• Love Letter to a Girl That Left Me
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[QUOTE=SabrinaS;48779534]I'm not even sure why I came back and posted on this forum. Maybe I'm trying to resolve/bury the past in my head. I'm tired of the sick people in my life who have fed off my patience. I'm tired of having kept my mouth shut, thoughts hidden, feelings repressed to fit someone's else's sick head. This experience has been somewhat liberating. I don't know why exactly, but I feel so relieved. I did not tell any of my family members or friends about him or what happened. It feels good to let it out. kinda sad, but I can assure you all that everything here is 100% real.[/QUOTE] If this is a troll it is funny, if it is not real then shame on you. Why you ask? Because you're normal. This guy was weird and obviously weird, hence you deciding to try to "fix" him. You didn't accept him for who he was and thought you could change him and bit off more than you could chew. You shouldn't of been his friend if you couldnt accept him and once you realized you bit off more than you could chew you just jumped ship and left him to drown. You didn't take into consideration the consequences of getting yourself involved in a person's life who is unstable and thus alone so he finally found one person he could rely on and then you just rip that out from under him. Then of course when he has the mental breakdown from such a loss you can just blame it on him since hes the disturbed one. And of course everyone rolls with it without thinking. Yea he is fucked up, but you're not and made the conscious decision to fucking "fix" him. He is fucked up and has a lot of shit he needs sorted out but not all the blame can fall on him you're just using him as an entire scapegoat to cover up your fucked up social experiment.
accept him if this was real this man was a trainwreck. this is not something to be accepted as it is, it's something that needs, needs, needs help. are you seriously trying to put blame on someone for having sympathy and trying to help someone who clearly needs it?
No but she didn't attempt to cooperate with other people to help him? She just jumped ship after trying to be his sole support for a year. She's not entirely to blame but she had a hand in this break down and isnt taking responsibility for it.
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[QUOTE=Itachi_Crow;48780353]accept him if this was real this man was a trainwreck. this is not something to be accepted as it is, it's something that needs, needs, needs help. are you seriously trying to put blame on someone for having sympathy and trying to help someone who clearly needs it?[/QUOTE] And this girl clearly doesn't need to be burdened with his weird shit. He needs professional help, not hers
The point is she shouldnt of tried to offer it, if she thought she needed to fix him she shouldn't of even been hanging out with him in the first place. She took it upon herself, and by doing so clearly indicates she knew he was fucked up. She didn't know the extent and decided to get herself involved on no information and became his support for a year. Do you really think this guy had many other people to confide or vent on? He is immensely fucked up and needs help and shouldnt be around her but she had a role in this shes trying to shrug off.
[QUOTE=1chains1;48780373]No but she didn't attempt to cooperate with other people to help him? She just jumped ship after trying to be his sole support for a year. She's not entirely to blame but she had a hand in this break down and isnt taking responsibility for it.[/QUOTE] no reason for her to take responsibility
[QUOTE=1chains1;48780287]If this is a troll it is funny, if it is not real then shame on you. Why you ask? Because you're normal. This guy was weird and obviously weird, hence you deciding to try to "fix" him. You didn't accept him for who he was and thought you could change him and bit off more than you could chew. You shouldn't of been his friend if you couldnt accept him and once you realized you bit off more than you could chew you just jumped ship and left him to drown. You didn't take into consideration the consequences of getting yourself involved in a person's life who is unstable and thus alone so he finally found one person he could rely on and then you just rip that out from under him. Then of course when he has the mental breakdown from such a loss you can just blame it on him since hes the disturbed one. And of course everyone rolls with it without thinking. Yea he is fucked up, but you're not and made the conscious decision to fucking "fix" him. He is fucked up and has a lot of shit he needs sorted out but not all the blame can fall on him you're just using him as an entire scapegoat to cover up your fucked up social experiment.[/QUOTE] Never did I ever say anywhere that it was my intention to "fix" him. I wanted to help him get through his depression. In fact, I went through such pains to help him become his own person that I let him get away with too many inappropriate things (driving to my state trying to find me, posting inappropriate drawings and writings, putting me down) etc. My only mistake was thinking that I could help him at all. I finally "jumped ship" after he sent me the email tearing me down and describing pedophilia behaviors (I wonder if you saw that?) There is no responsibility for me to take, not any.
[QUOTE=SabrinaS;48780436]I finally "jumped ship" after he sent me the email tearing me down and describing pedophilia behaviors (I wonder if you saw that?)[/QUOTE] He was never very active on the forums. If he said anything about being a pedophile he would get banned, the moderators on our forum don't mess around
[QUOTE=Mikenopa;48776393]I'm currently enrolled in training to become a conductor for the railroad.[/QUOTE] Please don't apply for a job with the MBTA. I don't want my commute interrupted by piss balloons.
