[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;49312771]A financial firm is a step above Walmart in every regard. take the position[/QUOTE]
I know. Its just that Im doing so well at walmart Im afraid that if I leave I might fuck up at this new place. Also I should mention I can walk to my job right now. This new one requires a bus and is in the city.
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;49314663]I got a copy of my full birth certificate as I needed it for a Job to prove my identity and right to work.
It has a disclaimer on the bottom saying it does not prove my identity or right to work.
Excuse me what is the point of this.[/QUOTE]
Is it like...a copy or a reissue of a birth certificate? For the birth certificate to be used as a form of ID here it has to have a seal on it, could that be the same for you in your jurisdiction?
[QUOTE=Sleeves;49315030]Horses always looked like fun pets but the only stories I ever heard about them are from older men who almost had their chests caved in.
I still want to stroke ones main some day.[/QUOTE]
they're basically big dumb dogs
can't tell you how many times one of them would just walk over and start rubbing their head all over my face :v:
[QUOTE=Sleeves;49315030]Horses always looked like fun pets but the only stories I ever heard about them are from older men who almost had their chests caved in.
I still want to stroke ones main some day.[/QUOTE]
Never had a problem with the horses, I've never feared to get kicked either. The horses only kick when they're viciously spooked, get hurt or feel intimidated by other horses.
The only time someone got kicked from what I've heard is when they were gonna take the horses out of their stalls, and a caretaker accidentally kicked a bucket over causing one horse to break out of its restraint and kick her in the hand.
However there is this one horse that keeps fucking stealing my beanie every time I crouch to clean its hooves, just nabs it with his mouth.
Jerk.
[editline]14th December 2015[/editline]
And as much fun as having a horse would be, holy fuck it's not cheap considering it eats FOOTBALL FIELDS of hay and nutriments. Fuck that.
[QUOTE=DemonElite;49315104]Is it like...a copy or a reissue of a birth certificate? For the birth certificate to be used as a form of ID here it has to have a seal on it, could that be the same for you in your jurisdiction?[/QUOTE]
In the United Kingdom, your original printed certificate stays with the registry of births office.
I have a legal copy, with a stamp, but it says it's not actually proof of my identity, so I guess that's that.
They always want a passport, but I don't see the reason to shell out £90 to buy one when I have never been or want to go abroad yet.
Annnnnd it was a pyrimad scheme. Fucking waste of time. Thank god for google.
[QUOTE=_jesterk;49315198]they're basically big dumb dogs
can't tell you how many times one of them would just walk over and start rubbing their head all over my face :v:[/QUOTE]
Really though, horses are retarded. They're hilariously dumb, mostly because they're just so thoroughly prey animals and fucking EVERYTHING terrifies them. And the whole "hey thanks for itching my head let me show you how happy I am" thinf always results in the horse effectively headbutting you like that and I'm never prepared for it
[QUOTE=Grim2o0o;49315627]Never had a problem with the horses, I've never feared to get kicked either. The horses only kick when they're viciously spooked, get hurt or feel intimidated by other horses.
The only time someone got kicked from what I've heard is when they were gonna take the horses out of their stalls, and a caretaker accidentally kicked a bucket over causing one horse to break out of its restraint and kick her in the hand.
However there is this one horse that keeps fucking stealing my beanie every time I crouch to clean its hooves, just nabs it with his mouth.
Jerk.
[editline]14th December 2015[/editline]
And as much fun as having a horse would be, holy fuck it's not cheap considering it eats FOOTBALL FIELDS of hay and nutriments. Fuck that.[/QUOTE]
Your horse bully wouldn't be an Arabian perchance, would it? My horse bully is a blockheaded Arabian mare. She likes me quite a bit, and is generally nice, but since I've been around her my entire life she shows her love by giving me a tough time.
[QUOTE=Grim2o0o;49315627]Never had a problem with the horses, I've never feared to get kicked either. The horses only kick when they're viciously spooked, get hurt or feel intimidated by other horses.
