Eh her cousin is getting her underwear and bras. Might just stick to cheapish stuff such as perfume or something and just buy her something expensive for our one year which is coming up in a few months.
Anniversaries are so retarded unless you're married.
Ask her what her name is. She'll say her first name. Then you say "Nah, I meant your last name"
Works every time.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31252943]Anniversaries are so retarded unless you're married.[/QUOTE]Especially when people are counting the months they've been together lol.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31252943]Anniversaries are so retarded unless you're married.[/QUOTE]
You do realize having a special day for any reason makes life so much more interesting. Why would you think so?
When I got to make dinner and set a table and everything for my ex just for our two year anniversary it was really great and enjoyable, I see no reason to just act as it was a ordinary day.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;31253793]Especially when people are counting the months they've been together lol.[/QUOTE]
Sweet God I hate that.
Seriously, my facebook gets spammed with people's status updates about "One-Month Anniversaries".
The fuck!
[QUOTE=ewitwins;31253924]Sweet God I hate that.
Seriously, my facebook gets spammed with people's status updates about "One-Month Anniversaries".
The fuck![/QUOTE]
Let the kids enjoy what they are happy with, no reason to get mad about it.
I'm not mad at anyone directly, it's just irritating. I get what you're saying, and it's stupid to get mad about something so simple, but I can't help it v:v:v
As it is irritating I don't mind middle school and high school kids doing it but if i see colllege kids or older talking about 1 month anniversaries or half year anniversaries i swear i'm going to flip a shit and just throw a plate full of food at them.
How to keep your ex girlfriend out of your life? I'm with a girl but she doesn't know, should I just come out clean and tell her I'm in 'love' with another girl etc or should I just keep it quiet to her and then after a while in the future she can find out from whoever.
[QUOTE=ZeroMinus;31255376]How to keep your ex girlfriend out of your life? I'm with a girl but she doesn't know, should I just come out clean and tell her I'm in 'love' with another girl etc or should I just keep it quiet to her and then after a while in the future she can find out from whoever.[/QUOTE]
Just tell her straight up you don't want any contact whatsoever. you don't have to tell her anything other than the fact you have both broke up and you don't want to be friends.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;31255501]If you have no contact with her then just don't tell her
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But I'll assume you do due to the nature of your post[/QUOTE]
Only if she contacts me, otherwise no, I want nothing to do with her.
If you want no contact than you don't have to tell her shit. Once the break up is done and everyone has explained their reasoning, your responsibility to each other is over.
[QUOTE=insane taco;31252748]Eh her cousin is getting her underwear and bras. Might just stick to cheapish stuff such as perfume or something and just buy her something expensive for our one year which is coming up in a few months.[/QUOTE]
No way dude, her 18th is far more important. It's usually the one birthday that youngish couples splash out on. My friend bought his girlfriend a bike for hers (granted it was second hand but it's still a big gift).
[QUOTE=insane taco;31252748]Eh her cousin is getting her underwear and bras. Might just stick to cheapish stuff such as perfume or something and just buy her something expensive for our one year which is coming up in a few months.[/QUOTE]
Why is her cousin getting her underwear and bras? That's a bit of a weird thing to do.
Unless it's a female cousin, but that's still weird.
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;31262954]No way dude, her 18th is far more important. It's usually the one birthday that youngish couples splash out on. My friend bought his girlfriend a bike for hers (granted it was second hand but it's still a big gift).[/QUOTE]
I got a necklace from my boyfriend's parents for my 19th birthday. And from the sounds of it, it wasn't cheap.
He gave me a bumblebee transformer. Which is at home and I love it.
So...she said she'd be completely up for fooling around, and now she's acting... well, strange to say the least.
I don't think there's anything wrong with anniversaries if you're not married. It can be fun to arrange something nice to do and it spices up things a bit. Doing something every month would be weird though other than a quick text at the end of the day saying you've been together so and so months now can be nice every once in a while.
As for me I'm at a stage where nothings happening on the girl front at the moment, but I don't really mind it. It's kind of an odd feeling after going through the motions of going on dates, being together with someone, being single and then being not really interested in anyone. If someone comes along I get interested in that's nice but I'm fine with where I am right now.
[QUOTE=Inufin;31252013]Ask her.
How did you get her number? Usually when I ask peoples numbers (I always ask for everyone's number. :v:) I'm like; "So by what name should I save this number by?"
