Wasn't he the kid with the fat girl? lol
Must have long fingers to get through all of those rolls.
I don't see how sticking your finger in her makes us 'all wrong' by any means. If anything, it supports what we were saying. Just goes to show how well you digested the advice that was given to you.
[QUOTE=thisispain;32175807]sorry but you're kind of just ranting on about random shit like muslims or liberals or whatever and calling people faggots
it's kinda dumb[/QUOTE]And yet is that not what Zeke was doing? He was just doing it with a different color.
Really, you guys are fucking mad hypocrites.
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;32175455]if you think pokemon is a good conversation starter for a girl
then you need to rethink a lot more things before women[/QUOTE]
wait what? well she doesn't like pokemon anyway.
You are missing the point. Be yourself with girls, but don't BE yourself. E.g. embarrasing hobby (pokemon at age 17? for one) don't share that.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;32180393]And yet is that not what Zeke was doing? [/QUOTE]
can't you stop jumping into other things and focus on your own mistakes?
this isn't the thread for unlettered rants about nothing that don't make any sense
[QUOTE=thisispain;32185813]can't you stop jumping into other things and focus on your own mistakes?
this isn't the thread for unlettered rants about nothing that don't make any sense[/QUOTE]Then don't reply? Once again, the hypocrisy.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;32186502]Then don't reply? Once again, the hypocrisy.[/QUOTE]
what exactly is the hypocrisy please explain in a long 2 paragraph essay and don't forget to rant about feminazi's and liberals
[QUOTE=thisispain;32186963]what exactly is the hypocrisy please explain in a long 2 paragraph essay and don't forget to rant about feminazi's and liberals[/QUOTE]
No. Derail over.
P.S. "Liberal" does not carry the same context in Canada as it does in the USA. For one, it's not an insult here.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;32187819]No. Derail over.
[/QUOTE]
thank you
P.S. i know
dang i'm nervous, that girl is coming over tomorrow..
[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;32184286]You are missing the point. Be yourself with girls, but don't BE yourself. E.g. embarrasing hobby (pokemon at age 17? for one) don't share that.[/QUOTE]
No don't listen to Ruski he gives awful advice. Liking Pokemon isn't an embarrassing thing, I'd say like 90% of the people I know that are around about 18 play or played Pokemon.
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;32208678]No don't listen to Ruski he gives awful advice. Liking Pokemon isn't an embarrassing thing, I'd say like 90% of the people I know that are around about 18 play or played Pokemon.[/QUOTE]You're missing the point. I just read an article a girl wrote; she met a guy from OKCupid (online dating site) and everything about him seemed nice. She went on a second date with him and that's when she found out he played Magic: The Gathering. She gave up on him, just like that. What's funny about this is, this wasn't any normal MTG player; this was Jon Finkel, the man who won one of the world tournaments. He makes shitloads of dosh playing MTG and poker tournaments and is a fucking intelligent man. But she couldn't get past "OMG HE PLAYS MTG WTF NERDE".
Seriously, keep that stuff to yourself until you get more secure in a relationship. I don't tell girls I game because then they just assume I'm some loser who sits on WoW all day or calls people "nigger" on COD. (Though that said, I actually once got a girl to date me when I confessed I played Starsiege Tribes because she overheard me brag to my friends about a crazy airdisk shot... but yeah, girls like that are the exception, not the rule)
That's pretty dumb. If a girl is going to think that about you, then you have no business messing around with her. I will always advocate being yourself. Better to have a ton of girls get instantly turned off because of some crazy hobby you have than to have tons of them date you only to drop you the second they find out about it. At least you won't be wasting time.
That way, when you find a girl that matches up with you nicely, she'll see your hobby as a positive thing instead of a "Well, his hobby is gay as fuark but he's a nice guy so I'll put up with it," sort of thing.
random question, but is it just me, or is it less nerve-wracking trying to get numbers from girls you don't know? If I'm at the mall or something, and I see a girl, it's pretty easy to muster up the courage to go talk to her. Meanwhile if I know her from say, school or she lives near me, I usually freeze up.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;32208787]
Seriously, keep that stuff to yourself until you get more secure in a relationship. I don't tell girls I game because then they just assume I'm some loser who sits on WoW all day or calls people "nigger" on COD. (Though that said, I actually once got a girl to date me when I confessed I played Starsiege Tribes because she overheard me brag to my friends about a crazy airdisk shot... but yeah, girls like that are the exception, not the rule)[/QUOTE]
A girl doesn't have to be a gamer to think games are okay to play. It's not some deep dark secret that lots of guys play games in their spare time. You're dating dead set retards if they automatically think you're some basement dwelling social retard for that.
