[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31215888]Her sister warned me over facebook not to try anything. So yeah, she threatened me not to do anything.[/QUOTE]
her sister doesnt fucking control her life
[QUOTE=SnowCanary;31215915]How old is she?[/QUOTE]
Old enough.
[editline]19th July 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31215917]her sister doesnt fucking control her life[/QUOTE]
Damn right but her sister is scary.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31215888]Her sister warned me over facebook not to try anything. So yeah, she threatened me not to do anything.[/QUOTE]
You guys should take care of your relationship yourself and not let anyone mess with it but you should get her to talk with her sister about it if this gets to be a serious problem.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31215888]Her sister warned me over facebook not to try anything. So yeah, she threatened me not to do anything.[/QUOTE]
You have to grow some balls before you can lose them. Don't worry about her sister, worry about what your "babe" thinks about your cheesy comments.
[QUOTE=Evilan;31215954]You have to grow some balls before you can lose them. Don't worry about her sister, worry about what your "babe" thinks about your cheesy comments.[/QUOTE]
Will do, my best mate is going out with her best mate and oh jesus you should of seen his version of "cheesy text".
Wow.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31216015]That's it?
Oh.[/QUOTE]
You did very well. A really touching message, would melt the heart of any right-minded girl. I'm proud of you.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31216037]You did very well. A really touching message, would melt the heart of any right-minded girl. I'm proud of you.[/QUOTE]
Really?
Thanks man, that means a lot to me.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31216037]You did very well. A really touching message, would melt the heart of any right-minded girl. I'm proud of you.[/QUOTE]
Can't tell if compliment or very well placed sarcasm.
[QUOTE=Evilan;31216089]Can't tell if compliment or very well placed sarcasm.[/QUOTE]
A compliment would of been nice. :3
If only.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;31216127]Actually man, you seem like a really nice guy judging from your FB and your behaviour here, but that message was a tad off. No offense, but that was a bit too quick, mate.[/QUOTE]
Pretty crap how I thought the same thing [i]after[/i] I sent it to her...
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31216154]Pretty crap how I thought the same thing [i]after[/i] I sent it to her...[/QUOTE]
A lot of us are just giving you grief. It shouldn't be too hard of a situation to salvage. Just apologize if she views it negatively and learn to never do it again. Unless it's on a special occasion like an anniversary or birthday or something else cheesy crap is called for.
[QUOTE=Evilan;31216089]Can't tell if compliment or very well placed sarcasm.[/QUOTE]
I feel a little bad because it's completely the latter.
[QUOTE=Evilan;31216192]A lot of us are just giving you grief. It shouldn't be too hard of a situation to salvage. Just apologize if she views it negatively and learn to never do it again. Unless it's on a special occasion like an anniversary or birthday or something else cheesy crap is called for.[/QUOTE]
No occasion, just went camping with her yesterday fell more in love with her and she went to bed before I could fully express my feelings.
So she is going to wake up to that message in the morning.
[editline]19th July 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31216255]I feel a little bad because it's completely the latter.[/QUOTE]
I should of seen it coming, my bad.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31216258] fell more in love with her[/QUOTE]
Since someone in this thread is going to nitpick this point. The word you're looking for is attracted.
[QUOTE=Evilan;31216354]Since someone in this thread is going to nitpick this point. The word you're looking for is attracted.[/QUOTE]
Yeah I am finding it difficult to type because I am nervous now that I think I have done a mistake.
[editline]19th July 2011[/editline]
Right I dun goofed I am off to bed now.
Night guys.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31216383]Yeah I am finding it difficult to type because I am nervous now that I think I have done a mistake.[/QUOTE]
I'll stop being a dick for a moment. See really, you've known this girl for the whole of 6 days. I have no doubt that she's a lovely girl which you've found yourself to be quite attracted to, but the obvious lesson here is you're moving way, way too fast.
It's noble of you that you want to communicate to her that she can trust you and that she should feel comfortable with you, but there's so many better ways of doing this than outright telling her, via a Facebook message of all things. You can let her know how much she means to you and the rest of it through your actions. Words are cheap, and in the grand-scheme of things, relatively meaningless. I mean look, prime example right there, "I want to let you know that I'm going to take this relationship steadily." If you call that message 6 days in 'steady' then I really wonder what your rushed would look like. I know you probably meant you're going to take it slow physically when you said that, and that's perfectly fine. But if you're going in with this "I love you, you're perfect" so early, why even bother take the physical aspect slowly at all? You've got it backwards if anything.
You say she's the best thing that's ever happened to you, and that you think she's perfect. Seriously wake up to yourself man, you don't even know her yet! She could end up being the worst thing to ever happen to you, you have no idea where this relationship is going or how it could end. You need to slow the fuck down before you scare her away.
I understand where you're coming from. That initial period in a relationship, especially early relationships, is great, it's exciting and it really does feel like everything is perfect. It's called the 'honey-moon period' for a reason, and it doesn't at all last forever. It's important to exercise self-control during that period and realize that what you're feeling is just a chemical reaction. Of course it feels great, but your rational side hasn't caught up yet.
This was probably a bit of a blunder on your behalf, but don't panic. Don't try any awkward damage control either, just hope she accepts it positively, and in any case seriously start putting the breaks on for a while.
Don't let your emotions control you, or you're inevitably going to get hurt.
What are the chances of meeting a marriage partner at university?
I'm not too hard to live with I don't think
[QUOTE=Alcapwne;31217017]What are the chances of meeting a marriage partner at university?
I'm not too hard to live with I don't think[/QUOTE]
Well, my aunt started dating her future husband when they were 14. Now they are 50+ and have plenty of kids, so yeah. It's possible, but very unlikely since people at that age chance so much anyway.
[QUOTE=Inufin;31217073]Well, my aunt started dating her future husband when they were 14. Now they are 50+ and have plenty of kids, so yeah. It's possible, but very unlikely since people at that age chance so much anyway.[/QUOTE]
Ah ok
[QUOTE=Alcapwne;31217017]What are the chances of meeting a marriage partner at university?
I'm not too hard to live with I don't think[/QUOTE]
If you're talking 18+ university, then the chances are probably in your favor in the later years. If you mean the 16+ university, then marriage should be the last thing weighing on your mind.
[QUOTE=Evilan;31217203]If you're talking 18+ university, then the chances are probably in your favor in the later years. If you mean the 16+ university, then marriage should be the last thing weighing on your mind.[/QUOTE]
18+ university ending at 21/22
I'd like to just find someone early and start my life properly without any fuss, I'm not really into picking up the ladies as most people (although I'm not too bad at it)
Sweet fucking jesus. I try to be one of the nicer voices around here but this thread just got dipped in the sour, goopy end of the genepool, and it ain't pretty.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31214569]I like watching him spew bullshit.
It's a textbook case of denial and it's interesting to watch it develop, almost as if it's an experiment being done in a lab.[/QUOTE]
Sometimes, lab accidents happen and things like Penicillin come out of it. Other times, these accidents take place and a WILD GIRAFFEN APPEARS
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;31215815]I think this thread has turned into a place where you laugh at people that fuck up[/QUOTE]
Basically, that's what it has turned into for me.
The conversations keep getting rehashed up every few pages.
LA needs to come back.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;31215815]I think this thread has turned into a place where you laugh at people that fuck up[/QUOTE]
Aftersight is 20/20.
I've made the some of the same mistakes people in this thread and in the other one make. I look back on it and say I learned something, I don't look forward and say anyone else who has just made this mistake is retarded.
[QUOTE=Evilan;31218835]Aftersight is 20/20.
.[/QUOTE]
I thought it was "hindsight"