How did you 'meet' her then, and what were the circumstances of the first time you actually met her?
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31143386]Her father is just overprotective, she wants to meet me. And i'm not arsed to start searching after girls.[/QUOTE]
if she's 19, she should be able to meet you regardless of her father's wishes, and at this point her father should probably have gotten used to the idea of his daughter seeing men
are you [B]sure[/B] she's 19 years old?
So how did you actually meet? Online? Assuming that's the case since you said you've only met once before and you're calling her your "gf" so I highly doubt that was when you learned of her existence.
If that's the case, then her father isn't overprotective. He's just a smart father that doesn't want her daughter going out and meeting some kid she hardly knows. That shit is dangerous, I sure as hell wouldn't let my daughter do that.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31143454]How did you 'meet' her then, and what were the circumstances of the first time you actually met her?[/QUOTE]
It was at a car festival in town, she was only with her brother.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31143467]if she's 19, she should be able to meet you regardless of her father's wishes, and at this point her father should probably have gotten used to the idea of his daughter seeing men
are you [B]sure[/B] she's 19 years old?[/QUOTE]
I know, it's bizarre, right? Yeah i've seen pictures of her graduation.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31143486]So how did you actually meet? Online? Assuming that's the case since you said you've only met once before and you're calling her your "gf" so I highly doubt that was when you learned of her existence.
If that's the case, then her father isn't overprotective. He's just a smart father that doesn't want her daughter going out and meeting some kid she hardly knows. That shit is dangerous, I sure as hell wouldn't let my daughter do that.[/QUOTE]
Yes i met her "online", rather she did. And i just don't know what to call her, a friend is too little since we talk about literally everything.
Um, friends talk about everything.
If you think talking about everything is a trait specific to romantic relationships, you need to get out more and make friends.
Have you considered the possibility that she's using her father as a way of avoiding going out with you? She might just enjoy having someone to talk to online and not see you in a romantic light.
Fuck her dad and then fuck her
Does she call you her boyfriend?
I had a most confusing day drinking today. I got a kiss from a guy and later that night I realized I like both genders just as much as before it was 75% men.
Let this be a lesson for you kids, don't go out drinking.
I only go out running 25% of the time for the exercise 75% of the time to show off my bod to the babes
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31144125]Um, friends talk about everything.
If you think talking about everything is a trait specific to romantic relationships, you need to get out more and make friends.
Have you considered the possibility that she's using her father as a way of avoiding going out with you? She might just enjoy having someone to talk to online and not see you in a romantic light.[/QUOTE]
Even what positions she likes & stuff? Her last relationship was a long time ago, and i don't think so.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31144189]Does she call you her boyfriend?[/QUOTE]
Nah, but other stuff. We're not in a relationship really.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31144930]Even what positions she likes & stuff? Her last relationship was a long time ago, and i don't think so.
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Yes even positions.
At least I talked about that with a friend of mine that was a girl...
Me too. Talk doesn't mean shit.
What do you mean you met her "online"?
Is this some sort of semi-internet?
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My point is that you're too scared to even call her your girlfriend or say you met her online, so of course you're too scared to assert yourself to her, or to tell [i]yourself[/i] to get over her.
You need to man up and make a decision.
SHE met me online, i didn't.
I know, i need to man up. Too scared to fuck it all up.
I'm talking to her now.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31145809]SHE met me online, i didn't.
I know, i need to man up. Too scared to fuck it all up.
I'm talking to her now.[/QUOTE]
There's really not a lot that you'd be losing if you did "fuck it all up". You don't have anything that special as far as I can tell.
She met you online, but you didn't meet her online. Right.
And you call her your girlfriend but she doesn't call you her boyfriend, but you think talking about sexual positions is enough to warrant a relationship worth getting upset about.
Shit, no wonder the father doesn't want her to meet up with you much. You don't even know this girl, she hardly knows you, the father isn't being overprotective by any stretch.
What do you mean "mess it up"?
You literally have nothing to lose right now
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;31145903]There's really not a lot that you'd be losing if you did "fuck it all up". You don't have anything that special as far as I can tell.[/QUOTE]
Really?
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31145916]She met you online, but you didn't meet her online. Right.
And you call her your girlfriend but she doesn't call you her boyfriend, but you think talking about sexual positions is enough to warrant a relationship worth getting upset about.
Shit, no wonder the father doesn't want her to meet up with you much. You don't even know this girl, she hardly knows you, the father isn't being overprotective by any stretch.[/QUOTE]
I JUST SAID SO BECAUSE I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO CALL HER, OKAY? :v:
We know each other now, by talking ALOT by phone, and texting. I can agree that the father might not be that overprotective, but i do know her now.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;31146127]What do you mean "mess it up"?
