[QUOTE=paindoc;48954520]good lord I feel I'm going to pass out from secondhand horror[/QUOTE]
naw they were mostly cool with it
I kept denying it and they were just like "i can literally see you in the picture"
[QUOTE=paindoc;48954520]good lord I feel I'm going to pass out from secondhand horror[/QUOTE]
I was showing my new phone to my brother and sister. I walked away for a moment and they decided, "fuck yo privacy, nigga", invaded my emails, and caught me trying to get dicking on Craigslist
Fuck you guys too eyyy
My parents found my Gaiaonline account when I was 16 lol.
[QUOTE=elitehakor;48954159]I'd be dead if I came out to my parents[/QUOTE]
If I did come out to my parents:
My dad would be like "Okay, but do you still want burgers for dinner?"
Something inside my mother would probably implode, however, and she wouldn't utter a word.
[QUOTE=Z0mb1n3;48954878]If I did come out to my parents:
My dad would be like "Okay, but do you still want burgers for dinner?"
Something inside my mother would probably implode, however, and she wouldn't utter a word.[/QUOTE]
I worry my parents would silently implode too. My Dad would probably react similarly, or turn it into a joke but frankly I have to be proud and mindful of just how far he's come in the past few years- he's not his family. My Mom would be internally hurt I think, most likely about grandkids.
[QUOTE=paindoc;48954937]I worry my parents would silently implode too. My Dad would probably react similarly, or turn it into a joke but frankly I have to be proud and mindful of just how far he's come in the past few years- he's not his family. My Mom would be internally hurt I think, most likely about grandkids.[/QUOTE]
yeeeeep my mom wants grandchildren badly. My brother is too stressed with his job to find time for a girlfriend, my sister is.. I don't know actually, she just doesn't seem to want a relationship I suppose, which is fine, and then me, well...
..ha.
I always feel kinda guilty in these discussions because of how liberal my entire family is. I don't think anyone would have an issue if I came out saying "hey I'm bi". Hence why I haven't bothered and I'm 100% sure my parents already know.
Mom is far more concerned with a potential partner's "attitude" than gender/sexual orientation. :v
Pops would be fine with it but I'm not sure about ma.
I just don't see a reason to bust out of the closet atm.
to be quite honest I see no reason to be out of the closet at all for the most part, just let it happen
[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;48955052]to be quite honest I see no reason to be out of the closet at all for the most part, just let it happen[/QUOTE]
I agree, it's just easier to not make it a huge deal.
Since you guys are talking about coming out etc, I'll tell you how it went six (six? Maybe four I dunno) months after I came out.
My sister stopped talking to me completely, but hey, she's a hardcore christian and I don't give two shits about her either, since she lives with her husband already. My mother, well, was supportive but I must admit that I wouldn't have done it if I was living with her. I was living on rent with a friend so what was the worst that could've happened? I told her I had a boyfriend and that behold! I never lied when she asked me if I was gay, because I'm bi! My father (whom lives with my grandma/pa) also totally accepted it too, though he sent me a facebook message a few days later stating that "he'd love me unconditionally", which is weird, must've been hard on him... My co-workers, damn! What a fucking surprise. I pictured the worst case scenario to be them not talking to me at all, avoiding me etc. Instead, I got the best one, which was them making jokes (funny ones! Unheard jokes!), playing with me, asking how things are when you're dating a guy etc.
I'm back living with my mother and my bf comes and goes whenever we can be together, it's really fun. I did feel a "holy fuck this is it this is the time" and butterflies in my stomach, but it settled down. Best decision I've ever made. It was killing me having to hide the love I feel for him.
Good times, crazy times. It was good :)
[QUOTE=Xieneus;48955042]Pops would be fine with it but I'm not sure about ma.
I just don't see a reason to bust out of the closet atm.[/QUOTE]
Same here, and I don't see any issues in doing so, but for now I don't see any need to. It's not like I am bringing a guy home often.
People have assumed (from not having a girlfriend since secondary (high school) school) that I am but I always swiftly deny it to not bring up some sort of discussion and shoot down any assumptions quickly.
My parents keep asking and it really bothers me the way in which they do it, so I have lied to them. That's gonna be a fun one. They probably already know, but despite me making it very clear to my dad that joking or asking about someones sexuality is NOT OKAY he continued regardless, so I don't feel too bad. Oh well. Its my damn business, I'll share when I'm ready and don't feel a need to explain myself.
I told my sister I'm Bi and that's about it.
Pop doesn't really know, mom thought it was "phase" at the time I told her.
So I'm just in a whatever about it, and just waiting till I can move out on my own so I can be more open about it.
Difference is, at least if the reaction is negative, I won't be home to deal with the awkwardness.
[editline]21st October 2015[/editline]
And yeah same here I don't feel a huge need to pop out of the closet yet.
people were always surprised that I could also be attracted to dudes because I don't have any form of twang or anything that would otherwise show that so I've never really felt the need to tell people unless they ask or really should know (i.e. parents, who don't care as long as I and the other person in the relationship are happy - mom and dad told me that they wouldn't care before they even knew, lol)
but other than that there's nothing in my appearance or mannerisms that show it at all
[editline]21st October 2015[/editline]
there are people I have known since kindergarten and am good friends with who don't know, but wouldn't care either
I have never really met anyone opposed to it that I would actually care if they knew. All of my friends have been the type of people who are supportive or voiced their opinions as such. Except one, who we were both sorta into eachother, and she once told me she occasionally had lesbian thoughts but felt wrong about it and is kinda religious now (although she is a very nice and warm person)
I told my mom like 6 or 7 years ago, but I think at this point she probably thinks it was a phase(she even suggested as much back then, and I haven't really tried talking to her about it again since because #anxietyisafrigidbitch). She was okay with it, at the time, though, and mentioned that my brother told her he was gay a few years before, too(at this point I think he's probably bi, since he had a girlfriend he was fucking for a while a year or two ago), and they used to watch Queer as Folk and appreciate the hot guys or something together.
