• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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Ah yes, Maverick used the ol' "no true faggot" argument it's a fallacy I just made up now
I keep finding myself constantly checking if my ex is online on facebook. We still talk a decent bit, but I find that the level to which I look to see if she is online to be a bit much. This is my first real break up we had been dating for 3 years. Since the time we've been broken up I've been pretty apathetic until recently and I'm finding it quite annoying. Getting a new girl to distract myself isn't an option for health reasons I won't get into. Anyway, should I just let this subside naturally? Or should I try to force myself to get over it? Or some other option?
[QUOTE=Pepin;32102209]I keep finding myself constantly checking if my ex is online on facebook. We still talk a decent bit, but I find that the level to which I look to see if she is online to be a bit much. This is my first real break up we had been dating for 3 years. Since the time we've been broken up I've been pretty apathetic until recently and I'm finding it quite annoying. Getting a new girl to distract myself isn't an option for health reasons I won't get into. Anyway, should I just let this subside naturally? Or should I try to force myself to get over it? Or some other option?[/QUOTE] Block/delete her. Talking to her won't allow it to subside naturally. Shit won't heal if you keep picking at it.
[QUOTE=Pepin;32102209]I keep finding myself constantly checking if my ex is online on facebook. We still talk a decent bit, but I find that the level to which I look to see if she is online to be a bit much. This is my first real break up we had been dating for 3 years. Since the time we've been broken up I've been pretty apathetic until recently and I'm finding it quite annoying. Getting a new girl to distract myself isn't an option for health reasons I won't get into. Anyway, should I just let this subside naturally? Or should I try to force myself to get over it? Or some other option?[/QUOTE] I got into similar habits, they're completely unnecessary and only prolong the healing period. We weren't even talking at the time, I just wanted to know when she was online for whatever reason. I eventually just blocked her which I'd suggest doing, it doesn't sound like you're completely over it. What if one day you go to check her Facebook and you see she's in a relationship with someone else? You're just setting yourself up to get hurt unnecessarily.
fuck yes this is pain changed his avatar.
go for it man
Can't hurt to go out like once.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;32087381]Yeah they're both definitely very meaningless words with no connotations attached to them at all lol[/QUOTE] fag
As of today, i have taken the virginity of 3 girls, each of a different race.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;32113483]how's it like being a rapist[/QUOTE]feels good man.
[QUOTE=Godline;32107094]fuck yes this is pain changed his avatar.[/QUOTE] it's not working though :(
It changes on your profile, it takes a while for the posts to catch up. Either that or we all have to clear our caches or something.
[QUOTE=thisispain;32121573]it's not working though :([/QUOTE] clear your cache bro
[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;32035445]Actually, the £1000 I spent on the trip was already mine either way, and the only other thing I was going to waste it on was a new computer, and I'm much happier I made this choice.[/QUOTE] what the fuck are you saying man it's a ho you met over the internet
Prick has to much money decides to waste it. I hope he fails in his education and has to work hard for money for the rest of his life.
Damn nigga I wish I had almost 2 grand to drop on bullshit like that. He's going to get older, be broke as fuck, and just be wishing he didn't blow that cash on some dumb bitch. I sure as hell wish I saved up more money when I was younger instead of blowing it on trivial shit.
I have around a thousand saved in my bank not counting bonds and stuff like that and I'm only 16 unemployed. I reccently took 350$ for a paintball gun, it was amazing for two months then I realized how retarded I was for buying it. Be smart with your money.
My friend, 17, has $5500 in his savings. If only.
I think my d5100 was one of my best purchases ever.
I'm 22 and I have $4,200 to my name. What's up now? Certainly not my savings.
I have $50..... ahh yes savings.
I've been told that from the moment you're spending too much cash on a girl, something's very wrong with your relationship aka you're madly in love with her and she's in love with your money.
Or you're just pussy whipped. Doesn't have much to do with love.
I'm 18 and have $25,000 whatup $15,000 of which is going to my degree, then the rest if I do a masters.
Man, you fucking rich kids. I don't even have $600 to bust on a motorcycle I wanted to buy.
