• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=Octyl;31243916]By not forcing it, I guess I mean.. I'm going to hit on girls in the intent of doing various things with them that night, but nothing as blunt as "Let's fuck. Now."[/QUOTE] That's not a bad idea, but it's not a great idea either.
What about it is good and what is bad? My logic is that I'm not like.. Dead set on having sex asap, and part of me would rather just see how things go with this girl after our first few dates.. but that's all after a few parties. And i'm not going to actively AVOID having sex at parties, since a lot of the people that go to these are pretty damn hot.
you have the correct logic, i dont know why ewitwins said it was a bad idea
Campsite parties are for two things: Getting drunk and getting laid. This is from experience, and if you've never been to one before... well, just know I'm right
And I am getting drunk (well probably high instead but heeey, whatever :P) and also said I would not be against getting laid.. soooo.. Yeah.
[QUOTE=Octyl;31244404]And I am getting drunk (well probably high instead but heeey, whatever :P) and also said I would not be against getting laid.. soooo.. Yeah.[/QUOTE] Well then in that case I wish you the best of luck :v:
Just as long as you're not using this 'not too fussed' mindset as an excuse for being too scared to do anything then that's perfectly fine. Sex is fun and obviously worth having, but it's good that you're going in with this non-desperate approach, as then you're not risking getting all disappointed and depressed. [editline]21st July 2011[/editline] Saying that, camp-sex whilst high sounds worth it :v:.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31244476]Just as long as you're not using this 'not too fussed' mindset as an excuse for being too scared to do anything then that's perfectly fine. Sex is fun and obviously worth having, but it's good that you're going in with this non-desperate approach, as then you're not risking getting all disappointed and depressed. [editline]21st July 2011[/editline] Saying that, camp-sex whilst high sounds worth it :v:.[/QUOTE] Well when you phrase it like that.. Yeah, I'll hopefully get laid tomorrow :v: And fuck no, not using it as an excuse to be a pussy. Got nothing to lose, this party is in another town with a lot of people I won't see again. (and if I do see them again, it will be because I got their number and am going on a date/hooking up with them.)
Oh, hey, JohnyMoe activated the [url="http://www.majhost.com/gallery/Skidd777/Other/judging.png"]JUDGING MODE[/url]. Our savior is at hand! Anyway, there is a little problem me and my GF are running into. Thing is, when we cuddle, we're kinda forced to do so on what is basically a recliner chair. No other options are really available due to constant family members being around, except in the area of that recliner. Now of course being close is a great thing, but those chairs are made for a single person, so it's a bit tough to get comfortable, but it's possible. The problem is, however, is that apparently she gets incredibly hot, even if she does get up once in a while to cool down. Now, I don't really mind the heat, but I am pretty sure I can attest to it's existence. So, what do? [editline]21st July 2011[/editline] Also, we've been together a year. Woo!
Send her back in the kitchen, she'd be used to the heat in there.
[QUOTE=Somebody_404;31244679]Send her back in the kitchen, she'd be used to the heat in there.[/QUOTE] I bet your entire existence had been coming towards the climax that is this joke. Congratulations.
[QUOTE=Somebody_404;31244679]Send her back in the kitchen, she'd be used to the heat in there.[/QUOTE] your mum's naked in his kitchen and he doesn't wanna spoil the surprise
Bro, cool story.
[QUOTE=gufu;31244656]Oh, hey, JohnyMoe activated the [url="http://www.majhost.com/gallery/Skidd777/Other/judging.png"]JUDGING MODE[/url]. Our savior is at hand! Anyway, there is a little problem me and my GF are running into. Thing is, when we cuddle, we're kinda forced to do so on what is basically a recliner chair. No other options are really available due to constant family members being around, except in the area of that recliner. Now of course being close is a great thing, but those chairs are made for a single person, so it's a bit tough to get comfortable, but it's possible. The problem is, however, is that apparently she gets incredibly hot, even if she does get up once in a while to cool down. Now, I don't really mind the heat, but I am pretty sure I can attest to it's existence. So, what do? [editline]21st July 2011[/editline] Also, we've been together a year. Woo![/QUOTE] Ice packs. Just stuff a fuckton of icepacks around you like a lovers igloo
[QUOTE=gufu;31244656]Oh, hey, JohnyMoe activated the [url="http://www.majhost.com/gallery/Skidd777/Other/judging.png"]JUDGING MODE[/url]. Our savior is at hand! Anyway, there is a little problem me and my GF are running into. Thing is, when we cuddle, we're kinda forced to do so on what is basically a recliner chair. No other options are really available due to constant family members being around, except in the area of that recliner. Now of course being close is a great thing, but those chairs are made for a single person, so it's a bit tough to get comfortable, but it's possible. The problem is, however, is that apparently she gets incredibly hot, even if she does get up once in a while to cool down. Now, I don't really mind the heat, but I am pretty sure I can attest to it's existence. So, what do? [editline]21st July 2011[/editline] Also, we've been together a year. Woo![/QUOTE] I don't think anyone here is anymore experienced with cuddling in single-person recliner chairs to help you with such a random problem :v:. Just cuddle in bed, wear less clothing, use another seat?
