tbh I'd love to have some muscle definition on my stomach
prob gonna start doing situps p soon
Sit ups really hurt on a wood floor.
[QUOTE=yellowoboe;44629735]I can't stop listening to this.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=heRLuqwrBCA[/media]
Send help.[/QUOTE]
Same way but with this:
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LgErp-OIi6E[/media]
[QUOTE=ImpSnob;44632125]Sit ups really hurt on a wood floor.[/QUOTE]
yeah, I'm prob gonna have to use my mom's yoga mat if I'm gonna do that, cause there's nothing but wood floors in this house
Wow be a real man and do it outside!!!
I passed my math class, which means I passed the course overall :D
Do crunches instead.
when I was like 10 my dad made me do crunches and my stomach muscles were fucking dead for like 3 days
Immediately regretting this whole "clean shaven" thing.
girlfriend is probably going to dump me soon
cannot obtain a job, anywhere
have no money to go to school
depressed as all hell, no one to turn to.
all I got is a forum of people I hardly even know reading text, and I suppose that's comforting in a way.
sorry I'm adding to the possible already flaked mood of this thread, things aren't looking good for me, all I wanted to put out there
[QUOTE=Covalency;44632629]girlfriend is probably going to dump me soon
cannot obtain a job, anywhere
have no money to go to school
depressed as all hell, no one to turn to.
all I got is a forum of people I hardly even know reading text, and I suppose that's comforting in a way.
sorry I'm adding to the possible already flaked mood of this thread, things aren't looking good for me, all I wanted to put out there[/QUOTE]
never had a girlfriend
never had a job
still mooching off parents money for school
depressed on and off for like 3 years
tbh the upside of hitting a low point is the high points feel that much better in contrast
[editline]24th April 2014[/editline]
for now I'm decently content with that idea that shit won't get better all at once, and I'm gonna just do my best to work through my problems one at a time
going to be working 38 hours this week somehow. i should start saving seeing as the restaurant isn't really busy these days. i really want an apartment so i can stop hurting my back on this couch every night.
best friend and I are finally talking again and her life is as fucked up, if not more, than mine. Finally.
I don't want her life to be, but i felt like she would complain about things that weren't that bad because she has family support, has her own place and pays no rent on the beach, a great job and a perfect boyfriend who works for disney.
She basically still has all those things, minus the job now.
I just want us both to be successful in our similar fields and I want the "mutual" friend we have to fuck off because she's a huge (i emphasize of the huge [sp]shes a fat bitch[/sp]) antagonizing, hypocrite who needs to shut the fuck up and mind her own business. All she does is meet random guys on OKCupid, and after 1 date or 2, she fucks them. Now she has an STD. But judges me because I kiss people when I'm drunk.
ok bitch.
I digress..
Hi. How is everyone this evening? :downs:
[QUOTE=Covalency;44632629]girlfriend is probably going to dump me soon
cannot obtain a job, anywhere
have no money to go to school
depressed as all hell, no one to turn to.
all I got is a forum of people I hardly even know reading text, and I suppose that's comforting in a way.
sorry I'm adding to the possible already flaked mood of this thread, things aren't looking good for me, all I wanted to put out there[/QUOTE]
when you feel everything is shit and you expect yourself to fall down into a pit of depression, or w/e, something big that might change your life, then it's time to start focusing on yourself. I really recommend you find out whats wrong with your life ASAP before the issues grow to something worse. work on yourself!
girlfriend might be dumping you? not worth your time, if she wants to dump you then she does, there's really not much else which can be done.
cannot get a job? I bet there's somewhere you can get a job, and if not, try to settle for something you don't necessarily want. all job experience is good job experience and will help you get the job you want.
you can always come back to school, so no need to worry about that right now! if you're not able to pay for it, then try to focus on way to get money so you can support your education. no need to bash yourself over it!
venting is always gonna help out, but it's no long term solution. it'll help for a day or two if the depression is pretty bad. finding the root of your depression and everything that might branch off of the root is a good way to deal with it. slowly work your way to the core via solving the branches, and the core will break.