So I'm in a bit of a quarry. A girl I never thought I would ever date literally just asked me if I wanted to date her. I obviously said yes since I used to have a nice crush on her a while back when we worked together. Here's the thing though. I'm going to basic and AIT (school to learn the basics of the army job) and I'll be gone for six months. She is being deployed to the middle east for about 7 months. Luckily we both should be back at the same time. I told her I wanted to hold off on committing to anything until we both get back, mainly because I haven't seen her in like forever (she's been in SC with her unit), and secondly, the school I'm going to has a 10:1 ratio of girls to guys (Ft. Sam Huston, TX). In other words there are like 10 girls for every guy at this school. Now my question is, would it make me a dick if I hook up with anyone at AIT? I technically wouldn't be cheating if I hook up with anyone since I'm not yet in any relationship with her.
[QUOTE=Master Kief-117;32140120]So I'm in a bit of a quarry. A girl I never thought I would ever date literally just asked me if I wanted to date her. I obviously said yes since I used to have a nice crush on her a while back when we worked together. Here's the thing though. I'm going to basic and AIT (school to learn the basics of the army job) and I'll be gone for six months. She is being deployed to the middle east for about 7 months. Luckily we both should be back at the same time. I told her I wanted to hold off on committing to anything until we both get back, mainly because I haven't seen her in like forever (she's been in SC with her unit), and secondly, the school I'm going to has a 10:1 ratio of girls to guys (Ft. Sam Huston, TX). In other words there are like 10 girls for every guy at this school. Now my question is, would it make me a dick if I hook up with anyone at AIT? I technically wouldn't be cheating if I hook up with anyone since I'm not yet in any relationship with her.[/QUOTE] Out of my personal values I wouldn't do it, but honestly it's between you two. In my personal opinion, I think you might run the risk of messing up any feeling you have for her if you wind up developing anything for whomever you decide to get with while you're apart.
[QUOTE=Master Kief-117;32140120]So I'm in a bit of a quarry. A girl I never thought I would ever date literally just asked me if I wanted to date her. I obviously said yes since I used to have a nice crush on her a while back when we worked together. Here's the thing though. I'm going to basic and AIT (school to learn the basics of the army job) and I'll be gone for six months. She is being deployed to the middle east for about 7 months. Luckily we both should be back at the same time. I told her I wanted to hold off on committing to anything until we both get back, mainly because I haven't seen her in like forever (she's been in SC with her unit), and secondly, the school I'm going to has a 10:1 ratio of girls to guys (Ft. Sam Huston, TX). In other words there are like 10 girls for every guy at this school. Now my question is, would it make me a dick if I hook up with anyone at AIT? I technically wouldn't be cheating if I hook up with anyone since I'm not yet in any relationship with her.[/QUOTE] Get to know her a bit now, but make sure she knows they're just dates. Then when you see each other again in seven months, see how it goes. It would be silly to spend seven months of your year waiting for a girl you barely know yet.
That's something you'd want to discuss with her. You two obviously aren't dating, so there really isn't a need for you to not date other girls. You should also make that she doesn't have a reason not to date other guys. Yes people can find dates in the middle east, I have two family members that did. Also, planning that far ahead doesn't make sense, so I'd see it from the perspective of that you both know you're interested in each other, and if the circumstance is right in seven months, you should probably try dating. You gotta make sure you both of you have the same understanding. Be weary of how people usually try to have a partner ready for them when they get back. This is very typical, and a lot of times people will just start dating before one is deployed.
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;32140481]Get to know her a bit now, but make sure she knows they're just dates. Then when you see each other again in seven months, see how it goes. It would be silly to spend seven months of your year waiting for a girl you barely know yet.[/QUOTE] Well I've known her since i was 14ish. That's about 7 years. I went to HS with her, although we never really talked much there until mid juinor and senior year. I really started talking to her when we worked at the same restaurant for over a year. But since she left for the Marines maybe 1 and a half years or so ago, I haven't talked to her as much until recently. She's really the same person from what I can tell.
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