[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32276486]Problem #1
and Problem #2.[/QUOTE]
Yeah.
What about it?
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32276618]Yeah.
What about it?[/QUOTE]
Do something about it? Try your best to take a good picture and put it up for better or worse, change your nonsense profile info, and overall be more confident in yourself. Problems solved.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32276699]Do something about it? Try your best to take a good picture and put it up for better or worse, change your nonsense profile info, and overall be more confident in yourself. Problems solved.[/QUOTE]
Yeah might try taking more pictures, but what nonsense info? Sure the pastafarianism is just a mockery, but still?
okay, giraffen, seriously, stop posting, i'm tired of watching you shoot down everything anyone says to you. stop. looking. for. advice. stop. posting. we dont care if you like to talk about it, it's annoying as fuck to read.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32276714]Yeah might try taking more pictures, but what nonsense info? Sure the pastafarianism is just a mockery, but still?[/QUOTE]
If you intend to improve yourself in terms what you appear to be on Facebook, then yes get a picture of yourself as well as removing "joke" positions. You can certainly choose not to, but that's just what I would do.
As for this girl, you should try doing something that involves talking, because if you can't even manage that, there's no way you'll last any real amount of time as a couple.
it's not the pictures that are bad, it's your self confidence.
you're ugly in them because you don't have any self confidence
this is also why you rely on the internet to start relationships, why you are scared to try new things on dates (actually I believe you even shot down the classic dinner and a movie date, so I guess you are scared to try [i]any[/i]thing on a date), and pretty much all of your other problems
you're not willing to admit it no matter how many times we tell you, which means you will never be able to deal with it
there is literally nothing that posting here will solve
you're just annoying
please stop
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;32276863]it's not the pictures that are bad, it's your self confidence.
you're ugly in them because you don't have any self confidence
this is also why you rely on the internet to start relationships, why you are scared to try new things on dates (actually I believe you even shot down the classic dinner and a movie date, so I guess you are scared to try [i]any[/i]thing on a date), and pretty much all of your other problems
you're not willing to admit it no matter how many times we tell you, which means you will never be able to deal with it
there is literally nothing that posting here will solve
you're just annoying
please stop[/QUOTE]
Can't even do dinner and a movie? I haven't kept up with all the posts, but that's really quite sad.
okay there we go, i got a picture.
well we're meeting tomorrow anyway, if anyone didn't catch it.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32277582]okay there we go, i got a picture.
well we're meeting tomorrow anyway, if anyone didn't catch it.[/QUOTE]
NEWSFLASH, THEY'RE MEETING
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32277582]okay there we go, i got a picture.
well we're meeting tomorrow anyway, if anyone didn't catch it.[/QUOTE]
You probably could've smiled a little more, but at least you made the effort. Now you just gotta go the rest of the way.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32277683]You probably could've smiled a little more, but at least you made the effort. Now you just gotta go the rest of the way.[/QUOTE]
I did a little, i look like that :v:
But the pirate party isn't a joke?
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32277724]I did a little, i look like that :v:
But the pirate party isn't a joke?[/QUOTE]
I can't make any other recommendations, seeing as I don't know the situation that well, but I would say your avatar doesn't cast you very well.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32277769]I can't make any other recommendations, seeing as I don't know the situation that well, but I would say your avatar doesn't cast you very well.[/QUOTE]
what? on here?
eh anyway i'm taking some of my friends advice and going to bed, i'm on my phone right now.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32277831]what? on here?[/QUOTE]
Yes, on here.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32277864]Yes, on here.[/QUOTE]
I just use some random/clever stuff like most people here?
wait don't tell me you're seeing the mlp one..
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32277888]I just use some random/clever stuff like most people here?
wait don't tell me you're seeing the mlp one..[/QUOTE]
No MLP avatar, I mean the one you're currently using.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32278187]No MLP avatar, I mean the one you're currently using.[/QUOTE]
yeah what's wrong with it? it's an awesome song / meme and i like touhou :v:
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32278232]it's an awesome song / meme and i like touhou :v:[/QUOTE]
I'm just saying those two things generally don't appeal to folks and come off as annoying. I have as much respect for your likes and dislikes as anyone should, but it depends how much you care about what other people think of you.