The only time someone got kicked from what I've heard is when they were gonna take the horses out of their stalls, and a caretaker accidentally kicked a bucket over causing one horse to break out of its restraint and kick her in the hand.
However there is this one horse that keeps fucking stealing my beanie every time I crouch to clean its hooves, just nabs it with his mouth.
Jerk.
[editline]14th December 2015[/editline]
And as much fun as having a horse would be, holy fuck it's not cheap considering it eats FOOTBALL FIELDS of hay and nutriments. Fuck that.[/QUOTE]
That is incredibly adorable. I must locate a ranch at some point solely to pet a horse.
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;49315702]In the United Kingdom, your original printed certificate stays with the registry of births office.
I have a legal copy, with a stamp, but it says it's not actually proof of my identity, so I guess that's that.
They always want a passport, but I don't see the reason to shell out £90 to buy one when I have never been or want to go abroad yet.[/QUOTE]
Ah, here I just need to pay like $25 to have my birth cert reissued and shipped to me from another state and I can use that as ID for stuff like opening a bank account or getting a driver's license (jobs here only ask for a Social Security Number, I've never been asked for anything else beyond that to verify work eligibility). Do you not have some other state issued ID like a driver's license that they will take? Or do they specifically want only a passport. I'd be miffed if I had to get a passport just to work.
My school in Utah had horse therapy where everyone got assigned a horse to take care of and ride. Mine was a big fat old thing named Cash, but I called him Johnny. He was super sweet and gentle but a bit strong-willed when you were trying to saddle him up. One nasty kid got an arm broken after he was too rough trying to saddle Cash and he got squished into the side of the stable. I never had a problem though, Cash was a good horse.
And then on top of my night of not sleeping and feeling like shit, i had a terrible day.
Cheer me up gay chat.
[editline]14th December 2015[/editline]
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;49314663]I got a copy of my full birth certificate as I needed it for a Job to prove my identity and right to work.
It has a disclaimer on the bottom saying it does not prove my identity or right to work.
Excuse me what is the point of this.[/QUOTE]
You are not you, that is quite clear.
I have never touched a horse. I am a city person.
[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;49316602]I have never touched a horse. I am a city person.[/QUOTE]
But have you ever [I]touched[/I] a horse?
[QUOTE=Joseph Smith;49316607]But have you ever [I]touched[/I] a horse?[/QUOTE]
No, there's plenty of that on rule34 if that's your thing
I did a horseback riding thing at a summer camp when I was like 12-13
Would definitely recommend, even if you think it wouldn't be your kind of thing
[QUOTE=Joseph Smith;49316586]And then on top of my night of not sleeping and feeling like shit, i had a terrible day.
Cheer me up gay chat.
[editline]14th December 2015[/editline]
You are not you, that is quite clear.[/QUOTE]
[media]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhNTaGmD0D4[/media]
Just bought the Ghost in the Shell FPS Early Access thing. Was £5, so, y'know.
It's fun.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;49317911]I am a gay blanket. AMA[/QUOTE]
how's it feel getting snuggled every night
I feel like an emotional stepping stone. It fucking sucks big time. Everyone I've dated or loved in the past found someone that changed their life or was essentially their soulmate shortly after they broke up with me.
What the fuck am I, a dating service? It'd be nice if I could find that. I fall in love so easily is it so much to ask that someone love me back?
I store at photoshop and use my ancestors energy to make reskins for video game
[QUOTE=Snoberry Tea;49318324]I feel like an emotional stepping stone. It fucking sucks big time. Everyone I've dated or loved in the past found someone that changed their life or was essentially their soulmate shortly after they broke up with me.
