• What are some ways to be confident?
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act really retarded and you'll get used to it and you'll build confidence so when you move to a new place where they don't hate you you can be cool
Buy a gun.
really OP? you cant just 'give' yourself confidence. you truly need to believe in something. but the whole 'really, whats the worst that could happen' is your best bet. lose weight or something
Why you needa be confident?
i live everyday not giving 2-cents about other people's crap, feelings, etc. just do whatever YOU feel is right, NOT anything you like. if there's something you don't like, say something about it...just don't brush it aside if you don't like someone OR they don't like you, say to yourself "who gives a flying fuck?" hope this tip helps *cheers :cheers:
[QUOTE=Roll_Program;20827032]Buy a gun.[/QUOTE] And grab some razor wire and prowl the homeless shelter at midnight. And drink the blood of the hobos it will make you stronger!
Get off FP and hang out with friends.
Watch Gurren Lagann. It's an anime but god damn it's an inspirational one.
[QUOTE=MiniManz;20827297]Watch Gurren Lagann. It's an anime but god damn it's an inspirational one.[/QUOTE] i prefer the anime total drama island it teaches you things man its deep
Drink.
smoke weed everyday
turn to alcohol
weed is bad for you stop giving bad advice bepassley alcohol is better not only does it make you confident it reduces the chance of getting in a car wreck
-Get laid. -Drugs (MDMA, alcohol, speed, etc) -Change your perspective on life (You only live once; live your life to the fullest. What's the worst that can happen? Worst comes to worst, you've learned a new lesson in life/gained experience at the end of the day)
Whip out your penis and start smacking everyone around you.
smoke weed
Don't be afraid of anything, and definitely show no fear.
[QUOTE=BANNED USER;20827748]Don't be afraid of anything, and definitely show no fear.[/QUOTE] definitely smoke weed it makes you cool and chicks dig cool
ok i give up smoke weed erryday
[QUOTE=bepassley;20827773]definitely smoke weed it makes you cool and chicks dig cool[/QUOTE] You'd be surprised, most of em think its icky
Don't compare yourself to others and don't give a shit about what other people think
Stop caring, especially about probables. Also pretend like you have a huge wang.
Have you ever tried self-hypnosis? Or being hypnotised by anyone at all? I'm not joking at all - getting into that stuff can work wonders, especially if done consistantly over a long time-period. [editline]09:46PM[/editline] I advise, stay away from that "New Age, Positive Energy, Law of Attraction" bullshit, that won't help you and will probably make your problems worse. Just look for something practical and easy to meditate on whilst under hypnosis, such as "I am confident" - simple as that.
[QUOTE=FrontFuze;20821351]Really no other way to phrase the question, but does anyone know some things you can say to yourself to encourage yourself or stay confident? Thanks. (not really a post your)[/QUOTE] You can do this. Because it's true.
[QUOTE=bepassley;20827735]smoke weed[/QUOTE] As much as I hate to hear myself say it, this. I used to be really weird, no self confidence, generally an annoying person, but I started smoking in 9th grade, and I'm a different person now. I'm a lot more confident, and I think it's just because I needed that different perspective, that experience, to see that there's a lot in life. I stopped smoking a long time ago, but I'm still a lot different than i use to be. Since then I've had 3 girlfriends, and usually I'm happier in general. IMO it's an experience everyone needs to go through, don't shelter yourself, reality's not gonna hold your hand, so you might as well get some experience while you can.
Build up muscle. Masturbation works the forearms. :science:
[QUOTE=Bubbaluke;20828011]As much as I hate to hear myself say it, this. I used to be really weird, no self confidence, generally an annoying person, but I started smoking in 9th grade, and I'm a different person now. I'm a lot more confident, and I think it's just because I needed that different perspective, that experience, to see that there's a lot in life. I stopped smoking a long time ago, but I'm still a lot different than i use to be. Since then I've had 3 girlfriends, and usually I'm happier in general. IMO it's an experience everyone needs to go through, don't shelter yourself, reality's not gonna hold your hand, so you might as well get some experience while you can.[/QUOTE] lol... glad it worked out for you, but seriously - dont encourage the guy to do drugs man... come on [editline]09:54PM[/editline] dont spoil his innocense, maybe he's the prophesized one that will lead us all to repentance
[QUOTE=Chemicals;20827901]You'd be surprised, most of em think its icky[/QUOTE] those are the ones you want to avoid all of the fine bitches love smokin ganja
BTW, don't feel too bad, because I've known quite a few guys in my days who were VERY self-conscious but were simultaneously very hard workers and fighters. I call these rare kind of guys "Spyros". I think you know what I'm talking about - the kind of guy who always looks like he's in extreme pain, but he just ALWAYS keeps pushing forward. If you're that kind of guy... dude, don't feel bad - you're one in a million.
I think the weed idea is catching on, OP should listen to it. Also, OP, how many friends do you have? Start hanging out with people, make friends, etc.
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