I agree with Maverick. There is really no point of trying to pursue a relationship with a girl that would just drop you because of your hobby. Actually, in a way, that could be a good way to test if she actually cares about. Though, talking about your hobby incessantly, would be annoying, of course.
i don't know anyone who doesn't "game" that's actually in my age group we all grew up on it pretty much.
[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;32184286]You are missing the point. Be yourself with girls, but don't BE yourself. E.g. embarrasing hobby (pokemon at age 17? for one) don't share that.[/QUOTE]
Pokemon isn't an embarrassing hobby :@
Yeah, I'd agree that hiding anything from a girl is just a bad idea. Sure, on your first date you don't want to start boasting about the coolest Pokemon you caught on the weekend or anything, but you really shouldn't be ashamed of anything that interests you. Saying that though, I have a guy on FB that I've known since primary school and he's over 18 now, and 95% of his statuses are about his latest Lego Star Wars or Bionicles creations, and his DP is often that of a Pokemon. Imo, that's where it goes a little too far and if I were a girl meeting a guy that was that passionate about something which is clearly geared towards children, I'd start to question it.
In the end though, if you're true to yourself, the right people will be attracted to you.
If there is something wrong with you, you don't hide it, you change. So you have nothing to hide and nothing to be embarrassed about.
If pokemon is a embarrassing hobby to like, just grow out of it.
Hell, this really kicked off after I left last night.
Guys, it's all well and good being yourself, but how many girls are into pokemon at age 17/18? Im guessing not many. And those that are are either ugly as fuck (but probably lovely people, but imo as well as sharing interests and having a great personality you do need some looks) or are socially retarded. I loved Pokemon at age 6-10, it was the best thing ever. I had all the books, the games and loads of pokemon toys, posters and cards. But part of life is growing up. At age 17, I have moved on with my life, I have not watched Pokemon in years and all of my old Pokemon stuff is in the loft (for the off chance that it becomes valuable).
Do what makes you happy, but if Pokemon is what makes you happy at age 17 or older, then I sort of pity you. Sorry, but I will be truthful. There isn't anything wrong with still liking and feeling nostalgic toward it, but still having it as a major hobby at your age is somewhat strange if you ask me.
I don't play pokemon, but ill talk to people about it as a joke sometimes, like magicarps splash and whatnot. It's both nostalgic and pretty much everyone knows what you mean as so many people played it.
A good friend of mine is the biggest cunt destroyer I know. And yet he's also one of the most hardcore gamers I know. He had to redo his year because of his WoW addiction. One day he'd come up to me and say 'Damn I got my secondary character all the way up to level 60 in just two days man!' And another day he'd say 'Crazy party last night at my place, got laid as well, LOL'. So you [I]can[/I] be the biggest gaming nerde around and still have a pretty good social life. Just keep things seperate, girls don't want to hear about your WoW character and your collection of TF2 hats.
What if the girl play games then?
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;32208916]That's pretty dumb. If a girl is going to think that about you, then you have no business messing around with her. I will always advocate being yourself. Better to have a ton of girls get instantly turned off because of some crazy hobby you have than to have tons of them date you only to drop you the second they find out about it. At least you won't be wasting time.
That way, when you find a girl that matches up with you nicely, she'll see your hobby as a positive thing instead of a "Well, his hobby is gay as fuark but he's a nice guy so I'll put up with it," sort of thing.[/QUOTE]After really thinking about this, I take back what I said; you're right. If a girl can't deal with a minor hobby she is clearly not mature enough to be in a real relationship.
[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;32212283]Hell, this really kicked off after I left last night.