Don't mind me, here for the piss
I'm having trouble processing all this madness
[QUOTE=SabrinaS;48780436] I finally "jumped ship" after he sent me the email tearing me down and describing pedophilia behaviors (I wonder if you saw that?) [/QUOTE] Did he try to contact you during/after that whole Israel incident?
:snip: found it on page 3 [IMG]http://individual.icons-land.com/IconsPreview/3D-Food/PNG/16x16/Fruit_Lime.png[/IMG]
OP's IP is still within the same city from when he first posted, Sabrina is (quite literally) 1000 miles away. OP needs to seek professional mentoring- just talk to a shrink, it's not like you go to a hospital and say "I'M SICK IN THE HEAD!" and they tie you to a chair for interrogation. A peanut gallery on the internet isn't the place to look for answers to any of this I hope some closure came out of coming here [i]somehow[/i]
Can't say I expected all this when I saw that the thread got bumped
[QUOTE=SabrinaS;48780436]Never did I ever say anywhere that it was my intention to "fix" him. I wanted to help him get through his depression. In fact, I went through such pains to help him become his own person that I let him get away with too many inappropriate things (driving to my state trying to find me, posting inappropriate drawings and writings, putting me down) etc. My only mistake was thinking that I could help him at all. I finally "jumped ship" after he sent me the email tearing me down and describing pedophilia behaviors (I wonder if you saw that?) There is no responsibility for me to take, not any.[/QUOTE] Do you still have the drawings?
in this thread: 20% content 80% of "wow this thread is amazing"
Home > Forum > Facepunch > Sensationalist Headlines Healthy 24-Year-Old Granted Right to Die in Belgium [QuOTE=Mikenopa;48088496]I wish someone would do this to me.[/QUOTE]
I can't believe I missed this thread. This is pure gold!
Have you been making sure to feed the Toad hand Spiders?
[QUOTE=dai;48780607]OP's IP is still within the same city from when he first posted, Sabrina is (quite literally) 1000 miles away. OP needs to seek professional mentoring- just talk to a shrink, it's not like you go to a hospital and say "I'M SICK IN THE HEAD!" and they tie you to a chair for interrogation. A peanut gallery on the internet isn't the place to look for answers to any of this I hope some closure came out of coming here [i]somehow[/i][/QUOTE] His story describes that he tried at least 7 psych wards iirc
[QUOTE=SabrinaS;48775694]HI'm sexually attracted to little girls. Not all girls. Some girls are ugly. I would probably end up molesting a girl if I lived into my thirties. I couldn't imagine living that long and staying sane alone. There are several occasions in which I did sexual acts towards Lizzy. She only questioned me once. I regret all of them. The biggest offense was when I slept with her. We slept in the same bed together and I grinded my clothed crotch against her behind. She was asleep. I eventually orgasmed and joined her. Another occasion was when she was sitting on my lap. I began to get an erection. I started hopping her up and down on my crotch. She eventually said to me " what are you doing, weirdo?" I said "nothing." Another time was when we were on the trampoline. We were playing leapfrog. I had an erection and would rub my crotch against her behind slightly too long[/QUOTE] [B]WTF?!?!?![/B] can we perma this guy and has he been reported to authorities?
M Edit Sorry, had a mispost. But holy shit, no wonder this threads alive again. I thought facepunch just collectively decided to laugh at the sod again like usual.
Holy guacamole this thread.
[QUOTE=exhale77;48776562]If this is real, the majority of you are very insensitive. This whole thread so far has been wildly unethical with regards to it's comments. Where's the Facepunch that helped that suicidal man a week ago? Someone who is (severly) depressed and suicidal is [i]never[/i] something to laugh at. Look at yourselves. Take a long look.[/QUOTE] Helping someone with actual problems and the will to get better =/= Helping an idiot who keeps shooting himself in the foot. And digging himself deeper
Thanks a lot Kahgarak for linking this thread. This relieved my stress for the rest of the day. Holy shit, million thanks.
Guys, this is someone who's apparently been taking drugs every day and is not all there because of them. It's not that funny - like, how many more pages of "WTF!?!" to make it worse.
[QUOTE=MuffinZerg;48781082]His story describes that he tried at least 7 psych wards iirc[/QUOTE] if he's got a history of bullshitting suicide threats I wouldn't exactly take all his claims at face value. Even if it's true, he really needs to approach those situations [i]wanting help[/i], not attention nor coddling.
Please sticky this thread, this is amazing :v:
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