• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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Why aren't you encouraging Giraffen to go there? What is there to lose?
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;31148445]If you aren't willing to go out and talk to people to look for the right girl, you will [I]never[/I] find the right one. I'm surprised you even found the [I]wrong[/I] one. You sound like the saddest human ever. You actually prefer sitting on your ass to having relationships with people? Don't get me wrong, I spend plenty of time on a computer, but hot damn, I would choose relationships over computers every day of the week. Hear me out here: you probably will be unable to satisfy any woman emotionally and aren't mature enough to have a relationship anyway. You don't give a shit anymore and you're gonna go see a psychiatrist? You need to change if you want a chance at a relationship, although it sounds like you don't.[/QUOTE] I like being alone. Simple as that. Sitting home, and sometimes friends come over and we play TF2. I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP, she wanted, i don't give a shit outside this one. [QUOTE=devotchkade;31149000]What in the world do you mean she met you online, but you didn't? Generally, meeting someone is a two-way kind of a deal.[/QUOTE] She started hitting (right word?) on me for no reason, i didn't do a thing.
I thought this place was about helping and supporting others instead of insulting others. :(
i thought the same, apparently most people here are asshats at talking to people
Um, this isn't an advice thread, it's a discussion thread, lol.
But you still don't sound friendly when you talk :v: So many replies here, can't keep track of em', and i'm eating breakfast at 4pm
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31152870]i thought the same, apparently most people here are asshats at talking to people[/QUOTE]Well, the problem is you came here for help but don't like the answer you got, so you just keep asking the same question expecting some hero to have an answer that lets you eat your cake and have it too. Sadly, real life doesn't work that way. Keep trying with this girl if you want, but girls like this generally puss out in the end. And man, I don't even want to get started on the pedestal you've put this chick on. Can you even reach her up there?
I got an answer? Yeah i get it, it might not work out, however - i'm not in a need for a relationship because i've been without one in 18 years with no problems.
The sheer ratio of retards:normal posts in this and love advice is remarkable. Truly Remarkable.
oh yeah there's love advice too, forgot about that.
i like gasoline.. it smells nice
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31153208]I got an answer? Yeah i get it, it might not work out, however - i'm not in a need for a relationship because i've been without one in 18 years with no problems.[/QUOTE] Hate to break it to you but you clearly do have problems. You don't know how to act in the situation you're in right now because you've spent the last 18 years alone and miserable. If you're so 'not in need of a relationship' and independent and happy alone, why do you care about this girl at all? Why are you annoyed that her father is being too overprotective? Why do you even want to see her at all and call her your girlfriend? I'm going to take a wild guess and say it's because it's the first time a girl has ever presented herself to you, which explains why you think this girl you met online and have met in person only once is so special. It also explains why you're so 'scared to fuck it all up' and lose everything when you don't even have anything to begin with to lose. We're not being rude or 'assholes' about it, we're being realistic. The fact that you think a girl you 'talk to about everything' is your girlfriend when she doesn't even call you her boyfriend is a problem, it's strange, and I doubt she'd be comfortable with it. You think she's so special and so amazing because it's probably the first girl you've been this close to in a long while, in fact you even said that yourself. I'm repeating what has been said by every person that's come in here and replied to you. Do whatever you want with this girl because however it ends, it's honestly not going to make much of a difference. Your view on relationships and being social is pretty warped, and really it just sounds like you're lying to yourself in saying that you enjoy being alone and don't want a relationship. Sure, some people are introverted, I can understand that, and some people may be shy or enjoy spending time alone, that's perfectly okay. But from what we're able to discern from your posts here and the problem you're describing, it really doesn't sound like you're completely happy and comfortable being in the position you're in. We're only trying to make you see that, and the fact that you're ignoring all the posts that are pointing to that just gives strength to that argument. hf gl
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;31154765]Hate to break it to you but you clearly do have problems. You don't know how to act in the situation you're in right now because you've spent the last 18 years alone and miserable. If you're so 'not in need of a relationship' and independent and happy alone, why do you care about this girl at all? Why are you annoyed that her father is being too overprotective? Why do you even want to see her at all and call her your girlfriend? I'm going to take a wild guess and say it's because it's the first time a girl has ever presented herself to you, which explains why you think this girl you met online and have met in person only once is so special. It also explains why you're so 'scared to fuck it all up' and lose everything when you don't even have anything to begin with to lose. We're not being rude or 'assholes' about it, we're being realistic. The fact that you think a girl you 'talk to about everything' is your girlfriend when she doesn't even call you her boyfriend is a problem, it's strange, and I doubt she'd be comfortable with it. You think she's so special and so amazing because it's probably the first girl you've been this close to in a long while, in fact you even said that yourself. I'm repeating what has been said by every person that's come in here and replied to you. Do whatever you want with this girl because however it ends, it's honestly not going to make much of a difference. Your view on relationships and being social is pretty warped, and really it just sounds like you're lying to yourself in saying that you enjoy being alone and don't want a relationship. Sure, some people are introverted, I can understand that, and some people may be shy or enjoy spending time alone, that's perfectly okay. But from what we're able to discern from your posts here and the problem you're describing, it really doesn't sound like you're completely happy and comfortable being in the position you're in. We're only trying to make you see that, and the fact that you're ignoring all the posts that are pointing to that just gives strength to that argument. hf gl[/QUOTE] Alone? Not really. Miserable? Nope. The girl is nice, can't help but talk to her. She wants to see me, i want to see her. We're both annoyed by the dad. Yeah sure, but you're telling it like an ass. I just said girlfriend because i don't have another word for it. is "girl friend" better? Yes. Seriously, i like sitting by my computer all day, i have no problems with it. Thanks.