hope you figure stuff out
I know a huge problem of mine basically comes down to staying at home all the goddamn time, which stems from me not having a car to drive out anywhere
I'd ride a bike if I wasn't 100% sure it would get stolen in less than a month
[editline]24th April 2014[/editline]
so for now I'm focusing on college to work towards an internship (fingers crossed, anyway), which will hopefully help me land a job so I can actually pay for car insurance and get some mobility going
[QUOTE=azure 505;44633003]I know a huge problem of mine basically comes down to staying at home all the goddamn time, which stems from me not having a car to drive out anywhere
I'd ride a bike if I wasn't 100% sure it would get stolen in less than a month
[editline]24th April 2014[/editline]
so for now I'm focusing on college to work towards an internship (fingers crossed, anyway), which will hopefully help me land a job so I can actually pay for car insurance and get some mobility going[/QUOTE]
Even when you have a car, sometimes it doesn't even help. I have one. I could drive anywhere I wanted, but I have no clue where. I just can't decide to get up and go. It's staggering to my mind. I would get up and go to a job, no problem. I don't mind working, and I don't mind doing something when there is a task at hand, I'll get it done, and make sure it's done properly.
It's just that I live in a very hard area, where jobs are hard to come by.
The job I applied for, I passed every qualification. I even got e-mails saying that someone would be in contact with me, within the next day or so. Which was 2 days ago. It's hurtful. It was a legitimate e-mail address as well, not a fake person. It basically makes you think that even if you have the qualifications, and some knowledge of the job, you're still useless.
It makes me at the age of 22, want to break down and cry, out of only the few times I can count on one hand.
[QUOTE=PredGD;44632910]
venting is always gonna help out, but it's no long term solution. it'll help for a day or two if the depression is pretty bad. finding the root of your depression and everything that might branch off of the root is a good way to deal with it. slowly work your way to the core via solving the branches, and the core will break.
hope you figure stuff out[/QUOTE]
I don't really know the root of my depression, I just get a feeling of utter uselessness. Like I cannot do anything right. I feel dumb, and pathetically weak compared to others. I shouldn't have the right to bitch about myself, while disabled people and mentally handicapped people exist, but it's really hard to find some sympathy anywhere. My mother is going to have to pick up a second job soon, my sister, at the age of 26 causes our family stress constantly by yelling, complaining about the food we eat, fries, burgers, some salads.. I mean, it's a small list, but at least we eat. She does nothing for the house except trash it, and doesn't help out around it at all. I make sure I try to conserve hyrdo, water, electricity, and everything. With her it's blatantly ignoring it.
It's hard to be happy, when everything around you is so ... Bad.
I s'pose there's not really much reason to me to have a car when I don't have friends to go places with, but having the option would still make me feel better
also, no shame in crying as an adult
I'm less than two months from being 21 and it's only been a few weeks since the last time I cried
[QUOTE=Covalency;44633063]Even when you have a car, sometimes it doesn't even help. I have one. I could drive anywhere I wanted, but I have no clue where. I just can't decide to get up and go. It's staggering to my mind. I would get up and go to a job, no problem. I don't mind working, and I don't mind doing something when there is a task at hand, I'll get it done, and make sure it's done properly.
[B]It's just that I live in a very hard area, where jobs are hard to come by.[/B]
The job I applied for, I passed every qualification. I even got e-mails saying that someone would be in contact with me, within the next day or so. Which was 2 days ago. It's hurtful. It was a legitimate e-mail address as well, not a fake person. It basically makes you think that even if you have the qualifications, and some knowledge of the job, you're still useless.
It makes me at the age of 22, want to break down and cry, out of only the few times I can count on one hand.[/QUOTE]
I don't want to call you out or accuse you of anything, but that almost sounds like an excuse. I'm sure your area might be tough, but it's important that it doesn't become an excuse either. if it really is a big problem, then you should probably move somewhere else when you get the chance.
in regards of the mail, I'm sure they're just delayed. give it another day or two, and if you still don't have anything, send them a friendly reminder and mention you were told they would contact you but haven't.