My brother is probably aware I might be, because he saw the Gaypunch group on my Steam profile back when it was still a thing. Again, though, I've kinda avoided ever talking about it.
My dad [I]might[/I] be aware, but I haven't told him. The only way he would know is if my mom mentioned it to him or he just picked up on my lack of interest in women. But he used to bug me about girls, and it's been years since he did, so I'm guessing he's figured out that I don't give a shit.
Of course not everything is paradise, if your guts tell not to pop out for someone, I beg of you, DO NOT. Had a really bad case two years ago where a "friend" tried to force me into a relationship with a girl, and weeks later I found out his intentios were aimed at "making me manlier". Felt really let down and shit, also not being able to get into something with her really hurt. That dude messed me up hard and I swear my guts were yelling in unison: "don't"
How I envy some the people that go further away for college. They get to be open about it in front of most people instead of cowering.
It turns out that the guy I was talking to is friends with one of my old high school friends who is gay. So I know now at least that I'm not going to be lead to my death by some religious fanatic. It feels liberating to at least talk with someone else about it that you know.
My sister's bi and out, so telling my family was never a problem.
[QUOTE=N-12_Aden;48955854]How I envy some the people that go further away for college. They get to be open about it in front of most people instead of cowering.
It turns out that the guy I was talking to is friends with one of my old high school friends who is gay. So I know now at least that I'm not going to be lead to my death by some religious fanatic. It feels liberating to at least talk with someone else about it that you know.[/QUOTE]
I literally got a job almost entirely so I could work more on myself this summer. It was a bitch, I had to balance school and finals studying with filling out job applications and I only got one reply back out of 18 applications (thank god that one took me all the way).
This year I can't stay with my Aunt again, so if I don't get an internship with which I can afford an apartment (Seattle prices are a bitch jesus christ, 3k/month downtown $800 for studio 15m out) I have to go back home which would be wretched. I actually would rather take a FormLabs internship and move to Texas or wherever their production line is, than go back home.
[QUOTE=Rats808;48955492]My brother is probably aware I might be, because he saw the Gaypunch group on my Steam profile back when it was still a thing. Again, though, I've kinda avoided ever talking about it.[/QUOTE]
[url]http://steamcommunity.com/groups/fpgchat[/url]
the ~new~ one
That has more to do with my families controlling of every aspect of my life and subtle judgements of me being a very bad influence, so I just choose to work to avoid that influence as much as possible. I almost wish I didn't have to go back for holidays, I always get depressed and anxious being back there.
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bitches ur a bitch
[QUOTE=bitches;48955873][url]http://steamcommunity.com/groups/fpgchat[/url]
the ~new~ one[/QUOTE]
I'm literally in there every day.:v:
[t]http://i.imgur.com/Hj69DQq.png[/t]
I'm really lucky, my mother asked to take me out to dinner to ask me if the guy she saw on Facebook was my boyfriend.
Her biggest concern was me being distant, her and my sister thought I was going to join the military or something. My dad, who's a baptist, gets along with my boyfriend for the most part. He says he "doesn't understand" but he says he loves me anyways. My sister said she was really proud of me for coming out and standing up for myself. Then she came out.
My ultra conservative grandmother is even okay with me being this way, she just doesn't like my boyfriend.
I wish I had money to move out. We have beautiful places up north and I'd LOVE to live here:
[t]http://www.alledolomiti.com/var/plain_site/storage/images/media/images/gallerie-fotografiche/inverno/lago-di-molveno-inverno/6111-1-ita-IT/Lago-di-Molveno-inverno.jpg[/t]
someone give me 5 milion euros thx
where is that?
man i really want it to snow now. snow is the best
[QUOTE=TheDrunkenOne;48956071]I wish I had money to move out. We have beautiful places up north and I'd LOVE to live here:
[t]http://www.alledolomiti.com/var/plain_site/storage/images/media/images/gallerie-fotografiche/inverno/lago-di-molveno-inverno/6111-1-ita-IT/Lago-di-Molveno-inverno.jpg[/t]
someone give me 5 milion euros thx[/QUOTE]
ok but don't move into the mudslide hazard zone
[QUOTE=elitehakor;48956372]where is that?
man i really want it to snow now. snow is the best[/QUOTE]
[url]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Molveno[/url]
So the gay chat bugged out and I thought no one had been talking in there for like over an hour. didn't think that was possible lmao
About a couple months back I've realized and accepted the fact that I'm pansexual. For a very long time I just accepted the fact that I was straight because I didn't think that it was possible for me to maintain a relationship with a woman.
When I was a child, I was always fasincated with female bodies. I love the way they looked and I squirmed a bit inside whenever I saw one. I just ignored these feelings and never thought of them as anything more than just an appeal. Even the sexual satisfaction I got from looking at them never made me question my sexuality.
I'm really happy I know my sexuality now because it's one step with accepting who I am, and being comfortable with myself. I've only said casually to my brothers and dad that I find women attractive, and I would date one. I don't think they've taken me seriously because it was in the middle of a debate with my homophobic half brother. I've told my mom and one of my best friends, but they probably only think I'm bisexual. Which is....fine, I suppose. It's enough for now just as long as they have a general idea on where my sexuality lies
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