[QUOTE=thisispain;31562466]pfff me working out haha that's funny
i'll just continue to look like a tooth pick thank you[/QUOTE]
And then you try to carry the girl and then stairs and the oh goblarghabl.
Been there, done that.
why the fuck would i carry the girl she can carry herself.
[QUOTE=Mr_Razzums;31562303]Well even having a visible 6 pack is loads better than a 1 pack lmao. And you can do that by not eating like a fat ass and by doing weighted and bodyweighted ab exercises.
And lucky me I genetically get an 8 pack (thx parents.) and maybe you do too. Took me like 4 months to go from 1 pack to 8 so it's p easy.
Also do arms chest legs ofc. Gl in the gym dood[/QUOTE]
I'm a skinny fuck, so a six pack started showing within about 2 weeks of starting nightly situps :v:
[QUOTE=gufu;31563046]And then you try to carry the girl and then stairs and the oh goblarghabl.
Been there, done that.[/QUOTE]
It's much more fun getting a girl to carry you.
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Didn't go so well though.
[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;31546525]wtf kid
you talking to me or that faggot above me[/QUOTE]
i like you when you're confused
Question.
I have absolutely NO relationship experience at fucking all. Yet, I get all the people from my school asking me for relationship advice, does anyone know why? I asked my mate who is similar to me in personality and appearance. he says he gets it too
so what the fuck is going on
You're likely give good advice or you tell people what they want to hear.
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My ex dumped me like a month back, had been going out for like three years. She dumped me for no reason (her words), and after she kept telling me that she made a mistake. So I gave her as much time as she needed (she took a week) to make sure that she knew what she wanted. Then she tells me that she wanted to get back together, and we hang out a few times and and tell her I wouldn't mind getting back together as well. A week later she is now trying to get with another guy which really annoys me because that whole previous process that took place the month prior was pointless and she never gave any indication at all that she actually wouldn't want to get back together, she did quite the opposite.
To be honest she sounds like a waste of time, if she broke up with you for no reason, she was likely with you for no reason too.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31562438]Yeah working out and just generally starting to care about what I looked like did a lot for my self-confidence and how people received me. It's definitely worthwhile.[/QUOTE]
Have you looked back at previous pictures and thought, "Damn, my arms looked like twigs before?"
[QUOTE=Pepin;31567687]You're likely give good advice or you tell people what they want to hear.
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I highly doubt that, I usually tell them they sound like an complete cunt
You probably give advice that sounds good on paper but doesn't work for shit in actuality. If you knew what you were talking about, you wouldn't have a problem with getting a relationship.
Hey MaverickIB, you know that Zyzz guy and his theories behind being 'alpha'? Do they work? Would it be worth buying his Bodybuilding Bible to achieve the body I want and be confident about it?
No.
Sure, lifting weights and looking good can do wonders for your confidence. However, all of that bullshit about being alpha and treating girls like shit because you're fucking cool is pure retardation. He completely forgets that we're in the modern era, how successful someone is is not dependent on how well they can swing a club and defend woman from all cave men. You can be "alpha" through intelligence, humor, and other things nowadays. You don't have to be a complete twat to stand out.
Regarding lifting weights, don't buy his bible anyways. Start with a good program like Stronglifts 5x5 and/or get your ass over to the fitness subforum and read up.
Alpha males are alway douchebags anyways.
Ehhhh no. I know plenty of guys that fit the "alpha" bill and everyone thinks they're pretty cool guys.
It's dumb to assume alpha = douchebag. There's other ways of being on top that don't involve kicking everyone down.
Ironically I get a superiority complex when I'm talking to a group of attractive women that I don't know. I don't get in that situation very often, but it does happen when I do. Could be biological because it doesn't at all fit how I usually am.
Better than being an Omega Male.
I knew a kid who was such a pussy, and he got pushed around by his girlfriend to the point to where she would yell at him in the middle of class. I wanted to smack his shit and tell him to grow a pair and dump the bitch.
The kid ended up going to a charter school (shit school) because his girlfriend couldn't handle the social situations that come along with normal high school experience, so she decided to drag him along to charter school. Moral of the story, don't be omega, you're better off being beta or a alpha, no matter how stereotypically of a douchebag you may be.
Certainly never let your partner tell you to do things just because they presume they have the authority. What I usually did in my relationship was ask questions when my girlfriend got bossy. In general she wasn't bossy, but like everyone, at times she could be.
"Do this"
"For what reason"
"Because I told you to"
"That's not a reason, give me a reason"
...