What the fuck am I, a dating service? It'd be nice if I could find that. I fall in love so easily is it so much to ask that someone love me back?[/QUOTE]
Yeah? That fairytale bs of finding a person who is JUST THE PERFECT GUY OMG is largely, well, complete bullshit. And when it comes to past SOs you're only seeing the surface of their relationships so of course it seems like it's going swimmingly.
Relationships aren't about looking for someone who's a great fit, or the perfect person, or someone who can save you. Rather it's about finding a person you like enough to date, and then building something together. Deep love comes over time, and that which burns the hottest probably is going to not last very long...
In all of the best relationships I see among my friends things aren't always perfect. They argue, fight, and have bad times. But they also work through these maturely, care about each other, and keep adding to their love.
And asking someone to love you back is a lot to ask. You shouldn't emotionally invest yourself deeply in people you haven't truly got to know yet - it has to be an equitable exchange that builds slowly. I grt the wanting to go fast and build right into something truly lovely, but waiting and building to it makes it all the better. Instantly earning someone's love would sorta cheapen it, yeah?
I think. I wouldn't really know but that's my opinion. I've always been the single person among my friends and usually get to watch, from my viewpoint of being alone, how it goes and such. But I long ago got tired of the "prince charming" mindset
[QUOTE=paindoc;49318654]Yeah? That fairytale bs of finding a person who is JUST THE PERFECT GUY OMG is largely, well, complete bullshit. And when it comes to past SOs you're only seeing the surface of their relationships so of course it seems like it's going swimmingly.
Relationships aren't about looking for someone who's a great fit, or the perfect person, or someone who can save you. Rather it's about finding a person you like enough to date, and then building something together. Deep love comes over time, and that which burns the hottest probably is going to not last very long...
In all of the best relationships I see among my friends things aren't always perfect. They argue, fight, and have bad times. But they also work through these maturely, care about each other, and keep adding to their love.
And asking someone to love you back is a lot to ask. You shouldn't emotionally invest yourself deeply in people you haven't truly got to know yet - it has to be an equitable exchange that builds slowly. I grt the wanting to go fast and build right into something truly lovely, but waiting and building to it makes it all the better. Instantly earning someone's love would sorta cheapen it, yeah?
I think. I wouldn't really know but that's my opinion. I've always been the single person among my friends and usually get to watch, from my viewpoint of being alone, how it goes and such. But I long ago got tired of the "prince charming" mindset[/QUOTE]
I never said I wanted love to be 'instant' I would just like someone to fucking love me. I'm so goddamn tired of being alone, and I'm even more tired of hearing, over and over, "you shouldn't peg your happiness on being with someone else". That's such a bullshit response to depression caused by lonliness. Being with other humans is a [i]base instinct[/i] within us. We're social creatures. [i]So much[/i] of our perceived self worth and happiness hinges on being accepted by a group of our peers because of that. And a huge portion of that is finding a mate to 'weather the storm' together, so to speak.
You can find peace though hobbies, work, material possessions, meditation, charity, etc. Sure. But it is deeply ingrained in us as a species that happiness comes from a [i]sense of belonging[/i] and [b]nothing[/b] makes you feel more like you belong than having someone [i]love you[/i]. Because when no one loves you, when you walk through life without having someone else to share it with, and when it seems like no one wants anything to do with you and nothing you do is the right thing to attract that mate you instinctively desire, the single outstanding thought process is "What is wrong with [i]me[/i]?"
As far as I'm concerned, I'm just trying to find some inner peace. I'm not happy with myself most of the time, and I know that having someone "complete me" is just going to set me up for something even worse.
I'm a pretty lonely guy, and I get jealous sometimes of people who have someone in that way, but I don't let myself become bitter. If it happens for me, then awesome. If it doesn't, then that's just how life goes. I'm certainly not going to give up on looking for someone who may like me in that way, but I'm not going to wait with baited breath. It's better to spend your life moving forward instead of being hindered by one aspect. I wish I had friends out here to hang with, and I definitely wish I had someone who loved me sometimes, but right now, I don't want to get hung up on being alone, no matter how hard it is. I HAVE to move on with my life.
