• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=Mlisen14;31297125]Or they're for girls who like sex?[/QUOTE] Yes, that too. [editline]24th July 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=gufu;31297154] Pretty sure I read that some women (in the previous thread) enjoy bigger breasts/smoother skin/smoother periods due to the pill. I am still on conspiracy theory that Cracked introduced, with the pill inverting your feelings toward the partner.[/QUOTE] Well, they do have some serious stuff in them so all those hormones will most likely affect the way you think so I wouldn't be surprised if they somehow made the feelings towards your partner different. Also, now that you mentioned, pills actually are used to those stuff you lifted, my ex started taking pills rather early even if we just had had sex just a few times and we didn't have a chance to even have sex so often but her sister suggested them for her for skin care and smoother periods. Also, in the end she just wanted bigger boobs. :v:
[QUOTE=Inufin;31295770]The point is, if she is using pills and is a virgin you shouldn't be getting any STDs, but why would a virgin use pills anyway. Just use condom, pills are for steady relationships that actually last longer than few months.[/QUOTE] The pill fails quite often.
The last few posts were painful for me to read. A ton of people use the pill just for the smoother period perk, not that uncommon. I know 3 girls who use it just for that reason. Another uses it because she fucks my friend's brains out constantly. Use the pill and a condom. Mistakes suck, so don't make them. [editline]24th July 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Inufin;31295770]The point is, if she is using pills and is a virgin you shouldn't be getting any STDs, but why would a virgin use pills anyway. Just use condom, pills are for steady relationships that actually last longer than few months.[/QUOTE] Dirty needles, contaminated blood, and getting it passed on from your parents are one of the many ways you can have a STD without ever having sex before hand.
I was dating a girl who was a virgin on the pill. It took her from crippling cramps for 3 days straight to mild cramps for 1 day. Not THAT unusual to find a virgin on the pill.
So my friend pulled a prank where he told me he was gonna steal this girl from me. After seeing my reaction he told me that it was all just to see my reaction. Turns out I get really jealous and angry if someone were to steal my woman. Not surprising. :v:
I'm assuming you're with the girl? Cause if you aren't officially together, it isn't "stealing" no matter how long you've been talking.
[QUOTE=FlapadarV2;31297881]The pill fails quite often.[/QUOTE] the pill fails if you use it incorrectly. like if you miss a day. the boxes say "99.9% effective" so that they can't get sued by idiots who use it wrong and get preggo.
I'm not the target of this question, but what is your opinion on "cradle-robbers". I'm not talking about illegal relationships, but relationships in which the amount of time between the two partners is rather large.
Usually not a good idea, but they [i]can[/i] (albeit rarely) work.
[QUOTE=ewitwins;31301978]I'm not the target of this question, but what is your opinion on "cradle-robbers". I'm not talking about illegal relationships, but relationships in which the amount of time between the two partners is rather large.[/QUOTE] I dated a guy 12 years older then me, it was all bad he wanted babies, i never let him handle the condoms. Point is we we're at really different places, our relationship crashed and burned
[QUOTE=ewitwins;31301978]I'm not the target of this question, but what is your opinion on "cradle-robbers". I'm not talking about illegal relationships, but relationships in which the amount of time between the two partners is rather large.[/QUOTE] It doesn't really matter once both people are in their 20's or so. A 25 year old could be with a 40 year old if that's what floats their boat and it could work just fine. The only problems they'd encounter due to age are generational differences. It's when people are younger than 20 where age makes a huge difference because that's when the brain does all of its developing. A 25 and 40 year old are closer in terms of maturity than a 14 and 16 year old.