Not that post, but many of the earlier ones.
True, but i can't take them seriously when it's written like they want to slap me.
Shit man how else do you want it? Forget the earlier posts if they're too offensive for you, like I said I repeated much of what has been already posted, and I don't think I was being that rude about it. You're admitting that they're valid points but you're not going to do anything about it. If anything you're asking for even harsher replies.
Okay, just summarize it quick then, too much to read :rolleye:
I read that post, but all the earlier ones. The only thing i can make out of them are "Do whatever you want."
You'll find that one of the most prominent advice givers in the other thread (and this one even) likes to lean more towards beating sense into you with "mean" words. Realize that this is so that you ACTUALLY listen. Not because he is trying to be an asshole, or because he hates you. People will remember mean words more than kind ones.
If people are mean i usually can't take them seriously, and just start laughing at them.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31152722]I like being alone. Simple as that. Sitting home, and sometimes friends come over and we play TF2. I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP, she wanted, i don't give a shit outside this one. She started hitting (right word?) on me for no reason, i didn't do a thing.[/QUOTE] I still don't get it. Did you meet IRL first, and then connect on the internet (like, say, through Facebook, for example)? And she started talking to you online? Or... you somehow came across each other online, then met IRL? Even if she hit on you, you still 'met' (I say that loosely) each other online first. Even if she approached you, it's still a two-person thing. You still had to both 'meet' online; she couldn't have met you online without you doing so (unless she e-stalked you). [editline]17th July 2011[/editline] You make a lot of contradicting statements, bro.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31155807]If people are mean i usually can't take them seriously, and just start laughing at them.[/QUOTE] You're so fucking cool.
fucking summertime man, its harder to meet people and hang out during the summer
[QUOTE=devotchkade;31157266]I still don't get it. Did you meet IRL first, and then connect on the internet (like, say, through Facebook, for example)? And she started talking to you online? Or... you somehow came across each other online, then met IRL? Even if she hit on you, you still 'met' (I say that loosely) each other online first. Even if she approached you, it's still a two-person thing. You still had to both 'meet' online; she couldn't have met you online without you doing so (unless she e-stalked you). [editline]17th July 2011[/editline] You make a lot of contradicting statements, bro.[/QUOTE] No, we met on an shitty community, then a few weeks went, then wee meet up in the city. Yes, we met online, okay. [QUOTE=MaverickIB;31157431]You're so fucking cool.[/QUOTE] Aww yeah :smug:
If i wake up tomorrow and there isn't a 10 page argument between giraffen and everyone else i'm going to be very dissapointed in you guys.
giraffen do you have a billowing uncut curly mop of hair on your head? and does the girl have streaks of aqua blue in her hair and wears too much eyeliner?
[QUOTE=TBFundy;31159112]giraffen do you have a billowing uncut curly mop of hair on your head? and does the girl have streaks of aqua blue in her hair and wears too much eyeliner?[/QUOTE] If what you're trying to do is see if you know them, they live in sweden. There's such a small chance of you knowing them anyway.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31158166]No, we met on an shitty community, then a few weeks went, then wee meet up in the city. Yes, we met online, okay. [/QUOTE] Aha, jesus. You're the one who insisted numerous times that you [b]didn't[/b] meet her online, 'she met you' or some such bullshit. Don't rage when someone calls you out on it. Whilst we're at it, do you care about being in a relationship, or don't you? You've said both several times, too.
this is just sad
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31155807]If people are mean i usually can't take them seriously, and just start laughing at them.[/QUOTE] I'm sorry but you're coming across as incredibly dumb. Maverick knows best, he uses harsh words because those are the correct words to use. Bluntness is better than beating around the bush and giving you false hope.
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