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Take her clotheshopping. If you can, encourage her to look / try some underwear, since that is always fun and in the end rewarding for both of you, even if you have to pay for them. That's what I used to do when I wanted to buy something nice to by ex.[/QUOTE]
"So, let's continue this conversation later. What'sya number?"
[QUOTE=Aerkhan;31266902]"So, let's continue this conversation later. What'sya number?"[/QUOTE]
Huh, I'm not completely sure what your point was, but usually if I want someones number I wait for a opportunity and when they hold their phone I ask can I put my number there and usually we change phones so we both can put our numbers or then just make other call the other phone. Getting to know someone better isn't just getting their number, you have to know what to say when you call them and actually be confident enough when you do it.
[QUOTE=E1025;31266239]I don't think there's anything wrong with anniversaries if you're not married. It can be fun to arrange something nice to do and it spices up things a bit. Doing something every month would be weird though other than a quick text at the end of the day saying you've been together so and so months now can be nice every once in a while.[/QUOTE]
If you aren't married (or in some other more permanent type of relationship, like a civil union or whatever), then it doesn't make sense to invest buckets of money into something with less commitment. Just because my girlfriend and I have known each other for years before dating, were best friends, and we're pretty committed to each other, doesn't mean she can expect some big gift when the time hits.
Besides, makes more sense to save that money for a ring, does it not?
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;31267528]If you aren't married (or in some other more permanent type of relationship, like a civil union or whatever), then it doesn't make sense to invest buckets of money into something with less commitment. Just because my girlfriend and I have known each other for years before dating, were best friends, and we're pretty committed to each other, doesn't mean she can expect some big gift when the time hits.
Besides, makes more sense to save that money for a ring, does it not?[/QUOTE]
Yeah totally get what you mean, I was thinking something along the the lines of a (non-formal) dinner or a date so you're not shelling out for it but you can still have fun doing it. Not that that it's that important to do or anything.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;31267528]If you aren't married (or in some other more permanent type of relationship, like a civil union or whatever), then it doesn't make sense to invest buckets of money into something with less commitment. Just because my girlfriend and I have known each other for years before dating, were best friends, and we're pretty committed to each other, doesn't mean she can expect some big gift when the time hits.
Besides, makes more sense to save that money for a ring, does it not?[/QUOTE]
Anniversary does not mean you spend 200€ on your lady. Its just making that ordinary dinner have more meaning by setting up the table and buying one flower instead of snacks for that one day.
It depends on how long you've been dating, and how much she expects from you.
if you both never spend much, it's not like you suddenly have to, but if you've been giving each other expensive gifts the whole time, you do have to.
Back from that camping party. Didn't have sex, weren't that many girls there. Spent most of the time hanging out with the girl who came with me and my two buddies, we got high and hung out in his car.. The girl and i cuddled a lot though :v:
[QUOTE=Octyl;31271183]Back from that camping party. Didn't have sex, weren't that many girls there. Spent most of the time hanging out with the girl who came with me and my two buddies, we got high and hung out in his car.. The girl and i cuddled a lot though :v:[/QUOTE]
I'm jealous D:
that's still pretty much a victory. you gonna ask her out?
I may.. we've been friends for a while, but she was saying something about how i stand a lot better of a chance with "the average girl" than most of the guys she knows.. Not trying to over-analyse, but that kinda sounds like a hint to me...
But she also shares my "nothing ventured, nothing gained" mentality, so I'm pretty sure I could ask her out and then we could just brush it off if she didn't feel the same.
well if you did a lot of cuddling that night on top of the other things, you might as well give it a shot.
The cuddling was mainly brought on by being high as fuck, you want to hug everything :v:
[QUOTE=Octyl;31273111]I may.. we've been friends for a while, but she was saying something about how i stand a lot better of a chance with "the average girl" than most of the guys she knows.. Not trying to over-analyse, but that kinda sounds like a hint to me...
But she also shares my "nothing ventured, nothing gained" mentality, so I'm pretty sure I could ask her out and then we could just brush it off if she didn't feel the same.[/QUOTE]
Hints are bullshit. Never pay attention to supposed "hints," at least not in this context. If you're not sure, ask her out. Don't try to analyze what she says and interpret it as her saying "yes ask me out" or "no don't ask me out."
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