If you have a floor and pillows, cuddle on the floor.. If it's carpet that helps to. Also make a pillow fort. They're legit, especially with girlfriends.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31244826]Just cuddle in bed, wear less clothing, use another seat?[/QUOTE] All three at once. She is the seat.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31244826]I don't think anyone here is anymore experienced with cuddling in single-person recliner chairs to help you with such a random problem :v:. Just cuddle in bed, wear less clothing, use another seat?[/QUOTE] 1) Eh, she doesn't like us to be in her room for some reason. Even if I do say that I don't mind the mess. 2) Something tells me she's going to politely refuse that. 3) Only hope is to wait when they finally move her brother's bed down there, instead of the bloody recliners. [QUOTE=Octyl;31245001]Also make a pillow fort.[/QUOTE] New objective received...
When you cuddle, hug her hips or higher - my gf normally just puts her arms over my shoulders and we just sway and kiss, doesn't help that she has Ed Sheeran on most times in the background, so that instantly makes everything 10x more romantic.
[QUOTE=ZeroMinus;31245504]doesn't help that she has Ed Sheeran on most times in the background, so that instantly makes everything 10x more romantic.[/QUOTE] We have Christopher Walken, is that a good thing?
[QUOTE=gufu;31245540]We have Christopher Walken, is that a good thing?[/QUOTE] Depends if hes cracking jokes or cracking skulls
Praise the lord jesus christ just seen he got booted.
Wow, this page suddenly got a lot less stupid. Cheers Johnny :buddy:
[QUOTE=ZeroMinus;31245504]When you cuddle, hug her hips or higher - my gf normally just puts her arms over my shoulders and we just sway and kiss, doesn't help that she has Ed Sheeran on most times in the background, so that instantly makes everything 10x more romantic.[/QUOTE] I do this with my boyfriend, just no music. One time we had music on the song changed and I freaked out as it sounded like static. Ruined the mood a lot.
Just got the girl's number (the one from the bus stop). The fuck doIdo I don't even know her name.
[QUOTE=Aerkhan;31247831]Just got the girl's number (the one from the bus stop). The fuck doIdo I don't even know her name.[/QUOTE] Mention that to her. Make a kind of laugh as you say, " I didn't even catch your name." Hopefully she will get the hint, and maybe tell her yours if you haven't already. Hopefully this will prompt her to respond.
What should I get my girlfriend for her 18th birthday? I have a few ideas such as earrings, or bath and body works stuff, bracelet, something not super expensive but nice looking. I got her a diamond necklace back during Valentines Day and I don't want to be repetitive and get her a necklace again.
[QUOTE=insane taco;31250594]What should I get my girlfriend for her 18th birthday? I have a few ideas such as earrings, or bath and body works stuff, bracelet, something not super expensive but nice looking. I got her a diamond necklace back during Valentines Day and I don't want to be repetitive and get her a necklace again.[/QUOTE] Get her lingerie :quagmire:
[QUOTE=Aerkhan;31247831]Just got the girl's number (the one from the bus stop). The fuck doIdo I don't even know her name.[/QUOTE] Ask her. How did you get her number? Usually when I ask peoples numbers (I always ask for everyone's number. :v:) I'm like; "So by what name should I save this number by?" [editline]21st July 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=insane taco;31250594]What should I get my girlfriend for her 18th birthday? I have a few ideas such as earrings, or bath and body works stuff, bracelet, something not super expensive but nice looking. I got her a diamond necklace back during Valentines Day and I don't want to be repetitive and get her a necklace again.[/QUOTE] Take her clotheshopping. If you can, encourage her to look / try some underwear, since that is always fun and in the end rewarding for both of you, even if you have to pay for them. That's what I used to do when I wanted to buy something nice to by ex.
I'm looking for ideas to what to get my girlfriend for 18th as well - clothes is out of the question
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