Happy first birthday, thread.
Whatever happened to Salsa anyway?
he diede
[QUOTE=Covalency;44633063]Even when you have a car, sometimes it doesn't even help. I have one. I could drive anywhere I wanted, but I have no clue where. I just can't decide to get up and go. It's staggering to my mind. I would get up and go to a job, no problem. I don't mind working, and I don't mind doing something when there is a task at hand, I'll get it done, and make sure it's done properly.
It's just that I live in a very hard area, where jobs are hard to come by.
The job I applied for, I passed every qualification. I even got e-mails saying that someone would be in contact with me, within the next day or so. Which was 2 days ago. It's hurtful. It was a legitimate e-mail address as well, not a fake person. It basically makes you think that even if you have the qualifications, and some knowledge of the job, you're still useless.
It makes me at the age of 22, want to break down and cry, out of only the few times I can count on one hand.
I don't really know the root of my depression, I just get a feeling of utter uselessness. Like I cannot do anything right. I feel dumb, and pathetically weak compared to others. I shouldn't have the right to bitch about myself, while disabled people and mentally handicapped people exist, but it's really hard to find some sympathy anywhere. My mother is going to have to pick up a second job soon, my sister, at the age of 26 causes our family stress constantly by yelling, complaining about the food we eat, fries, burgers, some salads.. I mean, it's a small list, but at least we eat. She does nothing for the house except trash it, and doesn't help out around it at all. I make sure I try to conserve hyrdo, water, electricity, and everything. With her it's blatantly ignoring it.
It's hard to be happy, when everything around you is so ... Bad.[/QUOTE]
You worry way to fucking much. Stop looking for a job with your qualifications, and look for work in a trade. Almost every trade is hiring, its' just a matter what kind of things you are willing to deal with. If you are willing to clean windows, repair locks, work in sewers... You'll have no problem finding a decent paying job. If you are still having trouble though, goto Alberta and work in the oilfields, or come to North Dakota on a work visa and work in the Bakkens.
[QUOTE=JoeSkylynx;44633194]You worry way to fucking much. Stop looking for a job with your qualifications, and look for work in a trade. Almost every trade is hiring, its' just a matter what kind of things you are willing to deal with. If you are willing to clean windows, repair locks, work in sewers... You'll have no problem finding a decent paying job. If you are still having trouble though, goto Alberta and work in the oilfields, or come to North Dakota on a work visa and work in the Bakkens.[/QUOTE]
I suppose it's funny in a way that, the job I am currently applying for, is a trade. A trade that I spent 4 months or so previously in, before I was physically harassed and verbally harassed every single day, and eventually caused my job. I took it to a supervisor, who didn't do anything.
I cannot go to Alberta and work in the oilfields, not while I still have a girlfriend, that is going to be attending school 10 minutes from where I currently live. As for moving out of the country, I don't even have a passport.
[QUOTE=Covalency;44633063]
I don't really know the root of my depression, I just get a feeling of utter uselessness. Like I cannot do anything right. I feel dumb, and pathetically weak compared to others. I shouldn't have the right to bitch about myself, while disabled people and mentally handicapped people exist, but it's really hard to find some sympathy anywhere. My mother is going to have to pick up a second job soon, my sister, at the age of 26 causes our family stress constantly by yelling, complaining about the food we eat, fries, burgers, some salads.. I mean, it's a small list, but at least we eat. She does nothing for the house except trash it, and doesn't help out around it at all. I make sure I try to conserve hyrdo, water, electricity, and everything. With her it's blatantly ignoring it.
It's hard to be happy, when everything around you is so ... Bad.[/QUOTE]
I feel with you, it's really tough to sort things out. it's important to remember that nothing will fix itself if you're not doing anything with it either. that you don't know the source of your depression will make things trickier, so maybe you should see a psychiatrist? they're obviously not going to help all that much, but they will try to help you figure out what bothers you and give you advice on how you can work on it.
