• Gay Chat V15
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i hate holidays since i don't have any vocal chat with anyone during it, it gets really depressing and empty, I don't know where to start cause i really want to be a part of online friend groups, but i'm insanely lost in doing so. meanwhile, having school is great with friends but the work makes me so anxious, and my anxiety issues are making everything really hard/impossible for me to do/figure out. I can't sleep due to it so i waste time on the computer and once ended up staying awake for so long only getting 2 hours of sleep within 2 days,
[QUOTE=J!NX;49299840]stalk him in real life and constantly keep putting glitter bombs and legos everywhere he goes until he stops doing it to people[/QUOTE] No. Use pineapples.
Those dreams where I'm hugging somebody that loves me or just doing lovey dovey things, they drive me mad because I know it's not gonna happen
Tip 2 for staying happy - 2. Don't eat bread, it is literally the worst thing in the world. So high in carbs. Also I remember when one of my friends told me how he would make a female character on Runescape and get loads of items sent his way.
[QUOTE=Sleeves;49300635]Tip 2 for staying happy - 2. Don't eat bread, it is literally the worst thing in the world. So high in carbs.[/QUOTE] [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/xb2m4NN.png[/IMG]
I'm gonna do nothing but watch Mad Men and work on final projects for the next week, life is good.
i came out as bi a week ago and my family seems to be fine with it, so that's cool but when do i stop feeling awkward around them? and when do i stop feeling like they're lying about being fine with it?
[QUOTE=RedStar;49301466]i came out as bi a week ago and my family seems to be fine with it, so that's cool but when do i stop feeling awkward around them? and when do i stop feeling like they're lying about being fine with it?[/QUOTE] its an understandable feeling, i have many friends who still feel the same way in this, you're definitely not alone on that one. but good on you for taking such a big step dude
Now I remember why I fucking hate Christmas and any other gift based holiday/day/event/bullshit, first I've ended up being pulled into paying half for a £120 watch for my dad, then forced into buying a card and a £10 gift card for my moms parents who I fucking hate. Now I've had to spend £42 on gifts for my own parents because the hell that would be unleashed if I got them nothing is stupid. I have £110 to last me till the 10th Jan, fuck everything. All the fucking money I've had has gone towards rent payments and travel costs, I've not been able to get myself anything I wanted this year.
I don't really buy presents, but I do buy cards and stuff, I am too skint and I should be starting my job next week so I can give them presents on their birthday if they so desire.
you're not forced to buy anything if you literally can't afford it just tell them so if they're dicks about it they're not worth it anyway
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;49301583]Christmas makes me panic and it makes me cry at all the money I'm [I]forced[/I] to spend.[/QUOTE] i personally don't see why your obligated to deliver gifts if for example your financial situation isn't the best. I'm sure most people would be understanding of this.
like unless you're in a psycho situation where your parents fund your education but demand christmas gifts in return, do not bitch all over the holidays just because you caved into the desire to buy people things
[QUOTE=bitches;49301630]you're not forced to buy anything if you literally can't afford it just tell them so if they're dicks about it they're not worth it anyway[/QUOTE] I'm in the situation where my mom holds grudges if I don't do something, and its fucking annoying. She knows I have sod all money but doesn't care, I already threw 4 months rent at them to ensure I wouldn't overspend then she's like "hey can you pay half for this gift" and keeps asking even when I say no. Basically she wont give up until she gets things the way she wants.
4 months rent at them? So you're paying your own parents rent? parents that demand you pay them rent for all the money you need to survive and then demand what fraction remains in gifts??? that's just abuse and you should look into leaving
[QUOTE=bitches;49301689]should look into leaving[/QUOTE] Oh love to. If I had the option. Which I don't.
