• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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She does sound a bit forward, my older brother's 29, has lived with his girlfriend for about five years. But I dunno if/when they'll get married or what. I really hope they do eventually.
[QUOTE=Doozle;31693607]She does sound a bit forward, my older brother's 29, has lived with his girlfriend for about five years. But I dunno if/when they'll get married or what. I really hope they do eventually.[/QUOTE] Sounds like they don't want to deal with the hassles of marriage and are perfectly happy with a cohabitational sort of arrangement.
[QUOTE=sam.clarke;31690613]Stuck in a shit situation. Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 2 years, we're both 21. We're good together, never argue, she's understanding, doesn't mind me going out with the lads and we share the same interests... I know you're thinking "So what's the problem?". Well my problem is that she's really starting to settle down whereas I'm not. We're at different stages in our lives, she's talking about kids and marriage and I know I'm not ready for that yet, I enjoy living life too much and have started to think it's not fair on her to wait around for me to settle down because I don't plan on doing that for a few years yet. If we'd have met a few years later then I know it would have worked but I think it's all just too soon for me. We went on our first holiday this summer and I noticed we were beginning to change then when she was just up for chilling out all the time and I wanted to go out at nights. I know it may sound selfish on my part but I know I just don't want to be tied down yet and I know I need to tell her but there's never a good time. Her parents are always arguing, she's always stressed with work, she suffers from IBS so that brings her down too. She's moving in with her friend this weekend to escape her parents so I'm hoping that will take some stress out of her life but I can't bring myself to drop this bomb on her, I know it'll devestate her and just add to all the shit going on at the minute. So what I'm asking is what the hell do I say and when? There never seems to be a suitable time. The longer I keep this in the more it's eating me up inside.[/QUOTE] Just tell her. You're not leading her on, you're simply being honest that yes, you could be ready eventually, but not yet.
My girlfriend is self conscious about her boobs and thighs so therefore wont get nude and therefore wont have sex with me, what do I do? I have been with her more than a month and all I got is a handjob.
she's not self conscious about them unless she either has an STD or she's like 14 either way you shouldn't have sex with her. But it's more likely that she just doesn't want to have sex with you.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;31751883]Aren't you the guy that wrote that cliche facebook message to your gf[/QUOTE] That's me :D she loves me to bits but wont do anything cause she is so self conscious. I really have no idea what to say apart from call her beautiful and compliment her breasts every day. It gets me nowhere. [editline]15th August 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;31751799]she's not self conscious about them unless she either has an STD or she's like 14 either way you shouldn't have sex with her. But it's more likely that she just doesn't want to have sex with you.[/QUOTE] Well she does, but she said I have to wait until Christmas :| [b]Edit:[/b] I ain't waiting until Christmas.
why would you shower anyone in compliments
Just let her keep her shirt on when you fuck her. Ta-da.
here's how every asking out conversation goes. at my school, at least. Douchebag: do you want to go out with me Cuntbag: yes Douchebag: i love you Cuntbag: hop in
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;31752159]Why christmas? wtf and uh do you say "NICE TITS" to her every day or something?[/QUOTE] I know right, nah I just feel them and play with her nipples telling her how nice they feel (I am not allowed to see them but I can play with her nipples and make her horny??) and how perfect my hands are to them. I let her know she has a great figure quite often, the furthest she has gone is showed me her belly... [editline]16th August 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=MaverickIB;31752255]Just let her keep her shirt on when you fuck her. Ta-da.[/QUOTE] She doesn't like her thighs either... How do I make a girl realise she isn't fat and ugly??? She weighs like 8 stone and she thinks she is fat.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31751706]My girlfriend is self conscious about her boobs and thighs so therefore wont get nude and therefore wont have sex with me, what do I do? I have been with her more than a month and all I got is a handjob.[/QUOTE] All you got. You seem a bit ungrateful for having her around. As much as having a girlfriend is about sex there are more things than that. Sure it can be difficult waiting, but it's not like she out rightly said I'm never having sex. Surely from that whole facebook thing that you think she's worth waiting for.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31752538]I know right, nah I just feel them and play with her nipples telling her how nice they feel (I am not allowed to see them but I can play with her nipples and make her horny??) and how perfect my hands are to them. I let her know she has a great figure quite often, the furthest she has gone is showed me her belly... [editline]16th August 2011[/editline] She doesn't like her thighs either... How do I make a girl realise she isn't fat and ugly??? She weighs like 8 stone and she thinks she is fat.[/QUOTE] send her to a doctor or push her into a bus
[QUOTE=Hana-San;31752630]All you got. You seem a bit ungrateful for having her around. As much as having a girlfriend is about sex there are more things than that. Sure it can be difficult waiting, but it's not like she out rightly said I'm never having sex. Surely from that whole facebook thing that you think she's worth waiting for.[/QUOTE] Yeah she really is worth waiting for, I am just kind of bored of handjobs and kissing all the time. I mean I really do like her but I want more if you know what I mean.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31752538]I know right, nah I just feel them and play with her nipples telling her how nice they feel (I am not allowed to see them but I can play with her nipples and make her horny??) and how perfect my hands are to them. I let her know she has a great figure quite often, the furthest she has gone is showed me her belly... [editline]16th August 2011[/editline] She doesn't like her thighs either... How do I make a girl realise she isn't fat and ugly??? She weighs like 8 stone and she thinks she is fat.[/QUOTE] Not much that you can do. I myself am very conscious of my body, it just takes time.