If there is no reason, you just end it there and say that you need a reason to do something you don't want to do, if there is a reason and it is good you should probably do it, if the reason is bad you should argue against it and say they need a better reason. I find it is also good to make an opposite case to see if they agree because it's a situation where both parties have to give something up to get what they want. Though I wouldn't compromise on big things or bad deals.
That's really obnoxious.
If they order you to do things all the time then sure stick up for yourself.
But you said she wasn't bossy in general, so why would you care so much if she wanted you to do one thing?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;31577134]That's really obnoxious.
If they order you to do things all the time then sure stick up for yourself.
But you said she wasn't bossy in general, so why would you care so much if she wanted you to do one thing?[/QUOTE]
Because it would be something I really wouldn't want to do, such as let her look through my phone. She offered a compromise which would be that I could look through her phone if I wanted, to which I swiftly declined. Maybe I should clarify, when she was bossy, she was bossy about that kind of stuff and it would come out of nowhere.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;31576422]Better than being a Omega Male.
I knew a kid who was such a pussy, and he got pushed around by his girlfriend to the point to where she would yell at him in the middle of class. I wanted to smack his shit and tell him to grow a pair and dump the bitch.
The kid ended up going to a charter school (shit school) because his girlfriend couldn't handle the social situations that come along with normal high school experience, so she decided to drag him along to charter school. Moral of the story, don't be omega, you're better off being beta or a alpha, no matter how stereotypically of a douchebag you may be.[/QUOTE]
Hahahah what the fuck, don't be omega but be beta or alpha instead? What are you even on about?
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31577538]Hahahah what the fuck, don't be omega but be beta or alpha instead? What are you even on about?[/QUOTE]
I was pointing out to carne that it's better to be a douchebag alpha than some push over omega.
Why the fuck are you tripping over that? trying to make a deal out of my post?
[QUOTE=Pepin;31576067]Ironically I get a superiority complex when I'm talking to a group of attractive women that I don't know. I don't get in that situation very often, but it does happen when I do. Could be biological because it doesn't at all fit how I usually am.[/QUOTE]
if you mean superiority complex as in you become an asshole who puts down the guys you're hanging out with to try to impress the attractive women, that's just you being an asshole. stop it.
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[QUOTE=ScoutKing;31577776]I was pointing out to carne that it's better to be a douchebag alpha than some push over omega.
Why the fuck are you tripping over that? trying to make a deal out of my post?[/QUOTE]
tbh i didnt get your post at all
is beta or omega even a term people use or did you just come up with that on your own? it would have been more effective to just say "dont be a pushover"
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31578136]if you mean superiority complex as in you become an asshole who puts down the guys you're hanging out with to try to impress the attractive women, that's just you being an asshole. stop it.
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tbh i didnt get your post at all
is beta or omega even a term people use or did you just come up with that on your own? it would have been more effective to just say "dont be a pushover"[/QUOTE]
where I live, it's tossed around. That was the kid's nickname actually. Mr.Omega.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31578136]if you mean superiority complex as in you become an asshole who puts down the guys you're hanging out with to try to impress the attractive women, that's just you being an asshole. stop it.[/QUOTE]
No, it's more like I'm overconfident and feel like I'm superior to the people I'm talking with. It's usually in circles with just girls, but I haven't been in those lately. I don't really understand it.
that makes you sound like an autist who feels like they have to lower their level of being when theyre around attractive women that they assume to be dumb
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maybe im wrong
I don't see why people shouldn't be confident. In my opinion everyone's freaking awesome just as they are (until they prove me wrong). And overconfidence can be a negative, but I would prefer to be known as overconfident rather than "Mr.Omega".
lol alpha and omega
we don't call people who exhibit alpha-male behavior "alpha" we call those narcissists.
unless you guys live in some fucked up town where everyone is cued up to eat and only one person is allowed to have sex with the girls i don't think that ethology applies to you.
[QUOTE=thisispain;31596084]lol alpha and omega
we don't call people who exhibit alpha-male behavior "alpha" we call those narcissists.
unless you guys live in some fucked up town where everyone is cued up to eat and only one person is allowed to have sex with the girls i don't think that ethology applies to you.[/QUOTE]Ok, now this makes me think we have like 80 different definitions of "alpha" going here and the misinterpretation is causing a lot of trouble.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;31596253]Ok, now this makes me think we have like 80 different definitions of "alpha" going here and the misinterpretation is causing a lot of trouble.[/QUOTE]
we don't have 80 definitions of alpha we have one that comes from the fucking animal kingdom where animals are lined up in social castes for eating and mating.
this type of behavior usually only exists in animals where the males form small groups and fight to mate with the segregated female community. in those cases only the alpha-male gets to mate and gets to feed first.
fuck your alpha male shit, humans don't exhibit this behavior.
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