You literally have nothing to lose right now[/QUOTE]
Her? Talking to her is nice.
You barely know her.
If you mess it up you can easily find someone else, there's just nothing that special about her.
She's a really nice person, never met anyone like her before.
And i don't really want a relationship if i need to search for it, it's just not worth it, this is just like a dream.
First time i've been talking to a girl like this too.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/5ueF0.png[/img]
If telling the truth is being an ass.
I'm sure she's nice and everything, but so are many other people. Right now just because you're infatuated with her, and since it's the first time you've really had a connection with a girl, you think she is the epitome of perfect, and you'll do whatever you can to get her, even if it's stupid.
And I am telling you, it's not worth it. She's probably not nearly as amazing as you have tricked yourself into thinking, and even if she was, there's no way getting past all of this is worth it to be with them. There are [i]really[/i] plenty of other girls who you could meet.
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Especially since the only conversations you've had with her have been through the internet, besides the [i]one[/i] time you have actually seen her. That is [i]not[/i] enough to tell if you actually like someone or not.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;31146790][img]http://i.imgur.com/5ueF0.png[/img]
If telling the truth is being an ass.
I'm sure she's nice and everything, but so are many other people. Right now just because you're infatuated with her, and since it's the first time you've really had a connection with a girl, you think she is the epitome of perfect, and you'll do whatever you can to get her, even if it's stupid.
And I am telling you, it's not worth it. She's probably not nearly as amazing as you have tricked yourself into thinking, and even if she was, there's no way getting past all of this is worth it to be with them. There are [i]really[/i] plenty of other girls who you could meet.[/QUOTE]
Meant more like the dumb in the GMF but okay.
True, but i really don't want to go out to meet new girls, can't see a reason why. Now i have the chance, i'll just take it.
It's a rating, get over it.
I rated you dumb because you were actually complaining about having relatively fast internet speeds
And why not go out and meet new girls?
As far as I can tell you have already taken the chance with this girl, and it turns out she is either not interested, or her dad is a control freak. Both of those are no-go's so you might as well just find someone else to look for.
I wasn't complaining. Your attitute in general doesn't seem that nice overall.
She is interested, it's the dad. She will talk to him, and hopefully it will work out.
I have never been interested in relationships, mainly because i'm at my computer all day, not liking anything else, so i'm a pretty boring guy.
Gonna laugh when you find out she isn't actually interested in you romantically and uses the overprotective dad thing as a ploy to keep from having to meet you in person.
she has met me in person
also i don't really give a shit about anything anymore, so go ahead. i'm gonna go to a psychiatrist later this year.
she does like me too.
ok good luck
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31146818]True, but i really don't want to go out to meet new girls, can't see a reason why. Now i have the chance, i'll just take it.[/QUOTE]
If you aren't willing to go out and talk to people to look for the right girl, you will [I]never[/I] find the right one. I'm surprised you even found the [I]wrong[/I] one.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31146891]I have never been interested in relationships, mainly because i'm at my computer all day, not liking anything else, so i'm a pretty boring guy.[/QUOTE]
You sound like the saddest human ever. You actually prefer sitting on your ass to having relationships with people? Don't get me wrong, I spend plenty of time on a computer, but hot damn, I would choose relationships over computers every day of the week.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31147472]also i don't really give a shit about anything anymore, so go ahead. i'm gonna go to a psychiatrist later this year.[/QUOTE]
Hear me out here: you probably will be unable to satisfy any woman emotionally and aren't mature enough to have a relationship anyway. You don't give a shit anymore and you're gonna go see a psychiatrist? You need to change if you want a chance at a relationship, although it sounds like you don't.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31145809]SHE met me online, i didn't.
I know, i need to man up. Too scared to fuck it all up.
I'm talking to her now.[/QUOTE]
What in the world do you mean she met you online, but you didn't? Generally, meeting someone is a two-way kind of a deal.
[QUOTE=Contag;31136675]facial hair is a such a fucking chore
also why do you have face fuzz to compare? shave it off
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I cannot bring myself to shave daily. hate it.[/QUOTE]
I haven't shaved fully in about 2 months, I tidy it up every few days though
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[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31146626]She's a really nice person, never met anyone like her before.
And i don't really want a relationship if i need to search for it, it's just not worth it, this is just like a dream.[/QUOTE]
Relationships are like that, you've got to put some effort in to get something out.
You can't just expect relationships and girls to just come to you.
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