[QUOTE=bitches;49301641]like unless you're in a psycho situation where your parents fund your education but demand christmas gifts in return, do not bitch all over the holidays just because you caved into the desire to buy people things[/QUOTE] Don't give my parents ideas :v: Jk I'm using the $30 to get my mum a nice gift and something for my sister as well, probably a really nice drawing pen or some core essential like that. I always feel bad about the lack of thought I put into my father's gifts, but he's never tried to get to know me or spend time with me so eh [editline]12th December 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;49301699]I keep saying anyone is welcome to live at my place. Just pay rent and keep to yourself. [editline]13th December 2015[/editline] unpopular opinion but this is how i've been raised, [B]they are your parents, obey or get fucked[/B], my dad does not take no for an answer and i've gotta respect that whilst i'm in his house if it wasn't living with my dad i couldn't give two fucks[/QUOTE] At some point you have to make steps to increase your independence trust me. A few people here know some of what my parents have done, and it's similar to your situation. Start to get out, honestly. It sucks and is terrifying at first, the thought of eroding ties, but if it is malign to you to remain as is it's for the best
Thank god I don't have to pay rent to my parents. I barely have any money to pay my own bills and fuel, though I wonder why. Oh yeah it's due to the stepdad that owes me a near 1000€ for taking shit from my bank account before I turned 18 and got full control over it. It's fun getting fucked over [I]right[/I] before I would have actual proper use for the money. I have to rely on my grandparents to pay for my car's insurance and taxes because I just don't have the money for it. Breaks my heart every time I have to ask them for money or to pay for the bills. Getting 97€ a month as student support and nearly all of it goes on fuel, with the exception of 20€ going to phone bill. Yeah I know I should get a job to amass some money for myself, I've tried to get into 4-5 places and so far they've all clashed with my school scheduling and couldn't negotiate them for better times. Other places just outright say no since they can't afford someone like me to work really short shifts at evenings. I'd love to get out and become independent but currently I do have a house to live in for "free" and school is really close to it too. Hopefully things will pan out after the army. [sp]sorry if this seemed like a rant, just had to vent out a bit[/sp]
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;49302310]never knew the full story but fuck your step dad :([/QUOTE] There's a lot more of it but I figured I wouldn't go all out on that.
hellooooooo gays [editline]12th December 2015[/editline] [vid]https://a.pomf.cat/vtxozw.webm[/vid]
[QUOTE=Grim2o0o;49302534]hellooooooo gays [editline]12th December 2015[/editline] [vid]https://a.pomf.cat/vtxozw.webm[/vid][/QUOTE] Sup birdfag [vid]https://my.mixtape.moe/iqdvor.mp4[/vid]
[vid]https://i.imgur.com/LIToQJ1.webm[/vid] I wish I was as happy as this guy. Math test in four hours, big strategy change is to try to use rubber duck debugging on my entire math process and then redo most of the problems. I usually finish the test halfway through the testing session, so I figure I can afford (and really should) [I]slowthefuckdownyo[/I]
I don't know, but most of my friends are gay/bi Weird world I'm in.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;49301583]Christmas makes me panic and it makes me cry at all the money I'm [I]forced[/I] to spend.[/QUOTE] Do what I did. Lose your job before Christmas then you can be like "Sorry I'd love to get you something but I'm unemployed!" :suicide:
[QUOTE=Davidn64;49302952]I don't know, but most of my friends are gay/bi Weird world I'm in.[/QUOTE] Somewhat related, I was staying in a hostel a few nights ago and I glanced at the guy in the next bed over and he was on Grindr. Then he called his friend over and they started chatting in some language I didn't recognize :v: I installed it and made a dummy account just for fun and found out like half the guys staying there were on it :pride:
[QUOTE=ECrownofFire;49303311]Somewhat related, I was staying in a hostel a few nights ago and I glanced at the guy in the next bed over and he was on Grindr. Then he called his friend over and they started chatting in some language I didn't recognize :v: I installed it and made a dummy account just for fun and found out like half the guys staying there were on it :pride:[/QUOTE] Did you boner them
[QUOTE=ECrownofFire;49303311]Somewhat related, I was staying in a hostel a few nights ago and I glanced at the guy in the next bed over and he was on Grindr. Then he called his friend over and they started chatting in some language I didn't recognize :v: I installed it and made a dummy account just for fun and found out like half the guys staying there were on it :pride:[/QUOTE] You then proceeded to make it a real account and hooked up with all the attractive ones, right? [i]right?[/i]
[QUOTE=bitches;49301689]4 months rent at them? So you're paying your own parents rent? parents that demand you pay them rent for all the money you need to survive and then demand what fraction remains in gifts??? that's just abuse and you should look into leaving[/QUOTE] I'm stuck in the same situation, except my brother doesn't have a job and expects me to support him because we "agreed" to split the cost of food. Well if you're going to stay at home all day playing video games and not get a job or pay the rent or buy food you can go fuck yourself and starve, I'm not spending 200 bucks a week just to feed him and pay his rent, I'd rather get my own place and maybe I'd have my SO move in with me.
Hiya, guys. How've things been for y'all?
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49303628]Hiya, guys. How've things been for y'all?[/QUOTE] I want to drive into a wall :frown: Other than that, pretty cool. Finally got christmas shopping done.
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