-Snip-
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32278299]I'm just saying those two things generally don't appeal to folks and come off as annoying. I have as much respect for your likes and dislikes as anyone should, but it depends how much you care about what other people think of you.[/QUOTE]
at least he doesn't have a self-indulgent one like me
Giraffen I'm gonna give it to you straight and hard but I'm actually gonna realpost here
You need to understand that you are awkward as shit and that you have problems with understanding the position and ttrue human motives of other people. You are also incapable of looking at the world in anything but black and white, and all of those aren't tryings that you can simply stop doing with a guide or ignorecaltogether. Every suggestion given has been good and insightful and you refuse to listen to them because you're still I'm denial about being awkward.
You have a fundimental problem and until you admit it and try to fix it, no amount of methodical, step-by-step fixes for vascular human interaction is going to fix it.
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;32282054]Giraffen I'm gonna give it to you straight and hard but I'm actually gonna realpost here
You need to understand that you are awkward as shit and that you have problems with understanding the position and ttrue human motives of other people. You are also incapable of looking at the world in anything but black and white, and all of those aren't tryings that you can simply stop doing with a guide or ignorecaltogether. Every suggestion given has been good and insightful and you refuse to listen to them because you're still I'm denial about being awkward.
You have a fundimental problem and until you admit it and try to fix it, no amount of methodical, step-by-step fixes for vascular human interaction is going to fix it.[/QUOTE]
the problem is he admits it, admits that he is going to do nothing to fix it, and continues posting anyway
stop feeding him
No that is not admitting it that is literally the problem
He's not fixing himself because he's too afraid to change it because he's so awkward. Like the kids that people made fun of for doing stuff and they never stopped. Except that at this point it needs to be fixed otherwise the only girl you'll find will be EVEM MORE AWKWARD AND WEIRD than you
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;32282054]Giraffen I'm gonna give it to you straight and hard but I'm actually gonna realpost here
You need to understand that you are awkward as shit and that you have problems with understanding the position and ttrue human motives of other people. You are also incapable of looking at the world in anything but black and white, and all of those aren't tryings that you can simply stop doing with a guide or ignorecaltogether. Every suggestion given has been good and insightful and you refuse to listen to them because you're still I'm denial about being awkward.
You have a fundimental problem and until you admit it and try to fix it, no amount of methodical, step-by-step fixes for vascular human interaction is going to fix it.[/QUOTE]
Yup, i know. It's called aspergers.
Putting funny stuff on your Facebook isn't always bad, just depends what it is. For example, my surname is the name of a certain aquatic mammal, so my birthplace is set to "Antarctica". I've had a few people I haven't spoken to in years comment on that, saying it is funny.
Gotta say Giraffen, you weren't half as ugly/fat/neckbeard as I assumed from your posts.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;32283077]Gotta say Giraffen, you weren't half as ugly/fat/neckbeard as I assumed from your posts.[/QUOTE]
Well i'm not really that slim to be honest, and i just shaved off most of my neckbeard stub before i took that picture :v:
Jesus, reading through the last three pages is like taking a stroll through the EuroZone.
Cinema this and film that.
You guys feel so fancy to little ol' American me :v:
On a more serious note, how do you guys feel about hooking up with natives while travelling?
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32282329]Yup, i know. It's called aspergers.[/QUOTE]
The fact that you're interacting with me right now on the internet means that whoever diagnosed you (if they did) needs to be fired or needs to learn what aspergers is, because being awkward and aspergers are two completely different things. If you want to use your crap/self diagnosis it as a crutch instead of bettering yourself and never get more normal and be weird all of your life, then go ahead and just say that your slight social awkwardness is because of some disease and that you're a hopeless case so everyone please help me i have aspergers help me be social
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;32284507]The fact that you're interacting with me right now on the internet means that whoever diagnosed you (if they did) needs to be fired or needs to learn what aspergers is, because being awkward and aspergers are two completely different things. If you want to use your crap/self diagnosis it as a crutch instead of bettering yourself and never get better and be weird all of your life, then go ahead and just say that your slight social awkwardness is because of some disease and that you're a hopeless case so everyone please help me i have aspergers help me be social[/QUOTE]
It's not self-diagnosed, they got me tested. I just recently read more about it and everything about this fits in. Yeah sure i can bypass it but i've never done stuff like this before so it's kinda hard to know what to do.
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