i hang out a lot with a girl i liked, but after a while she decided to make it obvious to me that she was interested in other guys so i don't ask her out. okay, that's cool, but i still want to be friends. she invites me to go places with her and it's still happening, and i feel like every conversation i have with her she's thinking i want to get in her pants or something.
i'm not one to confront anybody, i usually just avoid them. obviously here i can't do that, and i'm not sure how i should bring it up being too awkward considering my subpar social skills. :/
Break off the friendship with her. There's no sense staying friends if you really feel that way about what she might be thinking. You can't hang out with someone while believing that every conversation is like you're walking through a minefield.
[QUOTE=TAU!;45990182]Break off the friendship with her. There's no sense staying friends if you really feel that way about what she might be thinking. You can't hang out with someone while believing that every conversation is like you're walking through a minefield.[/QUOTE]
i'll consider it. personally i don't think it's a great idea to break a friendship without even bringing up the problem with him/her. under these circumstances it's clear she wants to be friends too.
[QUOTE=Limed00d;45984208]Fictional women > Real women[/QUOTE]
[img]http://www.facepunch.com/fp/ratings/cross.png[/img] Disagree x 1 (list)
[QUOTE=TAU!;45990182]Break off the friendship with her. There's no sense staying friends if you really feel that way about what she might be thinking. You can't hang out with someone while believing that every conversation is like you're walking through a minefield.[/QUOTE]
wtf no don't break off a friendship with someone you enjoy being around as a person just because it's easier than bringing up the issue, that's ridiculous. why do you think she might be thinking that you just want to bang her? maybe the issue is all in your head.
[QUOTE=urbanmonkey;45990480]wtf no don't break off a friendship with someone you enjoy being around as a person just because it's easier than bringing up the issue, that's ridiculous. why do you think she might be thinking that you just want to bang her? maybe the issue is all in your head.[/QUOTE]
Because the issue seems to be in his head, rather than an actual problem she has with him. Telling her about it would likely alienate her, because, again, based on what he's said it's likely all just in his head. Maybe instead of just breaking off the friendship, he could take a break from hanging out with her and setting his mind straight.
So many Facepunchers are ending their sentences with question marks lately? To me it looks extremely annoying?
[QUOTE=FunnyStarRunner;45990534]So many Facepunchers are ending their sentences with question marks lately? To me it looks extremely annoying?[/QUOTE]
You know what's really irritating? What seems to be a fad of people now replacing "than that" in sentences with just "that". When the hell did this start happening? I'll be reading a sentence that goes like "I think apples are better that" instead of "apples are better than that".
[QUOTE=FunnyStarRunner;45990534]So many Facepunchers are ending their sentences with question marks lately? To me it looks extremely annoying?[/QUOTE]
i think it's meant to be annoying?? because saying "I think it's meant to be annoying." is a rational thought put into a logical sentence, where as the former is me saying "you're an idiot, obviously it's meant to be annoying"
not that i think you're an idiot, just an example
[editline]15th September 2014[/editline]
[QUOTE=TAU!;45990524]Because the issue seems to be in his head, rather than an actual problem she has with him. Telling her about it would likely alienate her, because, again, based on what he's said it's likely all just in his head. Maybe instead of just breaking off the friendship, he could take a break from hanging out with her and setting his mind straight.[/QUOTE]
Well it seems like he doesn't actually want to get into her pants. If that was the case I'd say take a break if you absolutely couldn't separate those feelings when hanging out with her. But if it's just you thinking she thinks you want to bang, then I'd just say in passing or jokingly like "good thing I'm not trying to impress you haha" if you do something embarrassing.
ive just noticed an increase in shield avatars, whatve i misssed?
[editline]16th September 2014[/editline]
also does anyone know where i can commission armor
If there's one thing I hate about Firefox is when it fucks up and hangs it rearranges where my windows are on my taskbar
I've clicked my Youtube window 5 times thinking it was my FP window
[QUOTE=Kurahk;45990627]If there's one thing I hate about Firefox is when it fucks up and hangs it rearranges where my windows are on my taskbar
I've clicked my Youtube window 5 times thinking it was my FP window[/QUOTE]
But what if it is?
[QUOTE=FunnyStarRunner;45990534]So many Facepunchers are ending their sentences with question marks lately? To me it looks extremely annoying?[/QUOTE]
because passive aggressive???
Tried to buy shovel knight off the nintendo eshop and it charged my card but didn't actually do anything. Now my pre-paid card doesn't have enough funds and their servers are down, apparently.
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Josip Bronz Tito photo study
[QUOTE=Ardosos;45990787]Tried to buy shovel knight off the nintendo eshop and it charged my card but didn't actually do anything. Now my pre-paid card doesn't have enough funds and their servers are down, apparently.[/QUOTE]
Why didn't you buy the master race version?
because he wanted it on wiiu
[QUOTE=Lord of Boxes;45990843]Why didn't you buy the master race version?[/QUOTE]
I need more 3ds game, I have a lot of long bus rides ahead of me this semester. Also I heard the 3d was supposed to actually be good on the 3ds version.
I opted for Shovel Knight on my Wii-U instead of PC (also wanted to add another game to my Wii-U library), no regrets here. It's the sort of game that works great on a handheld style device.
I... I kinda want to get into WoW.
Help me.
[QUOTE=Skyward;45991167]I... I kinda want to get into WoW.
Help me.[/QUOTE]
My buddy has been playing WoW. He added it to steam and named it "I'VE MADE MY MISTAKES"
anybody want a digital download of El-P's album [I]Cancer for Cure[/I]?
[editline]15th September 2014[/editline]
i got a download code with this vinyl
[QUOTE=Skyward;45991167]I... I kinda want to get into WoW.
Help me.[/QUOTE]
Why?
I want you to rationalize before us why you believe this is a good decision.
cus y not??
I'd like to hear your reasons why I shouldn't.
bro do it
[editline]15th September 2014[/editline]
make it do
I played WoW once and didn't see the appeal
it feels so wasted to play a game I need to grind in (to a degree) when I know I won't be playing it forever. would rather play a good singleplayer game and be done with it, or a simple multiplayer game I can just play on and off like Titanfall
[QUOTE=DudeGuyKT;45991424]anybody want a digital download of El-P's album [I]Cancer for Cure[/I]?
[editline]15th September 2014[/editline]
i got a download code with this vinyl[/QUOTE]
If you haven't given it away yet then yes. I loved Run The Jewels and R.A.P. Music so I'd like to check out El-P's solo work.
sent
[QUOTE=Skyward;45991167]I... I kinda want to get into WoW.
Help me.[/QUOTE]
I dont really care for it personally but if you have the head for that kind of MMO, you'll probably enjoy it a lot
[QUOTE=Skyward;45991167]I... I kinda want to get into WoW.
Help me.[/QUOTE]
Just a forewarning, the game is pretty fun for an MMO, but the community is fucking toxic.
I'm talking TF2 levels of bad community.
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