• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=Tukimoshi;31864025]Get rejected by best friend, see her hook up with all these douchebags, phone breaks, ipod breaks while rushing to her house, always alone with her but never gonna get anywhere, life is a shithole. "You're too good of a friend, I don't want to lose you." "I'm into older guys." "You haven't dated much before and I need someone who's experienced." "You're like a brother to me."[/QUOTE] She doesn't want to go out with you, simple. Move on, bare in mind you're best friends and like Maverick's said before, the time you spent together was meant as friends, not as potential love interests. You left it too late.
-snip- Pretty much what Lukeo and coon said. Drop your feelings for her and next time ask them out.
[QUOTE=Tukimoshi;31864025]Get rejected by best friend, see her hook up with all these douchebags, phone breaks, ipod breaks while rushing to her house, always alone with her but never gonna get anywhere, life is a shithole. "You're too good of a friend, I don't want to lose you." "I'm into older guys." "You haven't dated much before and I need someone who's experienced." "You're like a brother to me."[/QUOTE] It's because you're a fucking pussy. [url]http://maverickib.wordpress.com/2011/07/04/cmon-you-apes-do-you-wanna-live-forever/[/url]
[QUOTE=Tukimoshi;31864025]Get rejected by best friend, see her hook up with all these douchebags, phone breaks, ipod breaks while rushing to her house, always alone with her but never gonna get anywhere, life is a shithole. "You're too good of a friend, I don't want to lose you." "I'm into older guys." "You haven't dated much before and I need someone who's experienced." "You're like a brother to me."[/QUOTE] Sounds like you're "best friends" with her for all the wrong reasons. I hope you change or she finds a much better best friend.
Yeah what douchebags! They wanted to hook up with her even though [i]you[/i] wanted to hook up with her!
[QUOTE=Tukimoshi;31864025]Get rejected by best friend, see her hook up with all these douchebags, phone breaks, ipod breaks while rushing to her house, always alone with her but never gonna get anywhere, life is a shithole. "You're too good of a friend, I don't want to lose you." "I'm into older guys." "You haven't dated much before and I need someone who's experienced." "You're like a brother to me."[/QUOTE] If you weren't such a pussy doormat that had your own ideas, opinions and asserted a level of confidence. Instead of blindly and agreeing with everything she says you probably wouldn't of been friendzoned. In order for her to see you as a potential mate you have to brake free from the friendzone, one of the hardest tasks imaginable, I find ignoring all contact for a descent period of time then striking a conversation works pretty well. Good luck x
or dont waste the effort on a girl who already doesnt see you romantically and find one of the other millions of fish in the sea you'd like
dude thats effort, he's already started with this girl might aswell finish with this girl.
[QUOTE=Tazza;31904385]dude thats effort, he's already started with this girl might aswell finish with this girl.[/QUOTE] That's a retarded mindset. He will get nowhere with the current girl. He's been rejected, she clearly has no interest in him. Any further effort spent on her will be wasted effort. Refusing to give up on something just because you've dedicated time to it is stupid. People who refuse to end shit relationships just because they've been together for a long time are stupid. People who refuse to give up on someone just because they've spent a lot of time crushing on them are stupid. It's already finished. Anything else he does is just beating a dead horse. He can do nothing but make things worse. She's already rejected him, do you want him to lose the friendship too? Cause if he keeps pushing it, that's what is going to happen.
[QUOTE=Tazza;31904385]dude thats effort, he's already started with this girl might aswell finish with this girl.[/QUOTE] wow that's amazingly lazy "find someone else" "nah dude then i gotta like do shit and put effort in that's too much work"
That's like not selling stock when it's clearly going to go down even more just because you've "already lost so much, it won't matter"
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31904514]That's a retarded mindset. He will get nowhere with the current girl. He's been rejected, she clearly has no interest in him. Any further effort spent on her will be wasted effort. Refusing to give up on something just because you've dedicated time to it is stupid. People who refuse to end shit relationships just because they've been together for a long time are stupid. People who refuse to give up on someone just because they've spent a lot of time crushing on them are stupid. It's already finished. Anything else he does is just beating a dead horse. He can do nothing but make things worse. She's already rejected him, do you want him to lose the friendship too? Cause if he keeps pushing it, that's what is going to happen.[/QUOTE] Have lived through this exact situation, and Maverick's words ring 100% true.