[QUOTE=H4yd3n;31283646]Fingered my girlfriend for the first time this morning/last night, that went really well. Surprised her with it while we were making out, she loved it. Anyway, I have a few questions that are somewhat related. First off, is it normal to only get a half boner and not get a full on stiffy? Because I'm going to contribute it to the stress of everything being new to me whereas she has a bit of experience. It's odd since I've never had such a problem before. Also, if anyone has any general tips on sex it would be greatly appreciated. And since someone is likely to ask, I'm 17. The sex stuff is a whole new frontier to me. Picking up on girls, charming them, all that jazz? Easy, but this is new. She's told me that I'm a quick learner which is definitely a good thing.[/QUOTE] Well you'll have to wait until the moment comes to see how that turns out. General sex tips: 1)In 2)Out 3)Repeat 4)This isnt a race. Oh and wear a rubber. And if she says she's on B/C and you don't need it, then wear one anyways. Bitches lie.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31302980]It doesn't really matter once both people are in their 20's or so. A 25 year old could be with a 40 year old if that's what floats their boat and it could work just fine. The only problems they'd encounter due to age are generational differences. It's when people are younger than 20 where age makes a huge difference because that's when the brain does all of its developing. A 25 and 40 year old are closer in terms of maturity than a 14 and 16 year old.[/QUOTE] Oh it's a bigger gap than two years. At the start of the year I was dating a 16 year old and I'm 18 and she is as mature or more mature than I am. I'd say it's worrying if a 17 year old is looking for a 13/14 year old but anything less than that gap isn't too much to worry about.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31301170]the pill fails if you use it incorrectly. like if you miss a day. the boxes say "99.9% effective" so that they can't get sued by idiots who use it wrong and get preggo.[/QUOTE] That isn't the only reason for it to fail. Though, there is easy ways of using it wrong too that a lot of people don't seem to know about either - for example penicillin stops it working. [editline]24th July 2011[/editline] Better safe than getting a girl pregnant.
People naturally emit different pheromones, and we look for mates who have certain pheromones, so that A) we stay close to family and protect them, and B) we can have a higher chance of making some really different genes. The pill hides these pheromones (because you are being simulated as pregnant, and pregnant women don't need to look for mates), so you might become attracted to someone with really certain pheromones that you [i]don't[/i] like, and then once they stop taking the pill you realize how much they repulse you.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;31304665]People naturally emit different pheromones, and we look for mates who have certain pheromones, so that A) we stay close to family and protect them, and B) we can have a higher chance of making some really different genes. The pill hides these pheromones (because you are being simulated as pregnant, and pregnant women don't need to look for mates), so you might become attracted to someone with really certain pheromones that you [i]don't[/i] like, and then once they stop taking the pill you realize how much they repulse you.[/QUOTE] The fuck are you on about
I kind of get what he's talking about. My ex would feel less towards me when taking the pill, but was almost obsessive about me when she came off it.
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;31303329]Oh it's a bigger gap than two years. At the start of the year I was dating a 16 year old and I'm 18 and she is as mature or more mature than I am. I'd say it's worrying if a 17 year old is looking for a 13/14 year old but anything less than that gap isn't too much to worry about.[/QUOTE] 16 to 18 is still too big of a gap in my opinion. im 17 and the lowest i would go is 16. 16 year olds are virtually never "as mature or more mature" than 18 year olds, to say that is to be too into her to realize she isn't. i can't stand guys who do that, they always look like they are or actually are taking advantage of those girls.
[highlight]People don't emit different pheromones.[/highlight] So no, he's wrong. [b]i be dumb[/b]
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;31303329]Oh it's a bigger gap than two years. At the start of the year I was dating a 16 year old and I'm 18 and she is as mature or more mature than I am. I'd say it's worrying if a 17 year old is looking for a 13/14 year old but anything less than that gap isn't too much to worry about.[/QUOTE] What nooblet said. Either she wasn't that mature and you were just thinking she was out of infatuation, or you were incredibly immature to the point of being on the same level as a 16 year old. If it's the latter then you have some development problems, because the brain does a lot of interior decorating between 16 and 18 that you missed out on.
