• Gay Chat V15
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Me tooooo
[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;49127547]Having a boyfriend is p. cool I guess, I'd recommend it[/QUOTE] :D! that is all. So many people finding people and being happy lately, its great [editline]16th November 2015[/editline] Turns out I don't have to take the next chemistry course, which is boring and hard as fuck, instead I can just take an astrophysics course (FUCK YES) and still have the requirements for my 3 choice depts. covered :D
[QUOTE=paindoc;49127661] astrophysics course (FUCK YES) and still have the requirements for my 3 choice depts. covered :D[/QUOTE] I am the king of ass-trophysics
[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;49127727]I am the king of ass-trophysics[/QUOTE] But what about ass-trophies-ics ?
[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;49127761]But what about ass-trophies-ics ?[/QUOTE] y u do this
these success stories make me feel terrible, i don't have nor ever had anyone i wouldn't even know where to begin
[QUOTE=Vincentor;49127795]these success stories make me feel terrible, i don't have nor ever had anyone i wouldn't even know where to begin[/QUOTE] I haven't either! I certainly don't count that thing with that one guy as anything. It was only me really emotionally and romantically investing myself. oops. Any of my other hetero "relationships" usually involved me letting myself be exploited just so I could have someone to sorta dote on and feel for. I'm pretty easy to use, lol. I just keep working on improving myself. But being happy for my friends who are happy doesn't take anything away from me, rather it makes me feel better. Its not bad to not have had anyone. Whats bad is to let that fear and sadness make you feel pathetic and paralyzed. That doesn't do any good. You're not pathetic and while it may take some work, you can find someone eventually. I assure you that of the people I hear success stories from, more than a few of them have felt the same.
[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;49127547]Having a boyfriend is p. cool I guess, I'd recommend it[/QUOTE] No :´)
yes???
HOW DO I STOP FEELING LIKE IM SO AWFUL HELP
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;49128108]HOW DO I STOP FEELING LIKE IM SO AWFUL HELP[/QUOTE] If you can, seek out therapy, man. Even just needing someone to vent and talk to. It can work wonders.
[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;49127547]Having a boyfriend is p. cool I guess, I'd recommend it[/QUOTE] Hey where'd you find yours? I've been looking everywhere, shopping malls, drainage pipes, the bottoms of liquor bottles, but I still haven't found one!
[QUOTE=Broguts;49128170]Hey where'd you find yours? I've been looking everywhere, shopping malls, drainage pipes, the bottoms of liquor bottles, but I still haven't found one![/QUOTE] I hear the barrel of my .45 might have one... Bad joke, no, I'm not looking there. I get enough fun at work to be honest. All the ladies there are super nice and funny, there's always something to talk about there.
I try pretty hard not to think about my loneliness, but too many things remind me. Right now, the best thing I can do is just keep trying to put it out of my mind and focus on other things. It would be nice to have someone, but dwelling on it only makes you feel worse. I'm sure you all will find someone you love who also loves you back. It can happen to anyone.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49128496]I try pretty hard not to think about my loneliness, but too many things remind me. Right now, the best thing I can do is just keep trying to put it out of my mind and focus on other things. It would be nice to have someone, but dwelling on it only makes you feel worse. I'm sure you all will find someone you love who also loves you back. It can happen to anyone.[/QUOTE] Speaking of which, last quarter in my english class I met a really neat guy from the UAE in my english class. we usually worked with another really cool samoan guy on group assignments, and still talk and say hello whenever we see each other around campus. Anyways the guy from the UAE sorta seemed uncomfortable talking about why he had no intention of ever going back to the UAE. Today as I was leaving to class after lunch I saw him and another guy walk in, he walked over and started talking and I met the dude he was with. They didn't do anything overt, but it was pretty clear they were together to me at least. Which is great, even if the whole UAE thing is sad! I'm really quite happy for him that he managed to find someone and be more comfortable with that aspect of himself. UAE is anything but a good place to be gay. Also, the guy who I had sorta been hitting on in one of my classes showed up with his BF right before I started lunch. :v:
[QUOTE=Ax3l;49128053]No :´)[/QUOTE] that's gay
[QUOTE=Mysterious;49128496] I'm sure you all will find someone you love who also loves you back. It can happen to anyone.[/QUOTE] sometimes I look at the people at work that buy condoms and I think "thank god, I've got a chance"
I wish there was more gays in my area :( everyone in grindr and tinder is so far away
[QUOTE=cheetahben;49128622]sometimes I look at the people at work that buy condoms and I think "thank god, I've got a chance"[/QUOTE] I totally used to think this.
My guy broke up with me I wanna die
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;49128910]My guy broke up with me I wanna die[/QUOTE] awh, come on dude, don't say that pull yourself through, take a break, and try again once you feel like it give it time, perhaps repeat the cycle just a few more times, and you'll end up having someone you'll be together with, and keep it that way
He did it because I'm depressed and he doesn't want to take responsability of me but we can still be friends - he was basically my only friend. I really like him. I'm taking it pretty hard. This week is off to a awful start
What a jerk.
[QUOTE=Broguts;49128735]I totally used to think this.[/QUOTE] shhhh please let me hold on to the little bit of optimism I have left
[QUOTE=Ax3l;49129491]What a jerk.[/QUOTE] How is he a jerk? He's still friends with him, you can't force somebody to be boyfriends with somebody. Maybe he has his own problems and can't deal with a relationship?
To be fair I see his point. I dragged my problems too much in our conversations, victimized myself and pushed him to take care about me without even realizing it. I destroyed us. I'm a trainwreck ;^)
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;49129566]To be fair I see his point. I dragged my problems too much in our conversations, victimized myself and pushed him to take care about me without even realizing it. I destroyed us. I'm a trainwreck ;^)[/QUOTE] I mean, asking for help and venting is all well and good to a point. but if you keep doing it and don't seek to do something for yourself, as your own person, it doesn't go anywhere. They may feel bad they couldn't help you, or they may have their own issues like Roll_Program suggested.
I just can't bare to think about how I ruined it. He made me feel genuinely nice
[t]https://i.imgur.com/DIDhu1z.jpg[/t] someone buy me this
[QUOTE=paindoc;49127834]I haven't either! I certainly don't count that thing with that one guy as anything. It was only me really emotionally and romantically investing myself. oops. Any of my other hetero "relationships" usually involved me letting myself be exploited just so I could have someone to sorta dote on and feel for. I'm pretty easy to use, lol. I just keep working on improving myself. But being happy for my friends who are happy doesn't take anything away from me, rather it makes me feel better. Its not bad to not have had anyone. Whats bad is to let that fear and sadness make you feel pathetic and paralyzed. That doesn't do any good. You're not pathetic and while it may take some work, you can find someone eventually. I assure you that of the people I hear success stories from, more than a few of them have felt the same.[/QUOTE] Not having had a partner isnt a bad thing at all, I regret trying to fill the void every time I lost one years ago with another person, my advice to anyone who feels desperate for a loved one is to just take it easy and see where things are going when you think you found someone and not rush into it too fast without knowing if its the right thing to do/if they feel the same way, the worst thing you can do in that position is getting both rejected and losing a friend at the same time. I've kicked back the last year and had opportunities to get into pointless flings but man, I aint about that anymore, there are some options open to me right now but still I'd like to take it slow and see where things go.
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