough to go somewhere else, stop trying to unload all your stupid problems on a forum when you have all the how to right the fuck in front of you.
[QUOTE=windy_crack;17226483]Stop bitching about your life and fucking move out. Your 22, you "sell steam servers" and as you said you get 30k/year you have more then enough to go somewhere else, stop trying to unload all your stupid problems on a forum when you have all the how to right the fuck in front of you.[/QUOTE] Read the rest of the thread. There was really nothing in my price range open until November, and you can't sign a two month lease. And the steam server thing is because people constantly message me asking for help, and it's irritating. I own a web hosting company, so I do game servers too now.
[QUOTE=faze;17226498]Read the rest of the thread. There was really nothing in my price range open until November, and you can't sign a two month lease. And the steam server thing is because people constantly message me asking for help, and it's irritating. I own a web hosting company, so I do game servers too now.[/QUOTE] Then wait and just ignore her.
motel - 30-50 USD / day - means ~ 1500 USD / 30k a year :12 = 2500/month - should be a deal if you REALLY HAVE TO GO! - if not, stay home. - if yes, move to a motel until nov.
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