[QUOTE=Hana-San;31752662]Not much that you can do. I myself am very conscious of my body, it just takes time.[/QUOTE] Are you a woman? If you are, why are you self conscious. If you know a guy likes you and he tells you he doesn't care what you look like underneath because it is the person he likes then why not let him see more?
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31752688]Are you a woman? If you are, why are you self conscious. If you know a guy likes you and he tells you he doesn't care what you look like underneath because it is the person he likes then why not let him see more?[/QUOTE] hand jobs are £10 if you want more pay more god sake thought people knew this.
[QUOTE=Godline;31752745]hand jobs are £10 if you want more pay more god sake thought people knew this.[/QUOTE] Funny.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31752786]Funny.[/QUOTE] only kidding. Good luck with this stubborn kid.
[QUOTE=Godline;31752821]only kidding. Good luck with this stubborn kid.[/QUOTE] Thanks, she is quite difficult.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31752688]Are you a woman? If you are, why are you self conscious. If you know a guy likes you and he tells you he doesn't care what you look like underneath because it is the person he likes then why not let him see more?[/QUOTE] My boyfriend does tell me this. I don't believe him most of the time though. He gets really annoyed that I don't see myself as he sees me. It's about how we see ourselves, she may not like the look of her body enough to show any one. She may be embarrassed by it or simply doesn't want you to change your mind when you do. But I don't know her so I can't judge. Worst thing you can do is rush her though.
have sex blindfolded ta daaa
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31751706]My girlfriend is self conscious about her boobs and thighs so therefore wont get nude and therefore wont have sex with me, what do I do? [B]I have been with her more than a month[/B][/QUOTE] stopped reading there seriously, it's been a month, just give her some time to get a bit more comfortable with you and quit being an ungrateful bitch about it. if she doesnt want to have sex with you, she doesnt want to have sex with you, drop it. especially when she already told you that she'd probably be dtf by christmas. just put the snake back in the cage.
[QUOTE=Hana-San;31752859]My boyfriend does tell me this. I don't believe him most of the time though. He gets really annoyed that I don't see myself as he sees me. It's about how we see ourselves, she may not like the look of her body enough to show any one. She may be embarrassed by it or simply doesn't want you to change your mind when you do. But I don't know her so I can't judge. Worst thing you can do is rush her though.[/QUOTE] Yeah that is like us, she says "you would dump me if you saw my body" I have nothing to reply to this,I just give her a funny look. I think she is embarrassed with her boobs for some reason, I don't know why though they feel perfect. She reckons I am too good for her, I am apparently wayyy out of her league and I am trying to make her think we are on the same level because I really like her. I know rushing is bad but I want more out of this relationship but don't know how to tell her that without her thinking I just want sex... [editline]16th August 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31753003]stopped reading there seriously, it's been a month, just give her some time to get a bit more comfortable with you and quit being an ungrateful bitch about it. if she doesnt want to have sex with you, she doesnt want to have sex with you, drop it. especially when she already told you that she'd probably be dtf by christmas. just put the snake back in the cage.[/QUOTE] Man, when she grabs my cock and starts playing with it and licking my neck whilst I am feeling her boobs, it's hard to not think about sticking it in her... You would understand if you were in my situation, she teases me sooo much. I am not a virgin and I am used to having sex within the first week, she is an exception cause I kind of love her :3
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31753030]Yeah that is like us, she says "you would dump me if you saw my body" I have nothing to reply to this,I just give her a funny look. I think she is embarrassed with her boobs for some reason, I don't know why though they feel perfect. She reckons I am too good for her, I am apparently wayyy out of her league and I am trying to make her think we are on the same level because I really like her. I know rushing is bad but I want more out of this relationship but don't know how to tell her that without her thinking I just want sex... [editline]16th August 2011[/editline] Man, when she grabs my cock and starts playing with it and licking my neck whilst I am feeling her boobs, it's hard to not think about sticking it in her... You would understand if you were in my situation, she teases me sooo much. I am not a virgin and I am used to having sex within the first week, she is an exception cause I kind of love her :3[/QUOTE] But by the sound of it you do mainly just want sex?