[editline]14th December 2015[/editline]
fucking a I made that all about me
The point is, being lonely is a bad feeling, but like all feelings, it's best to just let it pass and take your mind off things. Talk to people on Steam. Gorge yourself on video games and music That's what I do :v:
In all seriousness, though, each and every one of you have a chance find someone you like that likes you back. Most of the time, it's by pure chance. Sure, you can go on Grindr or something and meet up with someone you may like, but it's a safe bet that most people on there are looking for mostly one thing. Finding someone you [I]like[/I] is quite a process and takes a good bit of time to really figure out, and that's not counting trying to see if they like you back. It's a long thought process and it's definitely not something you need to dive headfirst into, lest you hurt yourself or someone else really badly.
In the same vain, being "alone" isn't something that's entirely bad. It frees you up to explore yourself more and find out what you REALLY like without tying yourself down to somebody. It's definitely not something you need to dwell on or think about a lot. I do that quite a bit myself and all it does is make me hate me even more. Just enjoy the things you enjoy as much as you can and let yourself be free with people.
This is all just from my experiences. Just offering my two cents :v:
[QUOTE=paindoc;49316217]
Your horse bully wouldn't be an Arabian perchance, would it? My horse bully is a blockheaded Arabian mare. She likes me quite a bit, and is generally nice, but since I've been around her my entire life she shows her love by giving me a tough time.[/QUOTE]
Funny enough, nope.
Our Arabian is pretty calm to be honest, she's only wild in the fields during summer, likes to jump and gallop.
Other times she's p much a calm old lady.
[editline]15th December 2015[/editline]
Oh whoops we're you having some hearts-to-hearts here ha ha oh boy
[editline]15th December 2015[/editline]
[t]http://i.imgur.com/NLbAJpu.jpg[/t]
[QUOTE=Grim2o0o;49320812]Funny enough, nope.
Our Arabian is pretty calm to be honest, she's only wild in the fields during summer, likes to jump and gallop.
Other times she's p much a calm old lady.
[editline]15th December 2015[/editline]
Oh whoops we're you having some hearts-to-hearts here ha ha oh boy
[editline]15th December 2015[/editline]
[t]http://i.imgur.com/NLbAJpu.jpg[/t][/QUOTE]
Cheeki breeki, slav squat is yes
My Ukrainian roommate hated that phrase so much
[QUOTE=Grim2o0o;49320812]
[t]http://i.imgur.com/NLbAJpu.jpg[/t][/QUOTE]
This is me. :´)
I love how us guys in here have respect and common sense when it comes to relationship yet half the people in that Friendly Social Love Advice thread its full of people who think they DESERVE a relationship because their a "nice guy"
If you have to tell people that you're a "nice guy" then obviously you're not a nice guy.
[QUOTE=greeley;49321237]I love how us guys in here have respect and common sense when it comes to relationship yet half the people in that Friendly Social Love Advice thread its full of people who think they DESERVE a relationship because their a "nice guy"
If you have to tell people that you're a "nice guy" then obviously you're not a nice guy.[/QUOTE]
You're right, I'm a wonderful guy.
[editline]15th December 2015[/editline]
No, WE are wonderful guys. Yes, that is much better.
[QUOTE=paindoc;49321023]Cheeki breeki, slav squat is yes[/QUOTE]
I tap deeply into my Czech heritage and can pull off a slav squat even with fucking hobnails on a tile floor (hobnails make you slide like a motherfucker if you're not careful)
[QUOTE=greeley;49321237]I love how us guys in here have respect and common sense when it comes to relationship yet half the people in that Friendly Social Love Advice thread its full of people who think they DESERVE a relationship because their a "nice guy"
If you have to tell people that you're a "nice guy" then obviously you're not a nice guy.[/QUOTE]
I wish I was a nice guy and deserved a relationship
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