Talking to an ex who was a bit upset, she asks me what I'm listening to. Send her a song where the first two sentences are "fuck you" and "I want to see you cry bitch" without realizing it actually said that She gets all pissy while I'm laughing loloops
[QUOTE=Occlusion;31309832][highlight]People don't emit different pheromones.[/highlight] So no, he's wrong.[/QUOTE] [url]http://www.livescience.com/2781-pill-women-pick-bad-mates.html[/url] [url]http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/pill-makes-women-less-responsive-720132.html[/url] [url]http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/236046.stm[/url] [url]http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2677697.stm[/url]
[QUOTE=Occlusion;31309832][highlight]People don't emit different pheromones.[/highlight] So no, he's wrong.[/QUOTE]Even if you weren't dead wrong, we're still learning a lot about what humans can detect through smell. Did you know women are subconciously attracted to complimentary immune systems? This helps women choose more genetically diverse partners and directly increases any children's chances of survival. [QUOTE=MaverickIB;31302980]It doesn't really matter once both people are in their 20's or so. A 25 year old could be with a 40 year old if that's what floats their boat and it could work just fine. The only problems they'd encounter due to age are generational differences. It's when people are younger than 20 where age makes a huge difference because that's when the brain does all of its developing. A 25 and 40 year old are closer in terms of maturity than a 14 and 16 year old.[/QUOTE]That said there are still a ton of potential issues that can come forward. My 22 year old friend (the girl) is dating this guy who is almost 40. He has a kid and is settled here, but she wants to explore and experience the world. She definitely doesn't want to be tied down by a kid. I mean it left me asking "WHY THE FUCK DID YOU DATE HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE" but, you know how girls can be sometimes... Anyway age gaps can be a lot of trouble but it really does work for some people. I can match that story of idiocy with other better ones, so it's not like it's always bad.
I consider problems like that generational. Older people tend to have kids/settled lives which can create problems. However, a single 22 year old with no skeletons in the closet and a single 40 year old with no skeletons in the closet could have a perfectly fine and dandy relationship with no problems stemming from age other than erectile dysfunction. You could not say the same thing for a 15 year old and an 18 year old. Their maturity levels wouldn't match up and there's a good chance all hell will break loose simply because of that.
Right. My girlfriend is 17, and before me she was dating a 20 year-old for about a year, which only lasted so long because he was really immature and also manipulated and took advantage of her.
My girlfriend's ex has come between us. He found out that we are going out and then started telling my gf he loves her still and shit...she broke up with him 4 months ago because of me. But she has feelings for him again after this, thing is this guy is a dickhead. She also said that she has feelings for me as well but it's not right that she's thinking about two guys. And now she wants some 'space' between us until she decides if she's ready for a relationship or not with me. I am actually heart broke, I really did like her but her ex has caused all this and I don't know what to do. Do I just wait and see what she decides? She did also say that she wouldn't get back with him and needs this space to sort her life out and prove to herself that she doesn't need a guy in her life :/ What do I do? Should I give her time to think through stuff? This really sucks :( And I did post in the other thread but was angry at the time and came across as a dick myself.
why would you want to be with the bitch anyways she breaks up with you because she has feelings for an ex? why the fuck would you want to be with this girl still
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31309936]What nooblet said. Either she wasn't that mature and you were just thinking she was out of infatuation, or you were incredibly immature to the point of being on the same level as a 16 year old. If it's the latter then you have some development problems, because the brain does a lot of interior decorating between 16 and 18 that you missed out on.[/QUOTE] Hey wow fuck you. No, but she was essentially 17 when I started dating her (like a week off, I was just making a point), and I was only just 18 at that point. I think the age gap is about 15 months. I'm not phenomenally immature in any way and I'm not judging this from a ridiculously infatuated standpoint either - though obviously now that you've said it, everyone will agree. She's just a very independent mature person, moreso than most of my adult friends. As in she'd have no trouble moving out, working and studying right now, whereas lots of my friends and most 18 year olds I know will be years away from that still, possibly myself included.
[QUOTE=MasterQuief;31314814]why would you want to be with the bitch anyways she breaks up with you because she has feelings for an ex? why the fuck would you want to be with this girl still[/QUOTE] I really, really like her and she's my first love...but I keep telling myself to man the fuck up and end it because I don't deserve this shit and she doesn't deserve me...but it's tough.
Independence doesn't necessarily walk hand-in-hand with maturity. I know plenty of completely immature people who are living on their own and paying their own bills. Also, don't give me fudged numbers and then get all mad when I use them. You should have said you were a year older (when it doesn't make a massive difference) instead of trying to make it sound like there was a 2 year gap between you. There's a large difference between 1 year and 2 years at those ages. It's like asking a doctor for a BMI or whatever and fudging your weight/height a bit, then getting upset with what number they give you. Bitch, I can't read your mind.
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