• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31605516]oh no my secret is out im a crossdresser[/QUOTE] fucking called it
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;31605536]Stop having sex with her because sex is so mainstream.[/QUOTE] But not having sex is so mainstream too.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31605802]fucking called it[/QUOTE] im actually a 12 yr old who created this entire maverick persona complete with hundreds of fake facebook friends i created
uh you wouldn't have had to create facebook friends since you never even linked to your facebook profile
but one could always google my name and find it with ease i cover all bases intricately cause im autistic
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Hello, it's me again ( the guy who met a girl online ) So we've been flirting for some time now and cammed ( one of my previous posts ) and decided to look up her Facebook, it says in a relationship but looks like she barely used FB. Would it be ok if i just asked if shes single or not? Probably going to her new place on friday, since i don't have any money right now i'll have to borrow from my parents. She even said that she'll just as happy come to my place ( shes in college and gets a card where she can travel for free in the country. )
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;31607729]You're probably gonna get mugged and/or raped.[/QUOTE] + 1 prepare your asshole
I was gonna make a separate thread for this, but this one seems more appropriate. I need some advice. I live in Arizona, USA and I'm thinking of proposing to my girlfriend. I've been dating her for close to 4 years (Dec 10th) and I really love her. That being said, I've talked with her a few times about marriage and I don't know really how she feels about it, but I know she won't say no. So I need to know some things, I need to find a good place to buy a ring at a reasonable price, but she doesn't really wear jewelry so it doesn't really need to be flashy, and it's only an engagement ring. I want platinum, not gold. I don't know, any advice?
How old are you?
[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;31610355]How old are you?[/QUOTE] I'm 23, I'll be 24 in January
[editline]8th August 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Xehanort;31607639]Hello, it's me again ( the guy who met a girl online ) So we've been flirting for some time now and cammed ( one of my previous posts ) and decided to look up her Facebook, it says in a relationship but looks like she barely used FB. Would it be ok if i just asked if shes single or not? Probably going to her new place on friday, since i don't have any money right now i'll have to borrow from my parents. She even said that she'll just as happy come to my place ( shes in college and gets a card where she can travel for free in the country. )[/QUOTE] No you must back off now, if you ask that you will ruin everything and she will DIE. Just ask her.
nooooooooooooo dont fucking ask if she's single or not, it really doesnt matter, just treat it so that it's obviously a date and dont worry about her relationship status. she's not retarded, if she cares she'll tell you she's seeing someone, but until then it doesnt concern you [editline]8th August 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=PaRaD0XX;31609730]I was gonna make a separate thread for this, but this one seems more appropriate. I need some advice. I live in Arizona, USA and I'm thinking of proposing to my girlfriend. I've been dating her for close to 4 years (Dec 10th) and I really love her. That being said, I've talked with her a few times about marriage and I don't know really how she feels about it, but I know she won't say no. So I need to know some things, I need to find a good place to buy a ring at a reasonable price, but she doesn't really wear jewelry so it doesn't really need to be flashy, and it's only an engagement ring. I want platinum, not gold. I don't know, any advice?[/QUOTE] something tells me marriage and proposal isn't exactly this forum's expertise, but i would imagine you would look around at major jewelers and/or pawn shops to find something you'll know she likes
[QUOTE=PaRaD0XX;31609730]I was gonna make a separate thread for this, but this one seems more appropriate. I need some advice. I live in Arizona, USA and I'm thinking of proposing to my girlfriend. I've been dating her for close to 4 years (Dec 10th) and I really love her. That being said, I've talked with her a few times about marriage and I don't know really how she feels about it, but I know she won't say no. So I need to know some things, I need to find a good place to buy a ring at a reasonable price, but she doesn't really wear jewelry so it doesn't really need to be flashy, and it's only an engagement ring. I want platinum, not gold. I don't know, any advice?[/QUOTE] Congratulations on your soon to be engagement. A friend of mine who recently got married (also in AZ) got his ring at Kay Jewelers for a reasonable price. They also offer rings of all types of metals, Steel, Silver, Gold... not sure if they have platinum though.
[QUOTE=PaRaD0XX;31609730]I was gonna make a separate thread for this, but this one seems more appropriate. I need some advice. I live in Arizona, USA and I'm thinking of proposing to my girlfriend. I've been dating her for close to 4 years (Dec 10th) and I really love her. That being said, I've talked with her a few times about marriage and I don't know really how she feels about it, but I know she won't say no. So I need to know some things, I need to find a good place to buy a ring at a reasonable price, but she doesn't really wear jewelry so it doesn't really need to be flashy, and it's only an engagement ring. I want platinum, not gold. I don't know, any advice?[/QUOTE] [img]http://grounet.com/data_images/burger-rings.jpg[/img] Act completely seriously. If she stays with you, then proceed.
[QUOTE=PaRaD0XX;31609730]I was gonna make a separate thread for this, but this one seems more appropriate. I need some advice. I live in Arizona, USA and I'm thinking of proposing to my girlfriend. I've been dating her for close to 4 years (Dec 10th) and I really love her. That being said, I've talked with her a few times about marriage and I don't know really how she feels about it, but I know she won't say no. So I need to know some things, I need to find a good place to buy a ring at a reasonable price, but she doesn't really wear jewelry so it doesn't really need to be flashy, and it's only an engagement ring. I want platinum, not gold. I don't know, any advice?[/QUOTE] This is not the right place to ask about marriage If your dad is an option, ask him, or another male adult who you look up to.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31613240]nooooooooooooo dont fucking ask if she's single or not, it really doesnt matter, just treat it so that it's obviously a date and dont worry about her relationship status. she's not retarded, if she cares she'll tell you she's seeing someone, but until then it doesnt concern you [editline]8th August 2011[/editline] something tells me marriage and proposal isn't exactly this forum's expertise, but i would imagine you would look around at major jewelers and/or pawn shops to find something you'll know she likes[/QUOTE] Okay, thanks. Exactly the kind of answer i needed.
