• If you could change one thing about your life
    102 replies, posted
[QUOTE=SBD;42638167]More extroverted.[/QUOTE] Agreed. Now that I'm more social, I've realized what I've been missing.
[QUOTE=Rubs10;42638254]Agreed. Now that I'm more social, I've realized what I've been missing.[/QUOTE] I always like to take a different perspective on these things. Not that your perspective is bad, I agree completely. I always like to think of it more as now being able to appreciate it more having previously been less social. Everything's a learning experience. I find that it's great to push your comfort zones to the limit. I've never heard of a time when someone afraid to meet people interacts with someone and it comes out negatively, and even if it does, it's still a learning experience, so there should be no regret. Just my opinion.
I regret not starting on drums before. Now at my school I'm not allowed to switch because I was too late and I have to finish with tuba. Really is a pain, because all my friends are in bands but no one needs a drummer. Also coming out to my bestfriend that I am in love with her, it changed my life and now I'm just walking around with no purpose
Make me less of a lightweight.
telling someone I loved them earlier, I told them last minute before I moved :(
If I could change anything, I probably would change the things I said to one of my closest friends a month ago. Maybe I wouldn't have lost him if I did. Or going further back, maybe I would've said "yes" instead of "no" to a very important question about me and his relationship. Or kept myself from moving away from my parents. Or maybe just not dropping out of highschool. ...I regret a lot of things in my life. Fuck.
I would love to pick another school.
two dicks
Don't pick up smoking. If I had the will to quit now, I would. But, it would've been easier to just not even do it in the first place.
Being born, this isnt me trying to be edgy or anything, but if i could chose to go back and change things, I'd choose never to be born, given all the pain, and suffering, both physically and mentally, I've endured over the years, despite the good times I've had, all my suffering would make me chose never to exist, which, oddly enough, by all rights i shouldn't exist at all, given that my dad was/is entirely infertile when I was concieved and then born.
I would have taken the Alaska job over joining the military.
[QUOTE=RayvenQ;42641362]Being born, this isnt me trying to be edgy or anything, but if i could chose to go back and change things, I'd choose never to be born, given all the pain, and suffering, both physically and mentally, I've endured over the years, despite the good times I've had, all my suffering would make me chose never to exist, which, oddly enough, by all rights i shouldn't exist at all, given that my dad was/is entirely infertile when I was concieved and then born.[/QUOTE] I'm so sorry you've had to lead a life like that. [img]http://i.imgur.com/luLGJPy.gif[/img]
I'd go back and try and try to get some Maths classes that actually did something. I'm not very good with numbers, money and time. It's causing problems for me now that I'm much older and I'd probably try and keep myself in college seeing how I left and never looked back.
Tell myself not to worry
I would be born without dyspraxia, and all the stuff that came with it. Life would be so much fuckin' easier.
Get my shit together.
Difficult toss-up between having actual skill in one of my (should-be) creative interests, having motivation to actually use all the tools I have for the aforementioned purpose although that only really applies to music, or having a relationship. Normally I'd go straight to a relationship because I felt like it'd give purpose to my life which would result in the other options, but a few people have told me they're overrated. I wouldn't know because I've never had one.
-snip-
If I could change anything? Probably stop my dad from dying, so I could have learnt what he knew about mechanical and electrical engineering, so I wasn't stuck in this shitty educational system learning the same woodworking crap for four years.
I'd have a machine that lets me duplicate things. Like that scp machine shit
Chain smoking. My health has already taken a turn for the worst because of it..
I would have written more stuff down. As it stands I can hardly remember anything that happened even a year ago.
It's been a bumpy ride, but I wouldn't change a thing Oh wait, no, I regret giving away my legos
I would remove my depression, seeing how I can't seem to get rid of it. And then I would want to magically go back in time and re-do High School because depression fucked me over there. [editline]25th October 2013[/editline] Depression fucking sucks
The biggest regret in my life is posting this.
I wish I could be a more "go with the flow" kind of person and not fret about every single little thing in my life. I constantly worry about the rules, laws, expectations, norms and opinions of pretty much everyone else but myself. I cant do a thing without checking/considering if its OK first. Oh, and be able to talk to people like I used to when i was a teenager. Now I, automatically over think every sentence coming out of my mouth, which instead turns it into awkward rambling. Girls dont like that.
change my work or just being happy. I'm not very happy at all
One thing could change my life, that would be getting rid of asperger and social anxiety, without them my life would be good...
I don't think I'd actually change a thing. Even though my childhood is a bit fucked up and my early teens were awful for me, I look at myself now and I like what I see. I've come out as a much better person for it, and if I didn't have those numerous shitty experiences I just wouldn't be the same.
I regret that I when I was younger I always wanted to do everything.. When I was like 10 or 11 I tried to create games, model in 3d, learn programming, learn html.. But I just wanted to know everything with no effort. Now I am 19, I am studying applied computer sciences and I really love what I am learning, but if I would have studied it with effort when I was younger, I would be much more talented in this. What I really wanna say is , that I have started too much things without completing them, sometimes I just feel so depressed that I have never achieved anything in my life.
Sorry, you need to Log In to post a reply to this thread.