I've been thinking: what is it that makes me so invisible? I'm 21 and I've never had a girlfriend, much less even kissed a girl. If someone ever wanted to make out with me, I would be clueless as fuck as what to do. Everyone else around me seems to be able to find others very easily. I feel so empty not having anyone to be with.
I have a lot of problems with relationships and I'm not sure how much I want to dump or if anyone would even care.
[QUOTE=KillerJaguar;44633246]I've been thinking: what is it that makes me so invisible? I'm 21 and I've never had a girlfriend, much less even kissed a girl. If someone ever wanted to make out with me, I would be clueless as fuck as what to do. Everyone else around me seems to be able to find others very easily. I feel so empty not having anyone to be with.
I have a lot of problems with relationships and I'm not sure how much I want to dump or if anyone would even care.[/QUOTE]
it's very, very important to not make it your goal or aim to get a girlfriend since that'll just make you depressed. try not to worry since it'll happen naturally
and damn, this thread got dark
[QUOTE=PredGD;44633260]it's very, very important to not make it your goal or aim to get a girlfriend since that'll just make you depressed. try not to worry since it'll happen naturally
and damn, this thread got dark[/QUOTE]
The good comes with the bad. We're waiting for the good to start up!
[QUOTE=PredGD;44633260]it's very, very important to not make it your goal or aim to get a girlfriend since that'll just make you depressed. try not to worry since it'll happen naturally
and damn, this thread got dark[/QUOTE]
I learned that lesson in high school, and as a result my junior and senior years were the best years of my life. But ever since moving to college, I lost contact with all my friends and haven't made any friends in my three years of college. But every so often, I remember how alone I am and how it feels like no one cares about me, and it really cuts me deep.
[QUOTE=KillerJaguar;44633246]I've been thinking: what is it that makes me so invisible? I'm 21 and I've never had a girlfriend, much less even kissed a girl. If someone ever wanted to make out with me, I would be clueless as fuck as what to do. Everyone else around me seems to be able to find others very easily. I feel so empty not having anyone to be with.
I have a lot of problems with relationships and I'm not sure how much I want to dump or if anyone would even care.[/QUOTE]
Hey man I happen to browse this thread! I remember what you said about being self reliant a few days ago, I think you should follow your own advice and try to be happy whether you have a girl or not.
[QUOTE=KillerJaguar;44633294]I learned that lesson in high school, and as a result my junior and senior years were the best years of my life. But ever since moving to college, I lost contact with all my friends and haven't made any friends in my three years of college. But every so often, I remember how alone I am and how it feels like no one cares about me, and it really cuts me deep.[/QUOTE]
Yup. At least you got people in the chat who care about you. If you were nearby I'd definitely hang with you. Same with a lot of people I know online.
I find it p depressing that I've done two years worth of college and only one person ever said more than "hi" to me
even then she totally disappeared after that semester ended
[QUOTE=KillerJaguar;44633294]I learned that lesson in high school, and as a result my junior and senior years were the best years of my life. But ever since moving to college, I lost contact with all my friends and haven't made any friends in my three years of college. But every so often, I remember how alone I am and how it feels like no one cares about me, and it really cuts me deep.[/QUOTE]
I'm in a very similar situation. have been in complete isolation for the past year with only one close friend on the internet.
I'm not sure on what advice I could give you since I'm sure our situations are very different. I'm not too focused on getting friends or social circles right now for example, but rather working on my "depression branches" so I can have an easier time later on. if I were you, I'd think "why do I have no friends and what could I do to solve that?". hobbies are a great way to make friends if you have one, so that could be a starting point. also, even if the friends you might get aren't really up your alley, it's important to stay with them anyway. when you are completely shut out off a social network, it's incredibly hard to get back in. use those friends you might not want to find other friends, and expand your network.
[QUOTE=PredGD;44633260]it's very, very important to not make it your goal or aim to get a girlfriend since that'll just make you depressed. try not to worry since it'll happen naturally
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I think my problem is that if it does happen naturally, I wouldn't notice or know what to do.
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