[QUOTE=Hana-San;31753229]But by the sound of it you do mainly just want sex?[/QUOTE] I haven't had sex in a year so I do kind of want it a lot, she is a virgin and wants it to be special and stuff so I don't know. I might just have to wait till chrismas, I have never waited that long for any girl before though.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;31753281]I haven't had sex in a year so I do kind of want it a lot, she is a virgin and wants it to be special and stuff so I don't know. I might just have to wait till chrismas, I have never waited that long for any girl before though.[/QUOTE] How old are you? Coz until the day you lost your virginity you had survived without having sex, surely a few months wouldn't kill you.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31753003]stopped reading there seriously, it's been a month, just give her some time to get a bit more comfortable with you and quit being an ungrateful bitch about it. if she doesnt want to have sex with you, she doesnt want to have sex with you, drop it. especially when she already told you that she'd probably be dtf by christmas. just put the snake back in the cage.[/QUOTE] Holy shit I didn't even notice that. Chill the fuck out already, she's not comfortable with having sex yet. It's not a black and white thing, as if she either has to have full-on sex or not do anything sexual with you at all. Let her gradually get more comfortable with being intimate, just because she touches your pee-pee doesn't mean she wants it in her right this second. Also, you've been together a month and you "kind of love her." Please tell me you're like 16 years old. Any older and I'll hate this planet a little more than I already do.
[QUOTE=Hana-San;31753305]How old are you? Coz until the day you lost your virginity you had survived without having sex, surely a few months wouldn't kill you.[/QUOTE] I am 17, lost my virginity when I was 15 and the last time I had sex was in November I think... 4 months I have to wait? Well considering that the month I have been with her has flown by and we are getting closer every day maybe waiting until Christmas wont be [i]too[/i] bad really. I hope it's worth the wait :v: [editline]16th August 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=MaverickIB;31753323]Holy shit I didn't even notice that. Chill the fuck out already, she's not comfortable with having sex yet. It's not a black and white thing, as if she either has to have full-on sex or not do anything sexual with you at all. Let her gradually get more comfortable with being intimate, just because she touches your pee-pee doesn't mean she wants it in her right this second. Also, you've been together a month and you "kind of love her." Please tell me you're like 16 years old. Any older and I'll hate this planet a little more than I already do.[/QUOTE] I am 17 as mentioned above, I do kind of her love her what is the big deal she is like me with boobs.
joshdasmif, you need to calm the fuck down man. This girl is a virgin and you're rushing her into things. You know what I think? She isn't the problem, you are. You're a selfish dick. I'll give you some advice on how to get this girl's pants off after another month or two. Until then, tough shit, you deserve the wait. P.S. It's not love after a month unless there are EXTREMELY rare and special circumstances at work, and I don't even have to ask to know they're not there. You like the girl, you care about her, you want to be with her. Fair enough. You definitely don't love her.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;31753392]joshdasmif, you need to calm the fuck down man. This girl is a virgin and you're rushing her into things. You know what I think? She isn't the problem, you are. You're a selfish dick. I'll give you some advice on how to get this girl's pants off after another month or two. Until then, tough shit, you deserve the wait.[/QUOTE] I am used to having proper sluts as girlfriends this is all a big change for me, she is like really sensible and level headed... She doesn't even drink that much, that is unheard of where I come from. She is one of a kind like.
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