Just go to a Jeweller if you want a ring. Some are gonna have absurdly expensive ones, others are more on the cheap side, it changes with each store. If she's not gonna wear it then I probably wouldn't get something too expensive but I don't know her, maybe she'd like something big and flashy even if she didn't wear it, maybe she'd appreciate how much it must have cost. Everything else though, not our area of expertise. We're better at the general approaching a random where a lot of the variables will be the same. For you, it's far more about you two than anything else.
White gold. And a rock (Diamond) Just a small diamond. Nothing to huge. Just a nice one.
I dont know if my thing could be actually a girlfriend/boyfriend kind of relationship. Like, we don't outright love each other, more like are just really, really close. Sure, we might've exchanged some close touching but i dont feel like i truly, seriously [U]love[/U] her. I just go to the gym with her, hang around etc but i don't have that feeling. So what is it? any help?
A relationship? You don't have to be head over heels in love with someone to go out with them... A lot of people seem to think that you do, and so they convince themselves that their infatuation is "true love" as an excuse for all the stupid shit they will then pull.
[QUOTE='[Green];31652297']I dont know if my thing could be actually a girlfriend/boyfriend kind of relationship. Like, we don't outright love each other, more like are just really, really close. Sure, we might've exchanged some close touching but i dont feel like i truly, seriously [U]love[/U] her. I just go to the gym with her, hang around etc but i don't have that feeling. So what is it? any help?[/QUOTE] Pretty much what Octyl said. You don't have to love someone to go out with them. Having sex and whatnot =/= love.
[QUOTE='[Green];31652297']I dont know if my thing could be actually a girlfriend/boyfriend kind of relationship. Like, we don't outright love each other, more like are just really, really close. Sure, we might've exchanged some close touching but i dont feel like i truly, seriously [U]love[/U] her. I just go to the gym with her, hang around etc but i don't have that feeling. So what is it? any help?[/QUOTE] first off, you dont have to be in love with someone for them to be your boy/girlfriend. secondly, your relationship doesnt sounds like youre dating at all anyway, you just sound like close friends, so why do you sound all guilty when you say you're not in love with her?
[QUOTE=PaRaD0XX;31609730]I was gonna make a separate thread for this, but this one seems more appropriate. I need some advice. I live in Arizona, USA and I'm thinking of proposing to my girlfriend. I've been dating her for close to 4 years (Dec 10th) and I really love her. That being said, I've talked with her a few times about marriage and I don't know really how she feels about it, but I know she won't say no. So I need to know some things, I need to find a good place to buy a ring at a reasonable price, but she doesn't really wear jewelry so it doesn't really need to be flashy, and it's only an engagement ring. I want platinum, not gold. I don't know, any advice?[/QUOTE] Where in Arizona? Go to Kevin's Jewelers or Jarrid :v: Only place I know of in Tucson that sells that kinda stuff
Don't Go to a real jeweler.
Stuck in a shit situation. Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 2 years, we're both 21. We're good together, never argue, she's understanding, doesn't mind me going out with the lads and we share the same interests... I know you're thinking "So what's the problem?". Well my problem is that she's really starting to settle down whereas I'm not. We're at different stages in our lives, she's talking about kids and marriage and I know I'm not ready for that yet, I enjoy living life too much and have started to think it's not fair on her to wait around for me to settle down because I don't plan on doing that for a few years yet. If we'd have met a few years later then I know it would have worked but I think it's all just too soon for me. We went on our first holiday this summer and I noticed we were beginning to change then when she was just up for chilling out all the time and I wanted to go out at nights. I know it may sound selfish on my part but I know I just don't want to be tied down yet and I know I need to tell her but there's never a good time. Her parents are always arguing, she's always stressed with work, she suffers from IBS so that brings her down too. She's moving in with her friend this weekend to escape her parents so I'm hoping that will take some stress out of her life but I can't bring myself to drop this bomb on her, I know it'll devestate her and just add to all the shit going on at the minute. So what I'm asking is what the hell do I say and when? There never seems to be a suitable time. The longer I keep this in the more it's eating me up inside.
Tell her to go play in the traffic and lighten up.
Tell her what you've said here. If you've been with her for 2 years and you can't be open about your feelings, there are bigger problems.
I've been at work all day and my bird asks if I want to come round as she's got a load of family round, I really can't be bothered with people this evening cos I'm tired and stuff. Any other day I would've been on it. I think she's a bit pissed off as she hasn't text me back, but I've been at work for nine hours putting up with nonsense from customers and lifting washing machines. Am I a meany? dont worry guys, she doesn't mind, meeting her later
[IMG]http://s3.amazonaws.com/kym-assets/entries/icons/original/000/005/393/i-know-that-feel.jpg?1308197579[/IMG] I hate that feeling where it eats you up inside. Fucking sucks. Anyways, I dunno I probably don't have the best advice to give you but it sounds like you have a lack in communication right now. It'll be essential for you to successfully communicate that you are [B]not[/B] ready to settle down yet. The sooner, the better, otherwise it ends up tugging at you and she might be frustrated why you didn't say anything earlier. I'd say 21 would be way too young for me to get married. I'd handle it in steps as far as marriage is concerned. Like say, moving in together first before even thinking about it.
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