[QUOTE=ewitwins;31912888]Have lived through this exact situation, and Maverick's words ring 100% true.[/QUOTE] 95% true. Just because a girl says no the first or even second time, doesn't mean nothing will ever come of it. My friends who have been dating for almost three years now started off after she rejected him twice. Plus there's Harry Potter's parents. That's some solid evidence.
Sex, Girlfriends and Shit? So I can talk about my latest shits as well?
[QUOTE=luverofJ!93;31913455]Sex, Girlfriends and Shit? So I can talk about my latest shits as well?[/QUOTE] If you were on the second page of the first thread you'd still be late.
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;31913481]If you were on the second page of the first thread you'd still be late.[/QUOTE] Just askin for clarification :wink:
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;31912956]95% true. Just because a girl says no the first or even second time, doesn't mean nothing will ever come of it. My friends who have been dating for almost three years now started off after she rejected him twice. Plus there's Harry Potter's parents. That's some solid evidence.[/QUOTE] Once again, it's not a case of what's right and what's wrong. Sure, you could pester a girl into giving you a chance, but the odds of that are so ridiculously low that it's outright stupid to throw away other opportunities doing so. It'd be like buying a lottery ticket and quitting your job before even finding out if the ticket is a winner. Sure, it might play out to your advantage. Is it likely? No.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31923102]Once again, it's not a case of what's right and what's wrong. Sure, you could pester a girl into giving you a chance, but the odds of that are so ridiculously low that it's outright stupid to throw away other opportunities doing so. It'd be like buying a lottery ticket and quitting your job before even finding out if the ticket is a winner. Sure, it might play out to your advantage. Is it likely? No.[/QUOTE] I know. But if for example you're in a high school with about 50 other students your age and you do have particularly strong feelings towards a girl, you may as well spend a little extra time trying to get her rather than just giving up and going for someone you like less.
Eh not really, not if she turns you down. The excuse "I don't like anyone else as much" is dumb. Of course you don't, you haven't given any of them a chance. Kids get this mindset that the current girl is the best girl in the school and they won't ever have stronger feelings for any other girl there. It's stupid because, unless you've given every single girl in the school a chance, you can't even come close to saying that. Sometimes it takes a date or two to really develop feelings for someone. Hell, if you're developing feelings that strong for someone before even dating them, you're doing something horribly wrong.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;31927178]Eh not really, not if she turns you down. The excuse "I don't like anyone else as much" is dumb. Of course you don't, you haven't given any of them a chance. Kids get this mindset that the current girl is the best girl in the school and they won't ever have stronger feelings for any other girl there. It's stupid because, unless you've given every single girl in the school a chance, you can't even come close to saying that. Sometimes it takes a date or two to really develop feelings for someone. Hell, if you're developing feelings that strong for someone before even dating them, you're doing something horribly wrong.[/QUOTE]Man did I ever learn this lesson the hard way. Maverick is totally right on both points. I remember this crazy hot chick everyone liked who seemed kinda ditzy in high school. I took my first impression (she is stupid and a waste of time) and ran with it. Next year she ends up in my advanced math, physics, and chemistry classes. Long story short she got me to open up, we dated, it was short and sweet, we stayed friends. It was a very valuable experience (confidence +1000) I almost missed out on because I didn't give her a chance... and it made me think of how many other chicks I missed out on. I derped hard and I hope you guys don't make the same mistake.
What's your guys opinion on the right age to begin dating people?
I'd say you can date as early as you want, but full blown relationships are a no-no until your balls drop.
"this dick should be the only dick you care about" "Mmm :)"
Internet dating here, let's hope for the best. Come baby come.
A friend wants me to hook up with someone he knows, yeah no.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;31952072]A friend wants me to hook up with someone he knows, yeah no.[/QUOTE] Did that once. Never again. Guy was a douche bag. An absolute douche bag.
She is cute though, but i can't bother.
man the fuck up. bother and succed or don't suceed, at least you won'y always wonder "what if"
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It's ok when it's in a three way.
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