Guys, it's all well and good being yourself, but how many girls are into pokemon at age 17/18? Im guessing not many. And those that are are either ugly as fuck (but probably lovely people, but imo as well as sharing interests and having a great personality you do need some looks) or are socially retarded. I loved Pokemon at age 6-10, it was the best thing ever. I had all the books, the games and loads of pokemon toys, posters and cards. But part of life is growing up. At age 17, I have moved on with my life, I have not watched Pokemon in years and all of my old Pokemon stuff is in the loft (for the off chance that it becomes valuable).
Do what makes you happy, but if Pokemon is what makes you happy at age 17 or older, then I sort of pity you. Sorry, but I will be truthful. There isn't anything wrong with still liking and feeling nostalgic toward it, but still having it as a major hobby at your age is somewhat strange if you ask me.[/QUOTE]
My gf plays Pokemon from time to time and we're 23. She loves it lol... I think it's a bit weird but I mean I play a shitload of games and I'd probably enjoy Pokemon myself if I didn't find it so mindnumbingly easy. But yeah I think you're taking the Pokemon thing too far: at 17 I don't think anyone is collecting the toys and watching the show unless they are genuinely screwed up. Playing the games is a different story: they might find them interesting or challenging, but it being a Pokemon game has little or nothing to do with it.
[QUOTE=Shounic;32212052]If there is something wrong with you, you don't hide it, you change. So you have nothing to hide and nothing to be embarrassed about.
If pokemon is a embarrassing hobby to like, just grow out of it.[/QUOTE]
Firstly, that's easier said than done, and it's not really necessary nowadays, though toning it down might not be such a bad idea.
[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;32212283]Hell, this really kicked off after I left last night.
Guys, it's all well and good being yourself, but how many girls are into pokemon at age 17/18? Im guessing not many. And those that are are either ugly as fuck (but probably lovely people, but imo as well as sharing interests and having a great personality you do need some looks) or are socially retarded. I loved Pokemon at age 6-10, it was the best thing ever. I had all the books, the games and loads of pokemon toys, posters and cards. But part of life is growing up. At age 17, I have moved on with my life, I have not watched Pokemon in years and all of my old Pokemon stuff is in the loft (for the off chance that it becomes valuable).
Do what makes you happy, but if Pokemon is what makes you happy at age 17 or older, then I sort of pity you. Sorry, but I will be truthful. There isn't anything wrong with still liking and feeling nostalgic toward it, but still having it as a major hobby at your age is somewhat strange if you ask me.[/QUOTE]
It's not about the girl liking Pokemon. It's about her being okay with you liking it.
I play video games, build computers, write blogs, and get punched in the face. My lady friend has zero interest in doing any of those things. However, even though she doesn't enjoy doing them herself, she looks at them as positive traits. Partners don't have to share the same interests but they should be okay with each other's interests. If you're dating a girl and she thinks your main hobby is fucking stupid, then she probably isn't a girl you need to be wasting time with.
Obviously you're not in college. Pokemon is all over the place here. I find it strange as hell but I'm not about to bash anyone for having a hobby. I practically write papers for shits and giggles, which most people would find way more boring/strange than Pokemon.
I have two separate groups of friends.
I have a group which all we do is hack phones, computers, mod any game we can, stay up till 3 am playing star craft making trips to McDonald for snacks.
I have another group of friends where we go out and do social activities constantly, football games, parties, driving around with his subs blasting, meeting girls.
Girls know I hang out with both parties but it doesn't effect their thought on me because if a girl doesn't like you for who you are and what you do she isn't worth your time. I had the biggest issue last year when I told a friend how I got fucked this chick at my vacation down in Mexico. Even though the girl was 18 and I was only 15, she only lived about three hours from my city and we had a great time, it didn't help that I fucked her in a bathroom at the closed gym in the resort. People assumed that I got an STD from some local Mexican chick and all this and that. I was so paranoid and thought I would never get another girl.
You learn that people don't really care in the end and you should just have fun and think about yourself and the people you care about in the long run because in the 4 years at high school you just won't see or hear from these people again.
tl';dr just fucking have fun with your life to a point where you can still get good grades and have an acceptable future, and don't give a fuck about what other people think.
wow that was.. something new. now i'm happy :)
yeah i sat with a girl in a couch and just talked close, it was nice.
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